He aha te Aroha Agape me tōna Tūranga i roto i ngā Hononga Hou

Aroha – he kupu ataahua, he kare ā-roto ataahua, kua rongohia e tātou katoa i roto i ngā momo āhua i ngā wā rerekē o ō tātou oranga. Ko te manaaki me ngā kare ā-roto e pā ana ki tō pāpā, ki tō whaea, ki tō mōkai, ki ō hoa, ki tō whānau, ki te mahi, me tō hoa rangatira – he aroha katoa. Engari e mōhio ana koe, he rerekē rawa tō aroha ki ia tangata, ki ia tangata. Ko te pātai, ko tēhea o ēnei ka taea e koe te kī he aroha agape? 

E kīia ana, ko te aroha o te whaea te momo aroha tino parakore. Ko te aroha kāore he tumanako, ko tōna aroha mutunga kore, ko te aroha patunga tapu, ko te aroha atua. I runga ake i ngā momo aroha katoa e noho ana, ko te aroha agape. Ka taea e te aroha i waenga i ngā hoa aroha e rua te whai i ēnei āhuatanga? Ka taea e ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whai i te aroha i tōna āhua tino teitei me te tino parakore? Ā, me pērā rānei? Me titiro tata atu tātou ki te aroha agape me tōna tūranga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga o ēnei rā kia mārama ai. 

He aha te aroha o Agape?

He kupu Kariki a Agape, arā , ko te agapē. E whakahuatia ana te aroha agape puta noa i te Kawenata Hou me ngā momo rerekētanga. He tino māmā, he tino ataahua hoki te tikanga o te kupu, ā, ko te uho o taua kupu e kitea ana i roto i te aroha o Ihu ki te tangata, me āna tamariki. Nō reira, e mōhiotia ana hoki ko te aroha o te Atua.

He maha ngā momo aroha engari ko te agape te tohu o te aroha i whakaaturia e Ihu Karaiti ki tōna matua me āna akonga. E kiia ana koinei te momo aroha teitei rawa atu kua kitea. He aroha kore whakaaro, he aroha patunga tapu. Ko te agape te aroha e mau ana ki tētahi me te kore he tumanako hei utu. Ko te kare ā-roto e hari ai koe ki te patunga tapu, e ako ana i a koe kia kore whakaaro, kia waiho ngā hiahia me ngā painga o tō hoa aroha ki runga ake i a koe anō.

Ko te aroha mutunga kore i whakaaturia e Ihu Karaiti ki āna akonga, e tohuhia ana e te ripeka, i reira i patu whakahere ai ia mō ngā hara o te hunga i arohaina e ia, koinei te tikanga o te agape. He nui atu i te kare ā-roto noa iho, engari he manaaki me te whakaatu i tēnei aroha me te manaaki mā roto i āu mahi. E mōhio ana tātou ko te aroha agape he aroha nō te Atua, ehara i te mea nā te aroha i whakaaturia e Ihu Karaiti mā roto i tana patunga tapu anake. Engari e ai ki te Paipera, ko te aroha whānui me te mutunga kore o te Atua ki te ao i meinga ai ia kia tukuna mai tana Tama kotahi, a Ihu Karaiti, hei whakaora i a tātou katoa. 

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"Nō reira te aroha o te Atua ki te ao, i homai ai e ia tana Tama kotahi, kia kore ai e ngaro te tangata e whakapono ana ki a ia, engari kia whiwhi ki te ora tonu." (Hoani 3:16, ESV) E ai ki te ariā a Aristotle, i whakaaturia i roto i te pepa The Philosophy and Social Science of Agape Love i roto i te Journal of Theoretical and Philosophical Psychology, koinei tētahi o ngā whakamāramatanga i ahu mai i te Agape – "Mai i te tūnga o te ngākau pono me te matatika, ko te Uho, ko te Momo rānei ko tēnei: ​​Ko te aroha Agape he ngākau pono matatika e tuku noa ana te tangata i te pai, me te kore herekore, i te utu ki te kaituku, ki tētahi atu, ki ētahi atu rānei e matea ana."

Nā, i a tātou e kōrero ana mō te aroha agape, he mea nui kia mōhio tātou ki ngā momo aroha katoa me ngā mea e rerekē ai te agape, engari ko te momo aroha teitei rawa atu hoki. 

