11 Ngā Huarahi Ataahua e Arataki ai te Atua i a Koe ki tō Hoa Rangatira

Porohia te aroha

E ai ki te kōrero, he mea hanga ngā taumau i te rangi, ā, kei te whakaaro koe mēnā i mahue koe i te Atua. Ko ētahi atu kei te here i te here, i a koe e ngana ana ki te kite i ngā hihi o te tumanako. Kei te ahua pōuri ngā mea i roto i te taha aroha, ā, kei te tatari koe ki Tōna aroha noa hei ārahi i a koe ki mua. Whakarērea ō manukanuka nā te mea e mōhio ana mātou me pēhea te ārahi a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira. Kāore he kaupapa paerewa kua whakaritea, he rerekē hoki āna huarahi, he ataahua, he rerekē hoki.

Heoi, ka taea e tātou te ngana ki te mārama ki ngā ara e tae mai ai tō hoa rangatira ki a koe. Kei te kite koe, he tohu tonu kei te whakarite te Atua i a koe mō te marena. Me titiro tātou ki ō whetu (marenatanga) kia mōhio ai tātou he aha tāna e whakarite ana māu. Kei roto koe i ngā ringa tino haumaru – kāore tetahi e mōhio he aha te mea pai ake māu i a Ia. Anei ngā huarahi 11 hei whakautu i tētahi pātai nui – ka taea e te Atua te whakaatu i tō hoa rangatira ki a koe?

11 Ngā Huarahi Ataahua e Arataki ai te Atua i a Koe ki tō Hoa Rangatira

Ripanga o Ihirangi

Kāore rawa e kitea e koe. Ka ara ake koe i tētahi ata ataahua, ka haere tonu i tō rā, pērā i ngā wā katoa. Kaua e ohorere, ka titiro atu koe ki te tangata kei mua i a koe. Ka karapotia koe e tētahi mōhiotanga ngāwari, pērā i te awhi mahana… Kei reira rātou. Kua kitea e koe te tangata i tatarihia e koe. Kātahi te kuware, kāore koe i kite i a rātou i te wā katoa. Nā te Atua rātou i tuku mai ki a koe i te wā tika. Pērā i ngā wā katoa, ka kitea āna ara i muri tata mai.

He pikitia ataahua tēnei, kāore? Ā, e whakapono ana mātou kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea tēnei e tupu ai māu. Me pēhea te Atua e hono ai i te tāne me te wahine? Me pēhea tana hono i "ngā" tāngata e rua? Tekau mā tahi ngā huarahi tino pea hei ārahi i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira. Kia rite ki te tīmata i tētahi haerenga makutu, ki tonu i te whakapono me mātou i a mātou e tūhura ana i ngā whakaaturanga rerekē o te aroha noa o te Atua. Whakaarohia – ko tētahi o ēnei pea ko te ārahi i a koe e te Atua ki tō hoa rangatira.

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1. Whai muri i te hītori awhiowhio

Ina he maha ngā whanaungatanga kino kua meinga koe kia whakarērea te aroha, ka menemene ia me te mōhio kei te haere mai ngā mea pai. He maha ngā wā kua pā ki a tātou katoa, ā, kua pōuri tātou i muri i te mutunga. Ko ia wehenga ka whakaū anō i te whakaaro kāore pea te marena e tata mai ana. Ina kua whakapono koe ki a koe anō ko te noho takakau te mea pai mōu, ko te mea anake e mau ana i tō heke mai ko ngā ngeru e 25, ka tomo mai tō hoa rangatira i te wā tika.

Koinei te arataki a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira – me te hurihanga o te kōrero! Ka tīmata ngā mea katoa ki te haere i roto i te huarahi ohorere. Ko aua whanaungatanga o mua, me ō rātou raruraru me te paitini, ka noho hei maharatanga tawhiti. Ka wheako koe i he here kore me te whakahoahoa ka arahi atu ki te marena. Nō reira, ki te mea kei te ngana koe ki te ora ake i te korenga o te aroha, me te whakahē i te marena katoa, marino, kei a ia tō tuara.

2. He whanaungatanga ā-tari

Kāore ngā wāhi mahi e ngaro i ngā ara a te Atua. Tērā pea ka kitea e koe tō hoa rangatira i te tari; ka tīmata kōrua hei hoa mahi, ā, ka whanake te aroha tetahi ki tetahi. I tuhituhi tētahi kaipānui nō New Orleans, "I tīmata noa ahau ki te mahi i tēnei umanga hou, ā, nā taku tāne (ināianei) ahau i whakamōhio ki ngā mea katoa i te rā tuatahi. Ko ia taku hoa mahi tuatahi i te tari, ā, i mau tonu tā māua whakapā ahakoa kei roto i ngā tari rerekē."

