Ubale wakutali ukhoza kukhala wovuta, ndipo chifukwa chimodzi chachikulu ndizovuta kuti zokambirana zikhale zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa. Nthawi zambiri, maanja amapezeka kuti ali ndi mafunso odziwikiratu monga, "Kodi mudadya?" kapena “Tsiku lanu linali bwanji?” Ngakhale kuti zimenezi n’zofunika, nthawi zambiri sizimayambitsa kukambirana. Pofuna kukuthandizani kuti kulumikizana kwanu kukhale kolimba, taphatikiza mitu 35 yolankhulirana yakutali yomwe ingawonjezere kuya, kusangalatsa, komanso chisangalalo paubwenzi wanu.
Mitu 35 Yabwino Kwambiri Yokambirana pa Ubale Wapa Utali
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Ngati mukukanda mutu pamitu yabwino yolankhulirana mtunda wautali, dziwani kuti simuli nokha. Chimodzi mwa zofala kwambiri mavuto a ubale wautali akusowa zolankhula. Chinsinsi ndicho kukumbukira kuti kukambirana kwakukulu kumayamba ndi chidwi. Muyenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wa mnzanuyo. Izi zokha zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chiyambi chabwino choyambitsa zokambirana pamameseji kapena mafoni ndikupitilira ndi mafunso osangalatsa a LDR.
Phunzirani chinyengo kuti mufunse mafunso oyenera okhudzana ndi mtunda wautali pafoni. Nazi zoyambira 35 zakutali kuti zikuthandizeni:
1. Funsani mafunso ovuta
Mukangofunsa kuti, "Tsiku lanu linali bwanji?" yembekezerani mayankho amtundu umodzi monga chabwino, chabwino, chotopetsa, ndi zina zotero. M'malo mwake, kuti mukambirane bwino, funsani mafunso osangalatsa ngati:
- "Muli bwanji lero?"
- Kodi ndi gawo liti lomwe mumakonda kwambiri patsikuli?
2. Yang'anirani thanzi lawo
Chimodzi mwazinthu zodziwika bwino zoyambira mtunda wautali ndikulimbitsa thupi. Kulimbitsa thupi ndizovuta kwambiri ndipo ambiri aife tikukhala moyo wongokhala kuposa kale. Choncho, khalani ndi chizoloŵezi choyang'ana mnzanuyo nthawi ndi nthawi ndikumufunsa momwe akumvera mwakuthupi: kodi akuwonjezera kunenepa, kumva kufooka, etc. Dziwani zomwe zikuchitika ndi thupi lawo.
3. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi thanzi lawo m'maganizo
Kusamalira Thanzi labwino ndizofunikira, makamaka paubwenzi wautali. Muuzeni zakukhosi kwanu ndipo limbikitsani mnzanuyo kuchita chimodzimodzi. Kambiranani za mavuto, nkhawa, kapena nkhawa zomwe angakhale nazo. Kukhalapo mwamalingaliro komanso kuchirikiza pazokambiranazi kungalimbitse mgwirizano wanu ndikupanga malo otetezeka pachiwopsezo.
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4. Kambiranani zosankha za zakudya
Ngati zokambirana zanu sizikuyenda paliponse ndi mafunso monga, "Munali ndi chakudya chamadzulo chiyani?" Kenako muwafunse kuti, “Mukadasangalala ndi chiyani m’malo mwake?” M'malo mwake, pitani mtunda wowonjezera ndipo muwadabwitse poyitanitsa chakudya chomwe akuchilakalaka. Ngati wanu mnzake ndi wokonda kudya, izi zidzakhudza zolemba zonse zoyenera. Apo ayi, kufunsa zomwe angakonde kudya, kungakupatseni chithunzithunzi cha kukoma kwa mnzanuyo ndi zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda.
6. Gawani nkhani zanu zoledzera
Aliyense amachita mosiyana pambuyo pake kuledzera ndipo ichi chimakhala chimodzi mwazokambirana zabwino kwambiri zamaubwenzi apatali. Lankhulani za momwe mumakhalira kapena momwe mumamvera mukamamwa mowa. Gawani nkhani zoseketsa kapena zosaiŵalika za nthawi zomwe mudakhala nazo zambiri kapena zomwe mwachita bwino. Mukhozanso kukambilana zomwe mungakonde pothana ndi vuto pamene wina wa inu ali wodziwa bwino, akumayembekezera zomwe mukuyembekezera.
