Kachisi ku Kerala komwe anthu a transgender amakumana kuti asangalale

Kufalitsa chikondi

(Mayina asinthidwa kuti ateteze anthu)

Chikondwerero chovala chovala cha amuna ku Kerala

M'ndandanda wazopezekamo

"Mafunso ali bwino?" Renji anafunsa komaliza asanatuluke mu green room. Anadziyang'ana pagalasi. Anali atavala chiffon sari ya maroon, yokhala ndi sequins pamenepo. Nkhope yake inawala kwambiri ndi chisangalalo kuposa chifukwa chamyavilakku iye anali atanyamula.

Renji anali munthu wa transgender wochokera ku Palakkad, Kerala.

Iye anali kupezeka pa chamyavilakku pakachisi wa Kottankulangara, Kollam, Kerala kwa nthawi yachisanu ndi chiwiri. Chikondwerero, chopereka, cha amuna amisinkhu yonse, kuvala mopingasa ngati akazi. Anadzikongoletsa ndi zodzikongoletsera ndi kukongoletsa nkhope zawo ndi zopakapaka zokhuthala. Amuna adachita izi ngati chiyamiko chifukwa cha madalitso a mulungu wamkazi Vanadurga.

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Kukondwerera mulungu wamkazi Vanadurga

Nthano imanena kuti abusa a ng'ombe omwe anali atapuma m'deralo anayesa kuthyola kokonati pamwala ndipo mwalawo unayamba kutuluka magazi. Wotsatira devaprashnam adawulula kupezeka kwa mulungu wamkazi Vanadurga m'derali ndipo adamangidwira kachisi. Aweta ng'ombe ovala ngati akazi anachita poojas nthawi yoyamba. Izi zadzetsa mwambo wa chamyavilakku zimachitika masiku awiri chaka chilichonse malinga ndi kalendala ya Chimalayalam. Anthu amtundu wa Transgender ochokera kudera lonselo adadzaza kachisi masiku awiriwo. Ndipotu, amayembekezera masiku a chamyavilakku.

Anali masiku amenewo omwe amawalola kusonyeza zomwe ali, umunthu wawo weniweni, mopanda manyazi.
Panali zikwi zambiri monga Renji ochokera kumadera osiyanasiyana a India, ogwirizana mu ufumu wa Mulungu. Nthawizo zinali ngati kubwerera kwawo kwa iwo, omwe amayenera kukhala obisa zokhumba zawo kwa anthu. Anaseka, kukambirana, kutsitsimula ubwenzi wawo, ndipo anapatukana ndi lonjezo lakuti adzakumananso.

Ena, monga ine, anadabwa ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo anasokonezeka ndi chisangalalo chawo.

Kodi simukufuna selfie?

"Ukuwoneka wokongola," mnzake Charumani waku Andhra Pradesh anatero ndi kunyezimira kwachikondi m'maso mwake. Onse anaseka ndikutuluka, osanyalanyaza mlendo wokhumudwa, ine.

“Ndinkafuna kulankhula nanu,” ndinatero ndikuthamangira kumbuyo kwawo.

Onse awiri anayima ndikundiyang'ana uku kumwetulira kobisika kuseri kwa milomo yawo. Manyazi opanda chifukwa, popanda chifukwa, anakwawira mkati mwanga. Kodi akundinyoza? Ndinakhala chete kwa kanthaŵi, chifukwa ndinadziŵa kuti ndikhoza kuchita chibwibwi chiganizo china.

Mwina ndine munthu woyamba amene ndinafuna kulankhula nawo. Ambiri ankafuna selfie. Mwachionekere, anthu nthaŵi zonse anali ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa za anthu amene sanatsatire zimene linanena. Anthu odutsa awa asankha kuyenda m'njira yomwe adafuna, njira yachikondi. Iwo akanatha kuzibisa kwa ena, koma anali asanakonzekere zimenezo.

“Kungoyankhula basi!” Renji anaseka. "Kodi sukufuna selfie?"

Ndife zinthu zosangalatsa

“Nthawi zambiri anthu salankhula nafe, amangofuna ma selfies okha,” adatero Charumani. “Ndife chinthu chosangalatsa.

"Zikuwoneka kuti mukusungirabe chakukhosi anthu." Ndinapukusa mutu. Anthu ambiri a m'dera lanu achita zinthu zapamwamba kwambiri. Pakhala kusintha koonekeratu pa mmene anthu amakuonerani.

“N’zoona,” Renji anavomereza motero. Koma zingatengenso zaka khumi, kuti anthu ambiri azitiona ngati anthu wamba.

Ndinalibe yankho lililonse pa zimenezo. Tinakambirana pafupifupi theka la ola, asanakumane ndi anzawo ochokera kumadera ena a dzikolo. Renji anandidziŵikitsa kwa banja lina lachibale, Ramana ndi Vishwa. Iwo akhala pamodzi kuyambira mu 2001. Ndinadabwa kuona kuti sanali banja lokhalo.

Renji adandidziwikitsa kwa pafupifupi khumi ndi awiri a iwo.

Sosaite idakali kutali ndi kuwalandira

Kenako Renji ananena chinsinsi, “Tiyamba kukhala limodzi posachedwapa, ine ndi Charu.” Iye anatsinzina. Chisangalalo chosaipitsidwa chinawonekera pankhope yake. Charumani adagwira dzanja lake lamanja ndikumwetulira mwachikondi.

"Kodi udzakhala wokondwa?" Ndinakweza nsidze.

Onse anaseka mwamwano. Ndinatha kumvetsa kuti funso langa linali lopusa. Kodi miyambo ya anthu ndi yotani ikakhala pamodzi kuchokera pansi pamtima? Komano, kodi anthu angavomereze ukwati wawo? Ndinakumbukira mwadzidzidzi kuti tikukhala m'dziko limene IPC Gawo 377 likulemekezedwabe.

Kodi si nthawi yoti tisinthe malingaliro athu, malingaliro athu, kwa iwo?

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