Te Reta Aroha Tino Pai ki taku Wahine: 35 Tauira Hei Whakaaweawe

Mena he tangata aroha korekore koe, he wahine rānei kua mārenatia, me whakauru e koe ngā reta aroha ki roto i tō marena. E kitea ana ēnei hei tohu reka, ā, hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakapuaki pai ake i ō kare ā-roto. Mena kei te whakaaro koe, "Me pēhea taku tuhituhi i tētahi reta aroha e pā ana ki te ngākau ki taku wahine?" Kaua e manukanuka. Hei whakahihiko i a koe, hei āwhina hoki i a koe ki te mārama me pēhea te tuhituhi i tētahi reta aroha māna, kua kohikohia e mātou ētahi whakaaro mō ngā reta aroha.

Me pēhea te tuhituhi i te reta aroha tino pai ki taku wahine? 35 tauira hei whakahihiko i a koe

I mua i te taenga atu ki ngā tauira reta aroha, me whakautu wawe tātou i ētahi o ngā pātai ka ara ake pea i roto i tō hinengaro mō te tuhi reta aroha :

• Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi reta aroha, tīmata mā te karanga i a ia ki tētahi ingoa aroha, pērā i te aroha, i te darling rānei, hei whakatakoto i tētahi reo aroha.
• He aha te mea hei tuhituhi māu hei reta aroha māna? He aha te mea hei tuhituhi māu! Tuhia he maharatanga nui ki a ia, kōrerotia rānei ki a ia te āhua o tana whakapai ake i tō oranga, whakakīia rānei te whārangi ki ngā mihi. Mēnā he pono ngā kare ā-roto, ka tino pai ki tāu wahine.

Nā te mea kua mōhio koe ki te tuhituhi reta aroha, anei ētahi tauira hei āwhina i a koe:

He reta aroha e pā ana ki te ngākau ki taku wahine

I roto i te marena, he mea nui kia whakaatu te maioha tetahi ki tetahi i ētahi wā. Tērā pea ka whakaaro koe, "E aroha ana ahau ki taku wahine, ā, e mōhio ana ia ki tēnā, he aha ai te kī atu anō me te kī atu anō?" engari he tino hē koe. Ko ngā mahi me ngā tohu aroha te mea e kaha ai te whanaungatanga . Ko ngā reta aroha tētahi o ngā tohu e āwhina ana i a koe ki te whakapuaki i tō aroha ki tō wahine, kia maioha ai hoki ia.

Anō, ki te kore koe e aroha ki te tangata, ka mea pea koe, "Kāore au i te mōhio me pēhea te tuhituhi reta aroha e pā ana ki te ngākau ki taku wahine." Ā, he tika tēnā. Ehara i te katoa o tātou i te mōhio ki te tuhituhi kupu. Nō reira, anei ētahi tauira reta aroha hei āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ki ngā mea hei tuhituhi i roto i tētahi reta aroha:

1. He anahera i tonoa mai i te rangi

E te wahine,

Whakapono mai ki ahau ina kī atu ahau he anahera koe i tukuna mai i te rangi. Kī tonu tā tāua marena i ngā takahurihuri me ngā pōrearea, ā, kāore au i pai ki tētahi atu huarahi. E mihi ana ahau ki a koe mō te ninii mai i te aroha ki ahau, me ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe māku. Ka oati ahau ki te aroha ki a koe ake ake , ka tū ki tō taha, pērā i a koe e mahi ana māku.

Tō tāne aroha

2. Ko koe tōku kaha

Arohanui,

E mōhio tonu ana koe ki te whakakatakata i ahau ina pouri ahau. Ko koe tōku kaha i ngā wā tino uaua, ā, e tino mihi ana ahau ki a koe. Ko tāku e tumanako nei kia noho tahi tātou mō tōku oranga katoa. Ka aroha tonu ahau ki a koe tae noa ki tōku manawa whakamutunga. 

