Sinxulumana nabantu abohlukeneyo esiwela iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Ngalo lonke ixesha, kuza umntu obukho bakhe bubeka ubomi bakho bonke. Uziva utsalelekile kubo, awukwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngabo, kwaye ubukho babo bubeka umthombo kwinqanaba lakho kunye nengoma emlonyeni wakho. Xa ubanjiwe […]
19 Iimpawu zoMoya Umntu ocinga ngawe ngokwesondo Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ukuxoxa ngempilo yezesondo neqabane lakho kubalulekile ekugcineni ubudlelwane obunempilo, kodwa abaninzi bakufumanisa kunzima. Imiqobo eyahlukeneyo inokuthintela ezi ncoko zibalulekileyo, ukusukela kuloyiko lokugwetywa ukuya kwimiqobo yenkcubeko kunye neembono ezigwenxa malunga nokuba bucala. Ukujongana nale miba ngokuthe ngqo kunokukhokelela kwiingxoxo ezivulekileyo nezinemveliso, ekugqibeleni ukomeleza unxibelelwano phakathi kwamaqabane.
Esi sisihloko esincangathi ngokuqinisekileyo. Awufuni kujikeleza ukhangela iimpawu ukuba isoka lakho alifuni ngokwesondo kuwe. Siyayifumana. Yiyo loo nto siza kukunceda ujonge. Nangona kunjalo, umtsalane wesondo unokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo kubantu abohlukeneyo, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuba nobabini nibeke onke amakhadi enu.
Akukho mithetho inzima-and-ikhawulezayo malunga nokuba yintoni eyenza umntu abe nesini kunye nokuba yintoni na. Nazi ezinye iimpawu eziqhelekileyo ezinokukunceda ukuba ufumanise ukuba uyaxoka na kwisimbo sokuthandana nesini.
Ngaba uthandana nabasetyhini okanye sisigaba nje? Sukuba nexhala, phakathi kwe-2.8 ukuya kwi-4% yabasetyhini bazichaza njengabantu abathandana nesini esinye okanye babonise iimpawu zesini esinye. Ngokufanayo, amadoda amaninzi kule mihla aphuma 'njengabantu besini esibini'. Umlweli we-Bisexual u-Robyn Ochs, umhleli we-anthology Ukufumana i-Bi: Voices of Bisexuals Around the World and Recognise,
Ngaba ndinguMbuzo weBisexual Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ngaba uhlala uzifumana ubuza umbuzo othi, "Ngaba ndiyi-demisexual?". Ukuqala, yintoni i-demisexual? Kwaye kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka ileyibhile kuyo? Sukuba nexhala, olu vavanyo lulula lwe-demisexual lulapha ukusombulula onke amathandabuzo akho kunye nokuthomalalisa onke amaxhala akho! Ngaphambi kokuphonononga inkcazo ye-demisexual, makhe sijonge
Thatha Olu Vavanyo lokuZilalana! Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ngoko, ngaba uziva amandla ngokwesondo kumntu? Ingaba iimpawu zikhangeleka njani? Ngaba iya kuba yinto ethile, okanye ngaba sesinye sezo ziganeko zikhawulezayo oza kuzilibala ngokukhawuleza xa kuvela intabatheko yakho elandelayo? Masithethe ngayo yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga noxinzelelo lwezesondo.
Ndadibana nomhlobo osenyongweni womyeni wam okokuqala ngosuku lwethu lomtshato. Besitshintshiselane ngobumnandi ke ngoko. Kodwa emva kwesithuba esingangonyaka, uVikram (igama litshintshiwe) yaye ndaqalisa ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni. Ayikho enye into kodwa bendidlalela yena iCupid. Andizange ndicinge ukuba izinto zingatshintsha ngolu hlobo ekugqibeleni. (Njenge
Devdutt Pattanaik kwinkcazo eguqukayo yokuthembeka kunye nemingeni yendoda yanamhlanje
I-Monogamy yayilungiselelwe umama wekhaya, hayi i-apsara-Devdutt Pattanaik Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
I-Aphrodisiacs inembali ende. Fumanisa ukuba kukuphi ukutya okuyi-aphrodisiac kwaye ukuba ngokwenene bayasebenza.
Ukutya kwe-Aphrodisiac-iMfihlo yeSex eNgcono okanye iintsomi nje? Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
