I-15 lamaqhinga aqinisekisiweyo okwenza i-Ex Yakho ibe nomona

Sonke siyazi ukuba xa wahlukana nomntu, impindezelo engcono kukuqhubela phambili kwaye ushiye i-ex yakho ngasemva ngokupheleleyo. Kodwa xa uhlanjululwa yintlungu kunye nomsindo, unokuzifumana uzibuza malunga nendlela yokwenza ikhwele lakho langaphambili ukuze baqonde oko balahlekileyo, kwaye mhlawumbi, bafumane i-angst efanayo oye wabandezeleka ngayo. Kunokuba nzima ukuxhathisa isilingo sokucinga iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokuthi wenze umntu wakho wangaphambili abe nomona kwaye abe namava okukhululwa kwe-cathartic kwintlungu yakho.   

Nokuba uyazibuza ukuba ungenza njani isoka lakho langaphambili libe nomona okanye ujonge iimbono ezintsha malunga nendlela yokwenza intombi yakho yangaphambili ibe nomona, sinengxowa yamaqhinga ukuba uzame. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba asikukhuthazi ukuba nawaphi na amaqhinga okanye sivumele ukudlala imidlalo kunye neemvakalelo zalowo wangaphambili. Kodwa ukuba uza kuyenza, kufuneka ubuncinci ubukrelekrele ngayo kwaye uyenze ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.

Ngaba Ukwenza I-Ex Yakho Yomona Umsebenzi?

Ilungelo lakho langaphambili, emva kokwahlukana, mhlawumbi libuhlungu njengawe - ukuba akunjalo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani ophelise izinto, intlungu kunye nesibetho baphathwa ngabantu bobabini kwaye nabo babandezeleka kwiintlungu apho bakukhumbulayo kwaye bafuna ukufikelela kuwe. Ngoko ke ukuba ufuna ukwenza ex yakho isuntswana nomona kwaye uqinisekise ukuba baziva eyoyikekayo ngokuphulukana nawe, kukho izinto ezininzi ungazama. 

Umzekelo, ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungenza njani isoka lakho langaphambili libe nomona, ukuthumela imifanekiso nomnye umfana kunokusebenza. Ngokufanayo, ukuba uzama ukufumanisa indlela yokwenza i-ex-girlfriend yakho ibe nomona, ukumvumela ukuba abone ukuba uyonwabile ngaphandle kwakhe okanye ukugqwesa kumsebenzi wakho omtsha omangalisayo kunokuba yindlela yokuhamba.

Ngelixa ukwenza i-ex ikhwele ilula, nokuba iya kusebenza njengoko kujongwe kuxhomekeke kwinto ofuna ukuyizuza kuyo. Ukuba uzama ukwenza i-ex yakho ikhwele menze akukhumbule okanye ukuqinisekisa ukuba akalahlekelwa ngumdla kuwe, unokwenza lula ukuba kwenzeke. Ukuba injongo yakho kukubenza bakuqonde oko baphulukene nako, unokubenza bazive bezisola, nokuba oko kudlula ixeshana. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukwenza ex yakho umona ukubenza babuyele kuwe, akukho ndlela yokuqinisekisa ukuba iya kudlala ngendlela ofuna ngayo. 

Uxolelwaniso emva kokwahlukana kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi kwaye kusenokungasoloko kungumbono olungileyo. Ngaphandle koko, ukusebenzisa umona njengesixhobo sokuzama ukuphumelela umva wakho wangaphambili yindlela engafanelekanga kunye neflegi ebomvu ebonisa ukuba unokufuna ukubuyela kunye kuzo zonke izizathu ezingalunganga. 

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I-15 lamaqhinga aqinisekisiweyo okwenza i-Ex Yakho ibe nomona

Ukuzama ukwenza umntu owayenomona kunokubonakala kuyinto encinci kodwa ayikokwenza ukuba azive ebuhlungu kodwa yindlela yokuthomalalisa intlungu yakho njengoko uzama sebenza ngokwahlukana kwaye ijongane neemvakalelo ezizishiyayo ekuvukeni kwayo. Ewe, injongo kukuthatha ixesha lokuphilisa kwaye uzifumane kuqala. Gxila kuzo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ebomini bakho. Kwaye ukuba, endleleni, unokwenza i-ex yakho ibe nomona omkhulu kwaye ubaqhubekise, ke, yi-cherry nje phezu kwekhekhe. Akunjalo?