He maha whakawhetai,

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3. Ko koe taku hoa pai rawa atu

E hoa wahine,

Kāore e ranea ngā kupu hei whakapuaki i ōku kare ā-roto mōu. He ataahua koe, he atawhai, he mātau, he whakamere, me te maha atu anō. Kotahi koe i roto i te miriona, ā, he tino waimarie ahau ki te noho mai i tō taha. Ehara koe i te mea ko taku wahine anake, engari ko taku hoa pai hoki. Kua ngaro ahau ki te kore koe.

He maha te aroha,

4. Richard Burton ki a Elizabeth Taylor (1964)

Kei te tatari mārie aku kanohi matapo kia kite i a koe. Kāore koe i te mōhio, e EB, ki tō ataahua whakamiharo i ngā wā katoa, me te mea kē kua riro i a koe tētahi ataahua motuhake, mōrearea hoki.

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5. Kāore pea au i te tino tika, engari ka ngana tonu ahau kia tino tika māu

Kia ora [Tōna ingoa],

Ehara ahau i te tāne tino ātaahua, ehara hoki ahau i te tāne tino tika. Engari kua rite tonu tāu mahi ki ahau me te mea kāore he tangata i tua atu i ahau. Nā tō tautoko tonu ahau i whakatenatena kia noho hei hoa pai ake i ia rā, ā, ko tāku e tumanako nei kua angitu ahau ki te hoatu ki a koe he oranga harikoa, whai hua hoki. Nā te mea ko tō ataata te mea tino ataahua kua kitea e au, ā, e hiahia ana ahau kia kite tonu atu ahau i taua mea.

He reta ki taku wahine i nga wa uaua

He mea nui te tautoko me te tū tahi i ngā wā pai me ngā wā kino o te marena. Ā, ki te mea kua tautokohia koe e tō wahine i ngā wā uaua, me mihi atu ki a ia, tika? Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe, "E hiahia ana ahau ki te tuhituhi i tētahi reta aroha ki taku wahine i ngā wā uaua hei whakapuaki i te nui o taku whakaute ki a ia, engari kāore au e mōhio ki tētahi kupu aroha mō taku wahine," ka taea e mātou te āwhina i a koe. Anei ētahi whakaaro reta aroha e kī ana "E aroha ana ahau ki taku wahine":

6. Ko koe tōku māramatanga i ngā rā pōuri rawa

E taku rā,

Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō kore whakarērea i tōku taha ahakoa i ngā rā pōuri rawa. Kāore te ao e rite ana me te kore koe. Aroha mai mō ngā wā uaua e pā ana ki a tāua i tēnei wā. Engari ka oati ahau ka ora tāua i a tāua e noho tahi ana. Ka oati ahau ka hoatu e ahau ki a koe ngā mea katoa e tika ana māu, me te nui atu anō.

Aroha ahau ki a koe,

7. Ko koe tōku wāhi haumaru

aroha,

Ko koe tōku ao. E manaakitia ana ahau ki te marena i tētahi tangata atawhai, aroha, me te toa. Nāu i whakapai ake tōku ao i ngā wā katoa, ā, kua kawea mai e koe he rangimārie kāore anō kia kitea e au i mua. Ngā mihi ki a koe mō te noho hei wāhi haumaru mōku, me te aroha ki ahau i te wā kāore au i kaha ki te aroha ki a au anō. E aroha ana ahau ki a koe.

Nau ake ake,

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8. He mea whakamiharo tōu ataahua

E taku wahine aroha,

Kua roa tō ataahua e whakawai ana i tōku tinana me tōku wairua. Engari ko tō atawhai te mea e pupuri tonu ana i ahau, e meinga ana ahau kia aroha ki a koe i ia rā, i ia rā. Ko koe taku wahine moemoeā, ā, i te mea kei a au koe, ka taea e au te aro atu ki ngā wero katoa me te ngāwari.

He waimarie kei a koe,

9. He mihi nui ki te kitenga i a koe

E taku wahine aroha,

He mea whakamiharo tōu mohio me tōu marino. Ka whakahihiko koe i ahau kia mau tonu te tirohanga pai ki te ao ahakoa he nui ngā mea hei āwangawanga māku. Mā tō hoa ahau e āwhina ki te wikitoria i ngā wero e pā mai ana ki ahau. E mihi ana ahau ki a koe mō tō tautoko tonu i ahau. 

