He tino māmā te swipe matau ki runga i te Tinder. Engari he moemoeā kino te mea e puta mai ana i muri i tēnā mō te nuinga o te tangata. Hei hopu i te aro o te kōtiro ātaahua e arohaina ana e koe, hei tū atu hoki i roto i te moana o ngā tāne e ngana ana ki te miharo i a ia, me whai koe i ētahi tīmatanga kōrero pai hei tīmatanga mō te takaro.
Mā ngā kaupapa kōrero tika e āwhina i a koe kia noho hei kaitono nui rawa atu i roto i te keemu aroha. Ae, ka taea e koe te tuku atu i tētahi "Kia ora!", "He aha te mea kei te haere?" rānei, engari ka uru tika atu koe ki te rōpū o ngā Romeo e whakapau kaha ana ki tētahi kōrero. Hei miharo i tō ipo, me noho koe hei tangata kōrero māeneene rawa atu kua tukuna tika atu e ia!
Ngau ana koe i ō maikuku, ngaro ana tō moe i te whakaaro me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōrero whakaipoipo? Kei konei mātou hei āwhina i a koe ki te uru atu ki te ngākau o te kōtiro o ō moemoeā. Ko tā mātou rārangi whānui o ngā tīmatanga kōrero whakaipoipo he mea tapu mō ngā tāne kua pāngia e te aroha (kua pāngia rānei e te hiahia). Ka whai hua hoki ēnei kōrero whakaipoipo ina kei roto koe i tētahi hononga tawhiti, ina ngana rānei koe ki te whakaara anō i te aroha i roto i tō oranga aroha.
Ngā Tīmatanga Kōrero Whakakatakata hei Wāwāhi i te Hukapapa
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Ka tae mai te wā, i muri i ngā marama o te ngākau pouri, ka whiwhi koe i te nama o tō hoa aroha. Koinei te wā e hiahia ana koe ki te wero i te pakitara o te hukapapa me te whakama mā te whakamahi i te ngākau nui o ō kupu. Ko te whiriwhiri i ngā mea tika hei tīmatanga kōrero māu me te hoa aroha he rite ki te hikoi i runga i te taura kuiti – me whakataurite koe i te kōrero whakakatakata me te kore e nui rawa, me te kore e rite ki te tangata wairangi. Anei te rārangi o ngā mea hei tīmatanga kōrero whakakatakata hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakapai ake i tō pūkenga tuku karere me te wawahi i te hukapapa me tō hoa aroha:
1. Ko au te tuatahi ki te tuku karere kuputuhi, nō reira e tumanako ana ahau ka pērā anō koe te nekehanga tuatahi ina tae mai ki te kihi.
2. He ātaahua ki a koe te nekehanga tuatahi a ngā tāne, me tatari rānei ahau kia mahi koe?
3. I hiahia ahau ki te tono kia haere tahi kōrua, engari i whakaaro ahau me tīmata mā te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a koe.
4. Mena he wā tō tātou ki te "pai" i ngā whakaahua Instagram a tētahi ki tētahi, he wā anō tō tātou ki te tuku karere kuputuhi.
5. Kāore au i te mōhio me tīmata tēnei kōrerorero me te mihi, me te kōrero whakakatakata kino, me te "kia ora" noa iho rānei. Kei a koe te whiriwhiri.
6. Kei te whakaaro ahau ki te muku i a Tinder nā te mea kua kitea kētia e au te tama/te kōtiro e hiahia ana ahau hei hoa mōna.
7. Kāore au i te pai ki te tīmata kōrero. Kei te hiahia koe ki te whakamātau?
8. Ko tāku tumanako he mea ātaahua ki a koe taku hiahia ki te tuku karere kuputuhi i te tuatahi.
9. E te tangata tauhou. Kati te noho hei tangata tauhou.
10. He uaua ki ahau te kimi i tētahi huarahi hei tīmata kōrero whakakatakata. He tohutohu āu?
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I a koe e kōrero ana ki tētahi kōtiro, kia maumahara ki te pupuri i te āhua ataahua me te rangatira. Ki te kōrero kino koe, kāore koe e ārahi i hea, ā, ka mutu koe ki tana rārangi hoapā kua aukatia. Kia tika tō huarahi, engari kaua e whakamataku, kaua hoki e puta he āhua whakahē.
