Me pēhea rā mēnā ka kore te wahine a ngā matapo katoa e kite, ka kore te wahine a ngā turi katoa e rongo, ka kore rānei te wahine a ngā pararutiki katoa e hikoi? Ka mate te ao! Ko te Mahabharata E whakaatu ana tēnei i roto i te kōrero mō Gandhari, te pirinihi ataahua o Gandhar, i whakaritea kia marenatia ki tētahi kīngi matapo kua pakeke ake. I aua rā, kāore tetahi i aro ki te rerekētanga o te hononga, tae atu ki te pirinihi taitamariki e kōrerohia ana. I whakamanahia e ia te kupu a tōna matua, ā, i harikoa ia ki te marena i te matapo. Dhritarashtra, te Kīngi mana o ngā Kuru. He ahurei te kōrero mō Gandhari.
E whakaponohia ana hoki i roto i te horoscope a Gandhari ka mate te tangata e moe ai ia. Nō reira, i te tuatahi i moe ia ki tētahi koati hei whakarerekē i tōna aituā, ā, nō reira ko Dhritarashtra tana tāne tuarua. I tino harikoa ia ki te moe ki te Piriniha Kaurava, engari te āhua nei kāore i kōrerotia ki a ia he matapo ia i te wā i whakaritea ai te hononga. I kitea e ia i muri i te marena, ā, he ohorere kino ki a ia.
He aha a Gandhari i tapuni i a ia ano?
Ripanga o Ihirangi
Engari i āta tangohia e Gandhari ngā mea katoa. Me te māia, i herea e ia he taupoki kanohi miro mā ki runga i ōna kanohi hei aroha ki tana tāne matapo o muri mai. Ko te hunga i tōna taha, me te hunga i te rangi i runga ake nei, i uaina pea ngā manaakitanga ki a ia mō tēnei mahi nui. He pono, he pono, tā rātou pea i whakaaro. Koinei te patunga tapu nui rawa atu ka taea e te wahine te mahi. He tino rite tana oati ki Te oati a Pīhama mō te noho takakau i whakahonoretia e rāua tae noa ki tō rāua manawa whakamutunga. I tuhia a Gandhari ki ngā whārangi o te hītori hei wahine i whakarērea tōna tirohanga mō te aroha ki tana tāne, ki a Dhritarashtra. He patunga tapu kāore e taea te whakaaro. I hiahia ia kia kore tana tāne e whakaiti i te whanaungatanga. He ōrite rāua i muri i tana oati. Engari koinei anake te take i hipokina ai e ia ōna kanohi?
Pānui e pā ana: Te Aroha i roto i te Mahabharata: He taputapu mō te huringa me te rapu utu
Ko te tino take i whiriwhiri ai a Gandhari kia taupokina ōna kanohi
I te mea he pātai kei te ara ake mō te take tūturu o te oati a Bheeshma, ā, he tokomaha e kī ana he hiahia whaiaro me te rapu utu te take, ko ngā whakapae anō hoki kei te pā ki te oati matapo a Gandhari. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana i tino pāngia a Gandhari e te whakaaro, nā te mea ko ia te wahine a te matapo, me mahi e ia ngā mea katoa māna. Ko te tikanga he mahi uaua mutunga kore i ia rā, i ia rā. Engari mēnā he matapo anō hoki ia, mā ētahi atu e mahi ngā mahi mā rātou. Nō reira, ka taea e ia te noho hei Pirinihi pono, ā, kāore e mahi. seva o tana tāne mai i te ata ki te pō. Engari ko tana whakatau ki te hipoki i a ia anō he arai nui atu i tana i whakaaro ai.
He tika te whakatau a Gandhari ki te hipoki i ōna kanohi?
He whakatau hē tēnei i arahi atu ai ki tētahi aituā i muri i tētahi aituā. Nā te korenga o te tirohanga a Gandhari i hanga e ia anō, i huri wawe mai i te pai ki te kino i te korenga e taea e ia te wehewehe i waenga i te tika me te hē, ā, nā reira i ngoikore ai ia pērā i tana tāne.
O roto i ngā tama kotahi rau me te tamāhine kotahi i whānau mai i ngā tikanga motuhake, he hunga kino katoa rātou, he hunga moe tāne rānei.
te Mahabharata ko ngā teina matua e rua anake e whakahuatia ana, Duryodhana me Dushasana, i whakaahuatia hei whakapehapeha, hei apo. I te haurangi i te whakapehapeha me tōna kaha kino, ka takahia e rātou ngā ture katoa o te tika me te tika. Kāore i taea e ngā mātua pōuri, kore e kite te ātete i te kaha o te kino o Duryodhana, he kino i whakanuia ake e tō rātou kuware tonu. I haere te ture o Karma, ā, i arahi ki te hinganga o te whānau katoa. Nō reira, he kino te hua o te whakatau a Gandhari ki te hipoki i ōna kanohi nā te mea i whakakahore āna tamariki ki te whakarongo ki ngā tohutohu a tō rātou whaea matapo, me te whakaaro he iti noa iho tana mōhio ki te ao. Nō reira, me mahi te wahine tino tika ki te 100 tamariki kāore he pai, kāore hoki i whakarongo ki a ia.