Ko koe,

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10. Ko te aroha te tikanga o te tautoko

E hoa wahine,

I mua i tō tūtakitanga ki a koe, i mahara ahau ko te aroha he pūrerehua, he koha, he kihi, me te taatai ​​anake. Engari i roto i ngā tau kua noho tahi tāua, kua meinga ahau e koe kia mōhio he nui atu i tērā te aroha. Ko te aroha he tautoko, he pakihiwi hei tangi, me te taringa whakarongo. Ko te pupuri ringa tetahi ki tetahi ina ahua whakahē te ao ki a koe. Kei te whakamahara mai koe i ahau i ia rā, ināianei nui atu i mua i a tāua e haere ana i ēnei wā uaua, he aha te āhua o te aroha pono . Ngā mihi ki a koe mō te aroha ki ahau. Ka oati ahau ki te aroha ki a koe kia tekau ngā wā atu, ā, ka hoatu e ahau ki a koe ngā mea katoa e tika ana māu.

Tō hoa rangatira i te ao,

He reta huritau ki te wahine

Ahakoa te maha o ngā tau kua pahure, me whakanuia te huritau marena. Ina hoki, he pai ake te maha o ngā tau. He whakaaro tino pai te reta huritau marena ki te wahine hei whakauru atu ki roto i tō whakanui huritau marena hei whakatakoto i te wairua mō te rā. Ka taea e koe te whakakī i te reta ki ngā mihi hei whakama i a ia, hei hanga rānei hei reta aroha aroha māna hei tangi i a ia. Anei ētahi tauira hei whakaaweawe māu ina tuhi reta aroha māna:

11. Te whakanui i ngā wā ataahua

Taku wahine aroha,

E maumahara tonu ana ahau ki te wā i tūtaki ai tāua. Me te wā i mea ai tāua "Aroha ana ahau ki a koe". Me te wā i mea ai koe "Āe." Me te wā i mea ai tāua "Ae". E tino whakanuia ana e au ēnei wā whakamiharo i ia rā, ā, e hiahia ana ahau ki te hanga tonu i ētahi atu wā ataahua me koe i tōku ao katoa. Ngā mihi o te huritau 10 tau, e te aroha. Kia maha atu anō ngā wā e whakanuia ana.

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12. Huritau tuatahi

E hoa wahine,

Kāore au i te whakapono kua kotahi tau kē. Me te mea nō inanahi noa nei koe i hikoi ai i te arawhata i roto i taua kākahu mā ataahua, ā, i whakapuakina e tāua ā tāua kupu taurangi marena . Ko tāku tumanako kua meinga koe e au hei wahine harikoa nā te mea kua tino meinga ahau e koe hei tangata harikoa rawa atu o te ao. Ka oati ahau ki te pupuri i tō tāua aroha ake tonu atu.

Tō hoa tāne aroha tonu.

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13. He hui ātaahua ki te noho tahi mō ngā tau maha

E te wahine,

Kei te maumahara koe ki te mea he tautohe noa iho tā tāua hui tuatahi i te toa hoko kai? Āe, te mahi a te ao tūroa. Nā taua tautohe wairangi i arahi ki te 25 tau whakamiharo o tōku ao, ā, me mihi atu ahau ki a koe mō tēnā. Ā, e tino mōhio ana ahau he nui ake ngā mea ngahau i roto i te toa mō tāua. Ngā mihi o te huritau!

Tō tāne aroha

14. He haerenga ki raro i te ara mahara

E taku ipo aroha, 

I a tātou e whakanui ana i tētahi atu tau o tā tātou haerenga tahi, e hiahia ana ahau ki te whakamōhio atu ki a koe i tōku manaakitanga ki a koe hei wahine māku. I mōhio ahau ko tāua te mea tika i te wā i tūtaki ai tāua, ā, e whakaatu ana tēnei. Kei te maumahara ahau ki a koe i roto i tō kākahu whero, me te inu i te kokotere i te ringa, e kata tahi ana me ō hoa. I aroha ahau ki a koe i taua wā tonu, ā, kei te aroha tonu ahau ki a koe i ia rā, i ia rā. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te whiriwhiri ki te noho tahi me ahau i tō oranga katoa. Ngā mihi o te huritau!

