Amathiphu ayi-10 Wokuhlela Isiphakamiso Esiphelele [Uzothi Yebo Ngokuqinisekile]

Ezweni lapho izindima zobulili zendabuko zivame ukuphoqa ukuthinta kothando, umbono wentombazane ecela umshado kumfana ungahlangabezwa nokungabaza kanye nenkinga. Nokho, kule ndaba yothando oluqhakazayo, ukuxhumana kuka-Sarah no-Jake kwajula ngenxa yokuhleka okwabelwana ngakho nezingxoxo zasebusuku. Ngemva kweminyaka engumngane, uSarah wanquma ukucela umshado kuJake. Wayefuna ukuveza isifiso sakhe sohambo lwempilo yonke ndawonye kodwa wayengenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi angashela kanjani indoda kwaze kwaba yilapho ekhumbula izinkumbulo zabo ezinhle futhi azi ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze.

Phakathi kwamagagasi nokushona kwelanga eholidini eliyiphupho, uSarah wathola isikhathi esifanelekile sokuphakamisa. Emamatheka novalo, abuze umbuzo ngesikhathi ilanga lishona olwandle. Egajwe yinjabulo, uJake wamamatheka futhi wathi, “Yebo.” Indaba yabo yothando yayithole isahluko sayo esiphelele esihlokweni esivalwe ngenjabulo. Uma ufisa ukuba nesiphetho esifanayo endabeni yakho, qhubeka ufunda ukuze uthole amathiphu okuthi ungacela kanjani umshado kumfana futhi uhlele isiphakamiso somshado esiphelele.

Ingabe Abesifazane Bahlongoza Kwabesilisa Umbono Omuhle?

Ngaphambi kokuthi sifinyelele engxenyeni ethi “indlela yokushela indoda” noma “indlela yokucela indoda ukuba ikushade,” ake siphendule umbuzo ongavunyelwe kodwa obalulekile: Ingabe abesifazane bangashela amadoda? Ingabe abesifazane ukuphakamisa amadoda kuwumbono omuhle? Yebo kunjalo! Umuntu wesifazane ucela umshado endodeni kuwumqondo omuhle kakhulu! Sisekhulwini lama-21 futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi sigqashule esidala nesingenangqondo ubuqili bobulili. 

Ayikho impendulo efanele noma engalungile embuzweni othi “ngubani okufanele aphakamise”. Ebudlelwaneni, ukuveza uthando nokuzibophezela kuwumthwalo ohlanganyelwe. Ukwephula izindima zobulili zendabuko kuvumela ukulingana okwengeziwe nokuxhumana okunenjongo. Abesifazane abahlongoza amadoda babonisa:

• Isibindi
• Love
• Isifiso sobambiswano olusekelwe ekuhloniphaneni
• Ingeza ukuthinta kwesimanjemanje nokubandakanyayo ebudlelwaneni

Iziphakamiso zomshado zimayelana nokugubha uthando, futhi noma ngubani angathatha isinyathelo. Amadoda nawo ayakwazisa ukuba semaphethelweni esicelo, ezizwa ekhethekile futhi ethandwa. Bazizwa bebalulekile futhi baziswa lapho umlingani wabo ehola kulesi sikhathi esibalulekile. Kuphinde kuholele ku ukuxhumana okuvulekile ngekusasa nemigomo eyabiwe. Ekugcineni, okubaluleke kakhulu ubuqotho nothando ngesiphakamiso. Uthando alunamingcele, futhi abesifazane abahlongoza amadoda kuyindlela enhle yokuveza okufanayo.

Uthando olwawo wonke umuntu, futhi iziphakamiso kufanele zibe njalo. Ngakho-ke uma ubuzama ukunquma ukuthi ungasishela kanjani isoka lakho, ukususa izithiyo nokungabaza okugxiliswe ekhanda lakho ngemibono engokwenhlalo kuyisinyathelo sokuqala. Uma usukwenzile, ngeke kube khona ukusweleka kowesifazane ohlongoza imibono yabesilisa. Ukukusiza endleleni, sihlanganise lo mhlahlandlela wokuthi ungashela kanjani indoda.

