Bwanji ngati mkazi wakhungu aliyense akana kuona, mkazi wa munthu wogontha aliyense akana kumva, kapena mkazi wa olumala aliyense akana kuyenda? Dziko likanathetsedwa! The Mahabharata zimatsimikizira izi kudzera munkhani ya Gandhari, mwana wamkazi wokongola wachinyamata wa ku Gandhar, yemwe anali woti akwatiwe ndi mfumu yokalamba yakhungu. M’masiku amenewo palibe amene ankayang’ana m’maso kuti aone cholakwikacho, ngakhale pa ana amfumu onse amene ankafunsidwawo. Anadzitengera kulemekeza mawu a atate wake ndipo anasangalala kukwatiwa ndi akhungu Dhritarashtra, Mfumu yamphamvu ya Kurasi. Nkhani ya Gandhari ndi yapadera.
Palinso chikhulupiliro chakuti munali mu horoscope ya Gandhari kuti aliyense amene angakwatire adzaphedwa. Choncho poyamba anakwatiwa ndi mbuzi kuti asinthe tsogolo lake ndipo motero Dhritarashtra anali mwamuna wake wachiwiri. Anali wokondwa kwambiri kukwatiwa ndi Kaurava Prince koma mwachiwonekere sanauzidwe kuti anali wakhungu pamene mgwirizanowo unakhazikitsidwa. Anangozindikira kuti pambuyo paukwati ndipo chinali chodabwitsa kwa iye.
N'chifukwa Chiyani Gandhari Anadzitsekera M'maso?
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Koma Gandhari adachita chilichonse. Mwachisangalalo, adamanganso chophimba cha thonje loyera m'maso mwake kuti amve chisoni ndi mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo wosawona. Anthu ozungulira iye, ndi kumwambako, mwinamwake anavumbitsira madalitso pa iye kaamba ka chochitika chachikulu chimenechi. Iwo ayenera kuti ankaganiza kuti ndi wokhulupirika bwanji kwa iye. Inali nsembe yaikulu imene mkazi akanakhoza kuipanga. Lumbiro lake likufanana kwambiri ndi Lumbiro la Bheeshma la kusakwatira kuti onse awiri analemekeza kufikira kupuma kwawo kotsiriza. Gandhari adatsikira m'masamba a mbiri yakale ngati mkazi yemwe adasiya kuwona chifukwa cha chikondi cha mwamuna wake Dhritarashtra. Nsembe yomwe inali yosayerekezeka. Ankafuna kuonetsetsa kuti mwamuna wake sakumva ngati ali pachibwenzi. Adafanana pambuyo pa lumbiro lake. Koma kodi chimenecho chinali chifukwa chokha chimene anadzitsekera m’maso?
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Chifukwa chenicheni chomwe Gandhari adasankha kutsekedwa m'maso
Monga mafunso amadzutsidwa okhudza chifukwa chenicheni cha kulumbirira kwa Bheeshma ndipo ambiri amati zonse zinali za kudzikonda ndi kubwezera, zomwezo zimaperekedwa pa lumbiro la khungu la Gandhari. Ambiri amaona kuti Gandhari adagonja poganiza kuti pokhala mkazi wakhungu amayenera kumuchitira chilichonse. Zimenezi zingatanthauze ntchito zotopetsa zosatha tsiku ndi tsiku. Koma ngati nayenso anali wakhungu ndiye kuti ena amawachitira ntchitozo. Ndiye akanatha kukhala moyo wa Princess weniweni osati kuchita seva za mwamuna wake kuyambira m’mawa mpaka usiku. Koma chisankho chake chodzitsekera m'maso chinakhala chilema chachikulu kuposa momwe amaganizira.
Kodi Gandhari adaganiza zodzitsekera m'maso zinali zowona?
Chinali chosankha cholakwika chomwe chinabweretsa masoka ambiri. Kusapenya kwa Gandhari kunasintha mwachangu kuchoka ku ukoma kupita ku zoyipa pomwe adalephera kusiyanitsa chabwino ndi cholakwika, motero adakhala wofooka ngati mwamuna wake.
Pa ana aamuna 100 ndi mwana wamkazi mmodzi amene anakhala nawo mwa njira zapadera, onse anali oipa kapena okwatiwa ndi anthu oipa.
The Mahabharata amangotchula abale awiri okha, Duryodhana ndi Dushasana, wonyada komanso wadyera. Ataledzera ndi kudzikuza ndi mphamvu yake yowononga, anaswa malamulo onse a makhalidwe abwino ndi chilungamo. Makolo opanda pake, osawona sanathe kukana mphamvu ya zoipa za Duryodhana, kuipa kowonjezereka chifukwa cha kusadziwa kwawo kosalekeza. Lamulo la Karma linayamba kuloŵerera, zomwe zinachititsa kuti banja lonse liwonongeke. Choncho zotsatira zomwe Gandhari adaganiza zodzitsekera m'maso zinali zowopsa chifukwa ana ake adakana kutsatira malangizo a mayi awo osawona poganiza kuti sakudziwa zambiri za dziko lapansi. Choncho mkazi wabwino kwambiri ankayenera kuchita ndi ana 100 omwe anali opanda ukoma ndipo sankamumvera.
