Njira 13 Zosavuta Zopezera Mtima Wa Mkazi

Chibwenzi ndi lamulo lachilengedwe lotsatiridwa ndi nyama komanso anthu. Pochita izi, mwamuna ayenera kupita njira yonse - kuyimba ndi kuvina. Ayenera kudziwa momwe angapindulire mtima wa mkazi. Ngakhale kuti si amuna onse omwe angathe kukhumudwa, iwo ali ofunitsitsa ndipo amafuna kudziwa zambiri zokhudza kugonana kwa amayi m'njira yoyenera. 

Mwina nthawi ya chibwenzi inali nthawi yabwino kwambiri m'nthawi ya atsamunda ndi yachikondi pamene akazi amakhala ndi zibwenzi. Atavala ngati dandies (chithunzi Bridgeton) iwo angadziwe momwe angapindulire mtima wa mkazi - kumufunsa iye, pamper, ndiyeno kumufunsira. Nthawi zasintha komanso njira zosangalalira mtsikana. 

Chibwenzi tsopano chimatchedwa kukopana. Ndi mwambo wofunikira pachibwenzi wokhala ndi mwayi wopanda malire. Kunyengerera kumapitirira kuseketsa kosasangalatsa mu nthawi yodzuka iyi. Amuna ayenera kusamala za quotient maganizo ngati akufuna kusungunula mtima wa mkazi. Kuthirira kuyenera kuganiziridwa bwino.

Nthawi yomweyo, mwamuna ayenera kuwonetsetsa kuti sali wonyansa, monga Barney wokwiyitsa (woseweredwa ndi Neil Patrick Harris) yemwe amakonda kwambiri. Mmene Ndinayambira Ndi Amayi Anu. Kukonda zinthu zakuthupi ndi kufunafuna chisamaliro sikuli yankho la momwe mungapambanire mkazi. Ndiye funso lingakhale lidakugwerani m'maganizo mwanu, njira yabwino yopezera mtima wa mkazi ndi iti? Pokhapo ngati akanakhalapo, dziko likanakhala malo achimwemwe lerolino. Koma, pali njira zingapo zopezera mtima wake. Tiyeni tikambirane zingapo.

Momwe Mungapambanire Mtima Wa Mkazi - 13 Njira Zosavuta

Tisanakambirane malangizo oti tigonjetse mtima wa mkazi, tiyeni tikambirane kulankhula za kudzikongoletsa. Kudzikongoletsa sikuwerengedwa ngati “njira” yokopa mtima wa mkazi, ndikofunikira kwenikweni. Amuna ayenera kusamalira tsitsi lawo - mbali zonse - fungo labwino ndi kuvala bwino. Ayi, sindikukupemphani kuti muvale suti yomalizidwa bwino yokhala ndi chiuno cha matte mkati (kapena chipewa chapamwamba), koma sankhani zovala zowongoleredwa bwino, zosawopsa. 

Ndikanena mopanda mantha, ndimakoka chidwi chanu pamitundu yofewa komanso yoyera. Palibe vuto kuyesa zovala zanu kapena masitayelo atsitsi, ndithudi. Koma samalani ndi madontho pa zovala ndipo musamadzawoneka ngati nkhuku yothyoledwa pambuyo pometa tsitsi kapena kumeta. Lino tukulanga ivyeo ivingalenga twakwata ivyeo ivisuma sana vino mukulonda ukucimvya, lekini tulande pa vintu ivingalenga twakolanya umwanaci.

1. Khalani womvetsera wabwino

Kaya mukufuna kukopa mkazi yemwe mumamukonda kapena muli pachiwopsezo chomwe chapangitsa kuti muyang'ane mwachangu mayankho amomwe mungapindulire mtima wa mkazi mutasokoneza, chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita ndikumumvera. Musonyezeni kuti muli nawo pa zokambiranazo pomufunsa mafunso oyenera.

Mayi aliyense amadzimva otetezeka ndi womvetsera wachangu amene amasonyeza chikondi pamene akugawana zambiri za moyo wawo. Pomupatsa mpata woti azilankhulana bwino, mumamuthandiza kuti azimasuka. Ndipo izi zikachitika, njira yopita kumtima kwake imakhala yosangalatsa. Ngati mwasokoneza, mungafune kumvetsera mavuto omwe ali nawo ndi inu kapena ubale wanu. Zitha kukuthandizani kupeza mayankho kuzinthu zomwe zasokonekera pakati panu anthu.

