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I-Codependent Relationship Quiz

Imibuzo | December 14, 2022 | Ekshika Parnami , Umcwaningi Nombhali Wokuqukethwe
Kubuyekezwe ngo: February 7, 2024

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I-Codependency ingelinye lamabhondi anobuthi kakhulu futhi angasebenzi ongawaba nomunye umuntu. Lokhu akudingekile ukuthi kube umlingani othandana naye - kungaba umzali, umngane, ingane yakini, noma isihlobo. Lo mbuzo omfishane futhi olula uzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi ngabe usebudlelwaneni obuncike kumuntu oyedwa noma cha.

Umqeqeshi wobudlelwano nokusondelana Shivanya uthi, “Lapho umlingani oyedwa engenela indima yokuba umnakekeli futhi omunye eba isisulu, uba nobuhlobo obuncikene naye.” Owokuqala uwumuphi/umsekeli phezu kwazo zonke izimo, uzidela ngenxa yalowo ohlukunyeziwe/umthathi.

“Bangena emjikelezweni lapho omunye uzakwethu edinga ukwesekwa njalo, ukunakwa, kanye nosizo kuyilapho omunye ezimisele ngempela ukukunikeza.” Ingabe uyingxenye yomjikelezo ofanayo? Thatha le mibuzo ukuze uthole!

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Umnikelo wakho awuhlanganisi inhlangano esiza abantulayo umnikelo. Izovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolwakamuva emzamweni wethu wokusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.

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Ekshika Parnami

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