15 Ngokusuka Entliziyweni Ngaba Uya Kunditshata Ucaphula kwiSindululo esiPheleleyo

Ngaba ekugqibeleni uthathe isigqibo sokuthatha inyathelo elilandelayo kwaye ubuze umbuzo komnye obalulekileyo? Ukuba ubhidekile malunga nokuba ungabuza njani kanye, awuwedwa. Lixesha elikhulu kubomi bakho nobabini kwaye ke kwaye kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuyifuna ukuba igqibelele.

Siyaqonda ukuba kukho uluhlu olude lwezinto ekufuneka uyenzile ukuze ube nesindululo esigqibeleleyo somfanekiso kwaye siyavuya ukukunceda unkqonkqoze lo msebenzi mnye kolu luhlu! Ukwenza isindululo sakho sicinezele kakhulu, siye sacurated 15 uya kunditshata ucaphula ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba athi hayi.

1) Ebomini, abantu abaninzi baya kubamba isandla sakho. Kodwa akukho mntu uya kuyibamba intliziyo yakho ngendlela endiyenza ngayo. Unganditshata?

2) Nokuba ubomi bewaka abufanelanga ubomi obunye obuchithwe nawe. Yiba ngowam ngonaphakade mntanam?

3) “Ndikucela ukuba sitshate, hayi nje kuba ndisazi ukuba sidalelwene, kodwa okona kubaluleke ngakumbi kuba ndiyazi ukuba andinakuphila nangemini enye ebomini bam ngaphandle kokuba ube secaleni kwam, unganditshata?”

4) Ngawo onke amahla ndinyuka, ndingaphila ubomi bam kungekho mntu ngaphandle kwakho… ngoku kude kube sekupheleni kwexesha. Unganditshata?

5) Bendiyazi ukuba nguwe lo wam ngalamzuzu ndabona ukuba ulonwabo lwam lulele kuncumo lwakho, hayi olwam. Unganditshata?

6) "Yonke into endiyenzileyo indikhokelele kuwe ... kwaye yonke into endingekayenzi ebomini ndifuna ukuyenza nawe. Unganditshata?"

7) Ndifuna wena kokona kulungileyo kwaye ndifuna ngakumbi kokubi… ngoku nangonaphakade. Unganditshata?

8) Andinakuthembisa ukuba yonke into iya kufezeka. Kodwa ndiyathembisa ukuba siyakuyenza, nokuba kunzima kangakanani. Yiba ngowam ngonaphakade, akunjalo?

9) Uthando lokwenene lwenzeka kanye kuphela, bathi, kodwa abalunganga. Ndithandana yonke imihla xa ndijonga emehlweni akho. Unganditshata?

10) “Ndiyakuthembisa ukuba ndiza kubamba isandla sakho nokuba kwenzeka ntoni na… Side sahlulwe kukufa. Unganditshata na?”

11) Ndiyazi ukuba senzelwe ukuba sibe njalo, kuba sidlule kuyo yonke into ebezama ukusenza sikholelwe ngenye indlela. Ndiyakuthanda, unganditshata?

12) Ndinento enye kuphela endizisolayo ngayo ebomini… Ndinqwenela ukuba sidibane kwakamsinyane! Unganditshata?

13) “Siza kuhlangana njengabahlobo abasenyongweni, sithandane njengamaqabane omphefumlo, silwe njengeentshaba, sihlale kunye njengosapho. Ngaba unganditshata?”

14) Ukuba uphendula ngokuthi “Ewe” kumbuzo othi “Uza kunditshata?,” ngoko usebenzise elona gama lithandekayo kulwimi lwesiNgesi.

15) Ukususela mhla sadibana, ndiye ndaziva ndonwabile ebomini bam kunanini na ngaphambili. Uzonditshata undenze oyena mntu wonwabe?

Umnikelo wakho awuquki isisa umnikelo. Iya kuvumela i-Bonobology ukuba iqhubeke nokukuzisela ulwazi olutsha nolwangoku kwiphulo lethu lokunceda nabani na osehlabathini ukuba afunde ukwenza nantoni na.

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