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2. Khalani bwenzi lake 

Pamene mwamuna akuyesera kupambana mtima wa mkazi kwamuyaya, njira yabwino ndi kukhala bwenzi lake. Ubwenzi uli ngati otonthoza mtima pausiku wozizira. Anzanu amatha kucheza komanso kukhala omasuka. Choncho, pitirirani kukhala bwenzi lake. Komabe, mungafune kuti zilakolako zanu zachikondi zibwerere pamene mupanga lumbiro lopatulika, lopanda malire la ubwenzi. Ndikanena mopanda malire, ndikutanthauza. Osagwiritsa ntchito ubwenzi ngati chimodzi mwazo zidule zopangitsa mkazi kuthamangitsa iwe. Lolani kumverera ukukula mwachibadwa. Ndikukutsimikizirani kuti ngati mutalowa m’banja, ubwenzi wanu udzakhalitsa.  

3. Momwe mungakondere mtima wa mkazi popanda ndalama: Khalani olenga

Kodi mwezi watha ndi malipiro anu oti mulandire koma mukuwona zenera kuti musangalatse? Ndi nthawi yoganiza kunja kwa bokosi. Mukhoza kumukopa podziwa zomwe amakonda komanso kuganizira momwe mungamupangitse kuti adzimve kukhala wapadera. Lingalirani za zochitika m’malo mwa mphatso zakuthupi. Mwachitsanzo,

• Ngati nonse mumakonda kukwera maulendo, mutha kuyamba njira yachilengedwe (ngati avomereza) ndikuyamba kukambirana mozama pamwamba pa phirilo. Izo zidzakumbukiridwa
• Pamene ndalama zanu za banki sizikukulolani kuti mudye chakudya chamadzulo, mukhoza kumuyitana ndikumuphika chakudya chomwe amakonda. Madzulo apamtima ngati awa sangokupezerani ma bonasi owonjezera pakuchita khama komanso kukufikitsani kufupi kwambiri kuposa chakudya chamadzulo chilichonse
• Pezani maluwa omwe amakonda. Ziwonetsa kuti mukukumbukira zinthu zazing'ono za iye
• Thirani zakukhosi kwanu papepala kuti mumuchotse pamapazi ake

4. Mutengereni kumalo omwe mumakonda 

Aa, amavutitsa ubwana! Ndili wachinyamata, ndinkakonda kupita ku yunivesite ya m’tauni yathu n’kukakhala m’mphepete mwa nyanja kuti ndiwerenge. Ndawerenga mabuku a Harry Potter pano ndikuwerenga zinsinsi za Agatha Christie mwachangu. Malowa amakumbutsa zambiri ngakhale lero chifukwa chinali chiyambi cha chikondi changa chowerenga. Kotero, pamene ndinakumana ndi munthu wapadera ndinawatengera kumalo awa ndikupita nawo paulendo wopita kumalo okumbukira kupita ku zochitika zapadera. Zinamveka bwino kwambiri pakati pa tonse awiri.

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5. Mudziwitseni kuti mukumuganizira

Mungamutumizire meseji yaubwenzi pakati pa ntchito yovuta kwambiri kapena kumuyimbira foni kuti mumulonje. Mufunseni mwaulemu za tsiku lake ndipo mwina mungamuchitire nthabwala musekese. Nkhaniyi ikhale yaifupi komanso yokoma chifukwa kulankhulana kwakutali kungawoneke ngati kusokoneza. Osapeputsa mphamvu yazinthu zazing'ono - monga mawu kapena kuyimba foni - chifukwa zitha kukhala yankho lenileni ku funso lomwe likubwera la momwe mungapindulire mtima wa mkazi.

Nazi zinthu zingapo zosangalatsa zomwe munganene kuti mumudziwitse kuti mukumuganizira:

• Pepani chifukwa cha zovuta zonse, sindingathe kusiya kuganizira za inu
• Ndayamba kukwinya ndikumwetulira kwambiri, sindingakuchotseni mmutu mwanga
• Ndiwe ngati, mwanjira, wokongola kwambiri, makamaka nthawi zonse mu malingaliro anga
• Lekani kuoneka wokongola kwambiri pazithunzi zonse zomwe mumalemba, kodi ndingayang'ane ntchito?
• Ndikanakonda ndikanaziyika m'mawu ndikukuuzani momwe ndimakukonderani

6. Momwe mungakondere mtima wa mkazi ndi mawu: Kugawana zinsinsi 

Munayamba mwadzifunsapo, “Ndinganene chiyani kwa yandikira kwa mtsikana ndi kumutenga mtima?” Chabwino, muuzeni zinsinsi zanu kapena zina zomwe zimakuchitikirani komanso zomwe zimakukumbutsani zomwe zimakukondani kwambiri.