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Manje njengoba usuyazi impendulo ethi, “Ingabe abesifazane bangaphakamisa amadoda?”, kunomunye umbuzo okufanele ucabange ngawo – Ingabe usukulungele? Yize ingekho indlela eqinisekile yokuqinisekisa ukuthi unguye noma cha, inkomba eqinile ukuthi uvele uyizwe emathunjini akho. Nsuku zonke, uvuka, futhi uyazi nje. Yilokhu, nguyena. Futhi yisikhathi. Uchitha isikhathi esiningi ucabanga ukuthi ucela ukushada kanjani nendoda noma kanjani ukuthola indoda ukuze ikushade. Uma kulapho ukhona, asikho isidingo sokulinda ukuthi abuze umbuzo. Qhubekani nihole ngazo zonke izindlela, uma inhliziyo yenu ikutshela ukuthi nisilungele lesi sinyathelo esilandelayo ohambweni lwenu njengombhangqwana.

Ngalokho kuqala uhambo lokuthola indlela yokushela isoka lakho. Yiqiniso, ungafuna ukuthi ingabi nasici futhi ikhumbuleke. Ukuze lokho kwenzeke, kunohlu olude lwezinto okudingeka uzinakekele nezinqumo okudingeka uzenze. 

Kufanele uphakamise kuphi futhi nini? Uma owesifazane eshela indoda, yini okufanele ayinike yona? Yini ongaphakamisa ngayo esikhundleni sendandatho? Ukuhlela isiphakamiso kungaba umsebenzi omkhulu, futhi kuhle ukuthi ufuna ukusenza sibe esikhethekile. Khumbula, into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi isiphakamiso kufanele sibonise ubuhlobo bakho futhi uzizwe uyiqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ungamcela kanjani umuntu ukuthi ashade nawe? Nokho, nanka amathiphu angu-10 okuthi ungawucela kanjani umshado owesilisa:

1. Thola ukuthi nobabili nikulungele yini ukushada

Kufanele ngimqome kanjani umfana, uyazibuza? Ngaphambi kokuba siphendule umbuzo wakho, sithanda ukukukhumbuza ukuthi umshado uyisibopho sokuphila konke. Kudingeka amaqembu amabili ukuthi azibandakanye ngokulinganayo futhi abe nentshisekelo ukuze asebenze. Kubalulekile ukukwenza ngezizathu ezifanele nangesikhathi esifanele. Ngakho-ke ngaphambi kokuba ufinyelele emininingwaneni yokuthi ungashela kanjani isoka lakho, qiniseka usekulungele ukushada ngokuveza isihloko engxoxweni evamile. 

Khuluma nesoka lakho mayelana nesimo salo ngomshado nendlela elizizwa ngayo ngobudlelwano obuzibophezele. Buza ngokuqondile uma ecabanga ngekusasa ndawonye. Ukuhlola abangane bakhe abaseduze kungase kukunikeze ukuqonda ngemicabango yakhe ngomshado. Khumbula, kubalulekile ukuthi nobabili nibe sekhasini elilodwa futhi nijabule ngalo mbono ngaphambi kokuthatha uhambo.

2. Cabangela isiphakamiso sakhe sephupho

Elandisa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kokuhlela isiphakamiso esiphelele, uSarah uthi, "Isihluthulelo siwukwenza isiphakamiso somshado siphelele ngaye futhi usigxilise ngokuthinta kwakho okukhethekile, ukuze, okwamanje, ngisho nayo yonke imizwa enamandla, azi ukuthi unenhlanhla kangakanani ukuba nawe nokuthi kungani nisebenza njengombhangqwana. Yileyo ndlela engacela ngayo isoka lami."

Ngakho-ke, thola isiphakamiso sephupho lomlingani wakho futhi wenze konke ongakwenza ukuze usifeze. Thola ukuthi ingabe uneziphakamiso ezimangazayo, ufuna ukuthi uphendule umbuzo, noma ukhetha ukuxoxa ngawo kuqala. Kuveze kusenesikhathi ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi nobabili nisekhasini elifanayo. Ukwenza isiphakamiso sihambisane nalokho akuthandayo kuzosenza sibe nenjongo kuye. Hlonipha indawo yakhe yokunethezeka ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ukuzizwisa kuyajabulisa nobabili. 

