Ingabe uyangithanda? Imibuzo

Ngakho-ke, senithandana isikhathi eside. Ubonakala ephuphile futhi konke kuhamba kahle. Uyathandana futhi uyazi kodwa usala uzibuza ukuthi naye uzizwa ngendlela efanayo yini. Ingabe lokhu kuzwakala kujwayelekile? Abaningi bethu baye babhekana nombuzo omdala: "ingabe uyangithanda ngempela?"

Sikhona ukuzosula ukudideka kwakho ngalokhu 'Does He Love Me Test'. Iklanywe ngu-a umeluleki wobudlelwano osize imibhangqwana eminingi futhi eqonda ukuthi ungazibona kanjani zonke izimpawu, kuzokusiza ukuthi uthole ukuguquguquka kobudlelwano bakho. Akusekho ukumosha amacembe ezimbali ezibuza ukuthi, "uyangithanda noma cha?". Impendulo yakho isemibuzweni eyi-10 elula kodwa enokuqonda.

Le mibuzo ingasiza ukusula ukudideka kwakho futhi ikunikeze amandla okuqhubekela phambili ngokucaca okwengeziwe mayelana nobudlelwano bakho. Ngakho-ke, donsa umoya futhi uqale lolu hambo lokutholwa. Khumbula, azikho izimpendulo ezilungile nezingalungile. Noma ngabe imiphumela iyakutshela akakuthandi, akusho ukuthi ngeke esikhathini esizayo. Kusho ukuthi uthando lwakho ludinga isikhathi esengeziwe ukuze luqhakaze ngakho-ke udinga ukulunisela ngomzamo, ukuxhumana, nokuqonda okujulile kwezidingo zomunye nomunye.

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Imibuzo

1. Ukubonisa kanjani uthando?

•    a) Uvame ukungitshela ukuthi uyangithanda futhi abonise uthando ngokuthinta ngezandla.
•    b) Ukhombisa uthando ngezikhathi ezithile kodwa akakhulumi kakhulu ngemizwa yakhe.
•    c) Akavamile ukubonisa uthando noma athi “ngiyakuthanda.”

2. Uzibeka kanjani phambili izidingo zakho nezinto ozifunayo ebudlelwaneni?

•    a) Ubheka izidingo zami nezinto engizifuna njengezibaluleke njengezakhe.
•    b) Uyazama ukwanelisa izidingo zami kodwa ngezinye izikhathi abeke ezakhe kuqala.
•    c) Uvame ukungazinaki izidingo zami futhi abeke kuqala izifiso zakhe.

3. Ukhuluma kanjani nawe ngezikhathi ezinzima noma izingxabano?

•    a) Uyalalela ngokucophelela, anikeze ukusekela, futhi asebenzele ekuxazululeni isixazululo.
•    b) Uzama ukugwema izingxabano noma ukuzivikela phakathi nezingxoxo.
•    c) Uyakuchitha lokho engikukhathazayo futhi akazibandakanyi ekuxhumaneni okukhiqizayo.

4. Uziphatha kanjani eduze kwabangane bakho nomndeni wakho?

•    a) Uzibandakanya nabo ngenkuthalo, akhombise intshisekelo, futhi azame ukwakha ubudlelwano.
•    b) Unesizotha kodwa ugodlile ngandlela thize noma ukude.
•    c) Ukhombisa intshisekelo encane yokwazi noma ukuchitha isikhathi nabo.

5. Ukusingatha kanjani ukwenza izinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo nawe?

•    a) Uyangifaka ezinhlelweni zakhe zesikhathi eside futhi axoxe ngekusasa lethu ndawonye.
•    b) Wenza izinhlelo zesikhashana kodwa uyangabaza ukuxoxa ngekusasa.
•    c) Ugwema ukwenza izinhlelo zesikhathi esizayo noma ubonakala engaqinisekile mayelana nesiqondiso sobudlelwane.

6. Usabela kanjani kulokho okuzuzile noma impumelelo yakho?

•    a) Ubungaza impumelelo yami futhi uzwakalisa injabulo yangempela kimi.
•    b) Uyazazi izimpumelelo zami kodwa akabonisi isasasa elingako.
•    c) Ubonakala engenandaba noma engenandaba nalokho engikufezile.

7. Usabela kanjani ezidingweni zakho ezingokomzwelo noma ukuba sengozini?

•    a) Unikeza ukusekela, uzwela, kanye nesiqinisekiso lapho ngizizwa ngisengozini.
•    b) Akakhululekile ngokuboniswa kwemizwa kodwa uzama ukusekela.
•    c) Uchitha noma wenza imizwelo yami ingasebenzi futhi uzama ukungisekela.

8. Uza kuqala kanjani ukuchitha isikhathi nawe?

•    a) Wenza ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye kube yinto eza kuqala ohlelweni lwakhe.
•    b) Uchitha isikhathi nami lapho kufaneleka kodwa akabeki izinto ezibalulekile kuqala.
•    c) Uvame ukukhansela izinhlelo noma enze izaba zokugwema ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye.

9. Ukhuluma kanjani ngekusasa lenu ndawonye?

•    a) Ukhuluma ngekusasa lethu kanye nomdlandla nokuzibophezela.
•    b) Uyangabaza noma akacacile lapho exoxa ngekusasa lethu ndawonye.
•    c) Uyakugwema ukuxoxa ngekusasa noma ubonakala engenasithakazelo ekuzibophezeleni kwesikhathi eside.

10. Ukwenza uzizwe kanjani ngawe nangobudlelwano?

•     a) Ungenza ngizizwe ngithandwa, ngibalulekile futhi ngivikelekile ebudlelwaneni.
•     b) Kwesinye isikhathi ungenza ngingabaze imizwa yakhe noma ukuzinza kobudlelwano.
•     c) Uvame ukungenza ngizizwe ngingavikelekile noma ngingathandwa ebudlelwaneni.

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