Ngakhale, tikupangira kuti muwerenge chipindacho musanayambe kutsegula. Kulankhula zinthu zaumwini kungakhale koopsa. Akhoza kukupwetekani mosadziwa, kapena mungangobwera mwamphamvu kwambiri kwa iye. Nazi njira zingapo zomwe mungatsatire kuti muyese madzi musanalowe mwakuya.

• Muuzeni za nkhani zanu zoseketsa zochititsa manyazi
• Lankhulani za chochitika chapamtima chomwe chinakukhudzani kwambiri
• Muuzeni zimene zinakuchitikiranipo m’mbuyomu, ndipo muone mmene akuchitira

7. Yang'anani maso pamene mukuyankhula

Tsiku lina linandiuza kuti sindiyang'anana maso mokwanira - kuyang'ana kwanga kumangoyendayenda. Iye ananena kuti zikatere, munthu aliyense amangoona ngati alibe chidwi ngakhale akudziwa mmene angakondere mtima wa mkazi ndi mawu. Ndinamuuza kuti ndigwira ntchito ndipo ndinatero. Ndinkadzidalira kwambiri ndikamalankhula.

Komanso, nthawi zambiri maso amatha kusonyeza malingaliro ambiri. Ngati mukuyankhula ndi mkazi wa maloto anu, kumbukirani kumwetulira ndi maso anu. Izi zati, chenjezo: pali mzere wocheperako pakati pa kusilira ndi kuyang'ana. Yesetsani kuti musadutse, chonde.

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8. Kodi ndinganene chiyani kuti ndipindule mtima wa mkazi? Perekani kuyamika kwake

Ngati mukufuna kukondweretsa mtsikana ndi mawu, sankhani zoyamikira zanu mosamala. Mwachitsanzo, "Hey wokongola!" imatha kumveka ngati yachikale kwambiri kapena yosayenera. Izo zikhoza kugunda zolemba bwino ngati mukuyesera kupambana dona. "Mukuwoneka bwino lero" ndi njira ina yabwinoko. Kuyamikira kwabwino kumamupangitsa kumwetulira ndikumudabwitsa momwe mungayankhire poyamikiridwa monga choncho. Ndicho cholinga.

Nenani momwetulira komanso mofatsa. Njira ina yokopa mkazi ndi kuyamika ndiyo kupeza njira zozembera mwachisawawa momwe mumamuyamikira. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mukufuna kumunyengerera pamalo ochezera komanso kukumbukira zinthu zabwino za iye, tchulani kwa anthu omwe akuzungulirani. Nawa malingaliro angapo omwe angakupatseni mabhonasi:

• Muli ndi kumwetulira kowala
• Muli ndi vibe yosangalatsa komanso yofunda
• Mumandiseketsa monga momwe wina aliyense angathere
• Mumapangitsa chilichonse kukhala chosangalatsa komanso chosangalatsa
• Inu simunadzikhululukire nokha, ndimakonda za inu

9. Sinthani mphatso mwamakonda anu

Takhazikitsa kale kuti mutha kupambana mtima wa mkazi popanda ndalama. Koma, ngati mukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito chikwama chanu, onetsetsani kuti mukuwerengera. Ganizirani za mphatso yomwe mukufuna kumupatsa - ikhale yapadera komanso yopindulitsa. Ngati mukufuna kupanga manja abwino, mutha kutenga luso, monga mbiya mwachitsanzo, ndikumupatsa chinthu chanu choyamba.

Kupereka mphatso kwakhala kwachizolowezi masiku ano kotero kuti kwasiya kukhudza kwambiri. Kuti muwoneke bwino, muyenera kuchita china chake chomwe chimakonzedwa ndi chidwi chanu chachikondi. Chinachake chomwe chikuwonetsa kuti mumasamala ndipo mwakonzeka kupita mtunda wowonjezera. Izo siziyenera kukhala mbambande, bola ngati zolinga zaperekedwa, izo zakwaniritsa cholinga chake.

