He mea nui te māia ki te kukume i tētahi hoa aroha. Engari i mōhio koe mā te whai i ētahi kupu whakamīharo ka taea te whakatairanga i tō kaupapa? Ka miharo ngā tāne ki ngā āhua whakamīharo, engari e maioha ana hoki rātou ki te wairua atamai me te kite i tā rātou hoa aroha e whakapau kaha ana ki te pupuri i te kōrero. Engari me pēhea te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakahihiri ki ngā tāne, me te kore e tino ahua tawhito, e whakarihariha rānei?
Hei āwhina i a koe i tēnei āhuatanga, kua kohikohia e mātou he 160 kupu whakahihiri mā ngā tāne, hei āwhina i a koe ina raru koe ki te wawahi i te hukapapa.
160 Ngā Raina Whakaohooho mā ngā Tāne hei Whakaū i te Whakaaetanga
Ripanga o Ihirangi
He rite te ngahau me te whakaipoipo ki tētahi mahi toi. Mā te whakamahi i ngā kupu tika mō te āhuatanga tika, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i tō hiahia whakaipoipo me te huri i ngā āhuatanga o tō oranga aroha! Mai i ngā kupu whakahihiri mō ngā tāne ki ngā kupu mohio, hopu, me te aroha, kāore he kore o kamata korero ka taea e koe te whakamahi hei whakaoho i a ia kia noho mataara, kia aro mai hoki. Hei whakanui ake i tō pūkenga whakaipoipo, kia mau tonu ēnei kupu whakahihiko 160 mā ngā tāne, ā, whakamahia ngā mea e pai ana ki tō momo kāhua, me te horopaki hoki:
Ngā Kōrero Whakakatakata mōna
Me rite ngā kupu whakahihiko ki ngā tāne ki te hau hou: he māmā, he hauhautanga. Ki te mea ko te mea hei whakakatakata i a ia mā te kōrero, me te mea kia menemene ia, e mōhio ana koe kei te tika ngā kōrero. Kei konei mātou hei āwhina i a koe, e te kōtiro ataahua! Anei ētahi kupu whakahihiko rorirori māna:
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- Tērā pea ka hopukina koe. He ture kore te ātaahua pēnei.
- Ko Plank tō ingoa? Nā te mea ko ia meneti me koe he rite ki te wā roa
- He mahi kāinga koe nāku? Nā te mea kāore au e mahi ana i a koe engari me mahi tonu ahau
- E tākaro whutupaoro ana koe? Nā te mea ki taku whakaaro ka whiwhi piro ahau i tēnei pō
- Me he hua rākau koe, he 'āporo paini' koe
- Me he mea ture kore te aroha, ka noho koe hei hoa hara māku?
- He panana koe? Nā te mea kei te tihore koe i te kiri
- He pai ki ahau te latte māu!
- He taunga rererangi kei konei? Nā te mea kua rite tōku ngākau ki te rere
- He aha te mea e hiahiatia ana e koe kia waea mai ai koe ki ahau?
- Tērā pea kei te pāngia koe e te korenga o te huaora
- Chuck te aroha i te kitenga tuatahi, e whakapono ana koe ki te 'aroha i te swipe tuatahi'?
- He tīkiti waka koe? Nā te mea he pai ngā tuhinga katoa i runga i a koe
- He rongoā whakapiripiri koe? Nā te mea he tino mamae te tango i a koe i ahau
- Ki te kore he mea e mau tonu ana, ka kore ranei koe i ahau?
- He taimaha tō ringa — me pupuri e au?
- He wera ake koe i te raro o taku pona
- Kihi mai ki te he ahau, engari kei te noho tonu nga mokoweri, tika?
- Ka taea e au te koki 90 nekehanga māu? Ko taku hiahia kia tika māu!
- Kua tae mai ahau inaianei. He aha atu ō hiahia e rua?
Ngā Kōrero Whakamiharo mōna
Ki te mea kua mutu āu kōrero whakakatakata, ā, e hiahia ana koe ki te whakamahi i ngā kupu hei whakaoho i tōna ngākau, koinei te wāhanga māu. Ko koe anake me tō wairua mataku e whakataetae ana ki te ao. Haere tāua! Anei ētahi kupu whakataki māna:
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Ngā Raina Tiki Nerdy mō ngā Tāne
- Me he pene tāku mō ia wā ka uru mai koe ki roto i tōku hinengaro, kotahi noa iho tāku. Nā te mea kāore koe e wehe atu
- Ka taea e koe te hopu i tōku ringa? Kia taea ai e au te kōrero ki ōku hoa kua pāngia ahau e te anahera
- He ingoa to koe, ka taea ranei e au te kii i a koe naku?
