Whakaarohia te wāhanga kiriata aroha rongonui o Bollywood, te wāhi e mawhiti ai te tokorua whetu i te pō, ringa kau mai i ō rātou kāinga, ā, ka marena i te kōti i te ata i muri mai me te ataata me te harikoa o ngā hoa. Ka taea tēnei i te ao tūturu? Inaa, ki te kore koe e tono i ngā rā 30 i mua i te rā e whakaarohia ana mō te marena kōti, kāore he tangata e manaaki i a koe i roto i taua tari rehita kī tonu i te tangata. Ā, ki te whakatata atu koe ki a rātou me te kore he tuhinga, ka tino peia atu koe. He tokomaha te hunga kāore i te mōhio ki te tikanga marena kōti i Inia, ki te marena Arya Samaj rānei. I roto i tēnei tuhinga, ka hoatu e mātou ki a koe ngā taipitopito mō tēnā.
Ngā marena ā-kōti i Inia
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Ko te rongo pai, kua māmā ake te tukanga whānui o ngā marena a te Kōti i Inia i muri i te tau 2006. Nā te mea e hiahia ana te Ture ki te whakatenatena i te rēhitatanga o ngā marena puta noa i Inia me ōna tāngata katoa, ahakoa te whakapono me te ture whaiaro, me te kore he okotahi, he whakawātea rānei.
Te Marena i te Kōti: Te tikanga
He maha ngā wā ka pohehe te kupu 'Rēhitatanga Marena' ki te kupu 'Marena ā-Kōti'. Ahakoa he momo rēhitatanga marena te marena ā-Kōti, he rerekē ngā tikanga o ēnei e rua. Ahakoa i te tuatahi, kei te 'rēhita' noa koe i tētahi marena kua oti kē te whakarite, i te tuarua, kei te marena koe i te aroaro o te Kai-Rehita Marena.
E ai ki Wāhanga 6 o te Ture Rēhita Tangata Whenua 2004, he rite tonu te tukanga rēhitatanga mō te marena i ngā whenua katoa o Īnia. Tērā pea kei roto koe i te whakapono kotahi, i ngā whakapono rerekē rānei e rua. Kāore e pā ki te tukanga marena ā-kōti i raro i te Ture Marena Motuhake, 1954. He kirimana ā-ture te marena ā-kōti, nō reira, kāore e hiahiatia he tikanga, he hui rānei.
Kāore tonu ngā ture Inia e whakaae ana ki ngā marena i waenganui i te ira tāne me te ira wahine. Nō reira, ka taea anake te marena i waenganui i te he tāne me he wahineKa taea e te tokorua te tono tika ki te Kai-rehita Marena mō te rēhitatanga me te marena, ā, muri iho ka tono mō te tiwhikete marena, i muri i te wā anake whakatutuki i ngā tikanga e tika ana.
Marena i te Kōti: Me pēhea te tono mō te marena i roto i te Kōti
- Me tuku e te tokorua he Pānui mō te rā e hiahia ana rāua ki te marena i roto i te puka kua tohua ki te Kai-rehita Marena o te rohe i noho ai rāua mō te wā e kore e iti iho i te 30 ngā rā mai i te wā pānui.
- Ka whakapirihia he pānui whānui ki te papa pānui o te tari o te Kai-Rehita Marena, hei tono whakahē, mēnā he mea.
- Ki te kore he whakahē i muri i ngā rā 30, ka taea te whakarite i te marena i te Tari Rehita Marena.
- Me tae atu te tokorua, me ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru, i te rā i whakatakotoria e te Kai-Rehita mō te rēhitatanga o te marena.
E wātea ana ngā puka katoa e hiahiatia ana mō te tono marena i te kōti i runga ipurangi, ā, e tuku ana ētahi kai-rehita i ngā tono ipurangi mō te marena i te kōti. Heoi anō, me tae atu te tokorua me ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru ki te rā i whakaritea e te kai-rehita mō te marena i te kōti.
Pānui e pā ana: Rere tahi: Parimala Jaggesh
Ngā tuhinga whakahau mō te Marena i te Kōti
- Puka tono (e wātea ana i te ipurangi) i roto i te whakatakotoranga kua whakaritea me ngā utu
- Ngā whakaahua rahi uruwhenua o te tokorua
- Te taunakitanga noho o te tokorua
- Taunakitanga o te Rā Whānau o te tokorua
- Me whakarato e ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru he Pukamatau Noho me ngā kāri PAN
- Tiwhikete mate, whakatau whakarere rānei, ahakoa e tika ana, mō te marena o mua o tētahi o ngā hoa
I mua i te whakamanatanga a te Kai-rehita i te marena, me haina e te tokorua me ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru tētahi whakapuakitanga i mua i te āpiha marena, māna anō hoki e haina te tuhinga. Ā muri ake nei, ka whakaurua e te āpiha marena te tiwhikete ki roto i te Pukapuka Tiwhikete Marena. Ko te whakaurunga o te tiwhikete ki roto i te pukapuka ka kiia he taunakitanga whakamutunga mō te marena ture.