Nou tonu,

[Tou ingoa]

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15. Ngā mihi nui mō tō hoa

E taku hoa aroha, e [Ingoa o te Wahine],

Kua pahure tētahi atu tau, kī tonu i te aroha me ngā maharatanga ataahua. Kī tonu te noho tahi me koe i te kata me te harikoa. Ko koe tonu taku hoa aroha, ā, e harikoa ana ahau ki te whakanui i ngā huritau maha atu me koe. Ngā mihi o te huritau marena, e te aroha.

Ake tonu atu, ake tonu atu,

[To Ingoa]

He reta aroha hohonu mō te wahine

He māmā noa iho te tīmata ki te whakaaro noa ki tō hoa rangatira ina kei roto kōrua i te marena. Ka taka koe ki roto i tētahi tikanga hoha, ā, ka mutu te kite i ōna āhuatanga whakamiharo katoa, ka mutu rānei te maioha ki a rātou. Mena he pānga tēnei ki a koe, he huarahi pai te tuhi reta aroha hohonu mō te wahine ki te wawahi i tēnei tikanga, me te mea kia motuhake ia. Kia whakatau koe, "E hiahia ana ahau ki te tuhi reta aroha e pā ana ki te ngākau ki taku wahine," ehara i te mea uaua te kimi i ngā kupu tika. Anei ētahi whakaaro reta aroha hei āwhina i a koe ki te mārama me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi reta aroha:

16. Nāu ahau i hanga hei tangata tino waimarie 

E te hoa ,

Ko koe taku tino tangata tino pai, ā, kei te tuhituhi atu ahau i tēnei reta hei whakamōhio atu ki a koe i te nui o tōku manaakitanga ki tō aroaro i roto i tōku ao. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te whiriwhiri i ahau hei tāne māu, me te hanga i ahau hei tangata tino waimarie o te ao. Me i kore koe, kāore au e mōhio he aha te tikanga o te aroha pono. He mea nui koe ki ahau.

Mauruuru koutou,

17. Ko koe tōku tautoko i ngā wā piki me ngā wā heke

E taku wahine,

Nā tō pono me tō tautoko i tā tāua whanaungatanga ahau e rite ana ki tētahi kīngi. Nā tō pakeketanga me tō ngākau māhaki i ngā wā uaua, ahakoa kāore au i eke ki ō tumanakohanga, kua tino āwhina i ahau ki te aro atu ki ngā wero. Ka pupū ake tōku ngākau i te aroha i ia wā ka kite ahau he kuīni ataahua taku hei wahine. Aroha ana ahau ki a koe.

He mihi nui ki a koe,

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18. I ia rā, ka meinga ahau e koe kia aroha ki a koe 

Hey,

I taku kitenga tuatahi i a koe, i pūhia ahau e ngā pūrerehua. Ā, kei reira tonu rātou i ngā wā katoa ka puta mai koe i roto i tō kākahu whero tino pai, i aua PJ papura ātaahua rānei. Ahakoa te kākahu, he ataahua tonu koe, ā, i ia wā, i ia wā, ka nui haere taku aroha ki a koe. 

Tō hoa tāne

19. Ki te mea he tūturu te ao ake ake, e hiahia ana ahau kia noho tahi māua anake

E taku wahine aroha,

Nāu ahau i hanga hei tangata harikoa. Ka maumahara tonu ahau ki tāu tautoko i ahau i ngā wā uaua, me tāu aroha ki ahau ahakoa kāore i taea e au te whakatutuki i ō tumanakohanga katoa. Nāu te take i pai ake ai tā tāua noho, ā, ka manaaki ahau i a koe me te mea he rangatira koe. Kāore au i te mōhio mēnā he tūturu te ao tūroa, engari mēnā he tūturu, e hiahia ana ahau kia noho tahi tāua.

