Kodi Tiyenera Kusamukira Limodzi? Tengani Mafunso Awa Kuti Mudziwe

Simungathe kusankha ngati mwakonzeka kutenga sitepe yaikulu yosamukira ndi mnzanu? Tabwera kudzakupulumutsani ndi mafunso oti "Kodi tiyenera kusamukira limodzi". Mafunso olondola awa, okhala ndi mafunso 10 okha, adzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa komwe mukuyimira paubwenzi wanu.

Kusamukira pamodzi ndi chisankho chachikulu. Pajatu munali kudana ndi m’bale wanu akamaimba nyimbo zaphokoso pamene inuyo munali kalikiliki kulemba mayeso. Kapena amayi anu anakufunsani mobwerezabwereza funso lakuti, "Mukufuna kudya chiyani pa chakudya chamadzulo?", Pamene zonse zomwe munkafuna zinali kumaliza buku lachinsinsi mwakachetechete. Kukhala ndi munthu kumakupangitsani kukhala munthu woleza mtima. Koma kodi mnzanuyo adzakhala 'wina'? Mafunso a "Kodi tingayende limodzi" adzakuthandizani kupeza yankho lolondola. Kusamukira pamodzi kungatanthauze zinthu zotsatirazi paubwenzi:

• Mwina extrovert mnzanu ndi introverted kunyumba
• Mtengo wa galimoto yanu umachepetsedwa ndipo mumapulumutsa nthawi ndi mphamvu zambiri
• Mumaseweretsa 'mkazi wamwamuna' osamuveka mphete
• 'Ndani adzachotsa zinyalala?' ndi funso lofunika kwambiri masiku ano
• Palibe chomwe chimatchedwa 'mazira ochuluka'; akhala mpulumutsi wanu chakudya 

Pomaliza, kukhalira limodzi ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri chomwe sichidzangopangitsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wosangalatsa komanso kuwonjezera kuzama. Mudzadziwana nokha ndi mnzanu pamlingo watsopano. Ngati funso likunena kuti simunakonzekere kukhalira limodzi, musachite mantha, sizikutanthauza kuti simukugwirizana bwino. Mwina, nthawi yokha si yoyenera. Chifukwa chake, tengani nthawi yanu yolimbitsa ubale wanu musanapange chisankho chachikulu ngati kukhalira limodzi. Ngati zinthu zitavuta, musaiwale kufunafuna thandizo la akatswiri. Alangizi omwe ali pagulu la Bonobology ali pano kuti akuthandizeni.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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