Cinga ngezithandwa ezithandekayo zaseCalabasas - uTravis Baker kunye noKourtney Kardashian. UKourtney kunye nowayesakuba nguScott Disick, babenobudlelwane obude nobunesiphithiphithi seminyaka elishumi. Xa uKourtney wahlukana noScott, kwakukho ubukrakra kumacala omabini, njengoko izinto zihlala zihamba. Ukulandela isibhengezo somtshato kaKourtney, uScott akazange akwazi ukuzibamba kodwa waya kwi-meltdown yomona kawonke wonke. Nangona u-Kourtney ngokungathandabuzekiyo wayevuyiswa kukutshata kuthando lobomi bakhe, ukubona ex yakhe enetyhefu evutha ngumona must've waziva cathartic ngendlela yayo. 

Ke ngaphandle kokulinda, sonke masiqale samkele ukuba kukho iKourtney ngaphakathi kwethu sonke. Kwaye ukuyikhulula, kufuneka siyidlale ngokukhuselekileyo nangobulumko. Makhe sifumanise ukuba ungayenza njani i-ex yakho ibe luhlaza ngomona ngala maqhinga ali-15 aqinisekisiweyo nasebenzayo:

1. Zibonakale kwiindawo ezifanelekileyo kunye nabantu abafanelekileyo

Nokuba kukwitheko uyazi ukuba ex yakho iza kuya okanye kumsitho uqinisekile ukuba baya kuva ngayo, qiniseka ukuba ufika apho nomnye umntu. Yenza umntu owahluke ngokwenene kwi-ex yakho. Basenokuba ngumntu osuka kwisini esahlukileyo kunesakho, umntu ophila ngendlela eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kuneyakho, okanye mhlawumbi nowasekhaya. igcisa oqale ukuthandana nalo! Inqaku kukuqinisekisa ukuba ex yakho uyeva malunga nale ndibano, okanye uyazibonela. Ngale ndlela, baziva ngathi abahambisani nemigaqo yento onomdla kuyo kwakhona kwaye baya kuba nesiphumo esifunekayo.

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2. Sukufuna i ex yakho ngamaxesha obunzima

Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungenza njani i-ex yakho ukuba nomona, musa ukucela uncedo kubo okanye uncedo, musa ukwenza izinto obuya kuzenza kunye neqabane lakho, kwaye musa ukuya kubo ngeengxaki zakho. Siyazi ukuba ukuqhubeka nobomi bakho emva kokwahlukana kunzima. Yonke into ikukhumbuza nge-ex yakho kwaye ngequbuliso nokuba wenze imisebenzi esisiseko uziva ngathi ngumsebenzi weHerculean.

Nangona kunjalo, ngezo zihlandlo kufuneka uhlale womelele kwaye uxhathise umnqweno wokuthumela imiyalezo okanye ubafowunele. Nokuba uziva ubuthathaka okanye uphuke kangakanani na ngaphakathi, musa ukuvumela owakho ukuba akubone oko. Xa u Thetha ne ex yakho, musa ukwenza ngathi nguwe kuphela umntu okuqondayo. Babonise ukuba isikhokelo/uluvo lwabo alusenamsebenzi kuwe. Kufuneka babone ukuba ungaphila ubomi kakuhle ngaphandle kwabo.

Xa uRihanna kunye noChris Brown bahlukana, abantu babecinga ukuba uya kufungela ukuthandana ngonaphakade. Mjonge ngoku! Uyi-CEO ye-Fenty Beauty, eyona nkampani inengeniso yehlabathi yokwenza kunye nendlela yokuphila. Yena kunye no-ASAP Rocky bakwangabazali bosana oluhle olusandul’ ukuzalwa. Kwaye uChris Brown uye waphela ekungabinamsebenzi.

3. Yeka ukunxibelelana nabo

Ukuba ufuna ukwenza ex yakho uzive nomona kwaye ufuna umva, kufuneka ulandele umthetho wokungaqhagamshelwa emva kokwahlukana. Yeka ukufowuna, ukuthumela imiyalezo, ukuthumela i-imeyile, kwaye nokubalandela kwimidiya yoluntu. Ukuba udibana nazo ndaweni ithile, ngabi nankathalo kwisimilo sakho. Ungabavumeli ukuba babone ukuba ukhathazekile okanye uyakuvuyela ukubabona. Ukuba bakuthumelele umyalezo, thatha iiyure ukuphendula. Ukuba bayakufowunela, gcina incoko ibe mfutshane kwaye uxhome ngesizathu esithile. Injongo kukuba babone ukuba uyachatshazelwa kukungabikho kwabo. 

