Mawu awiri okha omwe ndimakonda kuyanjana ndi youma ndi 'kuchapa' ndi 'nthabwala'. Sindimakonda 'masiku owuma', 'khungu louma' ndipo sindimakonda kutumiza mameseji owuma. Ngati mukudabwa kuti kutumizirana mameseji kowuma ndi chiyani, komanso "kodi ndine wowuma", bwererani ndikuwerenga mameseji anu.
Ngati mayankho anu onse awerengedwa, 'chabwino', 'ozizira' kapena 'eya', ndipo mwakhala mukuyankha kamodzi kokha pamasiku awiri aliwonse, tili ndi nkhani kwa inu - zolemba zanu ndizowuma kwambiri ndipo mumachita bwino masewera anu. Ngati mwachibadwa ndinu owopsa pa maubwenzi apamalemba, khalani pansi, tili ndi msana wanu ndi malangizo amomwe musakhale owuma mawu.
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Mofanana ndi njira zonse zoyankhulirana, kutumizirana mameseji kuli ndi malamulo akeake komanso makhalidwe ake. Chifukwa chakuti ndiwe munthu wapamaso ndi maso sizitanthauza kuti umakhala wouma mameseji. Ndiye, nchiyani chimapangitsa mawu owuma?
Ngati mumatumiza mayankho a liwu limodzi, osafunsanso mafunso ndikunyalanyaza zithunzi zokongola ndi ma memes omwe mukutumizidwa, ndinu owuma. Ngati simungathe kulemberana mameseji ndi munthu poyamba kapena (zosayerekezeka!) kusiya munthu pa 'kuwerenga' kwa masiku angapo, inu, bwenzi langa, muyenera phunziro la malemba-iquette!
Kutumizirana mameseji koyipa kumabweretsa mavuto olumikizirana, ndipo simukusowa zimenezo. Kotero, kodi mukuwona ngati ili lingakhale vuto lalikulu ndi inu, ndipo mukudabwa momwe musakhale wowuma malemba? Kokani mpando, kalasi ili mkati. Yakwana nthawi yoti muphunzire kukhala owuma pafoni.
Kuti musiye kukhala wowuma mameseji, muyenera kumupangitsa munthu kumbali ina kuti amve ngati muli ndi ndalama pazokambirana, komanso kuwonjezera, mwa iwo. Izi zimaphatikizapo kuchitapo kanthu kuti mufikire, kufunsa mafunso osangalatsa, ndikuyesetsa kuyang'ana meme kapena GIF yoseketsa kuti mutsitsimutse zokambirana zomwe zatsala pang'ono kufa. Tsopano takuphunzitsani momwe mungakhalire owuma mukamatumizirana mameseji, tiyeni tifufuze mozama kuti tikuthandizeni kuthetsa vuto lanu lotumizira mameseji ndi malangizo ena otheka.
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Kotero, mungaganize kuti mameseji si onse ofunika. Sizili ngati kukumana ndi munthu ndikunyalanyaza. Kapenanso ngati osayankha mafoni a wina. Takutumizirani nkhani. Maubwenzi onse amatha kukula kapena kuwonongeka kutengera mtundu wanu wamameseji. Kuti musakhale wotopetsa mukamatumizirana mameseji ndi mnyamata kapena mtsikana ndikofunikira kuti zinthu zipite patsogolo, makamaka m'dziko lamakono loyendetsedwa ndiukadaulo.
Zindikirani ngati mtsikana wokongola uja yemwe mumatumizirana naye mameseji akutenga nthawi kuti abwerere kwa inu. Mukamufunsa pomaliza ngati angafune kukumana, sachita chidwi. Mawu ake akufupikitsa komanso…kuuma. Zowawa, sichoncho! Tsopano popeza mwapatsidwa kukoma kwa mankhwala anuanu, mungafune kuyesetsa kwambiri kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire ouma polemba mameseji.