Ka taea te rēhita i tētahi marena i Inia i raro i tēnei Ture. Me tono tahi ngā rōpū mō te rēhitatanga o te marena. I muri i ngā rā 30 o te whakamōhiotanga ki te marea, ka whakaurua e te āpiha marena te tiwhikete ki roto i te Pukapuka Tiwhikete Marena. Me haina te tiwhikete e ngā hoa rangatira me ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru.
Mēnā ka tū he marena i waenganui i tētahi Īnia me tētahi tangata whenua kē, me tuku e rāua he pānui marena ki te Kai-rehita Marena kei reira te hoa Īnia e noho ana. Me whakaputa taua pānui mō ngā rā 30 kua whakaritea. Kia tae ki te mutunga o ngā rā 30, e wātea ana te Kai-rehita Marena ki te whakahaere i te marena.
Pānui e pā ana: Whai muri i te whakahē ki tā māua marena, me pēhea te whakaae mai o ōku hungawai ki ahau
Te Marena i te Kōti: He aha te raru pea?
Ko ngā manu aroha e hiahia ana kia harikoa tonu ā muri ake nei i roto i te huarahi kiriata, tera pea ka kitea he raruraru e pā ana ki te marena i te kooti, arā, "me pēhea te pupuri i te mea ngaro o tā rātou marena?" ngaro ka taea te whakaatu nā te pānui mō te marena e whakaarohia ana, te whakaputanga o te pānui mō te marena me te pānui whakamana wāhitau i tukuna ki ngā whānau. Ahakoa te teihana pirihimana e whai mana ana ka tukuna atu he kape o te pānui mō te marena e whakaarohia ana i ētahi wā. Ka taea e te tangata te tiki i ngā whakaurunga katoa ki te rehitatanga i ngā wā katoa, ā, ka kitea ai tō rātou āhua marena.
Heoi, i tika te whakatau i tēnei take i roto i te whakataunga a te Kōti Matua o Delhi i tukuna e te Kaiwhakawā S Ravindra Bhat i te tau Pranav Kumar Mishra V. Kāwanatanga o NCT o Delhi, e kī ana i te tika ki te tūmataitinga, nō reira kāore he take ki te whakamōhio i ngā mātua mō te marena i te kooti.
Hei karo i ēnei momo raruraru, he maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e aro ana ki ngā marena Arya Samaj. Ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine e hiahia ana kia huna te marena kia tae rā anō ki te wā e whiwhi ai rātou i tā rātou tiwhikete marena whai mana, ka marena tuatahi rātou mā roto i ngā tikanga Arya Samaj, kātahi ka rēhita ki te Kai-Rehita Marena. Ko ētahi o rātou e whakarato ana i ngā āwhina ture katoa e hiahiatia ana.
Pānui e pā ana: He Pūrongo Pono mō te Whakaponokore i roto i te Marena.
Ko tētahi atu huarahi hei whakakapi i te marena i te kooti ko te marena a Arya Samaj.
Ko ētahi o ngā pātai e pātaihia ana e te tangata mō tēnei momo marena:
- He ture te marena o Arya Samaj Mandir?
- He mana ture te tiwhikete marena a Arya Samaj?
- Me pēhea taku marena i te temepara o Arya Samaj?
- Me pēhea te rēhita i te marena o Arya Samaj i te kooti?
Neke atu i te 150 tau te roa o te whakahaere marena a te Arya Samaj Mandir puta noa i Īnia. Ko te marena mā te Arya Samaj te mea tere me te mea iti te utu, inā koa mēnā he Hindu, he Buddhist, he Jain, he Sikh rānei ngā hoa tokorua.
Pānui e pā ana: Kua whiua taku hoa wahine nā te mea e hiahia ana māua kia marenatia ngā iwi rerekē
Te mana o te tiwhikete marena a Arya Samaj
Te kawa o tētahi Te marena o Arya Samaj e whakahaerehia ana i runga i te kawa Vedic, ā, e whai mana ana i raro i te Arya Samaj Marriage Validation Act, 1937 me ngā whakaritenga o te Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
He rerekē tēnei i te marena ā-Kooti e hiahia ana koe ki te tono 30 rā i mua i te marena, engari e 1-2 hāora te roa o te marena Arya Samaj hei whakaoti. Heoi, he kawenga 'pāpori' me te 'ture' tā te Arya Samaj ki te tirotiro i te mana o te hononga. Kia oti katoa ngā utu me ngā puka te tuku me te whakaae, ka whakahaerehia te kawa Arya Samaj i runga i te kaupapa "tuatahi te haere mai", ā, ka tatari mō ngā huringa 48 hāora, i runga i te wātea o te tohunga.