Tō tāne amateur

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20. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te homai i te wāhi ki ahau kia noho ko au tonu

E te hoa wahine,

I tōku taha koe i ngā wā harikoa, i ngā wā pōuri hoki. E mōhio ana koe ki te whakahaere i aku huringa kare ā-roto me aku amuamu. Nāu ahau i whakarato i tētahi wāhi hei whakaatu i tōku tuakiri tūturu, ā, e kore e taea e au te mihi nui ki a koe mō tēnā. Ko koe tonu taku hoa pai. Aroha ana ahau ki a koe.

Tō hoa rangatira mō te ora,

He reta aroha ki taku wahine ā muri ake nei

Āe! Ko te wā koura i waenganui i te tono marena me te marena tūturu — i te wā ehara kōrua i te hoa wahine/tāne engari he hoa taumau. He wā whakahihiri me te aroha te wā taumau, me te nui o te whakamahere marena . Ā, ki te mea he tangata aroha tawhito koe, kua whakaaro pea koe i roto i tēnei raruraru, "Me tuhi e au he reta aroha ki taku wahine o muri mai." Ā, i tika tāu whakaaro. He whakaaro pai tonu te tuhi reta aroha māna engari he tino aroha ake i tēnei wā. Ahakoa he reta aroha kare ā-roto māna e tangi ai ia , he reta aroha rānei, ka waiho hei taonga maumahara e hiahia ana ia ki te mau tonu. Tirohia ēnei whakaaro reta aroha hei whakahihiko:

21. Ka tipu tahi tātou

Ki taku wahine e tata nei te marena,

I rite ahau ki te tangata tino waimarie i te wā i whakaae mai ai koe. Kāore koe e mōhio ki te nui o tōku harikoa ki te noho tahi me koe i tōku ao! Ka oati ahau ka tautoko tonu ahau i ō moemoeā me ō whāinga. Ko tāku e tumanako nei ka tū tahi tāua i tēnei haerenga e kīia nei ko te ora, ā, ka āwhina tāua tetahi i tetahi kia tipu. Ngā mihi ki a koe mō te whiriwhiri i ahau.

E tatari ana kia noho hei tāne māu,

22. Ka oati ahau ki te noho hei tautoko i a koe

Taku wahine aroha o muri mai,

E hiahia ana ahau kia mōhio koe e aroha ana ahau, e manaaki ana hoki i ngā wāhanga katoa o tō āhua – ō kaha, ō ngoikoretanga, me ō āhuatanga rerekē katoa. Ka oati ahau ka tū atu ahau ki tō taha hei hoa, hei hoa hoki, ahakoa ngā piki me ngā heke. Ka oati ahau ko ahau te tāne pai rawa atu māu.

Ma te aroha,

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23. Ko te whakaute te mea tuatahi

E te rangatira,

Kāore au i te whakapono kua kotahi marama noa iho te roa ka marena tāua, ā, ka taea e au te karanga i a koe hei wahine māku. Engari i mua i tērā, me oati atu ahau ki a koe. E mōhio ana ahau kāore te aroha anake e ranea hei pupuri i te marena. Nō reira ka oati atu ahau ki a koe ka tino whakaute, ka tino manaaki hoki ahau i a koe. Ā, ka uru tāua ki tēnei marena hei hoa ōrite. 

24. Ko koe taku aroha i te kitenga tuatahi

E te hoa ,

Nāu ahau i whakapono ki te aroha i te kitenga tuatahi . He whakahē tonu ahau mō te aroha, tae noa ki taku tūtakitanga ki a koe, ā, kātahi ka mārama ngā putiputi me ngā tiakarete me ngā reta me ngā waiata. Kua hurihia ahau e koe kia pai ake, ā, ko taku tumanako ka noho tahi ahau me koe mō te toenga o tōku ao.