- He rangi tō rohe taratahi? Nā te mea he āhua anahera koe
- Ahakoa ehara ahau i te Karaitiana, ka tuturi tonu ahau mōu
- He mahere tāu? Nā te mea kua ngaro ahau i roto i ō kanohi
- He kaiwhakapai putiputi koe? Nā te mea kua whakanikoniko tōku ao e koe
- Ka taea e koe te tuku mai i tētahi kihi reka ki ahau? Ka oati ahau ka whakahokia mai e au
- Hei tapatoru, he tino ātaahua koe
- Ka titiro ahau ki a koe pērā i taku titiro ki te keke tiakarete
- Ko koe te putanga tangata o Netflix nā te mea ka taea e au te mātaki i a koe mō ngā hāora
- I haere ahau ki tētahi akoranga whakaahua i tētahi wā, ā, ka taea e au te whakaahua i a tāua tahi.
- He Wīwī koe? Nā te mea ko Eiffel te mea māu
- Te āhua nei he rite tō hāte ki te papanga mō te hoa tāne
- He Wi-Fi tōu ingoa? Nā te mea ka tino rongo ahau i te hononga wairua hōhonu ki konei
- Ehara ahau i te kaituku okana engari ka hoatu e ahau tōku ngākau ki a koe
- E ai ki a rātou ko Disneyland te wāhi tino harikoa o te Ao. Āe, kāore anō rātou kia tūtaki ki a koe
- He kaihanga keke tō pāpā? Nā te mea he pai tino ātaahua koe
- He ataahua ahau, ā, he ātaahua koe. Mēnā ka mahi tahi tāua, ka tino ātaahua tāua.
- Kei te hiahia koe ki te tiki hupa? Nā te mea kua rite ahau ki te pūnu
Mena he tangata tino pukumahi te tangata e pai ana ki a koe i tōna oranga katoa, kua tae ki te wā kia waiho ia hei wāhanga o tō ao. Mā te tāpiri i te tikanga ki ngā kupu whakahihiri rongonui ka tino pai mōu. Whakamahia ēnei kupu whakahihiri mohio māna, ā, me mihi mai ki a mātou i muri mai:
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- E tama, he merekara te korenga o Galileo i kite i a koe. Me i kitea e ia, ka mea ia ko te whenua e huri ana i a koe.
- He tangata kino koe nō Marvel? Nā te mea he Abomination koe
- Ki te taea e au te whakarite anō i ngā arapū, ka honoa e au a U me a I
- He aha, he mea hanga koe i te Selenium me te Xenon? Nā te mea he āhua SeXe koe?
- He rite koe ki te pākahiko. Ka whakakī koe i tōku wairua
- He tino mōhio koe. Kāore i te mea i haere tahi tāua i tētahi akomanga? I oati ahau he matū tō tāua.
- Ki te pai koe ki te wai, kua pai kē koe ki te 70% o ahau
- He papapātuhi koe? Nā te mea ko koe taku momo!
- Koe koe He kaiwhaiwhai mō Star WarsNā te mea ko Yoda anake te mea māku!
- Ko te Hogwarts Express tēnei? Nā te mea e rite ana ki te mea kei te anga tāua ki tētahi wāhi makutu
- Kei te ako au mō ngā rā nui o te hītori. Kei te hiahia koe kia noho hei tētahi o aua rā?
- He kaihaerere wā koe? Nā te mea e kite ana ahau i a koe i tōku heke mai
- He nama pēke tāu? Nā te mea i hiahia ahau ki a koe
- Kia manaakitia te inihua ora e te Atua, nā te mea i mutu taku ngākau i taku kitenga i a koe
- He mea pai kei a au taku kāri whare pukapuka nā te mea kei te tino tirotiro ahau i a koe.
- Ka titiro atu ahau ki a koe i roto i te whare taonga, nā te mea he mahi toi pono koe
- Ki te kore koe, kua rite tōku ao ki te pene whati – koretake noa iho
- Ka taea e au o mati nui?
- He tino pai koe ki te pāngarau, ka taea e koe te whakakapi i taku X me te kore e pātai atu mō te Y?
- He whanaunga koe nō Nikola Tesla nā te mea he mea whakahihiri koe.
