Dzikondeni nokha. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi kunena kuti kukhala wosakwatiwa ndi chinthu chabwino. Ndipo n’chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? Ndi chifukwa choti mutha kuchita chilichonse chomwe mungafune, moyo wanu umakhala wamtendere, mumakhala ndi nthawi zonse nokha ndipo koposa zonse, anthu ena mwachibadwa 'adapangidwa' kukhala osakwatiwa. Monga Roger Federer 'adapangidwa' kuti azisewera tennis. Inu mukumvetsa izo? Limodzi ndi lokondwa ndilo buzzword kwa inu.
Komabe, mukakhala osakwatiwa, mutha kukonda zinthu zambiri. Kodi ndikofunikira kuti muyambe kukondana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha? Kapena nthawi zina, amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Kodi m'pofunika kuti 'mufune' wina kuti akupangitseni kumva kuti ndinu wokwanira komanso wosangalala? Ayi ndithu. Pokhapokha ndipo mpaka mutakhala wathunthu ndi wokondwa mwa inu nokha, maubwenzi anu onse adzakupwetekani. Chifukwa cha 'chiyembekezo' chinthu. Chifukwa Bollywood imakuuzani nthawi zonse kuti muyambe kukondana. Chifukwa cha Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge, chifukwa aliyense akuzungulirani akuchita zomwezo ndipo mulibe chochita.
Pamene mlembi wotchuka wa ku Amereka Mark Twain anati, “Nthaŵi zonse pamene udzipeza uli ku mbali ya ochuluka, ndiyo nthaŵi yoti uime ndi kusinkhasinkha,” iye sakanakhala wolondola kwambiri.
Ndiye bwanji osayamba kukonda zinthu zina zosangalatsa popeza pamapeto pake zidzakupatsani zambiri kuposa chikondi chokha. Werengani nkhani yonse kuti mudziwe kuti ndi zinthu ziti, ndi zomwe zimakuyenererani kwambiri.
Yu hi chala chal rahi, yu hi chala chal rahi, badi haseen hai ye duniya..
Zinthu 10 zomwe muyenera kuchita mukakhala osakwatiwa komanso osangalala
Moyo ndi wokongola ukakhala wosakwatiwa. Pali chithunzi chimodzi komanso chosangalatsa m'maganizo mwanu chomwe mumakonda. Ndipo pali zinthu zomwe mungayambe kuzikonda zomwe zingakupatseni chisangalalo chosangalatsa chimenecho.
1. Tiyeni tiyambe ndi kudzikonda
Pamene Ambuye Buddha anati, "Inu nokha, monga momwe aliyense m'chilengedwe chonse amayenera kukondedwa ndi chikondi chanu" adakhomerera. Chilichonse chidzayamba kugwa, pamene muyamba kudzikonda nokha. Ndiye mungadzipangire liti kumalo achilendo ndi chokoleti ndi maluwa, kuchokera kwa inu kupita kwa inu. Zikumveka zachikondi? Khalani osakwatiwa komanso osangalala.
2. Kenako ndinazindikira, ulendo ndi njira yabwino yophunzirira
Mukagwa mkati kukonda kuyenda, zidzakutengerani malo, kwenikweni. Munthu wina wanzeru ananenapo kuti kuyenda masitepe 1000 paulendo kukuphunzitsa zambiri kuposa buku lathunthu. Ndipo koposa apo, ngati simuyenda, mumangowerenga mutu wa bukhuli.
Yakwana nthawi yonyamula zikwama zanu ndikusokera padziko lapansi!
3. Chakudyacho chingakhalenso chopatsa chidwi, chopatsa chidwi komanso chokongola
Zinthu zina zimatha kukhala zotsekemera! Ayi, ayi… ngati mukuganiza zomwe mukuganiza, muli ndi malingaliro onyansa… ha ha… nthabwala zolekanitsa, bwanji kugwera mkati kukonda ndi zakudya zapamwamba? Phwando liribe malire, ndipo chikondi chidzakhala chosatha. Ndikaganiza za chakudya, mawu otsatsa amandifikira m'maganizo mwanga - "Kaise jeebh laplapaye". Chinthu choseketsa.
4. Tumikirani ndi chikondi
Zowonadi, ichi chikhoza kukhala chinthu chachikulu chomwe anthu amakondana nacho. Chikondi cha utumiki. Ndipo kukhutitsidwa komwe mudzapeza potumikira anthu sikudzakhala kofananako. Zoyenera kugwera!