Ma te aroha,

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25. Hihiri ki te waihanga tahi i ngā maharatanga

Ki te aroha o tōku ora,

Nui atu tōku harikoa mō te marena, nui atu tōku harikoa ki te kite i a koe i roto i taua kākahu mā e hikoi ana i te ara, me te āhua he anahera. Engari nui atu i tēnā, kei te harikoa ahau ki te koroheketanga tahi, ki te waihanga i ngā maharatanga ngahau, ngā maharatanga noa me ngā maharatanga wairangi me koe. Ka taea e au te kite i a tāua e kanikani puhoi ana i te rūma noho, e waiata tahi ana rānei i tā māua waiata tino pai. Nui atu tōku harikoa ki te noho hei tāne me te wahine, ā, e mōhio ana ahau kei te pērā anō hoki koe. Aroha ana ahau ki a koe e taku kuīni.

Me tōku ngākau katoa,

Tō hoa tāne ā muri ake nei.

He reta whakapaha ataahua ki tana wahine

Kei te pouri tō wahine ki a koe? Kua wareware pea koe ki te huritau marena , kua kōrero rānei koe i tetahi mea i mamae ai ia. Ahakoa te take, he huarahi whai hua te tuhi reta whakapaha ataahua ki tō wahine hei whakahoki i te hara ki a ia. Mā tēnei ka taea e koe te whakamārama i a koe anō, te whakaatu i te pouri mō āu mahi me te maioha ki a ia, ā, ko te tikanga, he nui ake te tūponotanga o te reta tawhito ki te rewa i tōna ngākau. Tirohia ēnei tauira o ngā reta whakapaha:

26. He whakamamae te wahangu

Kia ora e te aroha,

Ko koe tōku ao, ā, ka ngaro ahau i a koe. Ka ngaro tō ataata me tō reo reka ki ōku taringa. I hē ahau, ā, mihi mai. Tēnā koa kōrero mai ki ahau. 

Tō tāne kuware

27. Hei whakatikatika i muri i te whawhai

Honey, 

E pouri ana ahau mō aku kupu katoa. I riri ahau, ā, i whara koe i ahau. Aroha mai mō aku mahi whakaaro kore. Aroha ana ahau ki a koe, tukua ahau kia whakatika i aku hapa.

Nau ake ake,

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28. Hei whakatika anō i ngā mea

E taku rangatira wahine,

Aroha mai mō te mamae i pā ki a koe. He tika tāu, he kuware ahau. Ka taea e tēnei kuware te whai wāhi anō? Ka oati ahau ka whakatika anō i ngā mea. Tēnā koa, whakaaetia mai aku mihi, e te aroha.

Nāu, nāu anake,

 

29. He kupu whakaari kia pai ake

Arohanui,

E mōhio ana ahau kāore koe e hiahia ki te kōrero mai ki ahau i tēnei wā, engari tēnā pānuihia tēnei tae noa ki te mutunga. Aroha mai mō te kore i reira i a koe e hiahia ana ki ahau. Kei tōku taha tonu koe hei tautoko i ahau, ā, he hē te whakaaro i mua i ahau ko ētahi atu mea i a koe. He tika rawa tō riri. Engari e hiahia ana ahau kia pai ake taku noho hei tāne māu. Ka taea e koe te homai he wā ki ahau ki te whakamatau i ahau anō? Aroha nui ahau ki a koe.

Nāu anake,

30. Aroha mai mō te whara i a koe

Arohanui,

Ko koe tōku ao katoa, kāore he aha i ahau ki te kore koe. E pouri ana ahau mō aku mahi, e pouri ana hoki mō te kore e noho hei tāne tino tika māu. Tēnā koa murua mai ahau. Ka oati ahau e kore tēnei e tupu anō.