Ungakwazi ukuhlanganisa ezinye imibono yothando ukuphakamisa ngezindlela ezahlukene uma wazi izinto azithandayo, azithandayo nangazithandi. Cabangela okomuntu wakho:

• Ubuntu
• Ukuzilibazisa nezintshisekelo
• Imisebenzi eyintandokazi 
• Okuncanyelwayo kwesiphakamiso - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthanda ukusebenzelana kwangasese nawe nje nawe, okumangazayo kwendabuko, okusesidlangalaleni, noma okuthile okuhle

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3. Khetha usuku olukhethekile olunokubaluleka kini nobabili

Uma uzibuza ukuthi ungayithola kanjani indoda ikushade, isikhathi sibalulekile. Khetha isikhathi esikahle sokuphakamisa. Cabangela izinsuku ezikhethekile, njengezinsuku zokuzalwa noma imigubho. Cabanga ngezinsuku eziboshelwe ezikhathini ezibalulekile, njengosuku lokukhumbula usuku lwakho usuku lokuqala noma ukuqabula kuqala. Isikhathi samaholide, kusukela ku-Thanksgiving kuya ku-Valentine's Day, sinikeza indawo yothando yeziphakamiso zomshado. Ngokuyisisekelo, khetha usuku olukhethekile kini nobabili ukuze niqiniseke ukuthi isikhathi sihlala sigxilile kuzo zombili izinkumbulo zenu. Khetha isikhathi lapho nobabili ningakwazi ukujabulela isipiliyoni ngokugcwele ngaphandle kwengcindezi yangaphandle noma iziphazamiso.

4. Khetha indawo enengqondo

Uma ubulokhu uzibuza ukuthi, "Ngingaphakamisa kanjani umfana?", siphakamisa ukuthi uqale ukhethe indawo enenani lothando kini nobabili. Ukukhetha indawo efanele yesiphakamiso sakho kubalulekile. Isilungiselelo sisetha ithoni yesikhashana. Qala ngokucabanga ukuthi isoka lakho lingafuna ukushelwa. Cabangela uma ekhetha isiphakamiso sangasese noma esisendaweni yomphakathi. Kungaba:

• Lapho owahlangana khona okokuqala noma waba nosuku lwakho lokuqala noma ukwanga kokuqala
• Ikhaya lakho elabelwe noma indawo ekhethekile ebudlelwaneni bakho. 
• Okobumfihlo, phakamisa ekhaya, ekamelweni lehhotela, noma endaweni ecezile eniyithandayo nobabili
• Uma ewuhlobo olungajabulela isiphakamiso somphakathi, khethani izindawo enizijabulela nobabili noma indawo owaziyo ukuthi ufisa ukuyiphakamisa
• Hlela isiphakamiso esihlanganisa amalungu omndeni nabangane uma uqinisekile ukuthi angathanda ukuthi babe yingxenye yalesi sikhathi esikhethekile.

Okubalulekile wukwenza isiphakamiso sibe nenjongo ngokukhetha indawo enezinkumbulo ezabiwe eziqondene nawe nobabili. Khumbula ukuthi uwubuza kuphi futhi kanjani umbuzo uzohlala ugxile endabeni yakho ethi "indlela engiphakamise ngayo isoka lami" - futhi ungafuna ukuthi kube leyo ongayilandisa abazukulu bakho.

5. Thola ubuciko kanye nezothando ngemibono yakho yesiphakamiso

Ungamcela kanjani umuntu ukuthi akushade... Indlela yokushela indoda... Uyithola kanjani indoda ukuze ikushade... Kungaba nemibuzo eminingi ezungezayo engqondweni yakho njengoba uqhubeka nalolu hlelo. Hhayi-ke, phumula kalula ngoba ungahlela isiphakamiso esikhumbulekayo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokushukuma komzimba okuhle (ngaphandle uma isoka lakho likuthanda). Kugcine kulula futhi kuhlukile, ugxile ekujabuleleni isikhathi ndawonye. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ulwandle e-Bali, intaba e-Switzerland, ihlathi lemvula lase-Amazon, noma i-barstool esekhoneni endaweni yakhe eyintandokazi, okubaluleke kakhulu ukuxhumana phakathi kwakho.