7. Gawani zidebe zanu
Imodzi mwamitu yabwino kwambiri yolankhulirana mtunda wautali ndikulankhula za mndandanda wa ndowa zanu. Ndani akudziwa zinthu zonse zachisawawa komanso zosangalatsa zomwe muli nazo. Zingakhale kukwera baluni yotentha, kupita ku Olimpiki kapena kukwera hatchi pamphepete mwa nyanja, zikhoza kukhala chirichonse. Muli ndi mwayi pomwepo kuti mukambirane. Igwireni. Ndiye mukhoza kupanga ntchito zaubwenzi wautali mozungulira icho.
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8. Kambiranani za anthu ofunika pa moyo wanu
Achibale anu ndi anzanu akhoza kukhala imodzi mwa nkhani zanu zakutali pa foni. Gawani nkhani za banja lanu ndi abwenzi apamtima, molunjika pa umunthu wawo, zovuta, ndi ubale wanu ndi iwo. Izi zimathandiza wokondedwa wanu kumverera kuti ali ogwirizana kwambiri ndi dziko lanu ndipo amamanga kumvetsetsa kwakuya kwa maubwenzi anu kunja kwa chikondi chanu. Kukambirana kwakutali kumeneku kungokufikitsani pafupi ndikukuthandizani kuti mukhale ogwirizana.
9. Gawani mbiri yanu yachipatala
Kukambirana mbiri yanu yachipatala ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri zokambirana mitu. Muuzeni mnzanuyo za mbiri yanu yachipatala, momwe mulili, komanso mantha omwe mumakumana nawo. Zidzakubweretsani pafupi ngati banja.
10. Sinthanitsani nkhani zaubwana
Imodzi mwa nkhani zabwino kwambiri zokambilana patali ndikulankhula za kukumbukira ubwana wanu. Gawani zithunzi za mwana wanu ndi zithunzi zina zamagulu osiyanasiyana amoyo ndikusangalala ndi nthawizo ndi munthu amene mumamukonda.
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11. Gawani nkhani zazikuluzikulu zatsiku ndi tsiku
Ngati wina wa inu ali wotanganidwa kwambiri kuti asamve nkhani zatsiku, mutha kugawana ndikusinthana wina ndi mnzake. Ndipotu, ngati inu nonse mukukhala m’mayiko osiyanasiyana, zidzakuthandizani kumvetsa zimene zikuchitika m’mayiko osiyanasiyana.
12. Gawani nkhani za mizimu
Nali limodzi mwamafunso ovuta kufunsa bwenzi lanu lakutali. Nthawi zonse timadziwa bwenzi la mnzako yemwe adakumana ndi zoopsa zina. Ndipo timakonda kubwereza zochitika zawo. Nkhanizi zimatha kupanga makambirano osangalatsa akutali pafoni pakanthawi kochepa. Zoposa zonse, ngati mnzanuyo asokonezedwa ndi nkhani zoterezi.
13. Kambiranani mozama za chuma chanu
Nthawi zambiri, anthu amapewa kulankhula ndi wina aliyense za mavuto awo azachuma koma siziyenera kukhala choncho mukakhala paubwenzi ndi munthu wina. Mwaima pati pazachuma? Kodi muyenera kusunga ndalama? Kodi muli ndi ndalama zolipirira zikubwerazi? Izi ndi zambiri zomwe wokondedwa wanu ayenera kudziwa ngati muli pachibwenzi chokhalitsa.
Tikukulangizani kuti mulankhule za izi pama foni anu akutali ausiku m'malo motumizirana mameseji. Kupatula kukupatsani inu ndi mnzanu zina zoti mukambirane, izi zidzakuthandizaninso kupewa mavuto azachuma mu ubale wanu.
14. Lankhulani za chikondwerero chanu chabwino chobadwa
Ndani akunena kuti simungathe kukondwerera masiku obadwa ngati muli paubwenzi wautali? Mungathedi! Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikulankhulana pa foni ndi bwenzi lanu mtunda wautali pazomwe akuyembekezera kuti tsiku lawo lobadwa liwonekere. Kenako Konzani chikondwerero chonse potengera zomwe apereka. Pangani kanema wopanga, woganizira, ayitanitsa chakudya ndi mphatso zomwe mukuganiza kuti angasangalale nazo. Khalani ndi zokambirana izi musanachitike ndipo mutha kutithokoza pambuyo pake.
