Umshado uwuhambo olugcwele izinto eziphikisanayo- injabulo nosizi luvela kumuntu oyedwa, ushintsha phakathi kokufuna ukuzizwa usengozini bese uhlehla egobolondweni lakho ubhekene nabo, ubathanda baze bafe futhi ngezinye izikhathi ubazonda kangangokuthi ufuna ukubabulala nabo! Umshado usho imigomo yokuzibophezela- izingane, abazali asebekhulile, ukuphatha izimali, impilo yomunye nomunye, njll. Imibhangqwana iqala impilo yayo yomshado ngesigaba se-honeymoon lapho ingakwazi khona ukuvala izandla zabo komunye nomunye bese kuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi ngemva komjikelezo wezingane kanye nesitolo segilosa bazinzile ebuhlotsheni obunethezekile obufana kakhulu nobuka-roomies kunabalingani bothando. Ngamunye uba matasa emsebenzini wakhe futhi inhlansi iyafa kancane kancane njengoba impilo yocansi ithatha isihlalo esingemuva.
Imibhangqwana lapho esigabeni esinjalo eside ukuzwa craziness ukuthi bazizwa ke, futhi hhayi umuzwa yisicefe of 'ube khona lokho' okuyinto igcwele ikakhulukazi ekamelweni. Amakamelo okulala afile angumaye omkhulu wezithandani zesimanje futhi silapha ukuze sikusize uthole indlela yokuphuma kukho. Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi lokhu kuxazululeka kalula. Ngezenzo ezilula, ungathungela inhlansi futhi ubuyisele lowomlingo ebudlelwaneni bakho. Kufanele ufunde amasu nezindlela njengoba kufanele umyeni wakho. Mhlawumbe manje sekuyisikhathi sokunikeza imvelo isandla esincane. Bamba ukunaka komyeni wakho futhi ulinge lapho elindele kancane ukuthi umyenge.
Ukuyenga kuwubuciko futhi kungafundwa kalula. Awekho amahloni kuwo. Ukuphila okunempilo phakathi kwamashidi kuzosho ubuhlobo obujabulisayo ngaphandle kwawo. Kungase kube nenhlamba ehambisana nalolu hlobo lokuncenga, kodwa khumbula sikhuluma ngomyeni wakho, ngisho nombuso ukugunyazile ukuba wenze lokhu! Kungokwemvelo ukuzizwa unesithukuthezi embhedeni nomuntu oyedwa futhi kungenzeka kuwe nobabili noma nobabili ndawonye. Isazi sezocansi uDkt Paras Shah sibhale lesi siqeshana ngemishado engenabulili. Gqoka isigqoko sokudala siqhamuke nezindlela zokuyenga indoda yakho engasalufuni ucansi. Ukubuyisela leyo mojo ekamelweni akunzima kangako uma wazi ukunyakaza okufanele.
10 Amathiphu Wonke Owesifazane Oshadile Okufanele Awalandele Ukuze Ayenge Umyeni Wakhe
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Ngakho-ke ma-gals, nazi izindlela eziyengayo zokuvuselela impilo yakho yocansi. Uma ufuna ukuthola umyeni wakho emoyeni futhi ube neseshini enhle ekamelweni vele ufunde. Ngokushesha nje ungase wabelane nabanye besifazane okungenzeka ukuthi banenkinga nalokhu. Asilona izwe elikhuluma ngokukhululekile ngezindaba ezinjalo, kodwa emibuzweni kanye nemibuzo esiyitholayo singakutshela ukuthi abesifazane abaningi abashadile iminyaka engu-5 noma ngaphezulu banenkinga yombuzo othi 'indlela yokuyenga umyeni wami'. Njengoba ufunda lokhu kusho ukuthi ucabanga ukuthi uzomyenga kanjani umyeni wakho? Sinazo zonke izimpendulo zokuthi umlinga futhi umshiye ecela okunye. Ingabe uyazi izindawo zakhe erogenous?