4. Qalisa ukuthandana nabanye abantu

Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukwenza njani ex yakho eluhlaza kunye nomona, qala ukuphuma ngemihla. Ukuqonda ukuba uqhubela phambili kwaye awusayi kubambelela kubo ngokuqinisekileyo uya kubafumana bonke. Umona, wona, uya kubatyhala ukuba bafune ukubuyelana nawe. Ukuba umntu wakho wangaphambili uneemvakalelo ngawe, baya kukhathazeka yingcamango yokuba ulahlekelwe ngomnye umntu.

Ukuba bafuna ukuba ubuye, banokwenza okuthile ngako ukuze bakuzuze kwakhona. Ukuthandana kwakhona emva kokwahlukana kwakho kusekho win-win imeko, nokuba abafuni umva, ekubeni ikuvumela ukuba ngokukhululekileyo uqhubeke nobomi bakho. Eli nyathelo liya kukunceda ufumane umntu oza kukuxabisa ngakumbi kwaye akuphathe ngcono.

Iphupha elikhawulezayo: Ukuba ucinga malunga "nendlela yokwenza umona wam kuWhatsApp," beka umfanekiso wakho kunye nomnye umntu (mhlawumbi umntu othile ongamthandiyo ex yakho) kwaye ubabukele bevutha.

5. Thumela imifanekiso ukwenza i-ex yakho ibe nomona

Ukuthumela imifanekiso ukwenza ex yakho nomona phantse usoloko wenza iqhinga. Nokuba nisalandelana kwimidiya yoluntu okanye awulandeli/wavala i ex yakho, qhubeka uthumela uhlaziyo lobomi bakho, ngakumbi ezo zibandakanya amaxesha okonwaba nabantu abanomtsalane. Sithembe xa sikuxelela, ngenye indlela okanye enye, le mifanekiso iya kufikelela kwi-ex yakho kwaye ibashiye bevutha ngumona.  

Eyona nto iphambili kukuba isitshixo ekucingeni indlela yokwenza ex yakho umona kukuba uphile ubomi bakho best kwaye uvumele ex yakho ukuyibona. Hayi ngenxa yokwahlukana kwakho, kodwa nangona kunjalo. Ekugqibeleni, nokuba oku kuyasebenza okanye akunjalo, uya kunxiba, uphume, kwaye uhlale nabantu! Yintoni eya kuphulukana?

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6. Jonga kakuhle, ngaphakathi ngaphandle

Ukuzisebenzela yinxalenye ebalulekileyo 'yengqondo yokwenza i-ex jealous psychology'. Kwaye asinakugxininisa ngokwaneleyo oku. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ukwenza njani ex yakho ujike ngumsindo ngumona, enye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uyenzile kukhangeleka kakuhle kwaye uzive umhle. Njengoko bethetha, ukukhanya emva kokuhlukana kuya kuhlala kubetha kakhulu.

Unokuba utyhubela kuninzi ngaphakathi kodwa kufuneka ubonakale ungachaphazeleki kukwahlukana. Yiba sempilweni, utye kakuhle, wosule ezo nyembezi, ukhuphe naloo macici amahle ubucinga ukuba awabukeki kakuhle kuwe. Ukuba bayabona ukuba usavutha kwaye wonwabile ngaphandle kwabo, baya kuba nomona. Kwakhona, ukuba ukhe wadibana nabahlobo bakho bangaphambili epatini, xuba yakho iingcebiso zothando, kwaye uncwase ngamandla! Oku kuya kuqhuba ex yakho ngokupheleleyo crazy.

Cinga ngo-Selena Gomez emva kokuhlukana kwakhe noJustin Bieber. Inkwenkwezi yangaphambili ye-Disney yayinokwahlukana esidlangalaleni kwaye abantu abaninzi babecinga ukuba ukuhlukana kuya kuzisa ukuphela komsebenzi ka-Selena. Akazange abonise nje ukuba buxoki, kodwa wabuya enempindezelo. U-Selena Gomez uqhubekile nokusungula icwecwe elithengiswa kakhulu kwaye wade waba ngunozakuzaku wemveliso kwiimveliso ezinkulu zefashoni ezifana nePuma kunye noMqeqeshi.