Ngā Raina Tiki Paru mōna
Ki te hiahia koe ki te kōrero maia, anei ētahi kupu whakahihiko auaha hei āwhina i a koe. Ka taea e ēnei kupu whakahihiko te whakaoho i te riri i waenganui i a koe me tō hoa aroha. Kāore koe i te whakapono ki a mātou? Kātahi, whakamahia ēnei kupu whakahihiko hei whakama i a ia, kia kitea ai e koe:
- Ka ea i a koe aku hiahia katoa! He kai reka rawa atu koe
- Kia rite ki te 6 ki te 9
- He tangata hiahia koe ki te whakapakari tinana? Tukua ahau kia whakaatu ki a koe ngā painga hauora o te kihi!
- He āhua mokemoke ō ngutu. Kei te pirangi koe ki te noho tahi me ōku?
- He tino pai te wiki nei, engari nā te noho tahi me koe i whakaoho ake ai tōku hiahia.
- Ahakoa te huarahi e anga atu ai te maka moni, ka hoatu e ahau tō mahunga ki a koe
- Kei te hokomaha ō tarau? Nā te mea ka heke te utu i roto i te wā poto
- Me he hū Nike koe, kua noho puku ahau i roto i a koe, i waho hoki i te rā roa.
- He hou ahau ki konei. Ka taea e koe te tohutohu mai i te huarahi ki tō rūma moe?
- Ka taea e au te hoko i tāu inu tino pai māu, kātahi ka āwhina i a koe ki te tahu i ngā kaora?
- Kōrero mai ki ahau tō pouri nui rawa atu. Kāore taku i kihi i a koe inapo.
- He rite koe ki tētahi pounamu waina pai. E hiahia ana ahau ki te whai wā ki te mitimiti me te hongi i a koe.
- He tarau ātea aua? Nā te mea he tino rerekē tō kaihe!
- Kua ngaro taku pea titi! Engari, me moe tāua?
- He kairangi au, ā, ko taku misioni e whai ake nei ko te tūhura i a Uranus
- Kāore taku tūmau rorohiko e hinga, engari ka hinga ahau
- Me amuamu ahau ki a Spotify. Ko koe te waiata tino rongonui i tēnei wiki.
- He mea whakararuraru ki ahau tō kore tū tahanga
- Ko koe a Aquaman? Nā te mea ka tino mākū ahau i a koe
- He tino utu nui aua kākahu, engari kāore au e hiahia kia haehaetia i tēnei pō.
Ngā Raina Tiki Pai mōna
He huarahi pai ki te tito i ngā kupu whakahihiko mā ngā tāne ko te whakamahi i ngā tohutoro ahurea rongonui. Ki te hiahia koe ki te noho hoa ki tō hoa aroha, mā te hono atu ki ngā hiahia ōrite ka āwhina i a koe. Anei ētahi atu kupu whakahihiko pai māna hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakatutuki i tēnā:
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- Me i kotahi nikara taku mō ia wā ka kite ahau i tētahi tangata ataahua pērā i a koe, kotahi noa iho taku nikara
- Ina titiro ahau ki roto i ō kanohi, ka kite ahau i tētahi wairua tino atawhai
- He aha tāu inu tino pai? Kei te pātai atu ahau kia mōhio ai ahau he aha te mea hei hoko māu i tā tāua rā tuatahi.
- He Scout koe? Kua herea e koe tōku ngākau ki te pona
- I kī mai taku tākuta kei te ngaro te huaora U i ahau. Ka taea e koe te āwhina i ahau?
- Kei te tuhi au i tētahi pepa wā mō ngā mea papai o te ao, ā, kei te hiahia au ki te uiui i a koe.
- E hia te taumaha o te pea pōro? Kāore au i te mōhio engari ka pakaru te hukapapa. Kei te hiahia koe ki te inu?
- E whakapono ana ahau ki te whai i aku moemoea. Ka taea e au to Instagram?
- Ko Siri koe? Nā te mea ka whakaoti aunoa koe i ahau!
- Me i whakatauria koe e au mai i te 1 ki te 10, ka hoatu e au he 9 ki a koe, nā te mea ko au te 1 e ngaro ana i a koe.
- Ina tukua atu koe e ahau ngā karere pō ataahua ā muri ake nei, ko tēhea nama waea me whakamahi e au?
- Kei te mōhio koe, kua whakamāramahia e tō ataata te rūma i te pō katoa, ā, me haere mai ahau ki te mihi atu
- Karangatia ahau ko Big Brother, nā te mea kua mātakitaki ahau i a koe i te pō katoa
- Na, haunga i te tango i taku manawa, he aha koe hei oranga?