"I tono mai ia kia haere tahi māua ki te tina i ngā marama e toru i muri mai, ā, ka whakaae ahau (ahakoa i te āwangawanga). E whitu tau māua e marena ana… Ā, ki te whakaaro kāore au i te whakaaro ki te tango i te mahi i te tīmatanga! He huarahi tonu tā te Atua." Kaua e whakamutu wawe i te aroha o te tari - tera pea koinei tētahi o ngā tohu kei te whakarite te Atua i a koe mō te marena. Ā, te whakaipoipo i tētahi hoa mahi he tino ngahau mēnā ka tika te whakahaere.

3. Mō ngā aituā me ngā marena – Te arataki a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira

"E mōhio ana ia ki te ara e haere ai ahau: ina whakamatautauria ahau e ia, ka puta mai ahau, ano he koura." Waiata 23:4. Ahakoa te ahua rerekē, he maha nga tangata e tutaki ana ki a ratou hoa rangatira ina tae ratou ki te pito rawa. Ko nga wa pouri rawa, ko nga raruraru kino rawa atu, me nga wa tino raruraru o te ao ko te wa e whakaatu ai te Atua ki a koe to hoa rangatira, to wahine ranei a meake nei. Ka puta mai nga tangata i enei wahanga iti me te te tautoko a ō rātou hoa mahiKa kitea e rātou te kaha i roto i te aroha.

Ahakoa te āhua tawhito o te kōrero, ina kati te tatau, ka huaki mai tētahi atu. Hei tauira, i tūtaki taku hoa, he tangata i ora i te mate pukupuku ū, ki tana hoa tāne i te tari o te kaiwhakaora hinengaro. Ina tūtaki koe ki te tangata i ngā wā pōuri, he nui ake te pono o tō whanonga. Kāore he tikanga, he āhua rānei o te whanaungatanga. Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te ārahi a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira? Mā te tuku i a rātou hei manaakitanga ina uaua te ao.

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4. He aroha kei roto i te whakahoahoa

I mea a Leo Buscaglia, arā, ko Tākuta Love, "He rōhi kotahi hei māra māku…he hoa kotahi, hei ao māku." Tērā pea ko te mahere a te Atua māu kei roto i taua hoa kotahi kei a koe. E whakaponohia whānuitia ana ko te whakahoahoa he turanga pakari hei hanga. Ko ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i tīmata hei hoa, he nui te whanaungatanga me te aroha e tohaina ana – he aha atu te mea pai atu i te hinganga. e aroha ana ki tō hoa pai me te hanga tahi i te oranga?

Mō te hunga katoa e pātai ana, "Me pēhea te ārahi a te Atua i a koe ki tētahi hoa rangatira?", ko te whakautu he whakahoahoa. Tērā pea ka roa te wā ka mōhio koe ki te kaha o ō kare ā-roto ki tētahi hoa. Ahakoa ka tīmata koe ki te titiro ki aua kare ā-roto i tētahi tirohanga rerekē, ka nui tonu ngā whakaaro ruarua. Kāore he tangata e hiahia ana ki te whakararu i tētahi whakahoahoa, ko te tikanga. Ko te tumanako ka tīmata koe ki te whakapono ina tae mai te wā - koinei pea te huarahi e ārahi ai te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira.

me pēhea te Atua e hono ai i te tāne me te wahine — He maha ngā huarahi e taea ai e te Atua te ārahi i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira…

5. He hui ā-ataahua i te minitatanga

He tino mārama tēnei, kāore pea koe i whakaaro ki tēnā. Tērā pea ka tūtaki koe ki tō hoa rangatira i te minitatanga nā te aroha tahi ki a Ia. He maha ngā tāne me ngā wāhine ka huihuia i roto i te hāhi, ā, ka ahu whakamua rātou i reira. Ki te hiahia koe ki tētahi hoa rangatira he rite te wairua whakapono, he huarahi pai te minitatanga hei tūtaki ki tō hoa rangatira ā muri ake nei. Ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi i te hāhi, kua whai wāhi kē koe ki tētahi mea e rite ana.