• Eros: Ko te kupu "Eros" e tohu ana i te aroha whakaipoipo me te aroha. erotic i ahu mai i a Eros. Ka whakaoho i ngā hiahia moepuku o te tangata, ā, ka arahi ki te aroha whakaipoipo. Ka kukumea ngā hoa aroha tetahi ki tetahi, ka whakatutuki i ngā wawata o tetahi ki tetahi. ngā matea nui i roto i te whanaungatanga mō te aroha ā-hinengaro me te aroha moepuku
•  Piria: E whakamārama ana a Philia i tō aroha ki ō hoa. Ko te aroha hoahoa te momo aroha tino harikoa. I roto i ngā kupu māmā, ko te Philia te momo aroha e āwhina ana i te tangata kia hono i runga i ngā hiahia, ngā kaingākau, ngā kōrero, me ētahi atu mea rite.
•  Storge: Ko ētahi atu kupu mō Storge he aroha. me te aroha whānau, te mea e tohaina ana e tātou ki ō tātou whānau. Nā te mōhio me te toto tahi tēnei aroha, kaua ki ngā hiahia, ki ngā hiahia tahi rānei. Ka homai he whakamarie me te whakawhirinaki ki a koe, nā te mōhio, he mea tino uaua ki te kitea i ēnei rā. 
• Ākepa: He rerekē tēnei i tētahi atu momo aroha kua whakahuatia i roto i te Paipera, ko te āhua tonu o te aroha Agape ehara i te rapu i a ia anō. Ko te aroha mutunga kore, kore whakaaro, patunga tapu te mea e tino kitea ai te aroha Agape. E mōhiotia ana hoki ko te aroha atawhai. Engari ehara tēnei i te momo aroha e mōhiotia ana e tātou i ēnei rā, e aro ana ki te taonga. Ko tēnei aroha e pā ana ki te whakapono, te whakapau kaha, me te mea nui rawa atu ko te patunga tapu. Koinei te āhua tūturu o te mea e kīia nei e tātou ko te "aroha kore ngā tumanakohanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga" 

Ngā Tohutoro Hira mō te Aroha Agape i roto i te Paipera me ō rātou Tikanga

E ai ki tā mātou i whakatakoto ai i mua ake nei, kua horapa ngā momo aroha āpā puta noa i te Kawenata Hou, e tohu ana i te aroha o te Atua ki āna tamariki me tana whakahau kia aroha rātou tetahi ki tetahi. Anei tētahi tirohanga tata ki ētahi o aua tohutoro me ō rātou tikanga:

1. Te whakahau kia aroha tetahi ki tetahi, kia kore e mutu 

I aroha a Ihu ki te tangata katoa, he ōrite, he kore here. Kotahi te kaupapa i haere mai ai ia, arā, ko te hora i te rangimārie me te aroha. Ko tāna i hiahia ai i ana akonga ko te momo aroha kotahi i a ia mō rātou. I tono ia kia whakaatu rātou i tētahi momo aroha hou, he aroha kāore e herea e te ahuareka, e te toto rānei. I hiahia ia kia aroha rātou tetahi ki tetahi, pērā i tana aroha ki a rātou katoa – me te kore whakaaro whaiaro, me te kore here, me te patu whakahere me te mahi i ngā mea e tika ana mō te oranga me te harikoa o tetahi. 

"He ture hou taku e hoatu nei ki a koutou, kia aroha koutou tetahi ki tetahi; kia rite ki taku aroha ki a koutou, kia aroha koutou tetahi ki tetahi. Ma konei ka matau ai te katoa ko aku akonga koutou, ki te aroha koutou tetahi ki tetahi." (Hoani 13:34-35)

"Nā konei tātou i matau ai ki te aroha, i tuku atu hoki ia i tōna ora mō tātou: he tika anō kia tuku atu tātou i ō tātou ora mō ngā teina." (1 Hoani 3:16)

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2. Ko te Aroha te Atua, ko te Atua te Aroha

"Ko te tangata kei a ia aku ture, e puritia ana hoki e ia, ko ia te aroha ki ahau: ko ia te aroha ki ahau, ka arohaina ia e toku Matua, a ka aroha ahau ki a ia, ka whakakite hoki i ahau ki a ia." (Hoani 14:21)