Te tika mō te marena a Arya Samaj
- Me 21 tau te pakeke o te tāne marena hou, ā, me 18 tau te pakeke o te wahine marena hou i te wā e rēhita ai.
- Ka whakahaerehia hoki ngā marena ā-iwi me ngā marena ā-whakapono i raro i ngā ture a Arya Samaj, mena kāore tetahi o ngā hoa marena he Muhirama, he Karaitiana, he Pāhi, he Hūrai rānei. Ka taea e ngā tāngata o ēnei whakapono te huri i a rātou anō mā te tukanga e kiia nei ko te Shuddhi.
Ngā tuhinga e hiahiatia ana mō te marena a Arya Samaj
- E whā ngā whakaahua tae o ia wahine marena hou me te tāne marena hou
- Taunakitanga o te rā whānau me te wāhi noho o ngā tokorua
- Tokorua nga kaiwhakaatu
- Tiwhikete mate, whakatau whakarere rānei, ahakoa e tika ana, mō te marena o mua o tētahi o ngā hoa
- Mena he tangata whenua ke tetahi o te tokorua, he uruwhenua ke, he wāhi noho ke rānei kei a ia, me whakaatu he Tiwhikete e whakaatu ana i te tūnga marena o nāianei o te rōpū/Tiwhikete Kore Ārai/NOC mai i te Kāwanatanga e pā ana me te visa whai mana.
I roto i ngā rā mahi e rima ki te tekau i muri i te mutunga o te hui marena, ka tukuna e te Arya Samaj tētahi Tiwhikete Marena hei whakaatu ki te Kai-Rehita Marena hei tuku i tētahi tiwhikete ture.
Ka whakaratohia e te Arya Samaj Mandir he āwhina ture i roto i tōna whare me te ipurangi hoki. Mō te utu iti rawa, ka taea e ngā tūao o Arya Samaj te whakahaere i ō tuhinga katoa mai i te tono mō te marena ki te rēhitatanga o te marena ki te tari rehita.
Ka taea e koe te whiwhi visa mā te Tiwhikete Marena Arya Samaj?
He tuhinga ture te tuhinga marena a Arya Samaj i roto i Inia engari kāore e whai mana i waho o te whenua. Hei tiki visa, me whiwhi koe i tētahi tuhinga marena i tukuna e te kai-rehita marena o te Kāwanatanga o Inia. Engari i runga i te tiwhikete marena a Arya Samaj, ka taea hoki te tiki i tētahi tiwhikete marena a te Kāwanatanga.
Te marena ngāwari a Sneha rāua ko Omkar i te kooti
Nō Kerala a Sneha, ā, nō Jharkhand tana hoa tāne a Omkar. I aroha rāua ki Goa, ā, ka whakatau rāua ki te marena i Goa i raro i te ture, ā, i muri mai ka whakaritea he marena tuku iho i Kerala. Nā te mea i oti i a Sneha rāua ko Omkar ā rāua kura me te whare wānanga i Goa, kāore he raruraru ki te tiki tiwhikete pono hei taunakitanga noho. Ko tā rāua mahi he tiki i tētahi āpitihanga mai i te kaiwhakawā ture e whakaatu ana i tā rāua hiahia mō te marena, me te tono mō te marena i raro i te ture. Me tuku e rāua tēnei me ngā tuhinga tau me ngā tuhinga noho me ngā tuhinga tuakiri me ngā tuhinga noho o ngā kaiwhakaatu tokotoru. I tukuna e rāua tēnei i te 3 o Hepetema, ā, i tukuna ki a rāua te rā 30 o Hepetema mō te marena i raro i te ture.
I te 30 o Hepetema, ka tae mai a Sneha me tōna whānau, ā, ka tae mai a Omkar me ōna hoa (i whakahē tōna whānau ki te marena). I te karangatanga o ō rātou ingoa e te kaimahi marena, ka haere rātou ki te haina i te rēhita me ngā kaiwhakaatu me te kairēhita marena. Kāore rātou i whakawhitiwhiti i ngā tauera marena, engari i tohatoha noa i ngā mea reka. I tonoa rātou kia kohia te tiwhikete marena i roto i te wiki.
Pānui e pā ana: I pā kino taku marena, engari i raru tonu ahau i te matenga o taku tāne
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He pai… he tino āwhina ki ngā manu aroha e hiahia ana ki te marena. ????????