Cabangela umlando wakho owabiwe lapho ukhetha usuku olubalulekile, indawo, netimu. Uma ucela umshado kumfana ngokungaqondile, kungase kudale ukudideka noma ukungaqondi ngaphandle uma kuhlelwe ngokunembayo. Ngakho-ke, indlela yokucela indoda ukuba ikushade… Kunjalo, ungakwazi ukuphakamisa ngezindlela ezahlukene; kuyisinqumo sakho. Kodwa nansi imibono embalwa yesiphakamiso ongayihlola:

• Hlela ukuzingela ingcebo noma a ukuzingela umkhwenyana, okuzoholela umlingani wakho emzileni oya endaweni yokugcina - wena ubambe inkomba yokugcina ethi "Uzongishada?" 
• Uma ufuna ukucela umshado kumfana ngombhalo ngokungaqondile, mnike imigqa embalwa nsuku zonke isonto noma inyanga, bese ukuveze konke phambi kwakhe ngosuku lokugcina.
• Mthathe niye naye esidlweni sakusihlwa sothando, hlela ukuthi abanye abaculi badlale umculo omnandi, badedele i-champagne, bese ufihla indandatho kuphudingi.
• Enye yezindlela ezinhle zokuphakamisa umfana ukuthola amakhukhi enhlanhla enziwe nge-"Will you marry me?" kuhlanganiswe
• Uma kuyingane yasemanzini, yithathe i-snorkeling noma i-scuba diving noma i-deep sea diving bese ucela umshado kuyo ngaphansi kwamanzi.
• Hlela ubusuku bosuku ekhaya noma ekamelweni lehhotela elinamakhandlela, ama-rose petals, umculo wothando, nokusetha okuseduze
• Umdlalo ojabulisayo ebusuku noma isidlo sakusihlwa nabangani nomndeni
• Hlela i-flash mob uma ufuna ukuphakamisa umfana ngendlela eyingqayizivele
• Guqa ngedolo endaweni yakhe yokudlela eyintandokazi noma isitolo sekhofi
• Mthathe ngesikhathi sokuphumula ngempelasonto umyise endaweni akade efuna ukuyivakashela

Ukuze uthole indlela ehlukile yokucela umshado kumfana engxoxweni, mthumelele izingcaphuno zothando, amanothi othando, noma imigqa yezingoma zothando azithandayo njengendlela yokwakhela usuku olukhulu. Ukucela umshado kumfana engxoxweni kungase kungabi yinto evamile, kodwa, hey, ayikho imithetho othandweni, akunjalo? Ukuphakamisa umfana ngendlela eyingqayizivele, ungazama ezinye Imibono yezinsuku zothando zasendlini ukuze uthole ugqozi. Uma uhlela ukubandakanya abangani nomndeni, qiniseka ukuthi bagibele futhi bangagcina ukumangala. Siyethemba ukuthi lo wesifazane ongenhla ohlongoza imibono kowesilisa ube ugqozi olwanele lokuthi uqhamuke nesiphakamiso esizokhipha amasokisi akhe.

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6. Thenga indandatho yokuthembisana ... Noma ungayitholi!

Uma owesifazane eshela indoda, yini okufanele ayinike yona? Hhayi-ke, kungaba yinoma yini oyifunayo. Uma uhlela ukufaka indandatho, khetha eyodwa ebonisa isitayela sakhe nezinto azithandayo. Akumele kube indandatho yesintu yokuthembisana umshado, ikakhulukazi uma engazigqokile; kungaba a ucezu ubucwebe lokho kunokubaluleka komuntu siqu. Uma usethelwe iringi, yithathele yona — ibhendi yegolide yakudala ihlale iwukubheja okuphephile.

Nokho, izindandatho akuzona kuphela inketho yeziphakamiso. Cabangela lokho isoka lakho elingase likuthande. Iziphakamiso zanamuhla zivame ukweqa indandatho, ngakho cabanga ngesitayela sakhe. Eqinisweni, ungamnika kanjani isipho esingokomfanekiso esikhundleni salokho? Izipho zingenye yezindlela ezinhle zokuphakamisa umfana.