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15. Gawani miseche ya anthu oyandikana nawo
Chimodzi mwa magwero abwino kwambiri a sewero omwe timawanyalanyaza mosavuta ndi anansi athu. Tonsefe tili ndi anansi athu ndipo sitigwirizana nthawi zonse ndi ena a iwo. Ngati ali abwino komanso okoma mtima, ndiye kuti ndinu amwayi. Ngati sichoncho, mnzanuyo adzakhalapo kuti amvetsere zomwe mukunena za iwo.
Ndiko kulondola, mutu wina waubwenzi wautali ungakhale wouza mnzanu za mnansi wanu. Landirani zonse zomwe mukufuna.
16. Auzeni nthano zanu zochititsa manyazi
Aliyense wa ife adakhalapo ndi chimenecho (ngati muli ndi mwayi) kapena zokumana nazo zambiri zomwe zidatisiya tikukhumba kuti nthaka ikatimeze tonse. Nkhani zochititsa manyazizi zingakhale zosangalatsa zinthu zoti tikambirane mu ubale wautali. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikulongosola zochitika zingapo pambuyo pa zina ndipo maola amadutsa ndi mnzanu akugubuduza ndi kuseka.
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17. Gawani nyimbo playlists
Mukuyang'ana mafunso oti mufunse bwenzi lanu lakutali? Funsani za wojambula yemwe amamukonda ndikugawananso mndandanda wanyimbo zanu. Mungadabwe kudziŵa zimene amakonda kapena mungaone kuti nyimbo zimene mumakonda n’zofanana. Mulimonse momwe zingakhalire, kuyandikira manambala amoyo ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana wina ndi mnzake.
18. Kambiranani za malo ochezera a pa Intaneti
Ichi chikhoza kukhala chimodzi mwazokambirana zabwino kwambiri zamaubwenzi apatali. Tonse takhala tikudutsa nthawi imeneyo titakhala chete ndikungoyang'ana maakaunti osiyanasiyana ochezera pomwe tikuyimbirana ndi anzathu.
Chifukwa chomwe mukufuna kukhala olumikizana koma mulibe choyankhula. M'malo mwake, tikupangira, bwanji osawauza ndikuwafunsa za mitundu yonse ya zolemba zomwe mukukumana nazo. Pitani mtunda wowonjezera ndikugawana nawo meme yaubwenzi wautali pomwe muda LOLed 2 masekondi apitawo.
19. Ganiziraninso za masiku akusukulu
Masiku akusukulu ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zosangalatsa kukambirana muubwenzi wautali. Kodi mwaphonya masiku amenewo kapena mukungosangalala kuti atha? Yendani paulendo wopita kumalo okumbukira ndikuwuza mnzanuyo zinthu zonse zomwe mudadana nazo komanso zomwe mumakonda za kukhala kusekondale.
20. Pangani zochitika zongoganizira
Uwu ndi mutu womwe ndimakonda kwambiri paubwenzi wautali. Mukungoyenera kupanga zochitika zodzipangitsa kukhulupirira ndiyeno funsani mnzanuyo zomwe angachite pamalo oterowo. Zimakupatsani chidziwitso pamalingaliro awo ndikukuthandizani kumvetsetsa momwe mnzanuyo angachitire pamikhalidwe yosiyanasiyana.
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21. Pangani mapulani atchuthi
Kukonzekera nthawi ina mukadzaonana wina ndi mzake ndi lingaliro lomwe lidzawononge malingaliro anu muubwenzi wautali. Mutha kukhala mukuganizira nthawi zonse zomwe inu ndi mnzanuyo mumatha kukumana. Ndiye bwanji osagawana izi ndi okondedwa anu ndikukonzekera tchuthi limodzi.
Zikadathandiza kuti wina ndi mnzake azisangalala. Itha kukhalanso imodzi mwamitu yabwino kwambiri yolankhulirana mtunda wautali: kuyankhula za komwe mukufuna kupita kutchuthi. Ubwino umodzi wa maubwenzi apatali ndikuti nthawi zonse mumakhala ndi zomwe mukuyembekezera, choncho gwiritsani ntchito bwino kuti motowo ukhale wamoyo.