Kaya ndinu owuma mameseji ndi mnzanu wapamtima kapena kuyesera kuti musakhale wowuma meseji ndi kuphwanya kwanu, ndi nthawi yoti mukweze masewera anu otumizirana mameseji. Taphatikiza maupangiri onyowetsa mluzu wanu wowuma.
1. Musachedwe kuyankha
Chifukwa chakuti mutha kuzimitsa mawonekedwe a 'kuwonedwa komaliza' pa WhatsApp, musaganize kuti anthu sazindikira kuti asiyidwa pa 'kuwerenga.' Ngati simunayankhe uthenga m'masiku awiri kapena kuposerapo, ndibwino kuti mwathyola zala zanu zonse kapena kukhala pachilumba chakutali popanda maukonde konse. Zowiringula ziwirizo zitha kukhala zovomerezeka, ndipo sitikupangabe malonjezo aliwonse.
Limodzi mwaupangiri wathu wamomwe mungakhalire osalankhula mawu owuma ndikuyankha, ngakhale zitangokhala, "Pepani, ndili otanganidwa pompano, ndikambirana mtsogolo." Ngati inu mosapeweka anazengereza kuchedwa kwa maola angapo, kodi yankhani ponena kuti, “Pepani, anaimitsidwa” etc. Mungachite ngati munachedwa kukumana kwenikweni ndi munthu, choncho bwanji mameseji kukhala osiyana.
Si Shakespearean sonnet, koma ndi yabwino kuposa kalikonse. Ngakhale kuti mwina kusasintha mameseji luso lanu zamatsenga, ndi osachepera sitepe yoyamba kuphunzira kusiya kukhala youma texter.
2. Pewani mayankho a mawu amodzi
No.
Osatero.
Chitani.
Iwo.
Inde, tikudziwa, padzakhala nthawi zina zomwe mungatengeke kwambiri kuti mulembe kuposa mopupuluma 'ok cool'. Koma izi sizingakhale lamulo, chifukwa zimangokhala zamwano komanso zadzidzidzi. Zinthu monga 'chabwino', 'eya' ndi 'k' zoipa kwambiri, ndi kuchitira chete Pambuyo pake, ndikuuza munthu wina kuti sali wofunikira ndipo mulibe nthawi yoti adzinenere momveka bwino.
Zoyipa kwambiri, mzanga. Ngati mukuyesera kuti musakhale wowuma texter ndi kuphwanya kwanu kapena kuti musakhale owuma pa foni nthawi zonse, muyenera kuyika ntchitoyo. Mwinamwake ingosankhani mkhalidwe wanu. Ngati wina wakuuzani kuti achedwa ndi mphindi 15 pa msonkhano, 'chabwino' angakhale ovomerezeka. Ngati wina wakuuzani kuti mwapanga chibwenzi, kapena wakupatsani zowononga pulogalamu yatsopano ya Marvel, chonde musanene kuti 'k'. M'malo mwake, ngati ndizomwe zili zomaliza, bwerani kunyumba kwawo ndipo Hulksmash iwo!
3. Khalani ndi cholinga
Tikukhala ozama kwambiri komanso anzeru pamameseji, koma ndi zoona! Zokambirana ziyenera kukhala ndi cholinga ndipo mukakhala ndi cholinga, mumatumizirana mameseji bwino. Mukudziwa momwe msonkhano uliwonse umakhala ndi ndandanda kuti aliyense afotokoze mfundo zake? Khalani ndi njira yofananira ndi ena mwa mameseji anu.
Kaya ndi akatswiri olemba mameseji kapena mukungoyeserera kuti musamalembe mawu owuma ndi bwenzi lanu, pangani zolemba zanu kukhala dongosolo lonse. Cholinga chanu ndi chiyani? Kodi inu kuyembekezera tsiku? Kodi mudakhalapo kale ndi masiku angapo ndikudabwa momwe mungapititsire pamlingo wina? (Ayi, sitikutanthauza zithunzi zonyansa, malingaliro oyipa!)
