Lumbiro la Bhishma kuti umbeta kwa abambo ake ndi nkhani yochokera ku Mahabharata yomwe aliyense amakambilana. Ndi nkhani ya nsembe yopambana. Nawa tsatanetsatane wa nkhaniyi.
Momwe nkhani ya Bhishma idayambira
Madzulo ena, Mfumu Shantanu, yemwe anayambitsa fuko la Kuru, anali kuyenda pamtsinje wa Ganges, pamene adawona Satyawati, mwana wamkazi wokongola wa msodzi. Masiku amenewo, munabwera, munawona, munakwatira. Kotero zinali ndi mtima wodzaza ndi chiyembekezo kuti Shantanu adafunsa abambo a Satyawati kuti amukwatire, koma chiyembekezo chake chinagwera pansi.
Dinani apa kuti werengani nkhani ya Ahalya ndi Indra, kodi chinalidi chigololo?
Msodzi wachikulire, akuwona nsomba zazikulu zomwe adazipeza, adayika kuti ana aamuna obadwa kwa Satyawati ndi Shantanu adzalowa m'malo mwa Shantanu. Tsopano, ili linali vuto. Shantanu anali kale ndi mwana wamwamuna - wokondedwa wake Devavrat. Kodi akanalanda bwanji cholowa chake chachifumu?
Koma Devavrat adapangidwa ndi zinthu zolimba. Anapita kwa msodziyo, nalumbira kuti sakwatira ndipo anabweretsa Satyawati kunyumba kwa abambo ake. Kenako anapitiriza kutsogolera ufumuwo mochenjera, mwa kuthandizira, mpaka imfa yake pa tsiku lakhumi ndi chiwiri la nkhondo yaikulu ya Kurukshetra.
Kodi nkhaniyi ikukhudza bwanji tsopano? N’zofunika chifukwa n’zoona ngakhale masiku ano, kuti umbeta ungakhale wosankha ndipo sutanthauza moyo wopanda khalidwe.
Dinani apa kuti werengani za Kannaki, mayi amene anawotcha mzinda pofuna kubwezera imfa ya mwamuna wake.
M’dziko limene ukwati uli wozoloŵereka kwa achikulire, mkhalidwe wa moyo umayesedwa ndi mkhalidwe wa m’banja, makamaka kwa mkazi. Komabe, m’dziko lenilenili, chiŵerengero cha osakwatiwa chikuwonjezereka, makamaka akazi, mwinamwake mofulumira kuposa zaka khumi zapitazo. Pali zisudzulo, ndipo maganizo ofala ndi akuti amuna amakwatiranso msanga pomwe akazi sakwatira. Wina akuwona, mokhumudwa, kuti amuna ambiri akumwalira ali ndi zaka za 40 ndi 50, zomwe zimasiya akazi opanda bwenzi. Ndipo pali, ndithudi, chiwerengero cha akazi amene sanakwatiwe.
Dinani apa kuti muwerenge: Ku Mahabharata Vidura anali wolondola nthawi zonse koma sanapeze zoyenera.
Kodi akazi ameneŵa amapirira bwanji, m’dziko limene anthu ambiri ndi achikulire okwatiwa?
Akazi amasiku ano
Nazi nkhani zingapo zenizeni; mayinawo anasinthidwa pofuna kuteteza anthu amene akukhudzidwawo.
Rama, yemwe adakwatirana mwachidule zaka makumi awiri zapitazo, tsopano amakhala ndi bwenzi lake ... ndi mwana wake wamwamuna.
Asha, wazaka 60, amene amagonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, yemwe anasudzula mwamuna wake zaka 20 zapitazo, amakhala mosangalala ndi mwamuna wake komanso ana ake aakazi awiri akuluakulu. Osati osakwatiwa, koma adapanga chisankho chomveka chogonana.
Dinani apa kuti werengani kalata yachikondi ya Karna kwa Draupadi.
Ratna, yemwe sanakwatirepo, wazaka 55, amagwira ntchito m'boma, amakhala ndi amasamalira amayi ake.
Reena, wazaka 44, wokwatiwa mwachidule, amasankha kukhala opanda mwamuna.
Roshni, wazaka 45, wamasiye, wazolowera ndipo sakufuna kuti mwamuna amulowerere.
Avani, wosudzulidwa ali ndi zaka 45 pambuyo paukwati woyipa…
Amayiwa apeza ntchito, zinkhoswe komanso maubwenzi omwe amawakwaniritsa. Ayang'anizana, ndikunyalanyaza, malingaliro onyozeka a anthu owazungulira - "Chabwino, muli otanganidwa." Monga simunachite kalikonse koma kukhala pa bulu pamene munali mwamuna m'moyo wanu!
Kukhala wosakwatiwa kumakupatsani zosankha zambiri
Dulani kwa achichepere. Atsikana aang'ono (ndipo mwinamwake, amuna, koma kwa nkhaniyi, sindinaganizirepo kuti theka la umunthu) sakufuna kukwatira mwamsanga. Sikuti ndi osakwatira kwenikweni, koma mwalamulo ndi osakwatira. Mu ubale kwa kanthawi, ndiye kunja, ngati sizikuyenda bwino kwa onse awiri.
Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati moyo wopanda pake ndipo ngati zitatenga nthawi yayitali. Koma panopa komanso m’tsogolo muno, makonzedwe amenewa amawathandiza kudzifufuza okha ndi dziko lapansi bwino kuposa mmene akanakhalira akadakhazikika m’banja.
Chochititsa chidwi, ukwati nthawi zambiri umatchedwa 'sansar', kwenikweni 'dziko', m'zinenero zambiri za ku India. Umakhala mwininyumba, wolowerera m’zadziko ndipo tenga njira imeneyo kukudzionetsera.
Njira ina ndi ya umodzi, yomwe inkatsatiridwa ndi anzeru ndi okonda moyo wakale, ndi Devavrat (kapena Bhishma) wotchulidwa kumayambiriro kwa nkhaniyi - makamaka amuna.
Amayi angapo tsopano akusankha njira iyi. Pamenepo umbeta sulinso nkhani ya kunyalanyazidwa ndi msika waukwati. Ndi kusankha kwaumwini kwa moyo wina kuposa wina.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Inde, malingaliro ayenera kufotokozedwanso.
Momwe mungavomerezere zabwino zokhazokha koma osatengera munthu payekha kotero kuti zimawononga maziko a anthu.
Nkhani yabwino kwambiri ndi zithunzi. anasangalala kuliŵerenga
Thank you Kavyanjali. Ndine wokondwa kuti mwaikonda nkhaniyo.
Iyi ndi nkhani yopatsa mphamvu. Monga aliyense payekhapayekha, nthawi zambiri timakonda kunyalanyaza chowonadi choyambirira cha zonse- kukwanira kwathu mu umodzi wake. Anthu amayendetsa malingaliro athu mwaluso kwambiri kotero kuti zimativuta kukhulupirira kuti munthu angasankhe kusalowa m'banja, koma kukhala ndi moyo waphindu ndi wokhutiritsa. Ndipo yakwana nthawi yoti tikonzenso malingaliro athu.