Ingabe Ngidinga Ukwelulekwa Ngomshado? Imibuzo

Wena nophathina wakho benivamise ukuhlukana, nabelana ngokuhleka, amaphupho, nezinkumbulo ezingenakubalwa. Nokho, muva nje, isisekelo esasiqinile sobuhlobo benu sibonakala siwohloka. Mhlawumbe uzithola uhileleke ezingxabanweni ezishisayo, ulwa nokungaxhumani okugcwele ngokomzwelo, noma ubhekene nezinselele ezihlobene nokusondelana nokwethembana. Uma lesi simo sikuthinta kakhulu, kungase kube isikhathi sokucabanga ngesimo somshado wakho.

Ukukusiza kulolu hambo lokuzicabangela, umeluleki wobudlelwane owaziwayo Dhriti Bhavsar wenze imibuzo ethi “Ingabe ngidinga ukwelulekwa ngomshado”. Ngeziqu zakhe ze-master ku-psychology kanye neminyaka yesipiliyoni sokusiza imibhangqwana ukuthi ikwazi ukubhekana nobunzima bobudlelwano babo, u-Dhriti uyawaqonda ama-nuances omshado.

Ukwelulekwa kwabashadile kuyinqubo engaletha ushintsho oluhle ngokusiza imibhangqwana ukuthi ihlole futhi ibhekane nezimbangela zezinselele zabo. Ukufuna usizo lochwepheshe akukhona nje okwabashadile abasonqenqemeni lokuhlukana; iyithuluzi elisebenzayo nelinika amandla kunoma ubani ofuna ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakhe. Ingabhekana nezinkinga ezahlukahlukene, njengokunqamuka kwezokuxhumana, ukukhathazeka kokwethenjwa, izindaba zokusondelana, nokuzulazula ngemuva kwemiphumela yokungathembeki. Ngamasu omuntu siqu kanye nokusebenzisana kweqembu, ukwelashwa kwezithandani kuhlose ukuvuselela inhlansi, ukwakha kabusha ukwethembana, kanye nokusungula isisekelo esiqinile sobambiswano oluhlala njalo nolunelisayo.

Thatha lokhu imibuzo yokwelapha imibhangqwana, okungafanele kuthathe ngaphezu kwemizuzu eyi-10-15 yesikhathi sakho, futhi uthole ukuthi kungaba yini ukhiye wokuvuselela ukuxhumana kwakho nophathina wakho.

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1. Ingabe kuzwakala sengathi wena nomlingani wakho niyiqembu uma kuziwa ekuxazululeni izinkinga?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
2. Ingabe uzizwa ukude ngokomzwelo kumlingani wakho?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
3. Ingabe nobabili nizithola nixabene noma ningafuni ukulwa?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
4. Ingabe uzithola ungafuni ukuchitha isikhathi nomlingani wakho?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
5. Ingabe wena nomlingani wakho benilokhu nixabana ngezinkinga ezifanayo?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
6. Ingabe uzizwa usekelwa umngane wakho womshado?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
7. Uyakusola ukwethembeka kowakwakho kuwena?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
8. Ingabe nobabili nixabana izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa ngesonto?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
9. Ingabe ujabule ngocansi njengoba wabelana nomlingani wakho?
   1. Isikhathi esiningi
   2. Ngokuvamile
10. Ingabe nobabili niyakwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga zenu ekugcineni?
    1. Isikhathi esiningi
    2. Ngokuvamile
11. Ingabe nobabili niyalwa ngenxa yokwehluka okubalulekile kwezimiso zenu?
    1. Isikhathi esiningi
    2. Ngokuvamile
12. Ingabe ugcina izimfihlo kumngane wakho womshado?
    1. Isikhathi esiningi
    2. Ngokuvamile

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