Khalani ndi ndondomeko ya malemba ndikulemba moyenerera, kuti masewera anu otumizirana mameseji apite patsogolo pang'ono. Iyi ndi njira yabwino kwambiri yoti musamakambirane movutikira pa mameseji ngati simungochita zinthu mwachisawawa kapena mumangoganizira mopambanitsa yankho loyenera ku uthenga uliwonse.
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4. Gwiritsani ntchito emojis/GIFs/memes
Inde, mutha kukhala wamkulu ndikugwiritsa ntchito biringanya emoji. Ndi pichesi. Ndipo dona wovina mu zofiira. Ma Emoji, ma GIF ndi ma memes ali ngati kuwaza kokongola kwa makeke otumizirana mameseji. Amafewetsa zinthu, kuseka ndipo moona mtima chinenero paokha.
Ndizothandiza makamaka kugwiritsa ntchito izi ngati ndinu munthu wosalankhula mawu komanso osamasuka kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ambiri palemba. Ngati wosweka wanu anangokufunsani ngati mumakonda woyimba wake yemwe amamukonda, ndipo mumadana nawo, mutha kunena kuti 'ayi' ndikuyika emoji yomwetulira pambali pake. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zazikulu mmene osakhala youma texter zitsanzo kuyenda mmene simumasuka kupereka yankho molunjika koma pa nthawi yomweyo sindikufuna kusiya munthu wina atapachikidwa.
Kupatula ma emojis, muthanso kulowa mumgodi wagolide wa ma GIF ndi ma memes kuti musakhale mawu owuma ndi mnyamata kapena mtsikana yemwe mukumuphwanya kwambiri. Kodi kusweka kwanu kunangokupatsani chiyamiko ndipo inu, kwa moyo wanu wonse, simukudziwa choti munene? Lolani GIF yosangalatsa ilankhule. Kodi kusweka kwanu kunagwiritsa ntchito liner yanzeru yomwe simunabwerenso? Gwiritsani ntchito meme.
Mwanjira iyi, m'malo mongowoneka modzidzimutsa komanso osagwirizana, mumatha kuswa mokoma kwa anthu kuti ayi, simunamvepo nyimbo yatsopano ya Taylor Swift nthawi 15,000. Tikukhulupirira, iwo akukhululukirani inu ndi kupeza tsiku lachiwiri.
5. Funsani mafunso ochititsa chidwi
Kotero, mukudabwa, "Kodi ndine wouma?", Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, ndikusokoneza ubongo wanu momwe mungakhalire ndi zokambirana zowuma pa mameseji. Kumbukirani kuti chinsinsi cha kukambirana kwabwino mwanjira iliyonse ndicho kuwoneka kuti muli ndi chidwi ndi mnzakeyo. Ngakhale simukufuna kuwerenga / kumva za kuseka kokhumudwitsa kwa mnzake wantchito mobwerezabwereza, zimakhala bwino paubwenzi uliwonse mukafunsa mafunso.
Ngati likunena za buku lomwe akuwerenga, afunseni zina zomwe wolembayo adalemba. Ngati akudandaula za abwana awo, afunseni zomwe zanenedwa ndipo perekani zina za "makasamalidwe" awa ndi oipa kwambiri. Tumizani meme pamene inu muli pa izo.
Zimenezi zinadabwitsa Margaret ndi Thomas. Thomas anali ndi vuto ndi abwana ake kwa nthawi ndithu. Iye ndi Margaret anali kulemberana mameseji ndipo iye anafunsa, “Ndiye, kodi iweyo ukanakhala wotani ngati bwana ndiye?” Ndipo adagwa mu ola lotumizira ma GIF ndi ma memes awo ngati mabwana. Osati bwanji kukhala wowuma texter? Meme it up!