Uma uzibuza ukuthi uphakamisa kanjani indoda, izipho ziwuhlobo lwezikhumbuzo ezingahlala ziwubufakazi obuphathekayo bosuku lwakho olukhulu. Mnikeze izinto ezizomyisa ohambweni olusha ngisho neminyaka kamuva futhi zimvumele ukuba aphinde aphile izingxenye azithandayo zosuku. Uma uzibuza ukuthi uzophakamisa ini esikhundleni sendandatho, nazi izinketho ezimbalwa:

• Iwashi lesimanje
• Isongo
• Ipheya lama-cufflink 
• Iwashi eliqoshwe amagama akho
• Izipho ezenziwe ngezandla, njengebhokisi lememori 
• Umgexo wokuthembisana 

7. Thola ukuthi ufuna ukuthwebula isikhathi futhi kanjani

Kuwo wonke umcabango wokuqonda indlela yokucela umshado endodeni, ungakhohlwa ukuthwebula isikhathi sezizukulwane. Hlela ukuthi othile athathe izithombe namavidiyo esiphakamiso. Lesi senzakalo esibalulekile kufanele saziswe. Qasha umthwebuli wezithombe ukuze athwebule umzuzu omkhulu!

Uma ukuqasha uchwepheshe kungenakwenzeka, cela umngane noma ilungu lomndeni ukuthi lithathe izithombe namavidiyo esiphakamiso. Kodwa khumbula, lokhu kumayelana nawe nothando lwakho, hhayi inkundla yezokuxhumana. Ungavumeli ingcindezi yokuthola isithombe esiphelele intshontshe injabulo nenjabulo yamanje. Futhi, vele, lokhu akusebenzi ngempela uma uthola indlela eyingqayizivele yokucela umfana engxoxweni.

8. Zilolonge inkulumo yakho noma umbhalele incwadi yothando

Cabanga ngalokho ofuna ukukusho ngesikhathi sesiphakamiso. Ungakhathazeki uma unovalo – kujwayelekile. Zijwayeze ukuveza imizwa nezinhloso zakho. Akudingekile ukuthi kube inkulumo eprakthizwayo, kodwa ukuzilungiselela kuzokusiza uveze imizwa yakho. Abanye abantu bakhetha inothi elisuka enhliziyweni, a incwadi yothando lapho uchitha khona imizwa yakho bese uphetha ngombuzo omkhulu. Lokhu kumnika isikhashana sokuzindla ngaphandle kokuzwa ingcindezi yesixuku esilindele impendulo yakhe. 

Uma usunqume ukuthi ufuna ukukusho ngokuzwakalayo noma ngencwadi, cabanga ngendlela yokuhlongoza indoda ngenkulumo. Thatha uhambo oluya phansi ngendlela yenkumbulo naye ngenkathi ulungiselela umlayezo wakho wesiphakamiso noma inkulumo. Engeza ukuthinta komuntu siqu okubonisa ubudlelwano bakho. Lokhu kungase kuhlanganise:

• Amahlaya angaphakathi
• Izinkumbulo ezabiwe
• Izinto ezizwelayo ezinencazelo ekhethekile kini nobabili
• Izikhathi lapho akwenza wazizwa ukhethekile
• Izimpi nezothando
• Izindaba zokuthi nahlangana kanjani
• Ngaleso sikhathi wazi nje ukuthi uyena

Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhetha amagama akho omlayezo wesiphakamiso ngokucophelela ukuze ukwazi ukumazisa ukujula kothando lwakho. Vumela amazwi akho abonise imizwa yakho. Thela inhliziyo yakho. Mtshele izinto obungakwazi ukuzisho ngokuzwakalayo, izinto eziyinki nezikhumba ezingachaza kangcono. Khumbula nje ukuthi uma ufuna indlela eyingqayizivele yokuphakamisa umfana, khona-ke udinga ukuqoqa isibindi sakho futhi ulungiselele lokho ofuna ukukusho kuye kusengaphambili. 