E hiahia ana kia noho tonu hei taonga mōu ake tonu atu,

He reta huritau ki te wahine

Kei te tata mai te rā whānau o tō wahine? Tērā pea kei te rapu whakaaro koe mō ngā koha huritau i tēnei wā tonu. "Me pēhea mēnā ka tuhia e au he reta aroha e pā ana ki te ngākau ki taku wahine hei koha?" Mēnā kua puta ake tēnei whakaaro ki a koe, he tika tāu, he koha pai te reta. Tērā atu rānei, ka hokona e koe he mea māna, ka honoa ki te reta hei tāpiri i tētahi pānga whaiaro. Anei ngā tauira o te reta huritau ki te wahine:

31. Ina ataahua ia i roto i waho

Ki te kotiro huritau,

Me i kite koe i a koe anō i ōku kanohi, kua kite koe i tō ataahua tūturu. Engari ehara i te mea koinā anake, ko tō ngākau atawhai me tō mātauranga te mea e tāpiri atu ana ki tō ataahua. E mihi ana ahau ki te whai i tētahi wahine tino pai, Hari huritau, e aroha.

Nou tonu,

32. Ina huri te ao hei pakiwaitara

E taku wahine aroha,

I te rā i tae mai ai koe ki tōku ao, ka nui ake te harikoa. He kanapa ake ngā putiputi, he kakara te hau, ā, he matomato ake te āhua o ngā rākau. Kua hurihia e koe tōku ao hei pakiwaitara, he mea makutu ia rā, ia rā. Ngā mihi o te rā whānau, e taku kuīni makutu!

Nōu ake tonu atu,

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33. Te reta a Johnny Cash ki a June Carter Cash (!994)

Ngā mihi o te rā whānau ki a koe e te Pirinihi,

Ka koroheke tātou, ka taunga tātou tetahi ki tetahi. He rite tonu ō tātou whakaaro.

Ka pānui mātou i ngā whakaaro o tētahi ki tētahi. E mōhio ana mātou ki ngā hiahia o tētahi, me te kore e pātai. I ētahi wā ka riri mātou tetahi ki tetahi. I ētahi wā ka wareware noa mātou tetahi ki tetahi.

Engari i ētahi wā, pērā i tēnei rā, ka whakaaroaro ahau ki tēnā mea, ā, ka kite ahau i te waimarie o taku noho tahi me te wahine tino nui rawa atu kua tūtaki ahau. Kei te miharo tonu ahau, kei te whakahihiko tonu hoki koe i ahau.

Ka awe koe i ahau kia pai ake. Ko koe te kaupapa o taku hiahia, te take matua o te ao mō taku oranga. Aroha nui atu ahau ki a koe.

Ngā mihi o te rā whānau ki a koe e te Pirinihi.

John

34. He tohu aroha 

E te aroha,

Āe, me i taea e au te whakapuaki ki ngā kupu te harikoa e pā ana ki ahau i te oho ake ki tō ataata. E mihi ana ahau ki te huarahi e whakaatu mai ai koe i te maioha ki ngā mea iti o te ao. I tō rā motuhake, ka oati ahau ka ringihia e au te aroha me te manaaki katoa e tika ana māu. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō rā whānau!

Me te nui o te aroha,

35. He moemoeā kua tutuki

Toku aroha,

He manaakitanga ia hēkona e noho tahi ana māua. Kāore au i te mōhio me pēhea taku kimi i tētahi hoa rangatira tino pai . He rite tonu ki te moemoeā i ētahi wā. He nui te mahana me te harikoa kua kawea mai e koe ki roto i tōku ao. Kāore anō kia mōhio ahau ki te aroha pēnei i mua i tō tūtakitanga ki a koe. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te whiriwhiri i ahau i ia rā. Ka whakarite ahau kia waiho tēnei rā hei rā tino harikoa o tō ao. Hari huritau, e te keke iti.

Tō hoa rangatira

Thoughts Final

He tino pai ngā reta aroha hei tohu aroha ina hiahia koe ki te mihi ki tāu wahine, ki te whakapuaki hoki i tō aroha ki a ia. Ina koa mēnā he ngoikore koe ki te kōrero, mā te tuhi i ō kare ā-roto ka whai wā koe ki te whakaaro me te whakatakoto tika i ō kare ā-roto. Tuhia te āhua o tana whakapai ake i tō oranga, te mihi ki a ia, te whakanui i ngā wā o mua, me ētahi atu. Ahakoa ka tangohia e koe ngā kupu mai i tētahi atu wāhi, kia mau tonu te pono o ngā kare ā-roto.

Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.