- He rite koe ki te waina pai. Ka nui ake tōku inu i a koe, ka pai ake tōku wairua.
- Ka taea e koe te mimi i ahau? He tino ātaahua koe, kei te moemoeā pea ahau
- Me he ngeru ahau, kua noho tahi māua mō ōku oranga e iwa
- Kia ora, ko Microsoft tōku ingoa. Ka taea e au te whakamahi i tōu wāhi?
- Ki taku whakapono ko te pono te kaupapa here pai rawa atu, nō reira, ki te pono, ko koe te tāne tino ātaahua rawa atu kua kitea e au
- Kei te kite koe i taku hoa i reira? Kei te hiahia ia ki te mōhio mēnā he ātaahua ahau ki tō whakaaro.
Ngā Raina Piki hei Whakamā i a Ia
Kāore e taea te whakatau he aha te mea hei tuku karere ki tō hoa aroha i te pō? Āe, tatari i mua i te haere ki te tono rongonui 'Netflix and Chill'. Kāore he he o te kōrero tika me te maia. Engari he aha koe ka piri tonu ki te kīanga tawhito, ina he maha atu ngā kupu whakahihiri mō te takaro ki ngā tāne:
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- He aha rā te mahi a te tangata pai i roto i te hinengaro paru pēnei i ahau nei?
- Ko te takurua tō ingoa? Nā te mea ka tata mai koe
- Āe, he inhaler tāu? Nā te mea kei a koe taua pūkahukahu, e mama!
- Aroha mai. Ki taku whakaaro he mea kei roto i tō kanohi. Kāore he aha, he kanapa noa iho.
- Tatou kia pure TitanicKo koe te hukapapa, ā, ka heke ahau ki raro
- He rite ō kanohi ki a IKEA. Kua ngaro rawa ahau i roto i a rātou.
- Kāore au i te rongo i ahau anō i tēnei rā. Me rongo au i a koe?
- E nama ana koe i tētahi inu māku. Nā te mea i taku tirohanga atu ki a koe, i marere taku!
- Āe, kāore he aha mēnā ka tangohia he whakaahua tahi māua? Ko taku hiahia anake kia whakaaturia ki tōku māmā te āhua o taku hoa tāne e whai ake nei.
- Tērā pea he hē kei ōku kanohi. Kāore e taea e au te tango atu i a koe.
- He pai ki ahau tōku moenga, engari he pai ake ki ahau te noho ki roto i tō moenga
- Kia penapena wai mā te kaukau tahi
- Ka ātaahua tō kākahu ki runga i te papa o tōku rūma moe
- Kia ora, i hiahia noa ahau ki te mihi ki a koe mō te taonga whaiāipoKua mau tonu tēnei ataata i ahau mai i tō homaitanga mai ki ahau
- Aroha mai, kei a koe te wā? Ko taku hiahia anake kia maumahara ki te wā tonu i aroha ai ahau ki a koe.
- I peti mai aku hoa kāore au e taea te kōrero ki te tāne tino ātaahua o te pae. Kei te hiahia koe ki te whakamahi i ā rātou moni hei hoko inu?
- Me haina ahau mō tō kete?
- I uru koe ki te rārangi mahi kino a Hāta Kerei i tēnei tau?
- Te ahua nei kua ngaro taku nama waea. Ka taea e au taau?
- Kāore au i whakapono i ngā wā katoa. Engari inaianei kua whakapono ahau, nā te mea ko koe te whakautu ki aku inoi katoa.
Ngā Kōrero Whakamīharo mōna
Ka pakū te manawa o tō ngākau i ia wā ka kite koe i tō hoa aroha? Kei te noho pōuri koe, he rite ki a Rajesh Kootharppali o te Big BangĀe, tukua mātou kia āwhina i a koe ki tēnei whakamārama mō ngā kupu whakahihiko mō te takaro ki ngā tāne:
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- Ka mea atu ahau, "Kia manaakitia koe e te Atua", engari te āhua nei kua pērā kē ia
- Ki te tukua koe e au kia nama mai tō ngākau, ka oati ahau ka hoatu e au tōku ngākau ki a koe
- Ko Google tō ingoa? Nā te mea kei a koe ngā mea katoa i rapua e au.
- Nō Tennessee koe? Nā te mea ko koe anake te tekau e kite nei au
- He ahi puni koe. Nā te mea he tino wera koe, ā, e hiahia ana ahau ki ētahi atu mea.
