Munali mu November 1998. Ndinali nditangosamukira kumene ku Bengaluru monga mkazi wokwatiwa kumene. Ndinali nditapuma pantchito yanga ndipo ndinasiya moyo wanga ku Delhi kuti ndikayambe moyo watsopano mu Uru wokhala ndi mitengo. Sindinkadziwa anthu ambiri mumzindawu ndipo anzanga ambiri ankabwera kudzera mwa mwamuna wanga.
Apa m'pamene ndinapeza mnzanga wamoyo pa zokambirana za khofi ndi ukwati. Zinali zadzidzidzi koma zamatsenga kwambiri, kotero kuti ndimaganizirabe za masiku amenewo ndikusangalatsidwa. Kodi ndizabwinobwino kukhala ndi agulugufe m'mimba mwanu zaka zonsezi?
Kukopana, Chikondi, Khofi Ndi Ukwati
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ndinayamba kukondana ndi mwamuna wanga ndipo pofika kumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 90, tinakwatirana. Ndinkadziwa kuti cholinga chake chinali kuyambira pachiyambi. Nkhani yathu ndi yosakanikirana bwino kwa malingaliro ndi zochita. Chikondi chomwe chinkayamba kuoneka koyamba chomwe pang'onopang'ono chinasintha kukhala chinthu chomwe nthawi zambiri chimakhala chokoma, nthawi zina chowawa, komanso chokhalitsa. Mofanana ndi kumwa koyamba khofi.
Sindikudziwa liti kapena bwanji, koma tinasamukira mosavutikira m'moyo wapakhomo wina ndi mnzake - ndimamuphikira, amanditumizira khofi mwachikondi, titasamukira limodzi, timakhala ndi mikangano yopusa kenako ndikupanga (ndi kupanga!) kwa maola.
Bengaluru anali wosiyana ndi Delhi
Bengaluru ankamva mosiyana kwambiri ndi Delhi. Infosys, Wipro, Microland mosalekeza adatulukira pazokambirana zondizungulira. Sizingakhale kukokomeza kunena kuti ndinali katswiri waukadaulo ndipo mwamuna wanga anali wosiyana.
Iye ankayendetsa kampani yake yopereka upangiri (Inde, ndine woyamba m'banja langa lonse kukwatiwa ndi munthu wochita bizinesi. Ndikutsimikiza kuti achibale anga ndi anzanga ayenera kuti anamvera chisoni kwambiri mdzukulu wawo wa bewakoof amene anasankha munthu wina osati m'boma).
Titakhazikika m’nyumba yathu yofanana ndi ya Zen (chabwino, inali nyumba yopanda mipando), ndinatsatira mwamuna wanga kulikonse kumene amapita. Anali ndi laputopu koma kunyumba kunalibe foni.
Sindikukumbukira kuti aliyense mdera lathu anali ndi intaneti kunyumba nthawi imeneyo. Pa ntchito yake yonse yovomerezeka monga kutumiza maimelo ndi makalata, mwamuna wanga amayenera kupita ku cafe ya pa intaneti. Inali bonasi kwa ife popeza tonse timakonda malo odyera ang'onoang'ono okongola komanso nkhani za khofi ndi ukwati ndi chikondi.
Chiyambi changa ku CCD
Umu ndi momwe, ndinadziwidwira koyamba ku Tsiku la Café Coffee pa msewu wa Brigade wotanganidwa womwe unali malo ogulitsira khofi-cum-cyber café. Pamene ndimalowa mu CCD, ndinaganiza kuti inali yabwino komanso yabwino kuposa chilichonse chomwe ndimakonda ku New Delhi.
Panali china chake chokhudza mphamvu za malo amenewo ndipo ndidakonda nthawi yomweyo. Anapereka makeke abwino kwambiri ndikutsanulira khofi wanga mwachikondi, zomwe zinangosintha maganizo anga oipa kukhala abwino.
Ngakhale kuti tinali okwatirana kale, panali chithumwa chokhudza malowa zomwe zinapangitsa kuti tiziwoneka ngati tinali okondana achichepere. Khofi ndi zibwenzi zimayendera limodzi, koma kwa ife, chinali khofi ndi ukwati. Zomwe zachitika pa CCD imeneyo zangowonjezera chidwi ku ubale wathu.
Makapu a cappuccino okhala ndi thovu ankamveka ngati achikondi komanso okoma, monga momwe ndimakhalira ndi moyo watsopano. Pafupifupi tsiku lililonse, ndinkapita naye ku CCD, kucheza, kumwa khofi, komanso kumudziwa bwino. Palibe chonga khofi wabwino komanso kukambirana bwino komwe kumalimbikitsa chikondi muubwenzi!
Ku CCD ndinalandira ID yanga yoyamba ya imelo
Titakhala pamodzi, tsiku lina mwamuna wanga anatsegula akaunti ya Hotmail m'dzina langa (ndithudi kuwonjezera dzina lake lachibale ku dzina langa). “Ndi ID yachigololo,” anali kuganiza kwake) ngakhale kuti ndinalibe chikhumbo chofuna kutchula dzina lake.