1. Ukuthinta okungaqondakali
A ukuthinta okulula njengokuthinta kungenza indoda yakho ihlanye. Ungakwazi ukunyakazisa izandla zakho emahlombe akhe noma emathangeni noma emhlane wakhe noma umane ubambe izandla zakhe futhi umbheke kakhulu emehlweni. Kwesinye isikhathi ungavele umxube udlule kuye ngenhloso. U-Babita owayehlala emndenini ohlanganyelwe waqinisekisa ukuthi iminwe yakhe ibambezela lowo mzuzwana owengeziwe njengoba edlulisela umyeni wakhe ipuleti phezu kwetafula lokudlela. U-Gayatri wancisha ukoma wakhe lapho ebona ukuthi akekho obukayo. Lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi umfana wakho aphinde awele kuwe, mbuke ezama ukubamba ukunaka kwakho ngamehlo akhe lapho unabanye. Lena indlela enhle yokuyenga umyeni wakho ngemva komshado.
2. Chitha ku-wardrobe e-sexy
Ingabe abesifazane bavame ukubuza ukuthi bangenza kanjani umyeni wami abe semoyeni? Ungakwazi ukugqoka ingubo encoma uhlobo lomzimba wakho, lokhu ngeke nje kukwenze ubukeke ukhanga kakhulu kodwa futhi kukhulise ukuzethemba kwakho. Owesifazane ozethembayo ungowesifazane othanda ucansi. Ungammangaza ngokugqoka izingubo ezihehayo uma efika ekhaya. U-Sanjana wabhala ngesikibha esimhlophe qwa esingenabo ubhodisi esimenzele iqhinga. Futhi sebenzisa i-lingerie e-sexy ne-lacy, lezi zengeza leyo zing futhi zikwenze ubukeke uyenga futhi ungenakuvinjelwa umyeni wakho. Shaya inxanxathela yezitolo ngokushesha futhi ulinge umyeni wakho ngezikhathi ezithile ezimangalisayo phakathi kwamashidi!
3. Gcoba umfana wakho
Lena indlela enhle yokuyenga umyeni wakho. Lapho bazi ukuthi ngeke babe nakho, bafisa nakakhulu. Yilokhu wonke amadoda afana ngakho. Kusebenzise ngokugcwele! Mdlalise, umthinte ngendlela ehehayo, umyenge ningekho endaweni eyodwa. Mthumelele isithombe sesisu sakho uma ugqoke i-sari, mthumelele umyalezo wokuthi uyamfuna manje, umtshele ukuthi umkhumbula kanjani futhi awukwazi ukuyeka ukucabanga...Ngeke uqale ukucabanga umphumela wala mazwi kumyeni wakho, azocabanga nje ukuthi uzofika kanjani ekhaya ngokushesha okukhulu lapho umsebenzi wakhe usuqedile. Uma unaye endaweni yomphakathi ungazama le mnyakazo. Ukubuka ngokushesha, ukugqolozela, ukugijima ulimi lwakho phezu kwezindebe zakho, ukuthinta ngokushesha emathangeni akhe lapho uhlezi eduze kwakhe esitolo sokudlela kungamyenga owakwakho futhi kumhlanyise. Bheka nje ukuthi wenzani uma ufika ekhaya. Ungasebenzisa futhi i-Utube kulokhu.
4. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala
Ukubhebha indoda yakho kumele ube bossy embhedeni. Mtshele kahle ukuthi yini ekuvulayo. Kufanele ube umlawuli, hhayi yena. Lena enye yama-mantras amakhulu ukuyenga umyeni wakho. Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala, mtshele ukuthi enzeni, mkhumule bese kuba nguwena (noma ungamenzi futhi umgcone). (Ithiphu: Mbophe futhi ungakwazi nokuvala amehlo futhi udlale umdlalo okhohlakele, ngokuqinisekile uzowuthanda!) Mtshele ukuthi awukakaqedi, ukuthi ufuna okwengeziwe. Mqondise ezindaweni zakho ezibucayi, ube nenkani. Lena indlela yokugcina yokuyenga owakwakho. Nali uhlu lwezindawo ze-erogenous kumuntu wakho ongasizakala ngazo.
5. Ukuhlubula
Dlulela indoda yakho ebukekayo. Gxila ekukhipheni ucezu olulodwa lwezingubo ngesikhathi futhi njalo, hlala ubheka amehlo. Mkhombise eminye yeminyakazo yakho emihle. Kwenze kube ubusuku umyeni wakho afisa okwengeziwe! Mteketise, umlinge ubone ukuthi kwenzakalani. Funda eminye iminyakazo yokudansa bese uyengeze esimisweni sakho. Uzomthola evuza amathe phezu kwakho. Indlela yokuyenga umyeni ongenasithakazelo? Nazo ke. Ngeke uze ucabange ukuthi umhlubulile umsebenzela kanjani. Kanye nalokhu zama ukudlala Angikaze Ngibe umdlalo nombuzo ongcolile ongawucabanga.