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9. Phendula umbuzo

Uma usazama ukuthola indlela yokushela indoda noma ukuthi ungathola kanjani indoda ukuze ikushade, siphakamisa ukuthi uyigcine ilula futhi iyiqiniso. Bheka emehlweni akhe, bonisa uthando lwakho, bese ubuza umbuzo. Khumbula, uma uhlongoza, ungumuntu nje. Uma ukushela indoda yakho kuzwakala kulungile, qhubeka, uguqe ngedolo elilodwa, wenze into yakho. Noma mhlawumbe akunjalo!

Isiko lokuguqa ngedolo elilodwa ukuze uhlongoze linomlando opholile ngemuva kwalo - ama-knights ayejwayele ukukwenzela abantu besifazane abahlonishwayo ezikhathini zasendulo. Kodwa akudingekile ukuba wenze kanjalo. Konke kumayelana nokuthi yini ozizwa ikufanele. Ukuguqa akusenzi isiphakamiso sakho sibe ngokoqobo kakhulu, futhi ukuma akusenzi sikhethekile. Kodwa-ke, uma uthatha isinqumo sokudala ukuthi uphendule umbuzo, khumbula:

• Thola usayizi wendandatho
• Akukhathalekile ukuthi ufinyelela kuliphi idolo noma uhlangothi lwendandatho
• Kuhlele kahle ukuze ungaphuthi iringi kahle uma ubuza umbuzo omkhulu
• Gqoka okuthile okunethezekile ukuze uguqe ngamadolo - gwema izingubo ezimpintshayo noma izicathulo eziphakeme kakhulu
• Zilolonge ngaphambi komzuzu omkhulu

Uma ukuma kukufanele kangcono, vele ubambe izandla zomlingani wakho, umbheke emehlweni, futhi uthulule isifuba sakho. Kodwa-ke, uma ungenaso isibindi noma uzizwa wethukile kakhulu ukuthi ungabuza ubuso nobuso, bese uphakamisa ngezindlela ezihlukene engxoxweni noma uphakamisele umfana ngokungaqondile ngamanothi othando nezingcaphuno zesiphakamiso sothando. Okubalulekile wukwenza lokho okuzizwa kukulungele wena nendaba yakho yothando.

10. Bungaza lesi sikhathi!

Ngemuva kokuthi uchithe isikhathi esiningi uzama ukuthola indlela yokucela umshado endodeni futhi uhlela yonke imininingwane encane, qiniseka ukuthi uyasijabulela leso sikhathi. Hlela okuthile okujabulisayo ongakubungaza uma usuthole ukuthi 'yebo' wenjabulo obulokhu uyilindile. Qoqa obathandayo endaweni yokudlela ukuze wabelane ngezindaba ezijabulisayo noma ujabulele isikhashana esithulile nozakwenu ekuhambeni okumnandi kwakusihlwa epaki. Noma ngabe yini oyikhethayo, kubalulekile kwabesifazane abahlongoza ukudedela noma yiziphi izinzwa zangaphambi komshado futhi bavele bacwile ebuhleni balesi sahluko esisha ezimpilweni zenu. Okubalulekile ukugubha isikhathi futhi udale izinkumbulo ezizokwenza ube wakho indaba yokuzibandakanya ekhethekile nakakhulu.

Ukuhlela isiphakamiso kungaba yizinzwa (owesifazane ongenhla ohlongoza indoda imibono namathiphu kufanele kusize ukuthulisa leyo mizwa ngokwezinga elithile). Thola umhleli wesiphakamiso ukuze wenze izinto zibe lula. Futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, zijabulele! Ungacela umshado kumfana ngezindlela ezahlukene kodwa ungakhohlwa ukujabulela inqubo, ujabulele ukulangazelela, futhi uthembe ukuthi uthando lwakho luzokhanya ngosuku olukhulu. Inhlanhla, futhi khumbula, inqobo nje uma ivela enhliziyweni, isiphakamiso sizobe siphelele futhi singalibaleki! Sithemba ukuthi amathiphu angenhla okuthi ungaphakamisa kanjani umfana akusize uhlele futhi wenze kakhulu isiphakamiso esiphelele lokho kuzamshanela ezinyaweni zakhe. Qala ukuhlela kakade!

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