Niziphatha njengombhangqwana kodwa aniqiniseki ukuthi ningawunika yini lowo mbono? Lo “Umbuzo Wokuziphendulela Ngesimo” ulapha ukuzonisiza! Odalwe ngumeluleki wobudlelwano oneziqu ze-Master's kwi-psychology kanye nolwazi olubanzi lokuthola ubunzima bothando lwanamuhla, lo mbuzo ungena emanzini amnyama alesi simo.
Wake wazibuza umehluko phakathi kobudlelwano phakathi kwezimo noma ubudlelwano noma wazibuza ukuthi “ingabe singaphezu kwabangane?” Ngaphambilini, ukukhetha kwakuphakathi kobungani nothando futhi kwakungekho phakathi. Kwakubonakala futhi ukuthi ubudlelwano bothando buhlukile. Izinto seziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu manje zishiya abaningi bethu bedidekile. Isimo singazizwa njengengxube edidayo yobudlelwano obungahleliwe kanye nobudlelwano obungachazwanga. Ingabe ubhekene nokudideka kokuqomisana futhi uzibuza ukuthi ukuxhumana kwakho kwakhelwe isikhathi eside, noma kumane kuyindaba yesikhashana?
Imibuzo Ehlobene: Ingabe Ngisebudlelwaneni Obunempilo? Imibuzo
Le mibuzo ayiphathelene nokwahlulela – imayelana nokuqonda. Ake sihlole isimo sakho ngale mibuzo engu-10 futhi sikusize uthole ukuthi kwenzakalani.
Imibuzo
1. Ungasichaza kanjani isimo sakho sobudlelwano samanje?
- Isemthethweni futhi izinikele
- Ukuzihlalela nje
- Kuyinkimbinkimbi
2. Ukhuluma kangaki nophathina wakho?
- Njalo
- Ishintsha kusuka esimweni kuya kwesinye
- Sixhumana ngokungavamile
3. Senixoxile ngokuchaza ubudlelwano nomlingani wakho?
- Yebo, savuma sobabili
- Yebo, kodwa asifinyelelanga esiphethweni
- Hhayi okwamanje
4. Nisichitha kanjani isikhathi nindawonye?
- Izinsuku, isikhathi sekhwalithi nemisebenzi enengqondo
- Sizipholele nje
- Isikhathi esiningi siyaxhuma
Imibuzo Ehlobene: Ingabe sengikulungele ubudlelwano? Imibuzo
5. Uzizwa kanjani ngekusasa lobudlelwano benu?
- Okuhle
- Akuqinisekisiwe
- Angikacabangi ngakho
6. Ingabe ninomlingani wakho kuphela?
- Yebo
- Asixoxanga ngakho
- Cha
7. Umlingani wakho ukwathula kanjani kwabanye?
- Njengomlingani wabo
- Ngegama lami, ngaphandle kokucacisa
- Kwesinye isikhathi njengomngane, kwesinye isikhathi ngaphezulu
8. Uzizwa kanjani ngezinga lokusondelana ngokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni bakho?
- Ngizizwa ngixhumeke ngokugcwele futhi ngisekelwe
- Akucaci
- Ubuhlobo bethu buyantula ukujula ngokomzwelo
9. Uke wahlangana nabangane nomndeni?
- Yebo
- Abambalwa kuphela
- Cha
10. Usichaza kanjani isimo sobudlelwano bakho?
- Kuchazwe ngokucacile
- Kuyinkimbinkimbi
- Akucacisiwe
Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.
Okufakiwe
Ingabe Ngingedwa? Imibuzo
Ingabe Kufanele Sihlukane? Imibuzo
Ingabe Isoka Lami Liyangikhohlisa? Imibuzo
Ingabe Ngiyi-Narcissistic Noma Ngiyisisulu? Imibuzo
Ingabe Ngishade Nomuntu Ofanele? Imibuzo
Ingabe Isoka Lami Liyakhohlisa? Imibuzo
Ingabe Ngikulungele Ukuthembisana Umshado? Imibuzo
Ingabe Umyeni Wami Uyalawula? Imibuzo
Ngimshiye Umyeni Wami? Imibuzo
Kufanele Ngimshade? Imibuzo
Ngingu-Emo? Imibuzo
Ingabe Umshado Wami Uyahlukana? Imibuzo
Ingabe Umkami Uyakopela? Imibuzo
Kufanele Ngibuqede Ubudlelwano Bami? Imibuzo
Ingabe Kufanele Ngimxolele Ngokukopela? Imibuzo
Ingabe umyeni wami uyi-sociopath? Imibuzo
Ngiqome naye? Imibuzo
Hlobo luni lomfana engiluhehayo? Imibuzo
Ingabe yimina onobuthi ebudlelwaneni? Imibuzo
Ingabe uyangithanda? Imibuzo