Ngā Kaupapa Kōrero mō te Whakaipoipo i te Pō
Ngā kōrerorero pai rawa atu Ka puta i muri i te pari o te waenganui pō. I tēnei wā, he nui ake te tūponotanga ki a koe kia mōhio ake ki tō hoa aroha, kia mura ake ai te aroha. I kī a Jenna, tōku hoa noho i te kāreti, "I kōrero māua ko taku hoa tāne i te pō katoa i te wā i tīmata ai māua te kite tetahi i tetahi. Kua kite tonu ahau he nui ake te whakahihiri o te kōrero whakaipoipo ina kōrero koe i te pō. He marino te tokorua, ā, he pai ake te aro ki ngā kare ā-roto e rere ana i roto i te kōrero."
Heoi anō, he aha te mea pai atu i te whakaatu ki tētahi kōtiro kua rite koe ki te tuku i tō moe kia kōrero noa ki a ia. Nā, anei tā mātou rārangi o ngā kaupapa kōrero mō te pō hei āwhina i a koe ki te wikitoria i tō aroha:
11. Kaore au e mahara ki te wa whakamutunga i korero ai maua. Me whakarereke e tatou tera.
12. I whakaaro ahau kia tatari mō tētahi atu rā, kia rua rānei, ki te tuku karere kuputuhi atu ki a koe, engari kāore e taea e au te tatari kia roa te wā ki te kōrero ki a koe.
13. Kati te tuku mai i ngā tohu ranu, tīmata ki te tuku mai i ngā meme.
14. I pehea koe te roa nei kahore koe e korero mai ki ahau? He tino harikoa ahau.
15. Kāore au i kite i a koe mō ngā wā roa. Kua toro atu koe ki ō hoa anahera i te Rangi?
16. Kōrerotia mai te pono…i menemene koe i tō kitenga i tōku ingoa e puta ake ana i runga i tō waea ināianei tonu, kāore?
17. Ka moe ahau a mua tata nei – hei hoa mōku i roto i aku moemoeā? Kāore. Kāore anō kia mahi.
18. E mōhio ana koe he aha te mea tino kino o te haere ki te moenga? Me mutu taku kōrero ki a koe.
19. Kei te mātaki au i tētahi kiriata rom-com, ā, he rite tonu te āhua o te kiripuaki matua ki a koe. Engari, kāore i te tino ātaahua.
20. I hiahia taku kurī kia mōhio koe e ngaro ana koe i a ia.
Te miharo i tētahi kōtiro He mahi toi te kōrero whakakatakata me tino matatau koe. Hopukia tōna aro i a ia e tata ana ki te mutunga o tōna rā. Ko koe te tangata tuatahi ka puta ake ki tōna hinengaro ina ara ake ia, ā, tera pea ka whakaaro ia ki a koe. Mā te kōrero whakakatakata pai me te kōtiro i te pō ka noho hihiri ia ki te kōrero anō ki a koe i te pō e whai ake nei.
Ngā Whakatuwheratanga Kuputuhi Whakakatakata mō te Kōrero ki te Kōtiro
Nā, kua riro mai i a koe tana nama waea, ā, kua tīmata te kōrero whakakatakata. Kāore he take ki te kī, he iti ake te whakamataku o te kōrero mā te karere kuputuhi i te kōrero noa iho. Ko te wero anake…me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōrero whakakatakata? Me whakapau kaha te noho hei kaiwhakawhiti karere kuputuhi māeneene. Kāore e taea e koe te noho hei tangata hoha me te pātai atu ki a ia mō tōna rā. Kia mōhio ai te kōtiro kei te whakakatakata koe ki a ia, me tīmata te kōrero me tētahi pātai e whakaatu mārama ana i ō whakaaro. Anei tētahi rārangi o ngā kupu whakatuwhera karere whakakatakata hei hopu i tōna aro me te tīmata i tētahi kōrero pai rawa atu o tō ao:
