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"Kodi Ndili mu Ubale Wapoizoni?" Mafunso Awa Adzakuthandizani Kusankha!

mafunso okhudza | September 22, 2022 | Ekshika Parnami , Wofufuza & Wolemba Zinthu
Kusinthidwa: February 2, 2024

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Maubwenzi oopsa sangakhale osangalatsa monga momwe nyimbo ya Britney Spears imawafotokozera. Amakoka mtima ndipo amamva ngati ulendo wovuta. Khalidwe lakale laubwenzi woopsa - Mumamva ngati muli pamwamba pa dziko lapansi koma kenako mumafika pachimake. Kuzungulira kwa 'chisangalalo ndi ululu' kumeneku kumapangitsa ubongo wanu kulephera kugwira ntchito.

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Pomaliza, yesani msana wanu kuti mupeze zizindikiro zaubwenzi woyipa. Kutuluka mu kukana ndi chiyambi chabwino. Mwinamwake mwakhala mukukuvutitsani, osadziŵa n’komwe.

Maubwenzi oipa ndi osokoneza bongo ndipo n'zovuta kudzipatula ku zochitika zotere popanda thandizo la wina aliyense. Ngati nthawi zonse mumayesetsa kulungamitsa khalidwe lolakwika la mnzanu, zingakhale zothandiza kufunsa katswiri wodziwa bwino ntchito. Alangizi athu ochokera ku gulu la Bonobology nthawi zonse amakhalapo kuti akuthandizeni.

Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.

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Tags: Awiri dynamics, Maubwenzi apabanja, Malangizo a chibwenzi ndi maubwenzi, Malangizo Othandiza, Malangizo pa Ubwenzi, Ubale wapoizoni, Maubwenzi osayenera

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Ekshika Parnami

Ndinalemba ndakatulo yanga yoyamba m’giredi lachisanu ndipo sindinasiye kuyambira pamenepo. Monga kwanenedwa motchuka, 'Sindilemba ndakatulo; ndakatulo ndimalemba.' Kulemba sikunakhale kosangalatsa kwa ine; chakhala chofunikira chomwe chimandipangitsa kukhala oganiza bwino. Kutsanulira zakukhosi kwanga papepala kumabwera mwachibadwa kwa ine monga kupuma. Digiri ya Journalism yochokera kwa Khristu inali chabe chitumbuwa pamwamba. Kulemba zolemba zazitali ngati gawo la kukonzekera kwa UPSC kapena mapepala anthawi yayitali monga wophunzira wa JNU sikunamve ngati mtolo kwa ine; m'malo mwake, zinali zochizira kulemba mawu 2,000 nthawi imodzi. Kulowa ngati mtolankhani ndi The Indian Express kunandiphunzitsa momwe kufunsa mafunso oyenera kumathandizira kukhala zidutswa zokopa komanso zokopa. M'malingaliro mwanga, ndakhala ndikuwona kusagwirizana kwa maubwenzi - m'moyo wanga komanso pafupi ndi ine pamene ndinali kukula. Ndadumphira kuchoka paubwenzi kupita ku ubale, kaya utali wautali kapena wosavomerezeka, wapoizoni kapena wankhanza, wokhalamo kapena wamba. Kuti ndichiritse zowawa ndi zowawa za zomwe zandichitikirazi, komanso banja lovuta la makolo anga, ndimayika zidutswa zazitali pa Instagram. Zolemba izi zidakhala malo otsegulira komanso chiyambi chaulendo wanga wodzikonda. Anthu ena anayamba kugwirizana ndi zimene ndinalemba ndipo ankandiuza kuti, 'Uyenera kulipidwa chifukwa cha zimenezi!' Kotero, ine ndiri pano. Ndinapeza sing'anga yanga kumasula malingaliro olemetsa ndi maphunziro omwe ndaphunzira, kuwachotsa mu dongosolo langa