22. Pewani miseche ya muofesi
Nthawi zina, moyo wathu wantchito umatisokoneza. Ndipo zomwe tikufuna kuchita ndikupita kunyumba kukakambirana ndi anzathu za yemwe akumva kuwawa nthawi ino. Kusakhala ndi mnzathu kunyumba ndizovuta. Koma Hei, mutha kuwayimbira foni nthawi zonse ndikumalankhula zonse zomwe mumakonda zandale zaofesi komanso miseche. Izi zimakhala ngati imodzi mwamitu yomwe imatenga nthawi yayitali pamakambirano akutali.
23. Gawani zithunzi zakale
Mukudabwa zomwe mungalankhule muubwenzi wautali? Lingaliro limodzi ndikutenga ulendo wa nostalgic ndikugawana zithunzi zanu zakale. Ganiziraninso za nthawi yomwe mumakhala limodzi.
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24. Kambiranani zolimbitsa thupi
Ngakhale mtunda ukukupangitsani kutali, muyenerabe kusamala thanzi la wina ndi mzake. Njira yabwino yochitira izi ndikugawana dongosolo lanu lolimbitsa thupi. Mudziwitseni mnzanu zomwe mwakhala mukuchita ndikuwadziwitsa za zomwe mumachita nthawi zonse, zitha kuwalimbikitsa kuti adzisamalire bwino.
25. Funsani mafunso opanda pake
Ngati mukusowa zinthu zoti mukambirane, dziwani kuti sikoyenera kuchita zinthu zokhwima ndi mnzanu nthawi zonse pamene muli ndi zokambirana zakutali. Awonetseni mbali yanu yopusa pofunsa mafunso oseketsa, opusa, opanda pake a LDR. Musanazindikire, kukambirana kwanu kumayamba kuyenda pamutu wina kupita pa wina. Mukhozanso kuyang'ana zina mafunso masewera kwa maanja akutali kuti awonjezere zosangalatsa pazokambirana.
26. Kambiranani za ziweto zoweta
Nkhani zokambilana paubwenzi wautali sizikhala za zinthu zokongola komanso zoseketsa. Mutha kugawana nawo zinthu zomwe zimakukwiyitsani kapena kukukhumudwitsani. Mwachitsanzo: kukwiya ngati wina wasiya zovala zonyowa pabedi kapena sakukonza atamaliza kukhitchini.
27. Lankhulani za zizolowezi zanu
Ngati mukutopa ndikusowa zolankhula, ingolankhulani za zizolowezi zanu. Auzeni ngati ndinu kadzidzi wausiku kapena wotuluka msanga. Auzeni kuti mumakonda kudya msanga kapena ngati mukugona. Njira iyi imatha kutsegulirani zinthu zambiri zoti mukambirane ndi bwenzi lanu pafoni.
28. Limbikitsani kukambirana za malire a ubale
Ngati mukutha mafunso oti mufunse muubwenzi wanu wautali, ndiye kulankhula za malire ndi mfundo yabwino yoyambira. Dziwani zambiri za mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya malire mutha kukhazikitsa kuti ubale wanu ukhale wolimba. Gawani ndi okondedwa anu zomwe zimakupezani ndi zomwe sizikupeza, zomwe zimakuthandizani ndi zomwe sizikuthandizani. Wokondedwa wanu ayenera kudziwa pamene mukujambula mzere.
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29. Pangani mndandanda wazinthu zamtsogolo zanyumba
Lota za moyo womwe mungamange limodzi mtunda ukakhala kuti sulinso vuto. Kambiranani za mtundu wa nyumba yomwe mungakonde kugawana nayo—yopanda tsankho kapena yabwino, nyumba yamzinda kapena malo akumidzi. Kambiranani za:
- Malingaliro opangira
- Maloto mipando
- Kapena ngakhale mtundu wa makoma.
Ndi njira yopepuka yolimbikitsira tsogolo lanu ngati banja.
30. Gawani maganizo pa zojambula ndi kuboola thupi
Mukamalankhula pa foni, kufunsa mnzanuyo za zomwe akumva pazithunzithunzi ndi kuboola thupi kungakhale imodzi mwamitu yosangalatsa yokambirana paubwenzi wautali. Ngati nonse muli nawo, mutha kusaka ma tattoo omwe mungapangire limodzi mukakhala limodzi.
