10 Ngā Tohu kei roto koe i tētahi Hononga Wairua ki tētahi

E rau ngā tāngata ka tūtaki tātou i roto i tō tātou oranga. Ko ētahi ka noho hei hoa, ko ētahi ka ngaro, ko ētahi ka noho hei hoa mō te wā roa. Ā, kei reira anō aua tāngata motuhake. Ko ngā tāngata ka whakarerekē i tō oranga katoa mai i te wā ka uru atu rātou ki roto me te mea kei te mahi tetahi mea nui ake. Ki te mea kua tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata pēnei, kia mōhio koe ko te mea i pā ki a koe he whanaungatanga wairua.

Tērā pea ka noho tonu ēnei tāngata ki roto i tō ao, kāore rānei. Tērā pea ka roa noa ētahi o ēnei whanaungatanga mō ētahi rā. Engari ko te pānga ki a koe ahakoa i roto i tēnei wā poto ka noho tonu ki a koe tae noa ki te mutunga. Koinei te mana o te hononga wairua. Kāore e taea e koe te wareware noa. He mea whakamiharo tēnei? Ko taua tangata ke i tūtaki koe i runga i te paepae o te pāka, i tino kaha te kukume i a ia, ā, i tino haumaru tonu koe. Kei te hiahia koe ki te mōhio mēnā he hononga wairua tāu i whakaaro ai? Kaiako whanaungatanga me te whanaungatanga piripono Shivanya Yogmaya (kua whai tiwhikete ā-ao mō ngā tikanga rongoā o te EFT, NLP, CBT, REBT), he tohunga ki ngā momo momo kaunihera mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, ā, ka āwhina i a tātou ki te mārama tuatahi he aha te whanaungatanga wairua.

He aha te whanaungatanga wairua?

Ko te whanaungatanga wairua he whanaungatanga e honoa ai ngā tāngata e rua mā roto i ō rātou wairua. Hiwanya e whakamārama ana, "Ina he hononga wairua, he nui te aroha, te whakaae me te murunga hara. Engari ko te mea nui, mā te whanaungatanga wairua koe e whakawhanake hei putanga pai ake o koe."

Ko te wairuatanga he rapu i tētahi mea nui atu i a tātou, e homai ana te tikanga ki tō tātou ao. Ka puta he hononga wairua ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata, ā, ka rongo koe kei te wāhi tika koe e noho ai. He maha ngā momo whanaungatanga wairua. He aha te momo whanaungatanga wairua ka puta i a koe? He aha te huarahi e haere ai tēnei hononga ao tangohia? Mā te wā e whakaatu. Engari kotahi te mea e tino mōhiotia ana: tera pea e rite ana ki te mea kei te mahi tetahi mea nui ake, ā, e kore e taea e koe te wareware.

Me pēhea te whakawhanake i tētahi whanaungatanga wairua?

He maha ngā momo whanaungatanga, he maha hoki ngā tāngata. He mahi nui te kimi i te tangata e tika ana māu i roto i tēnei raruraru. Ahakoa kua kitea e koe te tangata e tika ana mōu, ka tū tonu tō whanaungatanga ki ngā āwhā maha. Engari ki te mea he hononga wairua kei roto i te whanaungatanga, he nui ake te tūponotanga ka tu tonu te whanaungatanga i roto i te whakamātautau o te wā. He waimarie mō tātou katoa, ka taea te hanga i te wairuatanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga i roto i te wā. Anei ētahi mea ka taea e koe te mahi hei hanga i tētahi whanaungatanga wairua.

1. Kia whai hononga wairua ki a koe anō

Tuatahi, hei hanga i te wairuatanga i roto i ngā whanaungatanga, me mōhio koe ko wai koe i te taha wairua. He aha ō whakapono? Me pēhea e whakatinana ai koe i te wairuatanga? He aha ō tirohanga mō te wairuatanga me te whakapono? He pai ki a koe te kōrero mō te whakapono me te wairuatanga? Koinei ētahi o ngā pātai me pātai koe ki a koe anō.

"Ka puta te wairuatanga me te mōhio ki a koe anō. Mā te nui ake o tō mōhio ki a koe anō, ka nui ake tō mārama ki tō wairuatanga. Ā, mā te pai ake o tō mārama ki a koe anō, ka māmā ake māu te kōrerotia ki tō hoa "ā, he hononga wairua tō rātou," te whakamārama a Shivanya.

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2. Ko te korero te mea matua

Kotahi te mea e rite ana i waenganui i te wairua me te whanaungatanga, ko te hiahia ki te kōrero. Kia mōhio hohonu atu ki tō hoa. Kia mārama ki tā rātou e hiahia ana mai i te whanaungatanga, me pēhea hoki rātou e hiahia ana kia tipu ake i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ki te hiahia rātou ki te pumau, me mahi kia tutuki ai. Ki te mea he raruraru kei mua, kōrerohia, ā, me āwhina tetahi i tetahi ki te whakatau i ngā raruraru.