"Ko ahau i roto i a rātou, ko koe hoki i roto i ahau, kia tino kotahi ai rātou: kia mōhio ai te ao, nāu ahau i tono mai, ā, e aroha ana ki a rātou, pērā i tō aroha ki ahau." (Hoani 17:23)

Koinei te wāhi i mea atu ai a Ihu ki ana akonga, mehemea ka aroha ratou tetahi ki tetahi, pērā i tana aroha ki a ratou, ka mōhio ia e aroha ana ratou ki a ia, ā, mā roto i ā rātou mahi hei whakatutuki i tana whakahau. E mea ana ia ko te hunga e aroha ana ki a Ia ka arohaina e tōna Matua, e te Kaha Rawa, me ia anō hoki. E whakamārama ana ia kei roto ia i te katoa, kei roto hoki i a Ia te katoa, ā, ko te aroha ki āna tamariki te momo aroha teitei rawa atu ki a Ia. 

3. Te Hakari Aroha

Ko te hakari aroha he kai i te hāhi o mua e whakaatu ana i te whanaungatanga me te whakahoahoa. He kai noa i tae mai ai ngā Karaitiana katoa ki te kai tahi, hei tohu i te whanaungatanga e arahi ana ki te whanaungatanga me te kotahitanga. "He toka huna ēnei i roto i ā koutou hakari aroha, i a rātou e kai tahi ana me koutou, kahore he wehi, he hepara e whāngai ana i a rātou anō; he kapua kore wai, e kahakina ana e ngā hau; he rākau kore hua i te mutunga o te ngahuru, e rua ngā matenga, kua hutia ake" (Hūrae 12, ESV)

He aha te tikanga o te aroha Agape i roto i te whanaungatanga?

E ai ki te kōrero i runga ake nei, ko te āhua o te aroha Agape he aroha kore-whaiaro, engari ka whai hua tetahi whanaungatanga ina he rite te aroha Agape ki tetahi ki tetahi. Engari he aha te tikanga o te aroha agape i roto i ngā whanaungatanga aroha? I roto i te whanaungatanga, ka taea te haere tahi me te aroha Agape me tetahi o ngā momo aroha e rua - Eros, Philia rānei . Ā, ina āwangawanga ngā tāngata e rua i roto i te whanaungatanga, ā, kua rite ki te patu whakahere mō tetahi, ka tipu haere tō rāua hononga me te ngāwari o te whanaungatanga. Mā tēnei kupu Kariki māmā ka hangaia he whanaungatanga mō te harikoa o tetahi atu tangata.

Ka taea e koe te kite i te Agape i roto i ngā momo whanaungatanga , tae atu ki te ao o te aroha aroha. Ka manaaki ngā hoa tetahi i tetahi, ka hoatu e rātou tō rātou aroha kore mutunga, ka whakatakoto i ngā hiahia o tetahi ki runga ake i ō rātou ake, ā, ka patu whakahere i roto i ā rātou ake huarahi iti, nui rānei. Kua mau tonu te aroha agape i waenganui i te tāne me te wahine, koinei te mea e hono ana i a rātou ki tētahi taumata teitei ake, he mea e kore e taea te mārama.

E ai ki te pepa, The Philosophy and Social Science of Agape Love , "Ko te rerekētanga motuhake ko tēnei: ​​Kāore he momo aroha kē atu e rite ana te tuku i a ia anō me te utu nui ina tukua e te tangata te kaha, ngā taonga, te whakamarie, me te haumaru mō te pai o tētahi atu, o ētahi atu rānei. Kāore te Agape e whai wāhi ki te whanaungatanga e mau ana i roto i ngā momo aroha kē atu, ahakoa he pono ka taea te whanaungatanga pērā i roto i te whanaungatanga hoa mahi e hoatu ana tetahi ki tetahi."

Engari i te wa ano, ka ahua koretake tēnei kupu Kariki māmā, ā, ka uaua ki te whakaatu i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. I ētahi wā ka tīmata te tangata ki te hoatu nui i runga i te ingoa o te aroha mutunga kore, ā, ka panaia e rātou te aroha ki a rātou anō ki waho o te matapihi, ka tīmata ki te ngaro i a rātou anō i roto i te tukanga. 

Ka taea e tēnei aroha te huri hei whanaungatanga kino mō tētahi, mō ngā hoa tokorua rānei. He tokomaha ngā tohunga hinengaro me ngā kaiwhakaako ora rongonui e whakapono ana he iti noa iho te kaha o te hinengaro me te kare ā-roto, ā, ka mimitihia e tātou te kaha o te hunga e taunekeneke ana tātou, ahakoa he pai, he kino rānei. Koinei te wāhi e takoto ai te raruraru me te otinga.