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6. Khalani ndi nthabwala
Upangiri wokhazikika waubwenzi, sichoncho? Koma pamene simuli maso ndi maso ndikudabwa ngati munthu winayo akukusekanidi kuuma nthabwala, mwina mwangopanga masewera anu pang'ono. Osamangotumiza nthabwala zotumizidwa, ngakhale zomwe zimagwira ntchito movutikira. Pangani nthabwala zanu zachinsinsi, khalani ndi mayina osangalatsa a wina ndi mzake, tumizani zithunzi za kamera yakutsogolo ngati muli omasuka mokwanira.
Izi zitha kuwoneka ngati zosafunikira koma zitha kukhala zogwira mtima momwe osakhala zitsanzo zamawu owuma zikagwiritsidwa ntchito moyenera, ndi munthu woyenera, komanso panthawi yoyenera. Kutumizirana mameseji ndikosangalatsa, osayiwala. Osayesetsa kwambiri, lolani kuseka kuyenderera, ndipo mudzakhala bwino.
7. Werengani pakati pa mizere
Tsopano, izi ndi zofunika. Mnzanga amadana ndi kukambitsirana kwambiri pa mameseji chifukwa amati pali kusamvetsetsana kwakukulu. Ine, kumbali ina, ndimatha kuyendetsa ubale wanga wonse pamawu, palibe vuto. Timathera nthawi yambiri tikutumizirana mameseji, ndipo zambiri zimakhala zosangalatsa, zinthu wamba. Koma nthawi zina, simudziwa zomwe akunena kapena zomwe akutanthauza komanso momwe muyenera kuziganizira mozama. Yesani ndikuwerenga pakati pa mizere.
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Ngati ali ozama pang'ono ndikulemba mayankho achidule, ndizotheka kuti akhumudwa, akuda nkhawa kapena okwiya. Ngati akukutumizirani malemba ambiri, akukuganizirani, ndipo amakukondani! Ngati simunalankhulepo pang'ono kapena simunalankhulepo kwa mlungu umodzi kapena kuposerapo, mwina tumizani uthenga wotsatira kenako n'kusiya pamenepo. Ngati akulemba 'GOOD MORNING' m'mawa uliwonse, mwina ndi amayi anu ndipo muwayimbire.
8. Sewerani pang'ono
Iyi ndi gawo lomwe ndimakonda kwambiri polemba mameseji chifukwa ndimakonda kukopana ndi mathalauza anga osavala nsapato. Zoonadi, kuvala ndi kuvala zidendene kumathandiza, koma sungani chikondi ndi chilakolako chamoyo pa mameseji. Kubweretsa kukopana A-masewera anu angagwire ntchito zodabwitsa ngati mukuyesera kuti musakhale wotopetsa mukamatumizirana mameseji ndi mnyamata kapena mtsikana yemwe mumamukonda.
Paul ndi Lizzie anali atakumanapo kangapo m'mbuyomo ndipo pomwe panali zopsereza, samakumana nthawi zonse momwe amafunira. Lizzie adatumizira Paul chithunzi chake atavala suti yatsopano ndi anzake. Yankho la Paulo linali lakuti, ‘Nice. Mtsikana wokongola wovala suti yotuwa ndi ndani? Kodi angakonde kumwa nane?'
Kukopana ndikofunikira mosasamala kanthu kuti mwangokumana kumene, kapena ngati muli kukopana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wa zaka 20. Chifukwa chake, ngati mukuganiza kuti mungakhale bwanji osatumizirana mameseji ndi bwenzi lanu lazaka zambiri, mutumizireni meseji yoti, "Ndikungoganiza kuti ndiwe mbatata yokongola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi." Nditengereni izo, zimagwira ntchito.