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10. Konzani tsiku losaiwalika

Chabwino, ngati mukufunadi kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama, konzani tsiku lathunthu. Zitha kukhala chakudya chamadzulo ndi kanema, kapena kuyenda mu paki yokongola - zipangitsa kuti zikhale zosaiwalika. Ngati mukupita naye kukadya chakudya chamadzulo, onetsetsani kuti menyu ndi yomwe amakonda. Ngati ndinu mwamuna yemwe mukuyesera kukopa mtima wa mkazi mutasokoneza, lingaliro labwino lingakhale kukonzanso tsiku loyamba kapena tsiku lina lililonse lomwe lili ndi tanthauzo lapadera kwa inu ngati banja. 

Onetsetsani kuti ngakhale ndi razmataz yonse, inu anyamata mumapeza nthawi ndi malo kuti mugwirizane pamlingo wozama. Cholinga cha tsiku ndi kupanga tsiku kulumikizana kwamaganizidwe ndi kupanga mphamvu imeneyo. Popanda izi, kukongola konse kopanda kanthu sikungakuthandizeni kupambana mtima wake.

11. Kodi kupambana mtima mkazi Intaneti? Chitani naye

Ngati mwamuwonjeza pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kapena kumulumikiza pa pulogalamu ya zibwenzi, mungafune kudziwa momwe mungapindulire mtima wa mkazi pa intaneti. Yambani ndikupeza masewera anu a meme pa mfundo. Muyikeni muzithunzi zoseketsa, zogwirizana. Monga zithunzi zake. Ngati adalembapo mawu oti angodzuka, perekani ndemanga ndi malingaliro anu osamveka ngati cheesy. Ngati mutapambana masewerawa, nthawi iliyonse akafuna kucheza kosangalatsa, chinthu choyamba chomwe angachite ndikulemberani.

Malangizo awa, komabe, amangogwira ntchito ngati mukudziwa mkazi yemwe mwamuwonjeza pazama media. Ngati mwapanga chibwenzi pa intaneti kokha, ndingakulimbikitseni kuti musapite kukam'nyengerera. Pali mwayi inu akhoza kukhumudwa ndi mwamuna yemwe amadzinamizira kuti ndi dona wokondeka kuti akufinyireni mphatso zodula.

12. Khalani omasuka kukumana ndi anzake 

Ngati mukufuna kusungunula mtima wa mkazi, muyenera kupambana anzake. Munthu - kaya mwamuna kapena mkazi - amakhala omasuka kwambiri pafupi ndi anzawo. Kuvomereza kwa mabwenzi awo pa inu kungakhale kofunikira. Ngakhale mukuchita chidwi ndi gulu la anzanu, simuyenera kusewera munthu wina. Yambani mwamanyazi pang'ono, yesani kuvina kwa bwenzi lanu ndipo pamapeto pake, phatikizani. Kukambitsirana nawo bwino ndi momwe mumapindulira mtima wa mkazi ndi mawu. 

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13. Mudzisunge

"Khala wekha" ndi mawu ovuta, omvera! Amatanthauziridwa mosiyana pang'ono. Kukhala nokha kumatanthauza kuti musakoke chophimba cha umunthu wosiyana ngati mukufuna kupambana mtima wa mkazi kwamuyaya. Pewani kunama, kupanga zinthu zomwe mulibe m'moyo wanu, kapena kudziwonetsa ngati munthu yemwe simuli. Ndi bwino kuvomereza zimene simungathe kuchita. 

Kuona mtima ndi zowona ndizofunika kwambiri ngati mukuyang'ana ubale wokhalitsa komanso wokwaniritsa. Mukamadziwonetsa nokha, mumadzidalira kwambiri ndipo izi zimakulitsa mwayi wanu wopambana mtsikanayo. Kumbali ina, chithunzithunzi chamkati chidzachititsa kuti mutayika, mwinamwake kwamuyaya.

Tsopano popeza takambirana njira zosavuta, mungafunse kuti, “Kodi njira yabwino yopezera mtima wa mkazi ndi iti? Njira yabwino yokopa mkazi ndiyo kupeza njira yomwe mumadzidalira kwambiri, tsatirani ndi mtima wanu wonse, ndipo khalani oleza mtima. Chibwenzi chimatenga nthawi, abale!

Tikufunanso kukuchenjezani kuti mukhale osamala. Pamene mukumuwonetsa ndi mtima wanu, muyenera kudziwa zizindikiro zomwe akukutsogolerani. Sitinafune kutulutsa kuwira kwanu kokongola, koma monga madokotala onse anzeru amanenera, "Kupewa kuli bwino kuposa kuchiza!" Tikukhulupirira kuti kugwiritsa ntchito njirazi kukusindikizirani malo mu mtima wa mkazi wanu komanso kuti anyamata inu mukhale mosangalala mpaka kalekale.

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