Gandhari atha kukhala mphamvu za Dhritarashtra
Tangoganizani m'malo mwake, zomwe Gandhari samadzitsekera m'maso, koma amayima pafupi ndi mwamuna wake ngati mphamvu zake. Akadalamulira naye limodzi, ngakhale ndi proxy, ndipo akanakhala mphamvu yowerengera kuyambira pachiyambi. Ana ake akanadziwa kuti adzayankha mlandu kwa iye pa chilichonse chimene anachita komanso kuti sangamuone ngati wosafunika.
Gandhari akanatha kumuthandiza mwamuna wake
Ndimakumbukira nkhani ya mnzanga amene ndinali naye. Bambo ake, omwe panthawiyo anali ndi zaka za m’ma 40, anadwala matenda ofa ziwalo ndipo miyendo yawo inakhala yopanda ntchito. Koma amayi ake anasankha kuti asamangoyenda koma kuyenda. Anali ndi ntchito kale, ndipo anapitiriza. Banjalo linaitanitsa galimoto yapadera, yoyendetsedwa ndi manja kwathunthu, yomwe njondayo ankayendetsa yekha, kumalo ake antchito ndi kubwerera. Anangofunika kuthandizidwa kukwera ndi kutsika panjinga yake ya olumala potuluka ndikukwera mgalimoto. Kodi, ndikudabwa, ndi chiyani chomwe chinalepheretsa Gandhari kuchita zinthu zabwino zotere?
Kodi iye, mwinamwake, anatengedwa m’chifanizo chake monga mkazi wakhalidwe labwino ndi wokhulupirika amene analenga pambuyo pa nsembe yake yaikulu? Ngati akanapanda kudziphimba m’maso, kodi akanadziona ngati wosakhulupirika n’kugwera m’maganizo mwake? Kodi kudziyembekezera kwake kosatheka kunathandizira pang'ono kuwononga banja lonse?
Zitha kukhala kuti Gandhari mwina anazindikira mkati mwa moyo wake kuti adalakwitsa podzitsekera m'maso koma panalibe kubwerera chifukwa kulumbira ndi lumbiro.
Ndizowopsa, chinthu ichi - choyipa chobisika ngati ukoma. Zitha kuchitika ngati sitiganizira mozama za lingaliro. Zimachitika pamene 'ukoma' uli ndi chilolezo chathunthu ndi kuvomerezedwa. Pofuna kusokoneza zinthu, kulumala ndi zofooka zina siziwoneka nthawi zonse. Ndipo izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuziwona ndikuzigwira.
Thandizo lothandizira liyenera kukhala labwino nthawi zonse, osati longokhala
Taganizirani za banja lamakono. Iwo alibe maufumu oti aziwalamulira, koma ali ndi mabanja oti azilamulira komanso mabanja oti azilera. Ndiye amalimbana bwanji ndi kufooka kwawo - kunena, chizolowezi chochezera pagulu? Imakwera mosaoneka ndipo imakhalabe yosaoneka, kwinaku ikuwononga mwachisawawa kulankhulana. Ngati m’modzi ali ndi chizoloŵezi, winayo amasungulumwa; funso nlakuti - kodi winayo nayenso atengere chizoloŵezi? Kodi chidzathetsa kusungulumwa? Kodi zidzalimbitsa mgwirizano wa okwatiranawo? Kapena kuthandiza kulera banja labwino, lokhazikika? Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chothandiza chomwe chingachepetse kufooka kwa mnzake womwerekera ndikubwezeretsanso kukhazikika kwa banja? Izi, ndi zokhazo, kuchitapo kanthu koyenera.
Maubwenzi ndi amphamvu ndipo amafunikira kukhazikika nthawi zonse, popanga zisankho zanzeru. Gandhari ndi Dhritarashtra ndi fanizo lomveka bwino la momwe awiriwa adataya mphamvu zawo chifukwa cha lingaliro la wokondedwa wawo. Akadazindikira kuti ngati wina sakuwona, ndiye kuti winayo AYENERA ngakhale zitavuta bwanji. Anthu okwatirana ayenera kuyesetsa kuti azigwirizana komanso kuti azithandizana. Ndiye, ndipo pokhapokha, ali gawo lamphamvu.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Ngati tiwona motere, mwina kusankha kolakwika kwa Gandhari kunali phunziro Nthano inali kuyesa kale kuphunzitsa akazi. Mkazi sayenera kutaya umunthu wake payekha ndikuyenda mumithunzi ya mwamuna wake. Monga bwenzi la moyo ayenera kuwonjezera pa kukula kwa wina ndi mzake. Ayenera kulimbikitsana wina ndi mzake. Ndipo nthawi zonse ndimaona kuti kusankha kukhala wophimbidwa m’maso n’cholinga chongokhutiritsa kudzikuza kowonongeka kwa mwamuna wake sikunali kwanzeru. Koma inde, ndi zomwe nthano zimatipatsa. Sikuti zimangotipatsa zoyenera kuchita, komanso zomwe sitiyenera kuchita. Ngati tikanatha kulowa mozama mu nthano za nthano ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa zidziwitso zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa ife, dziko likanakhala malo abwino kwambiri.