Nā, me pēhea te Atua e hono ai i te tāne me te wahine, e pātai ana koe? He mea ngāwari noa iho pēnei i te kura Rātapu. I tūtaki tētahi whanaunga ki tana wahine (ināianei) i te kura Rātapu i te wā e inu kawhe ana. Tae noa ki tēnei rā, e kata ana rāua mō ā rāua te rā kawhe tuatahi i raro i te Āue te kanohi o te Atua! A te wā ka tūtaki anō koe ki tētahi e tino ōrite ana ki a koe i te hāhi, kia mahara ki tā mātou e kī tonu nei – he maha, he mea ngaro hoki ngā ara o te Atua.

6. Ngā tohu kei te whakarite te Atua i a koe mō te marena – Kei te takaro a ō hoa i te kaputi

Ko te mea tino matapōkere ngā whakaaro rā takirua kua ārahi i te tini ki te aata. Ko ngā hoa pai hoki te huarahi e ārahi ai te Atua i a koe ki tō wahine, ki tō tāne rānei. He maha ngā huarahi e uru atu ai rātou ki roto i tō oranga aroha; e whakatenatena ana i a koe kia whakaatu i a koe anō, e whakatū ana i a koe ki tētahi e mōhiotia ana e rātou, e waihanga ana rānei i tētahi taiao e tūtaki ai koe ki tētahi. He tini ngā hoa hou kua marenatia e karapotia ana e ngā hoa e kī whakahihi ana, "I kī atu mātou ki a koe!"

Ko te mea pai rawa atu mō te tūtaki ki tētahi mā roto i ngā hononga hoa, he tangata whakaaro nui rātou. Kua tirohia e ō hoa i mua i te tuku i a kōrua. Nō reira, kāore he āhuatanga kino, he momo noho raruraru rānei e puta ake. Whakarongo mai ki ngā kōrero a tō hoa pai, kaua ki te taupānga whakaipoipo. He tino tūpono koinei te huarahi e ārahi ai te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira.

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7. Mā roto i ngā hiahia tahi

Tērā pea i whakatau koe ki te whakauru atu ki tētahi akomanga tunu kai, ki te ako rānei i tētahi reo hou. Tērā pea kua tīmata koe ki te oma tere i ēnei rā tata nei, kua uru atu rānei koe ki tētahi whare takaro tinana. Mā tēnei mahi whakangahau pea ka tūtaki koe ki tō hoa aroha. Engari ka taea e te Atua te whakaatu i tō hoa rangatira ki a koe i tēnei ara? Ae rā. Whakaarohia, tera pea e mōhio ana koe ki tētahi tokorua i roto i tō porowhita pāpori e whai pānga ana ki tētahi mea. Tērā pea he mea ngāwari noa iho pērā i te hiahia ki te whakapakari tinana.

He mea nui tēnei āhuatanga ōrite o ngā hiahia i roto i te marena. E hiahia ana te herekore ki te nui atu i te aroha hei oranga tonutanga – ngā kaupapa matua o te tautoko, te whakawhirinaki tetahi ki tetahi, te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero pai, me te ōritetanga o te tirohanga. Ka whakareihia ēnei āhuatanga katoa ina whakanuia e ngā tāngata tokorua te whainga kotahi. Ka kaha ake te hoahoa Venn, e kite ana koe. Koinei te arataki a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira; Ka taea e ia te hono i a koe ki tētahi tangata e whakanui ana i ngā mea kotahi e mahia ana e kōrua. He mea whakamiharo tēnā?

8. He kaupapa whānau

Mā te whānau koe e ārahi ki tētahi hoa rangatira? Āe, e ārahi ana ia. Tērā pea kua roa te wā e mōhio ana ō whānau, ā, kua roa koe e mōhio ana ki a rātou. Tērā pea nā ō mātua, nā ō tuākana, tuākana rānei koe i whakamōhio ki a rātou. I tuhituhi tētahi kaipānui nō Texas, "He rite tonu te kōrero tawhito. I aroha ahau ki te tuahine o taku hoa, ā, ka tīmata māua te whakaipoipo. I haere tonu ia ki te noho hei te tāne pai rawa atu i tā māua marena e toru tau i muri mai.

"Kāore e taea te kī ko wai te mea e nui ake ana taku whakawhetai – ko ia mō te whakakotahi i a māua ko taku wahine, ko taku wahine tonu rānei!" Ina tūtaki te tangata ki ngā hoa mā roto i ō rātou whānau, he tino teitei te hototahitanga. Kāore he tangata e mōhio ana ki a tātou pērā i te hunga e noho tahi ana tātou, tika? Mena kua tīmata tō whānau ki te mahi taumau, he tohu tēnā kei te whakarite te Atua i a koe mō te marena. Kaua e whakakorekore i ngā whakaaro katoa e tukuna ana e rātou ki a koe.