Monga mkazi wodzipereka, ndidapereka maimelo a anzanga angapo kuti alembe zolemba zowadziwitsa za kupezeka kwanga. Kotero, kunali ku CCD, Brigade Road, komwe kunandithandizira ulendo wanga weniweni, ngakhale mothandizidwa kwambiri ndi mwamuna wanga.
Kofi wina ndi nthabwala
Kodi ukwati ndi chiyani popanda zosangalatsa, sichoncho? Chabwino, chochititsa chidwi ndi chakuti monga mwamuna wanga anali ndi mwayi wopeza mawu achinsinsi anga, usiku wina wabwino pamene anapita ku CCD yekha, ndipo analembera maimelo kwa anzanga (kuphatikizapo okondedwa wanga wakale) kuwauza za momwe moyo wanga waukwati ulili wokongola komanso wosangalatsa komanso momwe mwamuna wanga alili wabwino komanso wachikondi.
Kwa abwenzi anga komanso chidwi chachikondi, imelo iyi idadabwitsa (omwe amandidziwa bwino akudziwa kuti sindine munthu wongokhalira kukakamira mzawo/wokonda, kuyiwala za mwamuna kapena ukwati).
Anthu osalakwa awa, pamene akusangalala ndi gawo lawo la Wills Flake ndi rum punch mu galasi lachitsulo, adadabwa ndi imelo yanga yachilendo ya 'gush gush'. Koma kenako, mu 'mkhalidwe wawo wa Wills-rum', adadzudzula chifukwa cha 'mahomoni achimwemwe a masiku oyambirira a ukwati. '
Inde, ndinafulumira kuona prank iyi yomwe mwamuna wanga ankaimba ndipo posakhalitsa ndinasintha mawu achinsinsi. M’miyezi yoŵerengeka, ndinayamba kugwira ntchito ndipo m’kupita kwa nthaŵi kuyendera kwa CCD kunakhala kochepa. Koma CCD nthawi zonse ankandimwetulira.
CCD nthawi zonse ikhala mbali ya nkhani zaukwati wathu
Ukwati uliwonse uli ndi nkhani zake zogwirika komanso zosagwira. Zowoneka zimabwera ndi gawo lawo la nkhani, kukumbukira chisangalalo, kulimbana ndi mgwirizano.
Nkhani zowoneka za makolo anga zidazungulira wailesi ya Philips yomwe adagula mu Julayi, 1969 kuti amvetsere nkhani ya Neil Armstrong akuyenda mwezi, kapena TV ya Konark yomwe adagula koyambirira kwa 1985 patangotha miyezi ingapo Rajiv Gandhi adakhala nduna yayikulu kwambiri m'dzikolo kapena masala owoneka bwino omwe adagawana nawo m'malo odyera osagwirizana ndi Madras.
Kwa iwo, Philips, Alwyn kapena Konark sanali ma brand, anali ochulukirapo kuposa pamenepo. Mitundu iyi imayimira moyo wawo womwe amagawana nawo ngati banja lachinyamata lomwe likukonzekera ulendo wawo ndi zomwe ali nazo.
Nkhani za imfa ya VG Siddhartha zikafika, ndimayang'ana mmbuyo ku Café Coffee Day ndikumva khofi ndi chikondi, komanso matsenga omwe adawonjezera pa ubale wanga. Malo ogulitsiramo mu Brigade Road omwe tinkakonda kuyendera ngati banja laling'ono kulibenso (Inatseka shopu mu Epulo chaka chino). Pambuyo pa zaka 20 za m’banja langa, masiku aja amene ndinkakhala ku CCD, Brigade Road ndikukhalabe osangalala.
Sindinakumanepo ndi a VG Siddhartha ndipo komabe, mwa njira zachilendo, imfa yake imabweretsa malingaliro otayika komanso opweteka. Monga moyo, zokumbukira zogwirika zimakhalanso za sepia-toned. Koma palinso zamatsenga mwa izo.
Khofi sanalawepo bwino. Pamwamba pa zonsezi, Siddhartha adatipatsa kukoma kwa tanthauzo la kukhala ndi khofi kuchokera ku nyemba zobiriwira zomwe zimabzalidwa kunyumba. Chimenecho chidzakhala cholowa chake chamtengo wapatali. Pankhani yanga ndekha, ogwira ntchito omwe amamwa khofi mwachikondi ku CCD, adapangitsa kuti ukwati wanga ndi mwamuna wanga ukhale wapadera kwambiri.
Zikomo, Siddhartha… chifukwa cha zikumbukiro zabwino zonse zomwe tidapanga m'masiku athu oyambilira a khofi ndi ukwati titakhala momasuka pa Tsiku lanu la Café Coffee. Chikondi chochuluka chinachitika pa khofi. Ndipo chikondi chikupitiriza kukula.
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
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