Indlela i-elementi yokomoya eyenza ngayo ukuba isondo sethu sibe namandla ngakumbi

Ukusabalalisa uthando

Indlela esibubona ngayo ubuni kunye nobumoya inokwenza umahluko omkhulu. Ngoxa ubumoya busenokungathandeki kuye wonke ubani, isini siyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu. Abanye banokuthatha isondo njengesidingo, abanye njengokuzonwabisa, okanye uxinzelelo, ngelixa kwabanye inokuba ngumsebenzi olingana nokutya. Utya xa ulambile; ulalana xa uvukile.

Kuthetha ntoni ukwabelana ngesondo kum

Kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, isondo sithetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kum. Kodwa ngoku sele nditshatile phantse iminyaka emihlanu kwindoda ngokomoya (kungekhona ngokwenkolo) ethambekele kwaye enamava kakhulu ngokwesondo, ngoku ndibhekisa kwisini 'njengamandla' anamandla. Xa sithetha ngophononongo lwezesondo okanye sibhekisa emntwini 'njengonomtsalane', sithetha ukuthini, yivayibhile entle, ephezulu kunye nenomtsalane ngokukodwa umntu awukhuphayo.

I-chemistry yezesondo ayiyonto ngaphandle kokutshintshana kwamandla ngokwesondo phakathi kwabantu ababini.

Phantse unyaka emva kokuba sitshatile, mna nomyeni wam sathabatha uhambo oluya eRishikesh, ikomkhulu leyoga lehlabathi. Siye sajikeleza iLakshman Jhula, indawo edibanisa ubumoya, ukuzonwabisa, kunye nenkcubeko yomoya okhululekileyo. Umxube onomdla kakhulu, kufuneka nditsho! Sithathe iimasaji zeAyurvedic, siziqhelanise nokuphefumla kunye neyoga ngesage kwaye sathetha ngokuvula ingqondo yethu yesithandathu ngeyogi. Sobabini sachitha iiyure ecaleni kweGanges yaye sasincokola ngoxa sijonge ezintabeni. Ngoxa sasihamba sisiya kwenye indawo, sadibana nabantu basemzini ababefunda iiVedas, befunda isiSanskrit, befuna uxolo okanye isiqu sabo.

Ufundo oluhambelana nayo: Kufuneka unike kangakanani kuwe kubudlelwane?

Xa sadibana ne-ascetic

Ngenye imini sachitha ixesha elithile ehlathini kunye ne-Aghori eyayingelula nje ukuqonda kodwa nemagnethi. Ulusu oluxengaxengayo, olushwabeneyo lubonisa ukwaluphala, kodwa ukubengezela emehlweni akhe kunye noncumo lwalungumxube wobumsulwa obufana nobomntwana, ubugwenxa namandla. Ilizwi lakhe lalinzulu yaye libukhali kangangokuba ubungathanda ukumphulaphula nokuba uthetha ngolwimi lwasemzini. Ukhetho lwakhe lwamagama lubonise imvelaphi yommandla ongakwicala laseGujarat awathi umyeni wam okwimeko efanayo wayibamba kwangoko. Xa ibuzwa, i-yogi yaqinisekisa, "Ewe, umzimba wam unjalo." Wathi izibini zifana neentyatyambo neenyosi; bafuna nje ukwazi ixesha lokutshintshiselana ngeendima. Sathetha ngobomi ngendlela edibeneyo kunye ne-detachment ngendlela eqhotyoshelweyo. Kwakukho into 'ephezulu' malunga nalo lonke udibaniso.

Ayizukuba yinto yokubaxa ukuthi besiphantsi kwempembelelo engaqondakaliyo ngexesha lokuhlala kwethu eRishikesh. Ukusebenzisana nabantu abangabaziyo okanye omnye nomnye kwakumalunga nokutshintshiselana ngee-vibes. Sinokuziva iintshukumo ezithile kwiindlela ezithambileyo kodwa ezinamandla. Ndaqaphela oku ngexesha lokudibana kwethu ngokwesondo ngexesha nasemva kohambo. Ndive kuphela kwaye ndifunde malunga, andizange ndiyenze i-tantric sex. Kodwa yindlela ekufuneka ivakale ngayo, ndiyakholwa! Kwakungekho nkanuko, kungekho ndlongondlongo kodwa ukudityaniswa kwamandla angaphaya kwengcaciso. Sasibuva ubushushu obubethayo ngokubambana, ukuhambahamba, imvisiswano. Yayingokobuthixo!

Ufundo oluhambelana nayo: Ezi zinto zintlanu zahlula isondo esikhulu kwisini esiphakathi

Into ekhethekileyo kwisini

Siye sahamba ngaphambi nasemva koko, senza uthando izihlandlo eziliwaka, kodwa akuzange kuphinde kube njalo. YayingengoRishikesh okanye thina kuphela, kodwa ukuhambelana kwawo onke amandla amathathu, umyeni wam, owam kunye nokugqithisela komanyano lwethu eRishikesh.

Ayizizo zonke izibini ezifuna ukutyelela indawo ethile.

Into abayidingayo kukuchonga amandla angathathi hlangothi anokuphakamisa amandla abo, zombini kunye ne-metaphysical.

Inokuhlala ihleli okanye itshintshe; akukho mithetho yebhontsi. Ngamanye amaxesha, sinqwenela ngokufihlakeleyo ukutshintshisa okanye abathathu, umntu wesithathu okanye esinye isibini sokongeza loo zing. Ukuba sivuleleke kwimithombo yamandla engaphaya kwabantu ngokunjalo, ngekhe sibhideke malunga nokuhlutha ngokwesondo mhlawumbi.

Umhlobo kunye nomfundisi-ntsapho kwi-'Art of Living 'wakha wathi ulonwabo alufumana ngokucamngca luyafana nolufumana xa esenza i-orgasing. Ukungabi nangqondo okuchulumancisayo kuqhelekile kuwo omabini amava, ngokomoya nangokwesondo.

"Ngoko ngokwenene kwenzeka ukuba ngakumbi umntu ngokwesondo, kokukhona anokuba nobuchule obungakumbi. Okukhona umntu esini, kokukhona ekrelekrele. Ngamandla okwabelana ngesondo amancinci, ubukrelekrele buncinci bukhoyo; ngamandla okwabelana ngesondo ngakumbi, ubukrelekrele ngakumbi, kuba isondo luphando olunzulu lokutyhila, kungekuphela nje imizimba, kungekuphela nje umzimba wesini esahlukileyo kodwa yonke into efihliweyo.”-Osho

Umnikelo wakho awuquki isisa umnikelo. Iya kuvumela i-Bonobology ukuba iqhubeke nokukuzisela ulwazi olutsha nolwangoku kwiphulo lethu lokunceda nabani na osehlabathini ukuba afunde ukwenza nantoni na.