5. Amuna onse ndi agalu
Tsopano popeza ndili ndi chidwi, ndiyenera kunena kuti amuna ndi zolengedwa zabwino kwambiri chifukwa agalu ndi amodzi mwa zolengedwa zokondedwa komanso zokhulupirika padziko lapansi ndipo amuna onse ndi agalu. Zomveka.
Mukabweretsa kunyumba galu, adzakukondani monga chirichonse, kusewera nanu ndikukumvetserani. Adzakhala bwenzi lanu lapamtima komanso wokonda. Agalu, amphaka, ziŵeto zina zapakhomo zinaunikira nyumbayo, kuvomereza?
6. Kodi ndinu omvera mokwanira?
Ngati simuli, kumvetsera nyimbo kudzakuthandizani. Nyimbo zidzakutengerani kudziko lina, mu chisangalalo chosangalatsa ndipo chisangalalo chidzangokuposani. Pali zikondwerero zambiri za nyimbo, zachikale, rock, zitsulo - mndandandawu ndi wopanda malire. Ndi ndani yemwe mungakonde naye?
7. Phwando ndi wekha
Inde, n’zotheka ndithu. Ledzerani, idyani zakudya zomwe mumakonda, valani diresi lanu lomwe mumakonda ndikuvina nokha. Zikumveka misala koma pali njira mmenemo. Aliyense amakonda wopenga wopenga.
8. Kondani ndi thupi lanu
Mukukhala ndi kupuma, chifukwa muli ndi thupi. Nanga bwanji osakonda thupi lanu ndikupangitsa kuti liwoneke ngati la Malaika Arora kapena la Salman Khan. Anthu adzatembenuza mitu yawo ndikusilira thupi labwino.
Kondani nayo, isangalatseni, pita nayo kumalo ochitira masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti ukachite masewera olimbitsa thupi ndikuyang'ana mukakhala nokha 😉
Zikumveka zabwino?
9. Kuchita zosangalatsa, ndi chikondi
Muli ndi zosangalatsa zomwe bwenzi lanu sanakulolezeni kuchita. Iye anaipha iyo. Koma tsopano, mutatha kutha, mumakhala ndi nthawi zonse. Ndi kujambula? Kuwerenga? Kupenta? Ingoyambani kuzitsatira ndipo zitha kukhala zokonda zanu, kenako ntchito ndikukupulumutsani ku 9-5 rut. Ndikhulupirire.
10. Mukamasinkhasinkha, mumakhala okoma, okonda komanso okongola - zonsezo kuchokera mkati
Kodi mwayesa kusinkhasinkha? Ndi njira yamphamvu kwambiri yomwe ingakufikitseni mkatikati mwa chidziwitso chanu. Zidzakutengerani ku mbali ina ya chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo - simungafune kudzuka ndikutuluka mumkhalidwewo. Lonjezani.
Chifukwa chake kukhala wosakwatiwa kumafika - ndiwe wolamulira moyo wako.
Inunso ndinu mtsogoleri komanso wotsatira!
Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumatanthauza kuti ndinu mkazi kapena mwamuna wanu.
Iwenso uyenera kukhala mkazi ndi mwamuna. Ndi mphamvu zonse zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zinthu ziziyenda bwino.
Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumatanthauza kuti muyenera kutenga udindo wonse.
Ngati zili zabwino, muli ndi udindo, ngati zili zoipa, muli ndi udindo. Palibe masewera olakwa.
Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumatanthauza chisangalalo chochuluka, ufulu wochuluka.
Ndipo chosangalatsa chachikulu ndi - ufulu wathunthu!
Kukhala wosakwatiwa ndi chinthu chokongola.
Tiyeni titengepo mbali apa - mukasankha kukhala osakwatiwa, zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi zomwe simuli 'mbeta' chifukwa cha momwe zinthu zilili. Poyamba, simukufuna chilichonse, koma chachiwiri mukufuna koma simukupeza - ndipo izi zingayambitse kukhumudwa.
Koma mosiyana, pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mungakonde nazo, mukasankha kukhala osakwatiwa. Mutha kugwa m'chikondi ndi zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi, kapena chimodzi kapena zingapo za izo.
Zikomo powerenga nkhaniyi. Chosankha ndi chanu.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Izi ndizabwino ❤️
Great!
Ndipo kukhala pabanja sikulepheretsa munthu kutsatira izi!
Zikomo pogawana Saurabh!
Best,
Kritagya Daarhanik (Haywire Chronology)
Zolozera zokongola! Tiyerekeze kuti tikuyenera kuyamba kudzikonda tokha!;)