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“Ingabe Ngisebudlelwaneni Obunobuthi?” Le mibuzo Izokusiza Ukunquma!

Imibuzo | September 22, 2022 | Ekshika Parnami , Umcwaningi Nombhali Wokuqukethwe
Kubuyekezwe ngo: February 2, 2024

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Ubudlelwano obunobuthi bungase bungabi mnandi njengoba ingoma kaBritney Spears ibenza buzwakale. Buyalutha futhi buzizwa sengathi buhamba ngendlela exakile. Isici sobudlelwano obunobuthi esivamile - Uzizwa sengathi useqophelweni lomhlaba kodwa bese ufika ekugcineni. Lo mjikelezo 'wenjabulo nobuhlungu' wenza ubuchopho bakho bube ndikindiki.

Iqukethe imibuzo engu-7 nje kuphela, imibuzo 'yobudlelwano obunobuthi' ilapha ukuze itakule. Okokuqala, buyini ubuhlobo obunobuthi?

Kukhona 'imidlalo' eminingi ehilelekile futhi ayimnandi
Kukhona okudidayo 'push and pull' ashukumisayo
Uhlala ngokweqile ngethemba lokuthi umlingani wakho uzoshintsha ngelinye ilanga
Amathumbu akho ahlezi ekutshela ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle

Okokugcina, mbambatha emhlane wakho ekubambeni izimpawu zobudlelwano obunobuthi. Ukuphuma ekuphikeni kuyisiqalo esihle. Mhlawumbe uke waba semaphethelweni okuhlukunyezwa, ngaphandle kokuqaphela.

Ubudlelwano obuyingozi buyalutha futhi kunzima ukuzisusa ezimweni ezinjalo ngaphandle kosizo lwanoma ubani. Uma uhlala uzama ukuthethelela ukuziphatha okungalungile komlingani wakho, kungaba usizo ukubonisana nodokotela wezokwelapha onelayisensi. Abeluleki bethu abavela kuphaneli yeBonobology bahlala bekulungele.

Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.

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Omaka: Amandla amabili, Ubudlelwano Abashadile, Iseluleko sokuqomisana nobudlelwano, Amathiphu Awusizo, Izeluleko Zobudlelwano, Ubudlelwano obunobuthi, Ubudlelwano obungenampilo

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Ekshika Parnami

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