Nanga bwanji ngati mkazi wa munthu aliyense wakhungu akana kuona, mkazi wa munthu aliyense wogontha akana kumva, kapena mkazi wa munthu aliyense wolumala akana kuyenda? Dziko lapansi likadawonongeka! Mahabharata akufotokoza izi kudzera mu nkhani ya Gandhari, mfumukazi yokongola yachinyamata ya Gandhar, yomwe inali yoti ikwatiwe ndi mfumu yakhungu yakale pang'ono. Masiku amenewo palibe amene ankaona kusakhulupirika kumeneku, makamaka mfumukazi yachinyamata yomwe ikukambidwa. Anadzipatsa udindo wolemekeza mawu a abambo ake ndipo anali wokondwa kukwatiwa ndi Dhritarashtra wakhungu , Mfumu yamphamvu ya Kurus. Nkhani ya Gandhari ndi yapadera.
Palinso chikhulupiliro chakuti munali mu horoscope ya Gandhari kuti aliyense amene angakwatire adzaphedwa. Choncho poyamba anakwatiwa ndi mbuzi kuti asinthe tsogolo lake ndipo motero Dhritarashtra anali mwamuna wake wachiwiri. Anali wokondwa kwambiri kukwatiwa ndi Kaurava Prince koma mwachiwonekere sanauzidwe kuti anali wakhungu pamene mgwirizanowo unakhazikitsidwa. Anangozindikira kuti pambuyo paukwati ndipo chinali chodabwitsa kwa iye.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Gandhari Anadzitsekera M'maso?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Koma Gandhari anayesetsa kwambiri. Mwachidwi, anamanga ngakhale thonje loyera pakhungu lake kuti amve chisoni ndi mwamuna wake wamtsogolo wosaona. Anthu omuzungulira, komanso kumwamba, mwina anamudalitsa chifukwa cha ichi chachikulu. Mwina anaganiza kuti anali wokhulupirika kwambiri kwa iye. Unali nsembe yaikulu kwambiri imene mkazi angapereke. Lumbiro lake likufanana kwambiri ndi lumbiro la Bheeshma la kusakwatira lomwe onse awiri analemekeza mpaka kumapeto kwa moyo wawo. Gandhari analembedwa m'mbiri monga mkazi amene anasiya kuona chifukwa cha chikondi cha mwamuna wake Dhritarashtra. Nsembe yosayerekezeka. Ankafuna kuonetsetsa kuti mwamuna wake sakumva chisoni muubwenziwo. Anali ofanana pambuyo pa lumbiro lake. Koma kodi ndicho chifukwa chokha chomwe chinamupangitsa kudziphimba maso?
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Chifukwa chenicheni chomwe Gandhari adasankha kutsekedwa m'maso
Monga momwe mafunso amafunsidwa okhudza chifukwa chenicheni cha lumbiro la Bheeshma ndipo ambiri amati zonse zinali zokhudza kudzikonda ndi kubwezera, mawu omwewo amaperekedwa pa lumbiro la Gandhari la kusawona. Ambiri amaganiza kuti Gandhari adathedwa nzeru ndi lingaliro lakuti pokhala mkazi wa munthu wosawona ayenera kumuchitira chilichonse. Zimenezi zikutanthauza ntchito zovuta zosatha tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma ngati iyenso anali wosawona ndiye kuti ena angawachitire ntchitozo. Kotero akanakhala moyo wa Mfumukazi yeniyeni osachita seva wa mwamuna wake kuyambira m'mawa mpaka madzulo. Koma chisankho chake chodzibisa maso chinakhala chovuta kwambiri kuposa momwe ankaganizira.
Kodi Gandhari adaganiza zodzitsekera m'maso zinali zowona?
Chinali chosankha cholakwika chomwe chinabweretsa masoka ambiri. Kusapenya kwa Gandhari kunasintha mwachangu kuchoka ku ukoma kupita ku zoyipa pomwe adalephera kusiyanitsa chabwino ndi cholakwika, motero adakhala wofooka ngati mwamuna wake.
Pa ana aamuna 100 ndi mwana wamkazi mmodzi amene anakhala nawo mwa njira zapadera, onse anali oipa kapena okwatiwa ndi anthu oipa.
Mahabharata amatchula abale awiri akuluakulu okha, Duryodhana ndi Dushasana, omwe amaonedwa ngati odzikuza komanso adyera. Ataledzera ndi kudzikuza komanso mphamvu zake zowononga, anaswa lamulo lililonse la ulemu ndi chilungamo. Makolo osasangalala komanso osazindikira sanathe kukana mphamvu ya kuipa kwa Duryodhana, kuipa komwe kunakulitsidwanso ndi kusadziwa kwawo kosalekeza. Lamulo la Karma linatenga njira yake, zomwe zinapangitsa kuti banja lonse ligwe. Choncho zotsatira za chisankho cha Gandhari chodzibisa maso zinali zoopsa chifukwa ana ake anakana kutsatira malangizo a amayi awo osawona poganiza kuti sadziwa zambiri za dziko lapansi. Choncho mkazi wabwino kwambiri anayenera kuthana ndi ana 100 omwe analibe khalidwe labwino ndipo sanamumverepo.