6. Mthumelele isithombe sakho esimnandi ngenkathi esemsebenzini/engaphandle
Lena indlela eyinhloko yokubamba ukunaka komyeni wakho futhi umlinge. Ungakwazi thumela izithombe ngokugqoka nje ingubo yangaphansi emnandi kakhulu onayo. Noma isithombe sezingono zakho sibambene nendwangu yakho. Noma ithanga eliveziwe ngenkathi usedeskini lakho lomsebenzi. Lokhu kuzokwenza umyeni wakho ahlanye futhi akufune nakakhulu! Ungakwazi ukukhomba izithombe ze-Google bese uqala ukusebenza.
7. Yethula ukudla ekamelweni
Wake wazama i-Nutella ekamelweni noma ama-strawberries? Kwenza izimanga. Yonke lento yokuthi ukhothe u-Nutella esikhumbeni sakho noma wenze lokho kuye kuyavusa inkanuko. Ungazama newayini noma ujamu wama-blueberry. Ungatshala emaphentini angenakudliwa. Ngisho nesenzo esilula sokumenza akhothe uju eminwe yakho singayenga kakhulu.
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8. Shiya izinwele zakho zivuliwe
Amadoda athola izinwele ezinde ezingaboshiwe zithandeka ngempela. Uma usebenza etafuleni loku-ayina noma ulungisa izitsha kusinki gcina izinwele zakho zivulekile futhi ugijimise iminwe yakho kuzo. Zama futhi unyakazise izinwele zakho kusukela kolunye uhlangothi kuya kolunye ngokungenacala, vele umbone umzuzwana odlulayo bese ubuyela emisebenzini yakho. Lokhu kungenza umyeni ongenasithakazelo kakhulu abe nesithakazelo.
Kujabulele lapho ekubamba ngezinwele zakho futhi ekugxishela esiqandisini noma etafuleni lasekhishini.
9. Khuluma ngocansi
Uma nibukele i-TV ndawonye futhi kunesigcawu esiseduze vele uveze lokho okuthanda kakhulu lapho elele nawe. Mtshele ukuthi ukuvulela kanjani nokuthi yimuphi umnyakazo owuthandayo. Uma utshela umyeni lokhu, kungase kube umfutho omkhulu wokuzazisa. Bathanda uma owesifazane wabo ebatshela ukuthi bazizwa bejabule ngokuhamba kwabo embhedeni. Mtshele ukuthi yini olindele ukuthi ayenze futhi ubone ukuthi amehlo akhe acwayiza kanjani. Ngeke ibe khona indlela engcono yokuyenga umyeni. Ubuwazi ukuthi ukuphupha ngomunye umuntu kungenza ucansi lwakho lube mnandi?
10. Thenga isiqholo esihle kakhulu
Iphunga elimnandi ukuvuleka okumangalisayo. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi ulokhu usebenzisa uhlobo olufanayo lwesiqholo futhi umyeni wakho usebhorekile ngephunga elifanayo. Zama isiqholo esisha sangaphandle. Zinike isikhathi esitolo bese uhlola ukuthi yini ekusebenzelayo. Kukhona iphunga elihehayo elingasebenza esimweni sakho. Faka imali ebhodleleni elinophawu oluhle bese uliletha ekhaya. Yifafaze futhi ubone ukusabela kwakhe etafuleni lesidlo sakusihlwa. Ngeke ucabange, “Ngabe ngiyenga umyeni wami akunjalo?” uma ubheka indlela asabela ngayo uzokwazi ukuthi unekhono lokuyenga umyeni wakho.
Ngakho-ke, besifazane nilindeleni? Hamba uhlole ikhabethe lakho futhi wenze amalungiselelo adingekayo ebusuku! Ungakhohlwa i-Nutella namakha. Sithemba ukuthi unesikhathi esijabulisayo nendoda empilweni yakho. Sazise uma amathiphu ethu okuyenga asebenze kumyeni wakho
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