I roto i te marena, i te whanaungatanga rānei, he mea nui kia tiakina, kia manaakitia hoki ngā wā pai, nā te mea koinei te mea e āwhina ana i a koe kia ora tonu mō te wā roa. Ko te ngahau i te haerenga, te whakapuaki i tētahi mea ngaro, te mahi rānei i tētahi mea ohorere, he huarahi ēnei hei hanga maharatanga hou me tō hoa rangatira. Ina noho tahi kōrua mō te wā roa, me ngana te tangata ki te hanga maharatanga hou kia whai hua ai te haerenga.
I te mutunga, he mea ataahua te whai i ngā wā maha hei titiro whakamuri, hei mōhio hoki he whanaungatanga whai tikanga tā kōrua i hanga i tō oranga. Ko ngā wā whakatau ohorere, te whai i tō ngākau, te mahi rānei i runga i ō kare ā-roto pono, koinei ngā mea e kore e warewaretia te oranga. Pānuihia te kōrero mō tētahi tokorua i raro nei kia mōhio ai koe he aha te hiranga o te hanga maharatanga hou.
Me pēhea te hanga maharatanga hou
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Ko te wā tēnei o te ahiahi i te mea e ahua kino rawa atu ana tō tēpu tari i te ao! Kei te hiamoe koe, e hamama ana, e tatari ana kia tae ki te 5 karaka kia taea ai e koe te hoki ki te kāinga. I a au e ngana ana ki te aro ki taku mahi, ko te wā tēnā i waea mai ai 'Ia' ki ahau. I tangohia e au te waea, me te whakaari kei te pukumahi rawa ahau ki te mahi.
Ia: "Kia ora, i whakaaro ahau ka marena tāua i te marama o Noema, he aha tāu e kī atu ai?"
Ahau: "E aha!?"
Te pānui e pā ana: Me pēhea te noho hei hoa pai mō tō hoa rangatira?
(I ohorere ahau! Arā, ko wai rā te tangata e tono ana i tētahi marena pēnei? I harikoa ahau, ā, i riri hoki i te wā kotahi). Me te ataata reka rawa atu, ka puta atu ahau i te tari, ā, ka tū ki te kokonga o te taupee. He mea whakamiharo! He tino ohorere ki ahau.
Ahau: "He porangi koe, he aha rānei, koinei te huarahi e tono ai koe? Kāore i te aroha, kāore he mea reka, kāore he mea..? Kāore koe e whakamahi i ētahi ngā nekehanga aroha onge kia tino whakangaromia rawatia ahau?"
Ia: "Kia mau tō aroha. Titiro mai, ina tono koe ki tētahi, e rua ā rātou kōwhiringa, ko te whakaae, ko te whakahē rānei. Engari kāore au e hiahia ki te hoatu ki a koe te kōwhiringa ki te kī 'Kāo'. Pērā noa iho!"
"Ko ngā maharatanga he taonga e mau tonu ana i roto i ō tātou ngākau."
I pū ake te harikoa i roto i ahau, ā, kāore au i te mōhio he aha te mea hei kōrero. I tū ahau i reira, e menemene ana, e tatari ana kia tau te wairua ki roto i tōku puku. I hiahia ahau ki te kata nui engari i tino taumaha hoki ahau.
I tino tupu! Kāore i roa ka tae mai a Noema, ā, kua marena māua tetahi ki tetahi. Ko taua rā te wā tino nui o ō māua oranga e kore e warewaretia e māua. Ko te ao he hanga maharatanga hei whakakatakata i a koe ahakoa kua maha ngā tau i muri mai, e mōhio ana ahau ki tēnā inaianei.
Te pānui e pā ana: Ngā huarahi auaha ki te tono tono ki tō hoa rangatira
Te hanga tahi i ngā maharatanga
E rua, e toru rānei ngā wā ka waea mai taku tāne i tana tari i ia rā. Ka kōrero māua mō ngā mea wairangi, ka whakarite i mua mō te mutunga wiki, ka kōrero rānei māua mō tētahi kaupapa matapōkere. I ētahi wā, ka waea mai ia ki ahau kia rongo noa i tōku reo!
Kua tata ki te tekau tau te pakeke o tā māua hononga, engari kei te mau tonu tā māua whanonga me te mea nei he hinga i roto i te aroha tetahi ki tetahi. Kāore mātou e kore e tawai tetahi ki tetahi, e mahi ana hoki i ngā mea porangi ka whakama ai te tamaiti nohinohi!
Kei roto taku tāne i te ope taua, ā, i tukuna māua ki tētahi wāhi i te taha o te huarahi nui. I haere taku tāne ki te mahi. I tētahi rā ka waea mai ia ki ahau i te 11:00 i te ata. He hotoke, ā, i te hikoi ahau i te marae.
I kitea ngā waka e haere ana i te huarahi nui mā roto i te kōhao whaiti o ngā rakau mai i tō mātou taupee. I kī mai taku tāne kei te hoki ia ki tana tari, nō reira i whakaaro ia ki te 'whakamahi' i tēnei wā ki te kōrero ki ahau. Ka waea mai ia ki ahau i ngā wā katoa e wātea ana.
