Ikhaya › Ukuzijabulisa Nje › Imibuzo › Thatha Lolu Hlelo Lokuhlolwa Kokungaziphathi Kobulili!

Thatha Lesi Sivivinyo Sokuhlukana Nobulili!

Imibuzo | October 30, 2022 | Ekshika Parnami , Umcwaningi Nombhali Wokuqukethwe

Spread uthando

Ingabe uvame ukuzithola uzibuza umbuzo othi, "Ingabe ngingumuntu othanda ubulili?". Okokuqala, yini i-demisexual? Futhi kungani kubaluleke kangaka ukubeka ilebula kuyo? Ungakhathazeki, lolu vivinyo olulula lwe-demisexual lapha ukuze uxazulule konke ukungabaza kwakho futhi uthulise zonke izinkathazo zakho!

Ngaphambi kokuhlola incazelo ye-demisexual, ake sibheke izincazelo zobunye ubunikazi bobulili obubalulekile:

I-Asexual: ithola ukukhangwa okuncane/ayikho nhlobo kodwa ingase ihlanganyele emsebenzini wocansi
I-Sapiosexual: izizwa ikhangwa abantu abahlakaniphile (incike phezu kobuhlakani benhloso)
I-Pansexual: ingakhangwa yinoma ubani ngokocansi, ngaphandle kokunaka ubulili/isimo

Okokugcina, ubunikazi bobulili buyinkimbinkimbi futhi kunezigaba eziningi kakhulu ezihilelekile. Kuhlale kuwukuhlakanipha ukufuna iseluleko kuchwepheshe wezokwelapha oqinisekisiwe. Uma unenkinga yokwamukela ukuthambekela kwakho kobulili, ochwepheshe bethu abavela kuphaneli yeBonobology bahlala bekulungele. Unganqikazi ukufuna ukwesekwa kwabo.

Umnikelo wakho awuyona iminikelo yokusiza . Kuzovumela i-Bonobology ukuthi iqhubeke nokukulethela ulwazi olusha nolusesikhathini njengoba sifuna ukusiza noma ubani emhlabeni ukuthi afunde ukwenza noma yini.

Bheka Inqubo Yethu Yokuhlela

Hlangana Nebhodi Lethu Lokubuyekeza

Yabelana Ngempendulo

Ithini impendulo yakho?

Spread uthando

Omaka: I-LGBTQ, Isifiso socansi, Izindaba zocansi, Ukwabelana ngocansi, Sexuality

Mayelana Umlobi

Ekshika Parnami

Ngabhala inkondlo yami yokuqala ngisebangeni lesihlanu futhi angizange ngiyeke kusukela lapho. Njengoba kuye kwaduma ukuthi, 'Angizibhali izinkondlo; izinkondlo ziyangibhala.' Ukubhala bekungeyona into emnandi kimi; kube yisidingo esingigcina ngiphilile. Ukuthulula imizwa yami ephepheni kuzenzakalele kimi njengokuphefumula. Idigri ku-Journalism evela kuKristu bekuyi-cherry phezulu. Ukubhala izindatshana ezinde njengengxenye yokulungiselela i-UPSC noma amaphepha ethemu njengomfundi we-JNU akukaze kuzizwe kuwumthwalo kimi; empeleni, bekuyindlela yokwelapha ukuthayipha amagama ayi-2,000 ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ukungena njengentatheli ne-Indian Express kungifundise ukuthi ukubuza imibuzo efanele kungaholela kanjani ezingxenyeni ezibucayi nezihehayo. Ngokomzwelo, ngiye ngaqaphela ngokujulile futhi ngathola ukungqubuzana ebudlelwaneni—kokubili empilweni yami naseduze kwami lapho ngisakhula. Ngiye ngeqa kusuka ebudlelwaneni kuya ebudlelwaneni, kungaba ibanga elide noma okungamukeleki, okunobuthi noma okuhlukumezayo, ukuhlala ngaphakathi noma okuvamile. Ukwelapha ubuhlungu nobuhlungu benhliziyo balezo zenzakalo, kanye nomshado onzima wabazali bami, ngingathumela izingcezu ezinde ku-Instagram. Lokhu okuthunyelwe kwaba kokubili indawo yokukhipha umoya kanye nokuqala kohambo lwami olubheke ekuzithandeni. Abanye abantu baqala ukuhlobana nokubhala kwami futhi babethi kimi, 'Kufanele ukhokhelwe ngalokhu!' Ngakho, ngilapha. Ngithole indlela yami yokukhulula imizwa enamandla kanye nezifundo engizifundile, ngizikhipha ohlelweni lwami