Ina nui rawa te whakapaunga a te tangata i tōna kaha pai, ā, kāore he mea e mimitia ana, ko te kaha kino anake, ka tīmata te hanga i tētahi pakaru i roto i te whanaungatanga, ka hohonu haere i te wā. He mea tino noa hoki ina kore koe e tino mārama ki te agape, ā, ka haere tonu koe ki te patu whakahere mō tētahi atu tangata, ka pehi i ō ake hiahia me ō wawata. I roto i te wā, ka puta te riri i roto i ngā hoa, ā, ka mutu, ka kino te whanaungatanga. 

He mea nui te whakataurite i te agape me te whakamahi i te aroha ki a koe anō i roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa kia ora ai, kia roa ai hoki. Hei tangata, he hiahia tō tātou katoa kia tutuki, ā, kāore te agape e arai. Ehara i te mea mō ngā patunga tapu kore whakaaro, engari ko te mahi tika mā te tangata e arohaina ana e koe, ahakoa he uaua. Ko te mea nui i konei ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, he mea nui mō ngā whanaungatanga katoa.

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I ahu mai te tohu aroha Agape i te kupu Kariki tawhito, arā, te agapē, i ahu mai i te rautau 1600. Ko te tikanga, ehara i te ariā hou. Kua tuku te tangata i te Agape, ahakoa te mōhio, te kore mōhio rānei. E ai ki tā tātou i kōrero ai i runga ake nei, he mea nui kia taurite te aroha agape me te aroha ki a koe anō. Ināianei ka matapakihia e tātou ngā tohu hauora o te aroha agape i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga. Ka mārama koe ehara te agape i te mea mō ngā patunga tapu kore whakaaro, engari ko te oranga o ō hoa aroha. He uaua ki te kimi i tētahi aroha pēnei engari he mea tika kia whawhai mōna.

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1. Arohaina rātou e koe me te kore mutunga 

Kāore he "mēnā" me "engari" i roto i te aroha pono, ā, koinei te tikanga o Agape – te aroha mutunga kore. Ahakoa ngā āhuatanga, ngā wā uaua rānei e pā ana ki a koe, ehara te aroha pono i te whakarere i te tangata e arohaina ana e koe.

I roto i te sitcom rongonui, FRIENDS , i aroha nui a Ross ki a Rachel i mua noa atu i tō rāua tīmatanga ki te whakaipoipo. He aroha tonu tōna ki a ia, ahakoa te āhua o tā rāua whanaungatanga, ā, kāore ia i whakarērea ia ia. E mōhio ana koe he Agape mēnā ka aroha koe ki a rāua me te kore e tumanakohia he utu, ā, ka aroha koe ki a rāua ahakoa ngā pai me ngā pōuri.

2. Ka whakatakotoria e koe ō rātou hiahia i mua i ōu ake

I te mea kei te kōrero tātou mō NGĀ HOA , kei te mahara koe ki te wāhanga i whati ai te ringa o Rachel, ā, i noho a Ross ki te āwhina i a ia ki te whakarite me te haere ki te hōhipera? Ahakoa ko tētahi o ngā rā tino nui o tana mahi. Kāore ia i whakaaro tuarua. He aha ai? Āe, e mōhio ana koe ki te whakautu. E mōhio ana tātou i whakanoho tonu ia i ana hiahia ki runga ake i ana ake. Ehara i te mea nā te ngakaukore engari nā te aroha i mau tonu ki a ia. Koinei te whakautu ki te pehea e aroha pono ai ki tētahi i roto i te whanaungatanga.

3. He manawanui koe ki a rātou

Kāore koe e ngākau mutu! Kāore te aroha pono e ngākau mutu. E whakapono ana koe ki a rātou, e piri tonu ana koe ki a rātou, ā, kei reira tonu koe me rātou, ā, kei te tautoko i a rātou. Ahakoa te aha, ka noho tonu koe ki te whakatika i te hē, kaua e haere atu me te kore tumanako. Nā te mea, ina aroha koe, ā, ina aroha pono, kāore koe e kī, "Kua nui aku mahi", kei te rite tonu koe ki te whawhai ki ngā rewera e arai mai ana.

