“Kodi Ndimakonda Bwenzi Langa Lapamtima?” Mafunso Ofulumirawa Akuthandizani

“Kodi ndili pa chibwenzi ndi mnzanga wapamtima? Kapena kodi ndimasokoneza ubwenzi ndi chikondi?” Ndizovuta kupeza yankho la funso ili. Ichi ndichifukwa chake tili ndi mafunso ofulumira awa a 'Kodi ndikukondani ndi bwenzi langa lapamtima', okhala ndi mafunso asanu ndi awiri okha. Anthu amasankha mabwenzi kuti apewe mavuto amene amabwera chifukwa cha chikondi. Koma maganizo sali m'manja mwa aliyense, sichoncho?

Mwadzidzidzi munthu amene mumamubwebweta za sewero lanu lachikondi wasanduka munthu amene akupangitsa sewero lomwelo. Mafunso awa akhoza kukhala wokondedwa wanu pakadali pano. Musanayambe kufunsa mafunso, nazi zina zomwe muyenera kukumbukira:

• Ngati samva chimodzimodzi, zingakhale zovuta kukhala mabwenzi
• Muyenera kudzipirira nokha; musamadzikakamize kumverera mwanjira inayake
• Kudziimba mlandu chifukwa chophwanya bwenzi lanu lapamtima kumangowonjezera ululu
• Ndi chinthu cholimba mtima kuulula zakukhosi kwako; dziwani kuti ndimakunyadirani
• Ngati mukufuna kudzisungira nokha, ndiyenso zili bwino
• Kusintha ubwenzi kukhala ubale kungakhale kovuta; ponda mosamala

Pomaliza, funso lakuti 'Kodi ndili ndi chikondi ndi mnzanga wapamtima' si lokhalo lomwe lingakuthandizeni kudziwa bwino chikondi chanu. Nthawi zonse mutha kupempha thandizo la akatswiri kuti mudziwe zambiri. Katswiri wothandiza angakuthandizeni kudutsa mu gawo lovuta komanso losokoneza ili. Alangizi athu ochokera ku gulu la Bonobology ali pafupi nanu.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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