- Nāu te waka rererangi i tito? Nā te mea ko koe tonu te ahua o Wright ki ahau!
- E mōhio ana koe ki ngā mea kei runga i te tahua? Me-NU
- E tama, ko koe te kaiwhakataetae e whai ake nei i te kēmu aroha
- He kaimekemeke to papa? Na te mea he patoto koe!
- Ko te pīta te tuarua o aku tino kai i runga i te moenga
- Ko tāku tumanako aroha mure ore ka rite ki te tau Pi: kāore i te whai take, ā, mutunga kore!
- I whakatarewahia tō raihana nā te mea i porangi ai ēnei kōtiro katoa?
- E tama, mehemea he kupu koe i runga i te whārangi, he pai rawa te tuhinga
- I puta mai koe i te oumu? Nā te mea he wera koe
- He tohunga makutu koe? Nā te mea ina titiro atu ahau ki a koe, ka ngaro katoa atu i a koe!
- He tūponotanga kei a koe tētahi atu ngākau? He mea pai kua tahaetia taku!
- Me he tōkena tāua, kua tino pai rawa atu tāua!
- He kaiwhakarewa hiko koe? Nā te mea kei te mate ahau i te korenga o koe!
- Me karanga atu ki te Atua, nā te mea kua ngaro tetahi anahera i te rangi!
- He tino reka koe, me te mea kei te whakapouri koe i ōku niho
Ngā Raina Whakaohooho mō te Hunga Whakamārama
He roa te wā e tuwhera ai te hunga e kore e aro ki te tangata. Nō reira, ki te mea he tangata koe e kore e aro ki te tangata, ki te mea rānei ko tō hoa aroha te mea tino nui tangata whakama, me whai huarahi rerekē koe ki te whakaipoipo hei wawahi i te hukapapa. Nō reira, anei ētahi kupu whakatairanga rongonui mō te hunga whakama:
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- Kei te hiahia koe ki te mātaki i te Netflix me te karo i te tangata mō ngā haora e whitu?
- Āhea rā ahau ka kite i a koe i muri mai? Kōwhiria he rā e mutu ana ki te 'y'
- Ki te kite koe he hoha ngā kōrero, ka taea e au te whakaaro i ētahi atu mea pai ake hei mahi
- Me karo i ngā kōrero pakupaku, me haere tika ki te takaro!
- He tino ataahua ō kanohi, ā, i wareware ahau ki taku arai kohi
- Me whakarite mahere, kātahi ka whakakorea
- Ka haere ahau ki waho i te marea, māu anake. Tērā pea
- Kei te hiahia koe ki te hokohoko tahi tāua? Ipurangi…kia kore ai tāua e mahi tahi me ētahi atu tāngata
- Ka tahaetia e au tō ngākau engari ehara i te wā mokemoke mōu
- He taringaoro whakakore haruru koe? Nā te mea ka māmā ake tōku ao i a koe
- E te hoa, kei te hiahia koe ki te pāti tahi me ahau? Ehara i te mea he pāti. He karapu pukapuka kē, ā, he ngeru kei reira.
- Me whiwhi ahau i tō nama waea kia taea ai e au te tuku karere kuputuhi noa ki a koe, engari kāore rawa e waea atu?
- Hei, i hokona mai e au tēnei pukapuka māu. Koinā te mutunga, koinā te rārangi
- Kaore au e mohio me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōreroKei te hiahia koe ki te whakamātau?
- He tino kino ahau ki te kōrero pakupaku, engari he pai rawa atu taku rārangi waiata e hanga ana
- Kia noho tahi tātou i te ata noho. Ake tonu atu
- E tama, ko ōku waewae koe? Nā te mea kāore e taea e au te titiro atu i a koe!
- Ka tū noa ahau i konei, ka mātakitaki i a koe mai i tawhiti
- Kāore au i te haurangi. Kua haurangi ahau i a koe.
- Kua pāngia koe e te rā, kei te wera tonu rānei koe i tēnei wā?
Hei whakamutunga, ko te ngā rārangi kohi kōrero pōhewa He kupu noa iho ēnei i runga i te whārangi. Me whakarite kia tika te whakapuakitanga, kia tau pai ai. Kaua e wareware ki te whakamahi i te titiro kanohi me te reo tinana hei whakaatu i tō hiahia. Ko te tohutohu nui hei maumahara māu i te wā e whakamahi ana i ngā kupu whakahihiri mō ngā tāne: kia noho ko koe tonu, kia mau tonu te menemene!
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