Ka whawhai te tangata, ā, ka puta he māramatanga kore, me ngā rerekētanga o ngā whakaaro. Engari ki te whakapono koe he tangata koe kei reira tonu hei whawhai i te taha o tō hoa, kaua ki te whawhai ki a rātou; ki te whakapono koe ka tū tonu koe, kaua ki te haere atu ki te noho tahi me tō hoa, ko tēnei tetahi o ngā tohu nui o te aroha Agape. 

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4. Kāore koe e tautoko i a rātou i roto i ā rātou mahi hē

Ahakoa te ahua rerekē o tēnei ki te āhua o te agape, he mea nui kia mārama ahakoa e kauwhau ana a Agape kia aroha mutunga kore, kia kaua rawa e ngenge, kāore e tohu i te hara, i te mahi hē rānei, ahakoa mō te tangata e arohaina ana e koe. 

Ko te ākāpe te aroha o te Atua, ā, kāore te Atua e akiaki i a tātou kia whai wāhi, kia koa rānei ki ngā hara. E kauwhau ana ia ki a tātou kia hari ki te pono. Hei whakamarie i tō raruraru, ko te kore tautoko i tō hoa ki te mahi i tētahi mea hē, ehara i te mea kua whawhai koe ki a rātou. Ko te whanaungatanga pai ko te tautoko i tō hoa me te akiaki i a rātou ki te mea tika.

5. Kei a koe te mana ki te muru hara

Ko te murunga hara te mana nui rawa atu o te tangata. Ka hē te katoa, ā, e tika ana kia murua te hara o te katoa, inā koa ka mōhio rātou, ka whakaae ki aua hē. Ko te murunga hara te tohu o te aroha Agape, ka murua e koe ngā hē, ngā hara rānei a tō hoa ki a koe. Ā, ka tukuna e koe te riri, me te kore e mau tonu te mauahara. 

He pai te aroha o te Agape mō te hauora?

He nui ngā mea e mōhiotia ana e tātou mō te aroha Agape (uh-gah-utu agape love) ināianei, ā, kāore he mea e kī ana kāore i te hauora. Engari nōnahea te aroha i waiho ai hei pātai āe, āe rānei? Ki te maia, ki taku whakaaro mō te Agape, ko te whakautu he āe, he kāo hoki . Ahakoa te nui o tētahi mea, me kimi tonu e koe te taurite tika. Ko te aroha Agape he mea hoatu me te patunga tapu, engari ehara i te mea ko te whara i a koe anō. Ko te hunga e whara ana i a rātou anō, e mahi ana rānei i tētahi mea wairangi hei whakaatu i tō rātou aroha, ehara i te mea kei te whakamahi i te aroha mutunga kore, engari he herenga uaua, he paitini pea.

Waihoki, ki te tuku tonu koe i tō kaha ki taua tangata kotahi, ki tētahi rōpū rānei. Ahakoa kei te mahi koe i tēnei nā te aroha, me mahara koe he iti noa iho tō kaha, ā, kāore e taea e koe te tuku i tō aroha ki tētahi kia pāngia koe i ia rā, i ia rā. Koinei te wāhi e kore ai e pai. Arohaina tētahi me tō ngākau katoa. Hoatu tō ngākau me tō wairua ki a rātou mēnā e pai ana koe, engari kaua e matapo, e tahu i a koe anō mō ​​te kore painga ki a rātou, ki a koe rānei. 

E kiia ana ko te agape te momo aroha teitei rawa atu nā te mea ehara i te mea e rapu ana i a ia anō, ā, kāore hoki e whai hua whaiaro, e whai koa rānei i te pūtake. Kua whakamātauhia tōna whai wāhi nui ki ngā whanaungatanga o ēnei rā. Ina aroha koe ki tētahi me te kore here, ka awhi koe i te mana o te aroha, ka whakarei ake hoki i ō whanaungatanga. Ina ako koe ki te whakataurite i te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, te aroha ki a koe anō, me te aroha agape i roto i te whanaungatanga, ka whakatakoto koe i te ara mōu me tō hoa ki te whakatutuki i ō hiahia, ki te manaaki tetahi ki tetahi, me te whakapakari i tō hononga. Ko ēnei katoa ka ārahi i a koe ki tētahi whanaungatanga hauora ake. 

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