21. Kāre au i te mōhio me pēhea koe e menemene pēnei ana, kāore anō tāua kia tūtaki…
22. Nā, he aha te raina tiki i tino whai hua tēnā māu?
23. Kei te noho tonu a Netflix me te whakangahau? Mena koinā, kei te pirangi koe?
24. Kōrero mai mō te rā tino pai rawa atu kua tae atu koe, ā, ka oati ahau ka pai ake taku mahi i tēnā.
25. He aha te mea tino porangi rawa atu kua mahia e koe? Kia nui ake i tērā!
26. Me mahi ahau i tēnei wā, engari kāore e taea e au te mutu te whakaaro ki a koe
27. I hiahia noa ahau ki te kī atu i kitea nuitia ō kanohi i te kākahu i mau i a koe i tēnei rā.
28. Kāore e taea e au te ako nā te mea kei te rere tetahi mea i roto i tōku hinengaro. Ko te whakaaro kei te haere tāua i tētahi rā.
29. He nui aku mahi, engari kei te whakararuraru tonu ahau i te whakaaro ki a koe.
30. Matapaetia ko tēhea emoji i whakatakotoria e au ki te taha o tō ingoa i runga i taku waea
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Ina kei a koe ngā kaiwhakataki kōrero tika mō te tangata e arohaina ana, ka taea e tō kēmu tuku karere te eke ki te taumata e whai ake nei, ā, ka āwhina i a koe kia kaha ake te 'tērā pea...'. Engari i ētahi wā, ka taea hoki e te tuku karere te arahi ki te koretake o te kōrero, nō reira kia tino whakapuaki koe i tāu e kī ana, kaua hoki e mau ki te rohe hoa. Ki te mea me whakaaro ia mēnā kei te takaro koe ki a ia, kāti, e hoa, kei te hē tāu mahi. Whakamahia ēnei whakatuwheratanga karere hei whakamōhio atu ki a ia i tō aroha ki a ia.
Ngā Tīmatanga Kōrero Whakakatakata hei Tono i a Ia kia Haere
Mā te kiriata rom-com koe e kī atu kia tū koe i waho o te matapihi o tō hoa aroha me te pūorooro, ka whakatangi i te waiata tino aroha ina hiahia koe ki te tono kia haere tahi rāua. Ko tā mātou, kaua e tino kaha, engari me tuku karere noa ki a ia. Mā tēnei, ka taea e koe te ārai i a koe anō i te whakama mēnā ka whakakahore ia. Anei tētahi rārangi o ngā kaupapa kōrero whakaipoipo hei āwhina i a koe. pātai atu ki te kōtiro o ō moemoeā:
31. Ko au te tuatahi ki te tuku karere kuputuhi, nō reira e tumanako ana ahau ko koe te tuatahi ki te kihi
32. Kei te whakaaro ahau ki te muku i a Tinder nā te mea kua kitea kētia e au te kōtiro e hiahia ana ahau hei hoa.
33. Ko tēhea te wāhi tino pai ki a koe i te tāone?
34. Nā ēnei karere kuputuhi katoa i tino hiahia ahau ki te tūtaki ki a koe. Me haere tāua ki waho?
35. E mōhio ana ahau he pai ki a koe te kawhe. Kei te hiahia koe ki te inu tahi i tētahi kapu kawhe māua?
36. Kei te purei tō roopu puoro tino pai āpōpō. Me pēhea tā tāua whakarite i tētahi rā?
37. He tino ātaahua koe, kāore e taea te kawe ki waho te rā tino aroha o to koiora
38. Ko tāua e noho ana i raro i ngā whetū. He rite ki tētahi mahere?
39. E hiahia ana ahau ki te tono i a koe kia mātaki kiriata, engari e mōhio ana ahau kāore e taea e au te tango i ōku kanohi i a koe.
40. Hei! Mārama mai? Kei te mahi koe i tētahi mea whakahihiri i tēnei pō – te haere tahi tāua
Ki te tika tā kōrua tākaro, ka taea e ngā kōrero whakaipoipo te arahi ki te wā ka taea ai e kōrua te tono atu ki a ia kia haere tahi. Heoi, kia tūpato ki te taumata o tō kōrua aroha. Kaua e tere rawa te whakarere i te aroha, kaua hoki e mataku i a ia.
