Mukuyesera kupeza momwe mungathetsere chikondi chanu choyamba. Cholinga chabwino. Koma pakali pano, zonse zimakukumbutsani za iwo. Malo ogulitsira khofi amenewo? "malo" anu. Nyimbo imeneyo? Nyimbo yanu. Ngakhale mlendo mwachisawawa atavala cologne wawo? Kuwononga maganizo. Mudzadziwa kuti mukadakakamirabe mukapeza kuti mukuwerenganso zolemba zakale ngati zakale […]
Pamene zizindikiro zomwe sanakuganizirenipo zikuyang'anitsitsani, simungachitire mwina koma kudzimenya nokha kuti ndinu opusa mpaka kutengeka maganizo ndi mwamuna yemwe mumamukonda ndi mtima wanu wonse. Kodi ndikudziwa bwanji izi? Ndinali kumeneko, zachisoni. Zomwe zimawoneka ngati moyo wapitawo, ndinagwidwa
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“Sindingathe kuleka kukuganizirani” ndi mawu amene anthu ambiri amawanena mutangoyamba kumene kukondana, pamene mumangotengeka maganizo. Zinthu zikamapita patsogolo, kutengeka mtima kumachepa ndikusintha kukhala chikondi chokhazikika, ndipo sikuti nthawi zonse mumangoganizira za munthu amene wakumenyedwayo.
Kukanidwa ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zosapeŵeka m’moyo, makamaka pankhani ya zilakolako zachikondi. Kaya ndi kupwetekedwa mtima kwa mwayi wophonya ndi munthu wapadera kapena kupwetekedwa mtima komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha kuvomereza kosapambana, kukana kukanidwa kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Koma kumvetsetsa momwe mungathanirane ndi kukanidwa ndi kusweka kungakuthandizeni osati kokha
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Pearl S. Buck, yemwe analandira Mphotho ya Nobel, ananena kuti: “Chikondi sichingaumirizidwe, chikondi sichingaumirizidwe ndi kusekedwa.” Chimatuluka kumwamba, osafunsidwa ndiponso osachifuna. Mwina lingaliro la chikondi lomwe lanenedwa m'mawu awa ndi lakale pang'ono, popeza tonse tikudziwa kuti ngakhale ubale wachikondi kwambiri umafunika khama lochokera kwa onse awiri.
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Chikondi ndi chimodzi mwa malingaliro ovuta kwambiri, ndipo nthawi zina chimapweteka monga momwe chimabweretsera chisangalalo. Ndikofunikira kudziwa chifukwa chake zingakupwetekeni, kapena chifukwa chake mukuthawa. Werengani kuti mudziwe chifukwa chake chikondi chimapweteka komanso choti muchite.
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Chimodzi mwa zovuta zazikulu zomwe zimayambira paunyamata ndi kukhala ndi zikwapu. Ndipo kuphwanya kumabwera mafunso osatha, otchuka kwambiri: Kodi amandikondanso? Ngati mumam'konda kwambiri ndipo simunaulule, ndiye kuti mwachibadwa mungayambe kudabwa momwe amakuonerani. Tiyeni tikhazikike maganizo anu. M'malo mwa
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Kuphunzira kuthana ndi kusweka si njira yophweka. Ndi zopinga zina ndi zolepheretsa zina panjira, ulendowu udzakupangitsani kukhala otanganidwa komanso odabwitsa. Komabe, nthawi zambiri, ndi njira yoyenera kwa inu.
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Kukondana ndi munthu amene simunamukonde n’kovutitsa maganizo. Onani malangizo othandiza amomwe mungalekerere kukonda munthu amene alibe chidwi ndi inu.
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