Ko Gandhari pea te kaha o Dhritarashtra
Whakaarohia te horopaki, kāore a Gandhari e hipoki i a ia anō, engari e tū ana i te taha o tana tāne hei kaha mōna. Kua noho ia hei rangatira i tōna taha, ahakoa he māngai mōna, ā, kua noho hei kaha mōna mai i te tīmatanga. Kua mōhio āna tama he kawenga tā rātou ki a ia mō ngā mea katoa i mahia e rātou, ā, kāore e taea te whakaaro noa ki a ia.
I taea e Gandhari te tautoko pai i tana tāne
Ka maumahara ahau ki te kōrero mō tētahi hoa i mua. I pāngia tōna pāpā, e 40 tau te pakeke i taua wā, e te whiu pararutiki, ā, kāore i taea te whakamahi i ōna waewae. Heoi, i whiriwhiri tōna whaea, ehara i te mea ko te hikoi anake, engari ko te hikoi anō hoki. He mahi kē tāna, ā, i haere tonu ia. I tono te whānau i tētahi motuka motuhake, he mea whakahaere ā-ringa katoa, ā, mā te rangatira e taraiwa māna ake, ki tana wāhi mahi me te hoki mai. Me āwhina noa ia i runga, i raro hoki i tana tūru wīra i a ia e puta ana, e tomo ana ki te motuka. He aha, e miharo ana ahau, i aukati i a Gandhari ki te mahi i ēnei mahi pai?
I mau pea ia i roto i te āhua o ia anō he wahine pono, he wahine ngākau pono i hangaia e ia i muri i tana patunga tapu nui? Me i kore ia e hipoki i ōna kanohi, kua whakaaro ia he tangata pono ia, ā, kua hinga i roto i tana ake whakaaro? He mea nui rānei tana tumanakohanga kore pono mōna ake ki te whakangaro i te whānau katoa?
Tērā pea i waenganui o tōna ao ka mōhio a Gandhari kua hē ia i mua mā te ārai i a ia anō, engari kāore he hokinga whakamuri i taua wā nā te mea he oati tonu te oati.
He mea morearea tēnei – he kino e huna ana i te pai. Ka taea tēnei ina kore tātou e whakaaroaro ki ngā pānga katoa o tētahi whakaaro. Ka puta tēnei ina whakaaetia, e whakaaetia hoki te 'pai' e te hapori. Hei whakararuraru i te take, kāore ētahi hauātanga me ngā ngoikoretanga e kitea tonutia ana. Ā, nā tēnā ka uaua ake te kite me te whakahaere.
Me mahi pai tonu te mahi tautoko, kaua e noho mangere
Whakaarohia te tokorua o ēnei rā. Kāore ā rāua rangatiratanga hei whakahaere, engari he kāinga hei whakahaere, he whānau hei whakatipu. Nō reira, me pēhea tā rāua whakatau i te ngoikore o te tangata – hei tauira, te waranga pāpāho pāpori? Ka ngokingoki haere mai, kāore e kitea, ā, ka noho tonu, me te whakangaro puku i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Ki te waranga tetahi o te hoa, ka mokemoke tetahi; ko te pātai – me waranga anō hoki tetahi? Ka whakakorea te mokemoke? Ka whakapakari i te hononga o te tokorua? Ka āwhina rānei ki te whakatipu i tētahi whānau ora, taurite? He aha te mahi pai hei whakaiti i te ngoikore o te hoa waranga, hei whakahoki mai i te taurite ki te whānau? Koinā anake te mahi pai me mahi.
He hihiri ngā whanaungatanga, ā, me taurite tonu, mā te whakatau whakaaro nui. He kupu whakarite mārama a Gandhari rāua ko Dhritarashtra mō te ngaronga o te kaha o te tokorua nā te whakatau kare ā-roto a tētahi hoa. Me i mōhio ia mēnā kāore e taea e tētahi te kite, me mahi te hoa ahakoa te nui o te uaua. Me mahi te tokorua ki te taurite me te tautoko tetahi i tetahi. Ko reira anake, ā, ko reira anake, ka kaha ai rāua.
Kāore tō koha e kiia he kaupapa aroha takohaMā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata katoa o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.
Ki te titiro tātou pēnei, ko te kōwhiringa hē o Gandhari pea he akoranga kua ngana kē a Myth ki te whakaako i ngā wāhine. Kaua te wahine e ngaro tōna tuakiri, e hikoi i roto i ngā atarangi o tana tāne. Hei hoa rangatira, me tāpiri atu rāua ki te tipu o tētahi ki tētahi. Me whakamana tētahi i tētahi. Ā, i whakaaro tonu ahau ehara i te kōwhiringa tika te kōwhiri kia taupokina ō rāua kanohi hei whakamātau i te whakapehapeha pakaru o tana tāne. Ae, koinei te mea e tukuna mai ana e te myth ki a tātou. Ehara i te mea ko te mea anake hei mahi mā tātou, engari ko te mea hoki kāore e tika kia mahia. Me i taea e tātou te ruku hohonu ake ki roto i ngā kōrero o te myth, me te ngana ki te mārama ki ngā māramatanga e tukuna mai ana ki a tātou, tera pea he pai ake te ao.