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umgama ngokweemvakalelo kubudlelwane

Umgama ngokweemvakalelo: intsingiselo, oonobangela, imiqondiso, kunye neendlela zokulungisa

Ngaba uyawubona umsantsa omkhulu phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho nokuba nisondelelene ngokwasemzimbeni? Ngaba iqabane lakho libonakala lingenamdla ekuchitheni ixesha elisemgangathweni? Ngaba bayakuphepha ukusondelelana? Ngaba uninzi lweencoko zakho zigxile kwimicimbi ephathekayo - imisebenzi, iishedyuli, imisebenzi yasekhaya? Ngaba kuvakala ngathi niyigqibile izihloko eninokuxoxa ngazo? Ukuba impendulo […]

Umgama ngokweemvakalelo: intsingiselo, oonobangela, imiqondiso, kunye neendlela zokulungisa Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

ukudibanisa okumangalisayo

Ukuqonda i-Hysterical Bonding: Yintoni na kwaye kutheni isenzeka

Iqhina elinobuxhakaxhaka libhekisa kunxibelelwano olumandla noluhlala lucinezelwa ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwesondo phakathi kwamaqabane, kulandela ingxaki okanye ukungcatshwa kubudlelwane babo. Kubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo, kubalulekile ukutyhala ikhwele eliphilileyo ngokuvakalisa ngokuphandle iimvakalelo zakho kunye nemida yakho. Inceda ekugcineni ukuthembana kunye nentlonipho kubudlelwane bakho ngelixa usebenzisana nabanye. Nangona kunjalo,

Ukuqonda i-Hysterical Bonding: Yintoni na kwaye kutheni isenzeka Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

imiqondiso yokuba i-narcissist yenziwe nawe

Iindlela ezili-11 zokuxelela i-Narcissist zigqityiwe kunye nawe

Ukufumanisa imiqondiso yokuba i-narcissist yenziwa nawe kunokuba ngumzuzu obalulekileyo, okuvumela ukuba uphinde uzimele kwaye ubalekele impembelelo yabo enetyhefu. Kweli nqaku, siphonononga imiqondiso eyi-11 ebalulekileyo, sithatha ulwazi oluvela kwingcali yezengqondo uNandita Rambhia, ukukunceda uhambe kulo mceli mngeni unamandla kwaye ukhusele impilo yakho yengqondo.

Iindlela ezili-11 zokuxelela i-Narcissist zigqityiwe kunye nawe Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

indelelo kubudlelwane

Indelelo kubudlelwane: Indlela yokuziphatha enetyhefu ekufuneka uyiphephe

Njengoko iimpawu eziyityhefu zihamba, indelelo kubudlelwane iphezulu kuluhlu. Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho liziphatha ngendlela ephezulu kwaye lidelela enye, ezi flegi ezibomvu kufuneka ziqwalaselwe. Impoxo, intlekisa, intlekisa, nokukrwaqula ngamehlo kubonisa ukuba ulwalamano lwenu lufuna umsebenzi ukuze luphile. Ngaba kuwufanele umgudu? Funda ukuze ukwazi ngakumbi…

Indelelo kubudlelwane: Indlela yokuziphatha enetyhefu ekufuneka uyiphephe Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

uncamathiselo olugxothayo oluthintelayo

I-Attachment ye-Dismissive-Aviidant: Iimpawu, oonobangela, kunye neendlela zokoyisa

Wonke umntu omdala unendlela ethile yokuncamathela ebonisa kubudlelwane babo. Esi simbo sisiphumo sobuntwana kunye nendlela abakhuliswe ngayo. Esinye isimbo esinjalo sisiQinisekiso esiNcinyiweyo sokuPhepha. Abantu abanale ndlela yokuncamathela babonisa iimpawu ezithile xa kufikwa kwimicimbi ephathelele kunxibelelwano lweemvakalelo, ukuzibophelela kunye nolawulo. Eli nqaku liphonononga iindlela zokutshintsha esi simbo sokuncamathela kwaye sisebenzele ubudlelwane obunempilo.

I-Attachment ye-Dismissive-Aviidant: Iimpawu, oonobangela, kunye neendlela zokoyisa Funda ngokugqithisileyo "

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