Nō reira, i a māua e kōrero ana, ka kite ahau kāore anō ia kia taraiwa i mua i tō māua whare. Ahakoa tōku porangi, ka mea atu ahau ki a ia kia mutu tana motuka ina tae atu ia ki te wāhi e kitea atu ai tō māua whare i waenganui i ngā rakau. I hiahia noa ahau kia kite i a ia.
"Kaua e tukua te ora kia pahemo; awhihia ngā haerenga hou, waihangahia ngā maharatanga e kore e warewaretia."
I kata tuatahi ia, ā, ka mea ka tomuri ia ki te mahi. Engari kāore au i te hiahia ki te mutu. I kī atu ahau me toro atu ia ki konei, ki te kore ka tunua e au he rīwai penupenu mō te tina – he mea e tino whakarihariha ana ia. I whakaae ia ki te tū.
E 100 mita pea te tawhiti atu i taua wāhi. I tono atu ahau kia āta haere ia, kia kite atu ahau i ahau e ruru ana i tō mātou kāinga. Kāore ia i pai ki te whakaaro, nā te mea he hōia kē atu e neke haere ana i taua wāhi anō, ā, he mea whakamā.
I whakamana atu ahau ki a ia ka mahia e au, ā, ka ruru noa i te ringa ina kore he tangata i te taha. Kāore anō ia kia tino whakapono, engari kāore he huarahi kē atu mā te tangata rawakore i tua atu i te whai i aku tohutohu.
I a mātou tonu e waea ana, ā, kua tata mai ia ki te wāhi. I kite ahau i tana motuka; i tino harikoa ahau i te kitenga atu i a ia e tawhiri ana i te ringa mai i roto i te motuka! I tawhiri porangi mātou tetahi ki tetahi, ā, ka tīmata te kata mō tō mātou wairangi. I rite mātou ki ngā taiohi!
"He tino porangi koe," tana kī. "Āe, he porangi ahau, ā, ka noho tonu ahau pērā mō te toenga o tōku ao. Kāore au e hiahia kia ngaro tetahi whai wāhitanga i te ao ki te kite i a koe me te aroha ki a koe," taku whakautu. Kāore koe i te koroheke rawa ki te hanga maharatanga tahi. Ko te whakatapua i te wā ki te hanga maharatanga hou tētahi o ngā mea tino pai. ngā tohutohu mō te oranga marena harikoa.
He aha te Hiranga o te Waihanga Mahara Hou
E rua hāora i muri mai ka hoki ia ki te kāinga mō te tina, engari i nui tēnei harikoa iti hei pupuri i ahau kia makona mō te toenga o te rā. E whakapono tonu ana ahau kaua rawa e mahue tetahi whai wāhi ki te 'noho i roto i te wā' me ō hoa aroha, kaua hoki e mahue ngā whai wāhi ki te hanga maharatanga tahi.
Ka mutu te ao i roto i te kimo o te kanohi, engari ko ngā maharatanga ka mau tonu ki a koe ake ake ko ngā maharatanga i hangaia e kōrua i a kōrua e ora ana, e noho tahi ana. I tēnei rā, kei te tukuna ia ki tētahi wāhi tūmatanui, kāore e taea e au te noho tahi me ia. E rua tau neke atu māua e noho tawhiti ana tetahi i tetahi. Engari kei te ora māua i tēnei wehenga nā... te hanga maharatanga hou o ngā wā ataahua, e tahaetia pukutia ana e tātou i te wā.
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FAQs
1. He aha te āwhina a ngā maharatanga e mau tonu ana ki a koe?
Mā te whakahoki anō i ngā maharatanga tawhito me te maumahara ki aua maharatanga, ehara i te mea ka menemene noa iho koe, engari ka āwhina anō hoki i a koe kia kaha i roto i ngā āhuatanga kino. Mā te maumahara ki ngā wā harikoa ka āwhina i a koe ki te mōhio ki ngā mea nui, ā, ka āwhina i a koe kia ora tonu ahakoa te raruraru.
2. Ka mau tonu ngā maharatanga mō ake tonu atu?
Ka taea e rātou. He mea memeha haere ngā wā, engari ka taea e ngā maharatanga te noho tonu ki a koe ake tonu atu. Koia te mea nui o te waihanga maharatanga hou nā te mea ka noho tonu ēnei ki a koe.
3. Me pēhea taku waihanga i ngā maharatanga whai tikanga ake me ōku whanaunga?
Whakaritea he wā kounga teitei, whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi tahi, me te noho tonu i te wā tonu
Thoughts Final
He mea nui te hanga maharatanga hou mō te oranga oraora me te whai hua. Ko te kaupapa matua ko te awhi i te haerenga, te hono atu ki ngā hoa aroha, me te waihanga i tētahi whānuitanga o ngā wheako ka hari ai koe, ka whakamarie ai hoki mō ngā tau e haere ake nei. Nō reira, haere atu i tō rohe whakamarie, whakamātauria ngā mea hou, ā, kia maumahara ki ngā wā e tino motuhake ai te ao.
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Mā te maumahara tahi ki aua mea ka āwhina i a koe ki te maumahara ki te reka o te aroha o te tamarikitanga, ā, ka maumahara anō hoki koe ki te hononga o tō kōrua ngākau. Ā, tera pea ka āwhina i a koe ki te maumahara me pēhea te noho ngahau ake!
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