Ngā Tīmatanga Kōrero Whakakatakata hei Whakaoho Anō i te Aroha
Anei te kōrero – he patu kaha te takaro ki te wahine hei pupuri i te aroha ahakoa kua miharo koe ki te kotiro. Kaua e riro noa i a ia, ka wareware noa. Whakamaharatia ia mō ō pūkenga takaro i ētahi wā kia mau tonu ai te hihiri. Ko te mea pai rawa atu mō te takaro ki tō hoa wahine ko te kaha ki te whakapau kaha me te mahi i ngā mea katoa e hiahia ana koe. He mea nui kia mahara ko ngā kōrero takaro ki tētahi kotiro e arohaina ana e koe he rite te hiranga ki ngā kōrero takaro i whakamahia e koe i te wā e arohaina ana ia e koe. Anei tētahi rārangi kaupapa mō tētahi kōrero takaro hei pupuri i te mura o te aroha:
41. Mō ētahi take, i pōuri ahau i tēnei rā. Engari kātahi ka tae mai koe, ā, ka whakaoho i ahau.
42. He tino wera! Ā, mā te noho i roto i te rūma ka wera ake!
43. He aha tāu e kī atu ai mēnā ka kī atu ahau kei te whakaaro ahau kei te tū tahanga tāua i tēnei wā tonu?
44. Kāore tonu e taea e au te wareware i tō ataata…engari e hiahia ana ahau ki te hinga ki raro i taua ataata
45. Kati te titiro mai ki ahau pēnā, ki te kore ka haere mai ahau ka kihi i a koe
46. Kei te karanga ō ngutu kia piri ki ōku ngutu
47. Ka ātaahua ake te āhua o taua kākahu i runga i te papa
48. E mōhio ana ahau ki tētahi mahi whakakori tinana e hiahia ana kia noho tātou i runga i te moenga i te rā katoa
49. Tērā pea he hē kei ōku kanohi, kāore e taea e au te tango atu i a koe
50. Ahakoa tēnei wā katoa, e oho tonu ana tōku ngākau ina tomo koe ki te rūma
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He huarahi pai te whakamahara i tō hoa wahine kei te pirangi tonu koe ki a ia kia harikoa tonu ia i roto i te whanaungatanga. I kī taku hoa noho whare wānanga, "Ki taku whakaaro ka wareware ngā tāne ki te whakaipoipo ina uru rātou ki tētahi whanaungatanga. Kāore rātou i te mōhio me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōrero whakaipoipo, ā, ka hoha. Ki te whakaipoipo ahau i tētahi tāne, ka mutu tana whakaipoipo i ahau ina uru māua ki roto he whanaungatanga pumau, ka pōuri ahau.”
Kua tae ki te wā ki te neke me te tīmata kōrero ki tō hoa aroha mā te āwhina o ā mātou kaiwhakataki kōrero whakakatakata. Whakauru atu ki tētahi kōrero whakakatakata ki tō hoa aroha, pātai atu rānei ki te kōtiro kia puta mai he karere whakakatakata. Ahakoa pēhea, mā tēnei rārangi pātai e 50 koe e āwhina kia noho hei tāne e whakaarohia ana e ia i te rā katoa.
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Hoatu he mihi ki a ia mō tōna āhua, me kī atu rānei tōu miharo ki tētahi mea āna e mahi ana. Ka taea hoki e koe te takaro ki a ia mā te tīmata ki tētahi kupu whakahihiri.
Kia poto, kia reka hoki. Kia mārama tō whakaaro, kaua e whakapoauau i a ia. Pātai atu ki a ia he pātai takaro hei arahi atu ki tētahi kōrero whakaipoipo.
Ko te tino take e aroha ai ngā kōtiro ki tētahi tāne ko te wā e pai ai rātou ki a ia. Whakaaturia ki a ia tō ngākau pono, me tō ngākau aroha hoki, ā, ka aroha ia ki a koe.
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