Gandhari atha kukhala mphamvu za Dhritarashtra
Tangoganizani m'malo mwake, zomwe Gandhari samadzitsekera m'maso, koma amayima pafupi ndi mwamuna wake ngati mphamvu zake. Akadalamulira naye limodzi, ngakhale ndi proxy, ndipo akanakhala mphamvu yowerengera kuyambira pachiyambi. Ana ake akanadziwa kuti adzayankha mlandu kwa iye pa chilichonse chimene anachita komanso kuti sangamuone ngati wosafunika.
Gandhari akanatha kumuthandiza mwamuna wake
Ndimakumbukira nkhani ya mnzanga amene ndinali naye. Bambo ake, omwe panthawiyo anali ndi zaka za m’ma 40, anadwala matenda ofa ziwalo ndipo miyendo yawo inakhala yopanda ntchito. Koma amayi ake anasankha kuti asamangoyenda koma kuyenda. Anali ndi ntchito kale, ndipo anapitiriza. Banjalo linaitanitsa galimoto yapadera, yoyendetsedwa ndi manja kwathunthu, yomwe njondayo ankayendetsa yekha, kumalo ake antchito ndi kubwerera. Anangofunika kuthandizidwa kukwera ndi kutsika panjinga yake ya olumala potuluka ndikukwera mgalimoto. Kodi, ndikudabwa, ndi chiyani chomwe chinalepheretsa Gandhari kuchita zinthu zabwino zotere?
Kodi iye, mwinamwake, anatengedwa m’chifanizo chake monga mkazi wakhalidwe labwino ndi wokhulupirika amene analenga pambuyo pa nsembe yake yaikulu? Ngati akanapanda kudziphimba m’maso, kodi akanadziona ngati wosakhulupirika n’kugwera m’maganizo mwake? Kodi kudziyembekezera kwake kosatheka kunathandizira pang'ono kuwononga banja lonse?
Zitha kukhala kuti Gandhari mwina anazindikira mkati mwa moyo wake kuti adalakwitsa podzitsekera m'maso koma panalibe kubwerera chifukwa kulumbira ndi lumbiro.
Ndizowopsa, chinthu ichi - choyipa chobisika ngati ukoma. Zitha kuchitika ngati sitiganizira mozama za lingaliro. Zimachitika pamene 'ukoma' uli ndi chilolezo chathunthu ndi kuvomerezedwa. Pofuna kusokoneza zinthu, kulumala ndi zofooka zina siziwoneka nthawi zonse. Ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuziwona ndikuzigwira.
Thandizo lothandizira liyenera kukhala labwino nthawi zonse, osati longokhala
Taganizirani za banja lamakono. Iwo alibe maufumu oti aziwalamulira, koma ali ndi mabanja oti azilamulira komanso mabanja oti azilera. Ndiye amalimbana bwanji ndi kufooka kwawo - kunena, chizolowezi chochezera pagulu? Imakwera mosaoneka ndipo imakhalabe yosaoneka, kwinaku ikuwononga mwachisawawa kulankhulana. Ngati m’modzi ali ndi chizoloŵezi, winayo amasungulumwa; funso nlakuti - kodi winayo nayenso atengere chizoloŵezi? Kodi chidzathetsa kusungulumwa? Kodi zidzalimbitsa mgwirizano wa okwatiranawo? Kapena kuthandiza kulera banja labwino, lokhazikika? Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chothandiza chomwe chingachepetse kufooka kwa mnzake womwerekera ndikubwezeretsanso kukhazikika kwa banja? Izi, ndi zokhazo, kuchitapo kanthu koyenera.
Maubwenzi ndi amphamvu ndipo amafunikira kukhazikika nthawi zonse, popanga zisankho zanzeru. Gandhari ndi Dhritarashtra ndi fanizo lomveka bwino la momwe awiriwa adataya mphamvu zawo chifukwa cha lingaliro la wokondedwa wawo. Akadazindikira kuti ngati wina sakuwona, ndiye kuti winayo AYENERA ngakhale zitavuta bwanji. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kuyesetsa kuti azigwirizana komanso kuti azithandizana. Ndiye, ndipo pokhapokha, ali gawo lamphamvu.
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Ngati tiwona motere, mwina kusankha kolakwika kwa Gandhari kunali phunziro Nthano inali kuyesa kale kuphunzitsa akazi. Mkazi sayenera kutaya umunthu wake payekha ndikuyenda mumithunzi ya mwamuna wake. Monga bwenzi la moyo ayenera kuwonjezera pa kukula kwa wina ndi mzake. Ayenera kulimbikitsana wina ndi mzake. Ndipo nthawi zonse ndimaona kuti kusankha kukhala wophimbidwa m’maso n’cholinga chongokhutiritsa kudzikuza kowonongeka kwa mwamuna wake sikunali kwanzeru. Koma inde, ndi zomwe nthano zimatipatsa. Sikuti zimangotipatsa zoyenera kuchita, komanso zomwe sitiyenera kuchita. Ngati tikanatha kulowa mozama mu nthano za nthano ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa zidziwitso zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa ife, dziko likanakhala malo abwino kwambiri.