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Te Whakapōrearea Aroha Kore-Āta: 9 Ngā Huarahi e Pōhēhē ai Koe i tō Hoa

Ko te whakamomori aroha he momo tukino hinengaro me te kare ā-roto e hunaia ana hei whakapatipati nui rawa, he taputapu pai hoki nā te hunga whakahihi ki te kukume i te hiahia aroha me te whakahaere i a rātou. Heoi, kāore i te tatauhia, i te whakaaroarohia rānei tēnei tauira whanonga i ngā wā katoa. I ētahi wā, nā runga i ā rātou ake kawenga kare ā-roto, ka mutu pea te tangata […]

Te Whakapōrearea Aroha Kore-Āta: 9 Ngā Huarahi e Pōhēhē ai Koe i tō Hoa Pānuitia atu »

Te Ariā o te Aroha Tuatahi: He Pono Kāore e Wareware ngā Tāne i tā rātou Aroha Tuatahi?

Aroha tuatahi… he whakahihiri, he kaha, he ngākau nui, ā, he maha ngā wā ka pau te kaha. Kāore e taea te whakakore he pānga roa te pa atu o te tuatahi ki te aroha aroha ki te tangata. I te mea he maha ngā tāngata e pāngia ana e te aroha tuatahi i roto i ō rātou tau taiohi, he onge te tipu hei whanaungatanga pumau. Ahakoa rā, ka hangaia e te aroha tuatahi ā tātou tauira i roto i ngā whanaungatanga—ngā mea pai me ngā mea kino—ā,

Te Ariā o te Aroha Tuatahi: He Pono Kāore e Wareware ngā Tāne i tā rātou Aroha Tuatahi? Pānuitia atu »

13 Ngā Tohu o te Hononga Wera me te Matao, me pēhea te wawahi i te tauira

He mea whakarihariha te noho i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga werawera, makariri hoki, e ono ngā ara ki te Rātapu. Me pēhea ahau e mōhio ai ki tēnā? Kua tae kē ahau ki reira. E whitu tau pai o tōku ao i maumauria e au i te tatari ki tētahi tāne i aroha nui ahau ki a ia kia noho tahi, kia hiahia ki tētahi whanaungatanga, kia hanga i tētahi mea pumau, whai tikanga hoki māua, ā, ka mōhio noa ahau kāore rawa.

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te okioki i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga

He aha te wehenga o te whanaungatanga, me pēhea te whakahaere?

He uaua pea ngā whanaungatanga, ā, i ētahi wā, me hoki whakamuri kia mārama ai. Ka tūhuratia e tēnei tuhinga te tikanga o te pakaru o te whanaungatanga mā te tirotiro i tōna whakamāramatanga, ngā painga, me ngā wero. He maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e pāngia ana e ngā wā o te koretake ina taupokina te hononga e te pakanga tonu me te ngenge o te kare ā-roto. I roto i ēnei āhuatanga, mā te okioki ka whai wāhi ki te whakaaroaro.

He aha te wehenga o te whanaungatanga, me pēhea te whakahaere? Pānuitia atu »

Ina pāngia tō whanaungatanga e ngā wero hauora

Ka pā kino tonu te hauora me ngā āhuatanga hauora ki ngā whanaungatanga, ā, ka puta he taumahatanga me te koretake. Ahakoa he pokanga nui pēnei i te tango i te kōpū, he maimoatanga hauora tonu rānei, ka rerekē pea ngā taunekeneke i waenga i ngā hoa. I ēnei wā, ka nui te whakatikatika kia noho rite ai te tokorua, kia manawanui ai hoki ki te aro atu ki ngā huringa e pā mai ana.

Ina pāngia tō whanaungatanga e ngā wero hauora Pānuitia atu »

15 Ngā Tohu Ka Hoki Anō Koe Ki Tō Hoa O Mua

Ahakoa te āhua o te wehenga, he rite tonu ki te mutunga o te ao, engari i ētahi wā he pātene okioki noa iho, e tuku ana i te wāhi mō te whakaaroaro me te tipu. Engari mā tēnei tumanako mō te houhanga rongo ka waiho koe kia whakaaro nui, "Ka hoki mai anō taku hoa o mua?", ka aukati i a koe ki te neke whakamua. Ka tohutohu mātou kia rapu koe i ngā tohu tūturu ka hoki anō kōrua.

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Me pēhea te whai māia i tō wheako moepuku tuatahi

Mā te tīmatanga o tō wheako moe tāne tuatahi ka puta ake he ranunga o ngā kare ā-roto – te harikoa, te hiahia nui, te mataku, tae atu ki te wehi. He tohu tino whaiaro tēnei, he rerekē mō te katoa. Ahakoa he mea maori te noho pōuri, te noho ngoikore rānei, tera ētahi mahi ka taea e koe te mahi hei hanga i te maia me te waihanga i tētahi wheako pai, whakaute, me te ngahau.

Me pēhea te whai māia i tō wheako moepuku tuatahi Pānuitia atu »

me pēhea te kī atu ki tētahi e hiahia ana koe hei hoa noa iho

Me pēhea te kī atu ki tētahi e hiahia ana koe kia noho hei hoa noa iho: 15 ngā tauira

He uaua te whakatere i ngā whanaungatanga e whanake ana ngā kare ā-roto aroha o tētahi i a koe e kore nei. He mea nui te mōhio me pēhea te kī atu ki tētahi e hiahia ana koe kia noho hei hoa, me te kore e whara i a rātou mā te karere kuputuhi, kia mau tonu ai te whanaungatanga whakaute me te hauora. I roto i tēnei aratohu taipitopito, ka tūhuratia e mātou ngā huarahi whānui e 15 mō te whakawhanaunga i tētahi ki tētahi mā te atawhai, te mārama,

Me pēhea te kī atu ki tētahi e hiahia ana koe kia noho hei hoa noa iho: 15 ngā tauira Pānuitia atu »

he aha te tikanga ina kore e taea e koe te mutu te whakaaro ki tētahi

Kāore e taea te mutu te whakaaro ki tētahi? He aha tōna tikanga, me pēhea te whakamutu?

"Kāore e taea e au te mutu te whakaaro ki a koe" he kupu rongonui i ngā tīmatanga o te aroha, ina horomia koe e te kaha o ngā kare ā-roto. I te haere tonu o ngā mea, ka memeha haere te kaha o te aroha, ka huri hei kare ā-roto pumau o te aroha, ā, kāore koe e horomia tonutia e ngā whakaaro o te tangata e arohaina ana e koe.

Kāore e taea te mutu te whakaaro ki tētahi? He aha tōna tikanga, me pēhea te whakamutu? Pānuitia atu »

Te Āhuatanga me te Hononga: Ka taea e tetahi te arahi ki tetahi atu?

He mea hou te kupu 'tūāhuatanga' i roto i te ao whakaipoipo, ā, he āhua pōuri tonu tōna tikanga. Inaa, ko te mea kotahi e mau tonu ana i roto i ngā tūāhuatanga katoa ko te koretake. Koinei te rerekētanga matua i waenga i te tūāhuatanga me te whanaungatanga — te māramatanga, te kore rānei. Hei mārama ake mō te aha te tūāhuatanga me ngā rerekētanga whanaungatanga me te tūāhuatanga, ka tirohia e tātou

Te Āhuatanga me te Hononga: Ka taea e tetahi te arahi ki tetahi atu? Pānuitia atu »

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