9. Ka taea e te Atua te whakakite i tō hoa rangatira ki a koe? Mā te whakapono e whakatakoto te ara

I mea a Hato Terese o Lisieux, "He ngaru nui te inoi o te ngākau, he titiro noa ki te rangi, he karanga o te mihi me te aroha, e awhi ana i te whakamātautau me te hari." Ā, koinei te arataki a te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira - mā te inoi me te whakapono pumau. He maha ngā tāngata e hiahia ana ki te hanga whānau, ki te hanga kāinga, me tētahi hei tautoko i a rātou. Engari mō tētahi take, mō tētahi take rānei, kāore ngā mea e pai.

He ara e whakamahia ana e te tini te inoi mō tētahi hoa rangatira. Ka tono rātou ki a Ia kia tukuna mai tētahi tangata hei whakarei ake i ō rātou oranga wairua me te hinengaro. Kia tukua atu tēnei manukanuka ki te Atua, ka pai ngā mea katoa. Tuatahi, nā te mea ka mutu tō manukanuka mō ō tumanakohanga. Tuarua, nā te mea ka tukuna mai e Ia tētahi hoa pai mōu. Ina pōuri koe mō tō noho takakau, inoi. Ka kawea mai e ia te rangimārie me te tumanako.

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10. He tūponotanga harikoa, āe?

He maha rawa ngā tūponotanga kei roto i tō ao i ēnei rā? Kei te tūtaki tonu koe ki te tangata kotahi? I puta mai rānei tētahi o ngā rā o mua i ēnei rā? Koinei pea te arataki a te Atua i a koe ki tāu wahine, ki tāu tāne rānei. Ā, ehara pea ēnei aituā i te aituā noa iho. Ko tā mātou tumanako kia aro koe ki ēnei kaupapa harakore, kia mārama hoki ki te tohu e tukuna mai ana e Ia – koinei te tangata māu.

Ka whakanohoia e te Atua ngā tāngata ki tō ara, engari me kawe e koe ngā mea ki mua. Ina puta mai te whai wāhitanga mā roto i ngā tūtakitanga tūpono, kia mau tonu te tango. Mena he mea kua akohia mai e ngā kiriata o Hollywood, ko te mutunga o ngā tūtakitanga tūpono ki te harikoa ake ake. Whakarongo ki ngā tohu a te Atua, ā, tirohia anō ngā aituā. Koinei te ara e ārahi ai te Atua i a koe ki tō hoa rangatira.

11. Te whakatutuki i a koe anō me te rangimārie

Me pēhea te ārahi a te Atua i a koe ki tētahi hoa rangatira mā te whakatutuki i a koe anō? Ka hangaia e te hunga harikoa, hauora hoki ngā whanaungatanga harikoa, hauora hoki. Ina ko koe te putanga pai rawa atu o koe anō, ka tupu pai koe i roto i te hononga aroha. Mena kei te pai ngā mea katoa i te mahi me ērā atu wāhi, kei te kī mai te Atua kua rite koe mō tētahi herenga nui. Ka noho marino koe i roto i a koe anō, ā, ka rite koe mō te taahiraa e whai ake nei i roto i tō oranga.

Mā te whakarōpū i ngā wāhanga katoa o tō ao, kei te whakatuwhera te Atua i te wāhi ka taea e koe te arotahi ki tētahi whanaungatanga ki tētahi. Ina pai ngā mea katoa, ka uru mai tō hoa rangatira. Ka taea e koe te arotahi pono ki te hononga wairua hōhonu kāore he mea hei whakararuraru. Ko te hononga e tīmata pai ana i tēnei wā, ka mutu ko te marena, kāore? E tino whakaaro ana mātou koia tēnā.

Āe, kāti rā, he mea whakamiharo rawa atu tēnā? Ina whakakitea mai e te Atua tō hoa rangatira, tō hoa wahine rānei, ka aro atu koe ki tāna karere. Ko tā mātou e tumanako nei ka kitea wawetia e koe te 'tino hoa', ā, ka whai marena aroha, whakapono hoki koe. Engari kia tae rā anō koe ki te wā e kitea ai e koe, kia māia koe i te mōhio ko koe te tamaiti a te Atua, ā, ko te mea pai anake ka puta māu. Ka taea e koe te hoki mai ki a mātou mō ā mātou whakaaro mō te aroha, te whakapono, me ngā whanaungatanga!

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