Ziribe kanthu komwe mukukhala, makolo aku India ali ndi fetish kuwongolera moyo wa ana awo ndi chowongolera chakutali chomwe ndi chovuta kwambiri kuchipeza. Ndi wamphamvu kwambiri moti ngakhale mutakhala mbali ina ya dziko lapansi, imagwira ntchito komanso imagwira ntchito bwino kwambiri.
Palinso chikhulupiriro chofala pakati pa makolo m'dera lathu. Amakhulupirira kuti akakwatira ana awo aakazi, amabweretsa kunyumba mlendo wolemekezeka kwambiri m'nyumbamo. Amakhulupirira kuti ndi udindo wa 'mlendo wolemekezeka'yo kukwaniritsa zokhumba zonse ndi maloto a mwana wawo wamkazi ndikumusunga wachimwemwe. Monga nkhani zonse za nthano, mfumukazi yawo ndi kalonga wake ayenera kukhala limodzi mosangalala kwamuyaya. Koma ... akakwatira ana awo aamuna, amabweretsa kapolo kunyumba pazifukwa zachifundo ndipo iye alipo kuti amvere malamulo awo ndikukhala ndi moyo kuti akwaniritse zofuna ndi maloto awo.
Mu nkhani yonseyi, mtima wanga uli pa ana aamuna. Munthu wosalakwa wosalakwa…posachedwa… popanda chifukwa chake adzapatsidwa dzina; mwana wa amayi kapena joru ka ghulam . Chizindikirocho chimakhalapo kwamuyaya.
Nsembe yanga yoyamba
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndiye titatha ukwati wanga pamene Amayi a mnyamata wanga anandipempha kuti ndikhale naye kwa miyezi ingapo m'malo molowa m'kalasi langa la MBA, ndinatsatira lamulo lake ndi zofuna zake. Komabe, sinali IIM yomwe ndidaloledwa kulowamo. Ndinasiya diploma yanga kuti ndipeze digiri ya mpongozi wamkulu.
'Mkamwini wamkulu'! Chabwino…ife tonse tikudziwa kuti ndi digiri yopeka.
Patapita zaka zingapo, ntchito ya mnyamata wa Amayi inatifikitsa ku dziko lakutali. Powasiya Kum’maŵa, tinasamukira Kumadzulo ndi dera lonse lapakati. Koma…kodi ndinali ndi mwayi wokhala kutali ndi kusokoneza zisankho za moyo wanga? Ganiziraninso.
"N'chifukwa chiyani mwalowa sukuluyi? Ndani adzasamalira nyumba, mwana wanga ndi ana anu? Siyani ntchitoyo ndipo samalirani nyumba yanu ndi banja lanu. Zimenezi n'zofunika kwambiri. Sitikufuna munthu wogwira ntchito . " Unali lamulo pafoni.
Ndinatsatira lamuloli ndipo ndinapitiriza kuchita zomwe ndimafuna kuchita. Kwa iye, remote control inali itakanizidwa, koma joru ka ghulam inakhala chete.
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Chotsatira chofuna
Patapita miyezi iwiri apongozi anga anabwera kudzakhala nafe kwa mwezi umodzi. Amayi a mwana wanga anandiuza kuti ndipume kwa mwezi umodzi kuti ndikakhale nawo kunyumba.
Ndi sukulu yochitira masewera ndipo ndikhalako kwa maola anayi okha,” ndinakhumudwa pamene ndinkayesetsa kuti ndikhazikike mtima pansi. “Sindipeza tchuthi cha mwezi umodzi!”
“Ndiye siya ntchitoyo, umalandira ndalama zingati? Ine ndikulipira ndalama zowirikiza kawiri. Ndinamva chipongwe m'mawu.
Ndinavulala. Ndi chifukwa chakuti mwana wa Amayi amawasunga amayi nthawi yonse yomwe timakambilana kapena sindinayime pa ulemu wanga? Sindinadziwe kanthu.
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Koma osati nthawi ino
Mmawa wotsatira, ndinayima pansi pa shawa ndikunyowa madzi ozizira m'mawa wozizira wa m'nyengo yozizira. Ndinali kunjenjemera, koma osati chifukwa cha madzi ozizira. Misozi yochokera m'maso mwanga inali kutaya umunthu wawo m'madzi. Sizinalinso zosonyeza momwe ndikumvera . Anali madzi okha, palibe amene amasamala kaya akuyenda kapena kukhala m'maso mwake mobisika kwinakwake kumbuyo kwa kumwetulira kwabodza.
“Musalole aliyense kukupangitsani kumva kuti ndinu wamng’ono kapena wosafunika.