31. Pezani nthawi yocheza ndi anthu achigololo
Simuli patali kapena kutalikirana kuti mukambirane za kugonana. Mwina simunachitepo kanthu kwakanthawi koma izi siziyenera kukulepheretsani kuchitapo kanthu kuyankhula mozama kwa wokondedwa wanu kapena kutumizirana mameseji. Zimakhazikitsa malingaliro ngati mukuganiza zomwe mungalankhule muubwenzi wautali. Ngati simukudziwa momwe mungayambitsire kapena kubwera ndi zinthu zotentha zomwe munganene kwa chibwenzi chanu chakutali, mutha kuyamba ndi masewera ena achigololo a mafunso okwatirana mtunda wautali ndikuwona komwe kukambirana kumapita.
32. Kambiranani zokonda ndi zongopeka
Mukuganiza za nkhani yakutali yomwe ingakupangitseni kulakalaka kwanu wina ndi mnzake? Bwanji osalankhula zamatsenga osiyanasiyana ndi okondedwa wanu ndikuwunika zomwe zimakutembenuzirani ndi zomwe sizikuyambitsani. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu sexiest kulankhula ndi bwenzi lanu pa foni.
Komabe, musasokoneze izi ndi kutumizirana mameseji. Onani izi ngati kukambirana moona mtima za:
- Zomwe mumakonda pabedi
- Momwe mungakometse zinthu mukakumana
- Ndi ntchito ziti zomwe simukuletsani, ndi zina.
33. Lankhulani za mabuku omwe mumakonda kwambiri
Ngati aliyense wa anzawo ndi owerenga, angakonde kulankhula za mabuku. Lankhulani ndi wokondedwa wanu zomwe amakonda kuwerenga komanso wolemba wake yemwe amakonda. Itha kukhala nkhani yosangalatsa yokambirana patali ndipo imatha kuwonetsa mnzanuyo kuti angalankhule za chidwi chawo, ngakhale simukugawana nawo chidwi chofanana.
34. Onerani makanema ndi mapulogalamu a pa TV pamodzi ndikukambirana
Si chinsinsi kuti mukakhala kutali ndi mnzanu, nthawi yanu yaulere imapita kukawonera makanema ndi makanema apa TV. Bwanji osayamba kuwaonera limodzi ndi kukambirana nawonso? Zikumveka ngati a sabata yachikondi zochitika zomwe mutha kukambirana zazitali za momwe mumamvera za munthu kapena chiwonongeko chomwe chimakulepheretsani kugona usiku.
35. Fufuzani zikhulupiriro ndi makhalidwe abwino
Ndi bwino kukhala wosakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu kapena wodzipereka kwambiri kwa mulungu. Kaya maganizo anu ali otani pa zachipembedzo, m’pofunika kuulula kwa mnzanuyo. Kusemphana maganizo pa nkhani yaumwini monga chipembedzo kungayambitse mikangano yambiri m’kupita kwa nthaŵi.
Ndibwino kuti mukambirane za zikhulupiriro zanu ndi chikhulupiriro chanu panthawi imodzi mwamafunso anu akutali pa foni kuti mutuluke ndikuwonetsetsa kuti inu ndi mnzanuyo mumvetsetsana.
Zolozera Mfungulo
- M'malo mofunsa mafunso anthawi zonse, khalani achindunji ndikuwonetsa chidwi chenicheni pa tsiku la mnzanu, malingaliro ake, ndi zomwe wakumana nazo
- Mutha kuyang'ana mitu yosiyanasiyana monga kukumbukira ubwana wanu, zizolowezi zazakudya, ndi zolinga zamndandanda wa ndowa kuti zokambirana zikhale zosiyanasiyana komanso zosangalatsa.
- Pa zokambirana zazikulu, lankhulani za zinthu monga thanzi la maganizo, kupsinjika maganizo, ndi zovuta zaumwini kuti mupange ubwenzi wapamtima
- Bwerani ndi zinthu zotentha zomwe munganene kwa bwenzi lanu / bwenzi lanu kuti muwonjezere nthawi zachigololo paubwenzi wanu
Maganizo Final
Ngati mukumva kupsyinjika kwa kulekana, nkhani zokambitsirana zakutali zitha kuchita zozizwitsa pochepetsa kunyong'onyeka kapena kupsinjika kokhala ndi zosangalatsa. Kulankhulana ndi kukambirana ndiye maziko a ubale wabwino. Ndi mitu iyi, mwakonzeka kugwira ntchito pa ubale wanu panthawi yachisokonezo.
Zopereka zanu sizikupanga zachifundo Mphatso. Zilola kuti Bonobology ipitilize kukubweretserani zidziwitso zatsopano komanso zaposachedwa pakufuna kwathu kuthandiza aliyense padziko lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