9. Ganizirani zatsatanetsatane
Nthawi zonse ndi zinthu zazing'ono zomwe zimafunikira. Zing'onozing'ono zomwe anthu amakumbukira zimatha kupanga ubale wapadera. N’chimodzimodzinso ndi kulemba mameseji. Muziganizira kwambiri zimene zikukambidwa, ndiponso zimene limanena zokhudza munthu amene akulemba lembalo. Ngati akukuuzani za ulendo ndi atsikana, kumbukirani mayina awo. Ngati akukamba za mpira, onetsetsani kuti mukudziwa timu yomwe amakonda komanso wosewera mpira.
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Bweretsani chovala chomwe adavala nthawi yomaliza mudakumana kapena mbale yomwe adayitanitsa. Tumizani meseji yoti, "Moni, ndimakonda pasitala uja mudaitanitsa sabata yatha, ndikuyesa kubwereza ndikufuna wokoma. Mukufuna?" Ngati mumvetsetsa bwino, padzakhala zambiri kuposa kupsopsona kwa chef kuti muyembekezere. Ulendo wosiya kukhala wowuma meseji umayamba ndikuyika ndalama mwa munthu amene mukulankhula naye. Sindingathe kutsindika izi mokwanira.
10. Yambitsani kukambirana
Nthawi zambiri, mameseji amawonedwa ngati afupi komanso osavuta popanda kumva kwenikweni kumbuyo kwawo - magwiridwe antchito komanso osavuta. Koma ngati mukuyembekeza kuti muthane ndi vuto lomwe lingakhalepo, kapena ngakhale mutakhala owuma ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima ndipo mukufuna kukhala bwino, muyenera kukambirana.
Ngati mumatumizirana mameseji ndi munthu amene munakumana naye pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi, musamangokhala kuti 'Moni' komanso 'Muli bwanji?' Ngakhale mutakhala wovutitsa mameseji, pitilizani. Afunseni za zomwe amakonda komanso mabanja awo? Ndipo mameseji ngati kuti mukulankhula nawo.
Gwiritsani ntchito mawu okweza, nenani 'HAHAHAHAHA' china chake chikakhala choseketsa, yesetsani kuchita zinthu mwanzeru. Kulankhulana nthawi zonse kumakhala luso, ngakhale mukamayang'ana pa foni yanu. Ngakhale ndi a zokambirana app pachibwenzi, khalani bwino! Onetsani munthu winayo kuti mukuyesetsa kuti musakhale ndi zokambirana zowuma pamutu.
11. Yambitsani ndime yoyamba
Inde, tikudziwa. Kutenga sitepe yoyamba nthawi zonse kumakhala kowopsa, ngakhale palemba. Bwanji ngati sakuyankha? Bwanji ngati akuganiza kuti ndi zowopsya? Nanga bwanji ngati ilidi nambala yolakwika ndipo mukutumizirana mameseji ndi bambo awo omwe ndi wapolisi? Kapena mukudabwa, "Ndine mtsikana, ndimutumizira kaye mameseji?' Koma wina ayenera kukhala wolimba mtima ndikuchita.
Kapena, bwanji ngati nonse mukuwopa kutumiza meseji yoyamba ndipo palibe chomwe chingachitike ndipo nonse muli achisoni komanso osungulumwa mpaka kalekale! Chikondi chimafuna kulimba mtima, lemba loyamba limafuna kulimba mtima. Chifukwa chake, sinthani chala chanu, nyamulani foni yanu ndikuyamba kutumizirana mameseji. Ndani akudziwa kuti mungakhale bwino ngati nyumba yoyaka moto ndi nkhawa za momwe mungakhalire osatopetsa mukamatumizirana mameseji ndi munthu.
12. Khalani ndi ndalama
Ubale wamawu uli ngati Amazon stock. Chabwino, osati kwenikweni, koma mukudziwa zomwe tikutanthauza. Kulankhulana nthawi zonse kumakhala ndalama ndipo ngati mukufuna kubweza chilichonse, muyenera kuyika ntchitoyo. M'mawu olembedwa, musapite mzukwa. Osasowa mukangolankhulana bwino kwambiri, koma mukangobwera pakadutsa masiku atatu, mukuyembekezera kuti mudzapitiriza pomwe munasiyira.