Ngakhale ndikudziwa kuti zomwe ndikuchita ndi ntchito ya 'timepass' yomwe ndangotenga kuti ndikhale ndi chibwenzi. Ndinkadziwa kuti malipiro ochepa omwe ndimapeza ndi 'ndalama zam'thumba'. Komabe ntchito yanga inali yofunika kwambiri kwa ine. Koposa zonse zinandipangitsa kukhala wosangalala komanso wamoyo.
Ndinayang'ana pagalasi. Shati yofiira inandipangitsa kukhala ndi maganizo abwino. Ndinaigwirizanitsa ndi milomo yofiira ndi zodzoladzola zopepuka. Nditavala chidaliro changa ndipo ndinayenda kuti ndikakumane ndi maso odabwa. "Chakudya cham'mawa chili patebulo ndipo ndidzabweranso ndisanadye nkhomaliro." Ndinayenda kupita pakhomo lalikulu. Phokoso la zidendene zanga linali nyimbo m'makutu mwanga.
Kuchokera pakona ya maso anga ndinawona kumwetulira kolimba mtima kukusewera pamilomo ya joru ka ghulam.
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Ibibazo
1. Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe munakumana nazo ndi apongozi anu?
Apongozi anga nthawi zonse ankanditsutsa luso langa lolera ana, kulowerera m'moyo wathu wa m'banja, komanso kunena mawu ankhanza . Nthawi zambiri ankayesa kufooketsa ulamuliro wanga monga mayi ndikuyambitsa mikangano pakati pa ine ndi mwamuna wanga.
2. Munamva bwanji ndi khalidwe la apongozi anu?
Ndinamva kuwawa, kukwiya, ndi kulemetsedwa ndi kudzudzula kwake kosalekeza. Zinali kuwononga thanzi langa komanso kusokoneza ubale wanga ndi mwamuna wanga.
“Ndinathedwa nzeru ndi kudzimva kukhala ndekha ndi apongozi anga akundidzudzula kosalekeza.
3. Munagwiritsa ntchito njira ziti polimbana ndi apongozi anu?
Ndinayamba ndi kuika malire omveka bwino ndikufotokozera zomwe ndikuyembekezera kwa apongozi anga. Ndinagwiritsanso ntchito mawu akuti “ine” posonyeza mmene ndikumvera popanda kumuimba mlandu. Akawoloka malire, ndinkamuuza modekha koma molimba mtima khalidwe lake ndipo ndinkamuuza kuti n’zosayenera.
Maganizo Final
Kulimbana ndi apongozi anu kungakhale kovuta, koma ndikofunikira kuika patsogolo ubwino wanu ndi thanzi la ubale wanu ndi mnzanu. Mwa kukhazikitsa malire, kulankhulana bwino, ndi kufunafuna chithandizo, mutha kusunga ulemu wanu ndikupanga mphamvu zabwino ndi apongozi anu. Kumbukirani, simuli nokha pankhaniyi, ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuthana ndi mavuto awa. "Fufuzani thandizo kwa mnzanu, anzanu, kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo ."
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Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Wokongola.palibe mawu
Osati onse r mwayi ngati iye. Its d duty n udindo wa amayi a mnyamata kumupanga mwamuna wanzeru kuti azitha kusankha n kukhala ndi zisankho zopanda tsankho.All in all a Nice story .
Kudzitsogolera tokha ndi chimwemwe chachikulu. Chitani zomwezo
Sindingakhulupirire, koma kusangalatsidwa kwathunthu, kuti mwayimilira, komanso mwaulemu, koma molimba mtima, ndikuwonetsetsa kuti muli ndi moyo woti mutsogolere, ndikukhalanso mwaulemu. Ndikumva bwino, kuti ndakhala ndi mwayi wowerenga izi za mkazi wolimba mtima.
Kwa ine, apongozi anga anali kugwira ntchito. Amandisiya ine, atavala ma saree okongola.
Pogwira ntchito, sitinyoza ulamuliro wawo, timayendetsa mbali zonse za moyo wathu ndi aplomb.
Zolemba zanu zikulimbikitsa, Leena.
Chowongolera ndichomwe chawononga dongosolo losakhwima la chikhalidwe cha anthu mdziko lathu. Chifukwa chiyani mumalamulo simukuwona kuti muli ndi mphamvu komanso kuthekera kosamalira nyumba komanso kugwira ntchito moyenera?
zimalimbikitsa chisankho chanu cholimba mtima chomwe chimalimbikitsa amayi ambiri kuti azikhala moyo wawo malinga ndi zomwe asankha
Thanks Anupama. Inde ndiye chisankho chomwe chili chofunikira. Moyo wathu kotero kusankha kuyeneranso kukhala kwathu.
Adafotokoza bwino kwambiri Leena. Ndime ya 2 ndi nkhani yosangalatsa ya nthano.
Ngakhale malipiro anali 'pocket money' chinali chisankho chanu chomwe chinali chofunikira.