Momwe Ndinadzipusitsira Ndekha Pamene Ndikuyesera Kundinyengerera Kuphwanya Kwanga

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“Ndikuuzani mmene ndinadzipusitsira ndi mnyamata,” anatero mayiyu kwa ine. Aliyense amadutsa mu gawo pamene mumadziyika nokha pachifundo cha kusweka kosatheka. Tikayang’ana m’mbuyo kupyola zaka za zokumana nazo ndi amuna kapena akazi, zikumbukiro zina zimachititsabe manyazi; pa nthawi ya chisangalalo ndi nthawi zina zamanyazi.

“Nkhani iyi ikunena za momwe ndinayesera kunyengerera wokondedwa wanga komanso momwe ndinadzipangira chitsiru pamaso pa wokondedwa wanga. Mkazi amatha kuchita zinthu zosiyanasiyana akamakopeka ndi winawake , kotero sizachilendo kuti umadzichititsa manyazi pamaso pa wokondedwa wako,” anatero mtsikanayo yemwe anali pachikondi ndi bwana wake.

Aliyense amafunikira chivomerezo kuchokera kwa munthu wofunika kwambiri m'moyo wake ndipo mukakhala wachinyamata, munthuyu nthawi zambiri amakhala wosasinthasintha, wosayenera kuti muzimukonda. Komabe timayesa kupanga chobowola, chomwe chimawoneka mwanjira yawo, kumwetulira kwapadera kapena kugwedezeka, kapena kuchuluka kwa moyo wonse. Nthawi zina zonse zimasokonekera, ndipo pamapeto pake mumangokhala choseketsa chatsiku.

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Momwe Ndinadzipangira Zopusa Ndi Mnyamata

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Palibe amene angatsutse mfundo yakuti nthawi zina timakhala opusa tikamayesa kunyengerera kuphwanyidwa kwathu. Posadziwa momwe tingafotokozere zakukhosi kwathu kwa yemwe timamkonda timatha kudzichititsa manyazi pamaso pathu. Izi ndi zomwe anthu ochepa adagawana nafe za faux pas zomwe adachita poyesa kusangalatsa.

Iwo anatiuza kuti: “Mmene ndinadzipangitsa kukhala wopusa ndi mnyamata.

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1. Ndikayesa kukopa chidwi cha kukongola wanga

Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani mukamachita manyazi pamaso pa okondedwa anu? Ine ndikuuzani inu zimenezo. Temu ya kalasi ya MBA idatha ndipo tidasonkhana mu imodzi mwama bachelor pads athu kuti tisangalale. Ndidakhala ndikuyang'ana munthu wachigololo uyu ndipo ndimafuna kumudziwitsa kuti ndimasewera.

Zizindikiro zosalankhula zinali kupita uku ndi uku, koma sindinali woleza mtima kuti ndimukhomerere. Choncho titamwa kangapo, ndinatsamira m’makutu mwake n’kumunong’oneza kuti ndikufuna ndikagone naye. Chipindacho chinali chodzaza ndi anzanga akusukulu omwe ankangoyendayenda ndipo sindinazindikire kuti kunong'ona kwanga kunali komveka. Uwu! Zimenezo zinali zochititsa manyazi komanso zopweteka. Kumeneko kunali kulakwa kwakukulu kumene ndikanapeŵa.

2. Nditaseweredwa ndidasungulumwa ndipo ndinayesera kuchita chidwi koma sizinaphule kanthu

Ndinali ndi bwana wabwino, wodekha, wodekha, komanso wakhalidwe labwino ndipo ndinali kuyenda mozungulira ofesi ndikumwetulira kwakukulu komanso mtima wosweka. Ndinafunika kuchira. Palibe amene anali ndi lingaliro lochepa kwambiri la malingaliro anga amkati ndipo ndinali kukhala wosimidwa.

Mnyamatayu anali wosagwedezeka patali ndi ine. Kotero, ndinalemba ndi kunena kuti ndikufuna kukhala naye pachibwenzi.

Posakhalitsa, ananditengera ku kanyumba kake ndipo anandikhumudwitsa ponena kuti ali pachibwenzi mlungu wotsatira womwewo.

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3. Uwu! Wolakwika

Seema, yemwe ndinkakhala naye m'chipinda chimodzi, anali wokongola kwambiri. Ankafuna kusangalatsa chibwenzi chake chomwe chinkayenera kufika m'mawa kwambiri paulendo wa pandege. Anavala zovala zake zosonyeza kuti anali ndi chiuno chachikulu usiku watha.

Pamene belu lachitseko linalira iye anapita kukatsegula chitseko ali mtulo, koma anapeza mwamuna wathu wamkaka wazaka 70 zakubadwa amene anali atasiya mkaka pakhomo ndipo anali kuyembekezera kulipidwa. Pamene ankawerama kuti atole mkaka - bambo wokalambayo adanyengerera powona zomwe amamuchitira. Tinaseka mlungu wonse kuti Seema watiputa molakwika.

4. Shubha anali diva wapano koma anamulanda mwamuna wake ndi proxy

"Ndinadzipusitsa bwanji ndi munthu yemwe umafuna kumudziwa?" Shubha anafunsa akuseka. Tinali monga mwachizolowezi masewera. Anand ankakondana kwambiri ndi mlembi wa MD, Shubha, koma sanathe kulimba mtima kuti apitirire kusukulu, moni!

Shubha anali kuyang'ana Vinod, yemwe ankabwera kuntchito tsiku lililonse ali ndi galimoto yatsopano. Anand ankatha kuona kuti Vinod anali ndi mphatso ya gab ndipo anafika kwa iye kuti akayese kutentha, ndi womuyimira. Choncho m'mawa wina Vinod atayendetsa galimoto yake yaposachedwa ya BMW yomwe adabwereka kwa mnzake wamakina, anauza Shubha kuti Anand akufuna kumukwatira.

Anaseka n’kunena mwachipongwe kuti kuli bwino akwatiwe naye. Zoonadi Vinod ndi Shubha adakwatirana kumapeto kwa mwezi umenewo. Anand, ndithudi, anali wokhumudwa komanso wokhumudwa. Osanenanso zosekera muofesi.

5. Chilengezo cha Valentine chomwe chinasanduka nkhamba

“Pamene ndinayesa kunyengerera wokondedwa wanga, zonse zinalakwika,” anatero Sankalp. Tsiku la Valentine nthawi zonse limapangitsa achinyamata ku koleji yathu kukondwera kwambiri. Ndinali mphunzitsi ku koleji iyi. Kunali m’mawa kwambiri ndipo ophunzira achichepere ankabweretsa mphatso zawo kapena maluwa awo mobisa kuti akapereke kwa mtsikana wawo wokondedwa.

Mmodzi wofuna zotere anali Sankalp ndipo aka kanali koyamba kuyesa kupereka duwa lofiira ku chidwi chake cha Sancharika. Pamene adamuwona kumapeto kwa masitepewo adathamanga chamutu ndikuzembera pa mulu wa ndowe za ng'ombe zomwe zidangoikidwa pamalopo. Ngakhale kuti duwa linali lokwera pamwamba, yunifolomu yake inali yosokoneza monga momwe analiri. Ndipo kuti apulumutse nkhope yake - anathamangira kumbuyo kuti athamangitse ng'ombe yolakwayo. Kuseka kunamutsatira mpaka kalekale!

Nkhani zoseketsazi zimakuuzani momwe anthu adadzipangira opusa poyesa kunyengerera kuti azikonda. Kodi muli ndi nkhani yoseketsa ngati imeneyi yoti mugawane? Tiuzeni mu ndemanga pansipa.

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