Yesetsani kukhala aulemu, kukhala wokhazikika komanso kugwiritsa ntchito mameseji ngati njira yodziwira munthu wina. Yankho la momwe musakhale owuma mukamatumizirana mameseji ndikusunga zokambirana, ngati masewera abwino a ping-pong. Popanda mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo, zinthu zimangoyenda zisananyamuke. Musati mulole izo zifike ku zimenezo.
13. Musakhale ofunitsitsa kwambiri
Khalani otanganidwa, monga tanena kale, koma chifukwa cha chikondi cha mulungu, dziwani pojambula mzere. Osawafotokozera zambiri za 'm'mawa wabwino' kapena pitilizani kuwatumizira zithunzi zakuseka kapena chakudya cham'mawa kapena zosintha za mphindi ndi mphindi. Ngati sanayankhe pakangopita mphindi zochepa, musatumize emoji yachisoni kapena mafunso 10.
Apatseni malo, ndipo pakapita nthawi yolemekezeka, mulole kuti apite ngati pakufunika. Malire a ubale wabwino imagwiranso ntchito potumizirana mameseji, kumbukirani. Ndipo kutumizirana mameseji pawiri n’komvetsa chisoni. Zimakupangitsani inu kuwoneka ngati wosimidwa kwambiri, ndipo kuti, bwenzi langa, ndikuyiyika pang'ono. Chifukwa chake, musapitirire mopitilira muyeso kuti musiye kukhala wowuma.
14. Gawani kuchokera kumapeto kwanu
Kutumizirana mameseji, monganso kulankhulana kulikonse, ndi njira ya njira ziwiri. Ngati wokondedwa wanu wakhala akugawana mameseji okongola ndi zosintha za moyo wawo, kapena zithunzi, zingakhale bwino mutayankha motere. Ngati simumasuka kugawana nawo mameseji, auzeninso, ndipo mwina mutha kumvetsetsa.
Khalani omasuka ndi oona mtima pamene mukulemberana mameseji, ndizo zonse zomwe anthu amafuna. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muli m'gawo lodziwana wina ndi mnzake ndipo simumasuka kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu palemba, auzeni kuti, "Chabwino, ena onse, ndikufuna ndikuuzeni pamasom'pamaso." Ngati mukuyang'ana momwe mungakhalire zitsanzo zowuma, sizikhala bwino kuposa izi. Sikuti inu piqued chidwi chawo komanso anayala maziko a tsiku lotsatira. Ndi, voila!
15. Pemphani maganizo
Anthu amakonda kufunsidwa kuti anene maganizo awo, ndipo nthawi zambiri amapereka maganizo ngakhale osafunsidwa. Koma ngati mukuyesera kuti asakhale wowuma meseji ndikukhala ndi mwayi kudzera pa mameseji, ndi lingaliro labwino kufunsa malingaliro.
Zitha kukhala chilichonse kuyambira kutumiza chithunzi ndikufunsa kuti, "Kodi mukuganiza kuti chovalachi chimagwira ntchito?" kuti "Munaganiza chiyani pa zokambirana za Purezidenti?" Kufunsa lingaliro kumatsegula zokambirana komanso kumawapangitsa kumva ngati malingaliro awo ndi ofunika kwa inu. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, chikondi ndi chiyani koma kudziwa kuti ndife ofunikira kwa wina.
Kutumizirana mameseji kumavuta kwambiri. Sizowona, ndizovuta kwambiri, sizili zofanana ndi nkhani yeniyeni ya moyo, etc., etc. Chifukwa chake, pitilizani luso lanu lamalemba ndikukhala olembera bwino kwambiri omwe mungakhale. Simudzanong'oneza bondo.
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