7. Qalisa ukuphila ubomi obumnandi ngakumbi, kwaye ungabuqhathi

Sebenzisa esi sigaba sasemva kokwaphuka ukuvuselela ulonwabo ebomini bakho ngokwenza izinto ezimnandi nezinomdla ezenza wonwabe. Thumela uhlaziyo kumajelo eendaba zakho zentlalo apho uyazi ukuba ex yakho ukhwela nawe ngamanye amaxesha. Akusoloko kukuqhayisa okanye ukuqhayisa. Imalunga nokubenza baqonde ukuba baphoswa yinto enkulu ngokungabi nawe. Ukuba awunazo naziphi na izinto ezichulumancisayo okanye izinto onomdla kuzo, qala ukuzikhangela.

Akukhathaliseki nokuba ngumdlalo, ngumsebenzi wokuzonwabisa, okanye ngumsebenzi wokuzithandela—yenza nantoni na ekwenza wonwabe ngokwenene. Ayizukukwenza nje ukuba umntu owakwayo azive ebuhlungu, kodwa kuya kuphucula ubomi bakho kwaye akuncede ukuba uhlukane ngokulula ngakumbi. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba wenze njani ex yakho uzive nomona, yiba yinyani! Enye inzuzo yale ngcebiso kukuba uya kufika kuyo dibana nabantu ngaphandle kokwenza ii-apps zokuthandana xa uqala ukwenza imisebenzi emininzi yangaphandle. Ngubani owaziyo, unokufumana umntu okhethekileyo okanye wenze abahlobo abatsha xa uphumile, ukonwabela ubomi bakho.

Iphupha elikhawulezayo: Ukuba uyifake yonke indlela, iyabonakala kakhulu, kwaye oko kuya kusebenza ngokuchasene nawe. Ukuba bayaqaphela ukuba uzama ngamandla ukufumana ingqalelo yabo, kuya kubenza babe nosizi ngawe. Kwaye akusiyo injongo apha. Ngoko, yigcine iyinyani.

8. Gxisa owayesakuba yintombi/isoka lakho

Ngokuchaseneyo nenkolelo edumileyo, enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwenza i-ex ikhwele kancinane ngobomi bakho obutsha ngaphandle kwabo, KUNGOKUNGAYIthethi nabo kwaphela. Okukhona unxibelelana ne ex yakho, kokukhona baya kuba nomdla omncinci kuwe. Ngoba? Kuba yonke into oyenzayo kukuqinisekisa ukuba i-ex yakho ayifuni ukwenza nantoni na ukukubuyisela. Ukudala umona ngamanye amaxesha kukwamalunga nokuziqhelanisa nomgama. Ukushiya i-ex yakho ekulibaleni kunokuziva ngathi sisohlwayo esikhulu. Ke, ewe, kufuneka ufunde ukwenza ungamhoyi umntu onomdla kuye okanye, ubuncinci, unomdla malunga. 

Iphupha elikhawulezayo: Vumela abahlobo bakho bobabini bagcine i-ex yakho kwi-loop malunga nento oyenzayo okanye into ophezu kwayo ebomini. Basenokungasoloko beyibona okanye beyiva kuwe, kodwa banokuva ngayo kubahlobo bakho.

9. Yiba sesimweni esihle ukuze ubaphambanise

Ngaba ucinga ngendlela yokwenza i-ex yakho ibe nomona? Lixesha lokuba ugxile ekomeleleni kwakho. Ukuya kubaleka okanye ukubetha ijim kunokubonakala kuyindlela engaqhelekanga yokubuyela kwi-ex, kodwa isebenza ngokumangalisayo. Xa umzimba wakho uqala ukubonakala ngcono kunangaphambili, ex yakho uya kuqonda ukuba balahlekelwe into ekhethekileyo ngokukuvumela ukuba uhambe.

Emva kokwahlukana, umntu wakho wangaphambili unethemba lokukubona unxibe ibhulukhwe endala, usitya i-ayisikrimu, kwaye ukhale ngelixa ubukele i-rom-com kwiNetflix. Kwaye nangona oko kuyinyani kuninzi lwethu, i-ex yakho idinga ukubona icala elahluke ngokupheleleyo lengqekembe. Ngoko yenza i-ex yakho ibe nomona kumajelo asekuhlaleni ngokuthumela imifanekiso kwiimpahla ezintsha ezikuwonga kuzo zonke iindawo ezifanelekileyo, kuba ekugqibeleni ubeke ukuba ubulungu be-gym busebenzise kakuhle.

Ukomelela kukwenza uzive wonwabe ngakumbi kwaye uzithembe ngakumbi, nto leyo eya konyusa ukuzithemba kwakho xa uthetha nabanye abantu okanye nkqu ukudlala ngothando kwindawo yokuzivocavoca. U-Khloe Kardashian unomboniso kule ndawo ebizwa ngokuba Umzimba weMpindezelo. Inkangeleko yobuso boninzi lwabantu abadlulileyo xa bebona ukuba basempilweni kwaye befanelekile amaqabane abo angaphambili emva kokwahlukana kuyavuyisa kakhulu! Le yindlela entle kakhulu yokwenza i-ex yakho iphambane kuwe.

10. Ndwendwela iindawo ubusiya kuzo ne ex yakho

Eli liqhinga elilula elisebenza njengekhubalo. Ukuba benidla ngokuphuma niyokutya isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye nisele kunye ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, thatha omnye umntu niye naye kwindawo enye. Ayizukususa kuphela unxunguphalo olungenasiphelo ozidibanisa nendawo ngoku kodwa umeme amandla omnye umntu kwindawo eqhelekileyo kwaye ayenze ngokutsha. Okanye indawo yokuqala eniye kuyo kunye neqabane lakho njengesibini esinendawo ekhethekileyo entliziyweni yakho - zama ukuya apho nomhlobo kwaye wenze inkumbulo entsha ngayo.

Qinisekisa ukuba ex yakho ikubona apho kunye nomhlobo wakho kwimidiya yoluntu. Baya kuba nomona ngenxa yokuba baya kukhumbula ukuba kwakunjani xa babenawe, kwaye baya kukufumana kunzima phelelwa ngumdla kuwe. Khumbula ukuthumela imifanekiso emininzi yokonwabelayo. Thatha i-ex yakho phantsi kwendlela yenkumbulo; leyo ingcebiso yethu pro ngendlela yokwenza ex yakho nomona.

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11. Fumana inkangeleko entsha

Eyona ndlela ilula yokungena phantsi kolusu lwakho kukufumana inkangeleko entsha. Oku kuya kuthi, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kubaphambanise. Eli liqhinga lakudala elisebenze kubantu abaninzi kwaye liphuma ngqo kwi-'make your ex jealous psychology' handbook. Ayizukukunika inkangeleko entsha onokuthi uyinikele, iya kwenza umntu wakho wangaphambili abe nomona kwaye akhathazeke.

Fumana ukucheba okutsha kweenwele, ufumane i-tan, okanye ufumane nje izihlangu ezintsha. Akukhathaliseki ukuba wenza ntoni, ukuba nje kubonakala ngokucacileyo kwi ex yakho. Xa beyibona, baya kuziva befuna ukwazi okanye kwenzeka ntoni ebomini bakho. Iqela lakho elicingelwayo liya kubalimaza kude kube sekupheleni. Basenokufuna ukubuya-isigqibo sesakho, uthatha isigqibo sokuba uyafuna na ukunika ubudlelwane ithuba lesibini okanye uhambe kakuhle.

12. Hamba nabahlobo rhoqo

Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokwenza i-ex yakho icinge ukuba uhambile kukuzixhoma nabahlobo bakho. Kufuneka uhambe nabahlobo bakho ubuncinane kanye ngeveki ukuze babone ukuba uyonwabile ngaphandle kwabo. Oku kuya kubenza babe nomona njengoko beqonda ukuba bayakukhumbula ukuchitha ixesha nawe yaye baphoswa bubomi bakho. Ngale ndlela, banokufuna ukubuyela kuyo. Zama ukubenza babe nomona ukuchitha ixesha nabahlobo abangamqhelanga ex wakho. Hlaza uthando oluninzi kubo kumabali akho eendaba zentlalo. Ex yakho uya kuyithiya, nokuba ngaba nje abahlobo bakho.

13. Thatha uhambo

Ukuthatha uhambo yenye indlela yokuqhuba umntu ophambeneyo kwaye uyenze ngokufanelekileyo, kuya kufuneka uthumele iifoto ezininzi ukubenza babe nomona. Baza kuyibona imifanekiso yakho kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo kwaye bacinge ukuba uyonwabile ngaphandle kwabo, nto leyo enokubenza babe lusizi okanye bacaphuke. Uninzi lwabantu luthatha uhambo kunye nabahlobo babo emva kokwahlukana. Oku kudla ngokuba ngumbono olungileyo kuba ikuvumela ukuba uchithe ixesha kunye nabahlobo bakho endaweni yokumoping ngaphezulu kwe-ex yakho iintsuku ekupheleni.

Kwakhona kunceda ukuziva uthandwa ngabantu abakukhathaleleyo kwaye ukhulula ukubona ukuba yintoni enye into ekhoyo. Eli cebiso kufuneka likusebenzele ukuba unomlingo kwaye unokubenza bazive benomona ngoko nangoko ngaphandle kokwenza okuninzi. Khumbula ukusebenzisa umlingo ngobulumko kwaye musa ukuba nekratshi ngawo. Xa ex yakho iya kubona into emnandi eyenzekayo kuhambo lwakho, ukuze ubakhumbuze yakho uhambo lokuqala ngobusuku kunye.

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14. Bonisa impumelelo yakho

Akukho nto ibangela umona njengokuqhayisa ngazo zonke iindlela ochube ngazo. Nokuba ufumene umsebenzi omtsha, ugqibile iprojekthi yakho, okanye uphumelele inqanaba lokuqina, ngobuchule yabelana ngezi zinto uzifezekisiweyo kunye nesangqa sakho okanye kumajelo asekuhlaleni. Ayikokuqhayisa kodwa ukuvumela inkqubela yakho izithethele. 

Ibonisa ukuba ubomi bakho buqhubela phambili ngeendlela ezinentsingiselo, kwaye uye uba ngowona guqulelo lungcono kuwe. Impumelelo inomtsalane, kwaye ukubona uphumelela kunako wenze ex yakho uzisole ngokuphulukana nawe. Xa i-ex yakho ikubona uphumelela kwaye uhambela phambili, ingabashiya bezibuza ukuba kutheni bengasenayo inxalenye yohambo lwakho olunomdla.

15. Yakha unxibelelwano olutsha nabantu ababalulekileyo

Yakha ubudlelwane bokwenyani nabantu abanempembelelo okanye abanothando kwintlalontle yakho okanye isangqa sobuchule. Joyina iklabhu, yiya kwimisitho yenethiwekhi, okanye uthathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yoluntu apho unokudibana nabantu abaguqukayo. Okanye qala ukuthandana kwakhona. Khawube nomfanekiso wakho owayesakuba eskrola kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo yaye ekubona uhleka neqela elitsha labahlobo abanomdla—baza kuzibuza ukuba yintoni abaphoswa yiyo kwaye babuze ukuba kutheni bekuvumela ukuba uhambe.

I-Infographic kwiiDos kunye neeNtshukumo Zokwenza i-Ex yakho ibe nomona

Xa uzama ukwenza i-ex yakho ibe nomona, kulula kakhulu ukuba udlulele phezulu kwaye ugqibe kwelokuba uza kuwela unqwenela okanye wenze into enokuba buhlungu kakhulu kwiqabane lakho langaphambili. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlale ukhumbule impembelelo yezenzo zakho kwaye ungenzi ngokungxama, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna kangakanani ukwenza i-ex yakho ihlupheke ngayo yonke intlungu abaye bayenza kuwe. Nangona kunjalo, oko kulula ukuthetha kunokukwenza xa iimvakalelo ziphakama. Yiyo loo nto sihlanganise olu luhlu lwezinto omele uzenze nongamele zenziwe ukuze wenze umntu wakho abe nomona ukuze ungaweli umgca:  

Iingcinga Final

Ngoko ke, ngoku uyazi ukuba ukwenza ex yakho uzive nomona, siqinisekile ukuba ex yakho uya kusala ezibuza ukuba ufumene njani ezi zakhono zitsha kunye neentshukumo ukuba zange wabonisa ngaphambili. Iingcebiso ezili-13 kuphela ezinokuthi ziqinisekise ukuba umntu othandana naye uyakukhumbula uthanda ngaphambili. Kodwa yidlale ngobuchule. Musani ukukhukuliswa, okanye nibavumele ukuba bakulalele kwingxabano. Bonisa ngomsebenzi wakho omtsha omangalisayo, hlala nabahlobo abaninzi, jonga umhle kwaye uhambe kwihlabathi liphela! Leyo yindlela eqinisekileyo yokubenza bakukhumbule.

Iindlela ezili-15 ezikrelekrele zokujikisa i-Ex efuna ukuba ngabahlobo

Iindlela ezili-18 eziqinisekisiweyo zokufumana ngaphezulu kwesithandwa sakho sangaphambili kwaye ufumane ulonwabo

Iimpawu ezili-15 awukadluli kwi-Ex yakho

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