He mea nui te mōhio ki tō hoa, pērā i te mōhio ki a koe anō ina ngana ana koe ki te hanga hononga wairua i roto i te whanaungatanga. He mea tino nui te whakaora mēnā e hiahia ana koe kia whanake hei tangata. Ā, kia ora ai koe, me kōrero koe ki tō hoa. Kia mōhio ki ō mea kei a koe, whakaaetia ngā mea e tika ana kia whakarerekētia, ā, whakamahia tēnei hei tipu ake me te aroha me te tautoko.

3. Waihangahia he wā hei mahi tahi i te wairuatanga

He maha ngā huarahi hei mahi i te wairuatanga. Ki ētahi, ko te whakaaroaro me te mahi i te ngakau maumahara, ko ētahi e pai ake ana ki te whai i ngā kawa whakapono, ko ētahi ia e hono ana ki te taiao. Kōrero ki tō hoa, ka kimi i tētahi mahi hei rongoā mā kōrua ko tō hoa. He whakaaroaro, he hikoi rānei i te ngahere. Kātahi, tangohia he wā mai i tō kaupapa mahi o ia rā mō taua mahi.

E whakamārama ana a Shivanya, "I roto i te wairuatanga me ngā whanaungatanga, kāore e hiahiatia he kupu hei whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Hei hanga hononga wairua, i ētahi wā ko te mea anake e hiahiatia ana ko te noho noa ki reira. He nui te noho tahi o tō hoa hei hanga i taua hononga wairua."

He aha ngā momo whanaungatanga wairua?

He take te puta o ngā mea katoa. He take anō hoki te hunga e haere mai ana ki roto i ō tātou ao. Heoi anō, i te nuinga o te wā, ka mōhio tātou ki te take tūturu mō te taenga mai o tētahi tangata ki roto i ō tātou ao, i muri i tōna wehenga atu. Inaianei pea ka whakaaro koe, "Mēnā ko tēnei tangata tō tātou hoa wairua, kāore ianei tāua e noho tahi ake ake?"

Ko ngā momo whanaungatanga wairua e whakatau ana mēnā kei konei tonu tō tātou hoa wairua, kāore rānei. Ahakoa he kaupapa kei konei ia hononga wairua, ka taea te wehewehe ki ngā momo whanaungatanga wairua e toru.

1. Hononga wairua Karma

Ka tino kaha rawa atu ēnei momo whanaungatanga wairua. He nui te kukume e kore e taea te wareware engari i te nuinga o te wā, kāore ēnei whanaungatanga e roa. "He ngā whanaungatanga wairua karmic "Ko te kaupapa he whakaako i a tātou i tētahi akoranga kāore anō kia akohia e tātou i tō tātou whānautanga o mua," te whakamārama a Shivanya. Kia oti te whakaako i te akoranga, ka tīmata te pakaru o te whanaungatanga.

He tokomaha te hunga e ngana ana ki te pupuri i tēnei whanaungatanga i runga i te ngākau pouri. Ka maumahara rātou ki te āhua o mua, ā, ka ngana ki te whakahaere kia angitu. Koinā te wā ka kino haere ngā mea. Ka nui ake tō ngana ki te pupuri i ēnei whanaungatanga, ka nui ake te kino. I roto i ēnei āhuatanga, he pai ake te tuku i ngā mea kia haere.

2. He hoa wairua

E kīia ana, ina tūtaki koe ki tō hoa rangatira, ka mōhio noa koe ki tēnā, ā, he pono rawa tēnā. Ko te hononga ka rongohia e koe ina kua kitea e koe tō hoa wairua he mea ohorere. Kāore koe e rite ki te tūtaki ki tētahi tangata tauhou. Engari, ka rite koe ki te tūtaki ki tētahi hoa kua ngaro. Ko ēnei momo whanaungatanga ka roa te mau.

"Ka hoatu e te wairua o tēnei rōpū wairua te aroha me te tautoko mutunga kore ki a koe. He māramatanga hohonu, he whanaungatanga tino kaha hoki kei waenganui i a kōrua. Tērā pea ka whakaoho ake tēnei momo whanaungatanga wairua i a kōrua i ētahi wā, engari ko taua whakaoho ka waiho hei mea mō tō ake tipu me te whakapai ake," te kī a Shivanya. Mā tō hoa wairua wairua koe e noho haumaru i roto i tō whanaungatanga ki a rātou.

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3. Mura māhanga

Ahakoa he wairua nō te rōpū wairua kotahi te hoa wairua wairua, ko te mura māhanga te haurua kē atu o tō wairua. Ka taea e koe te tūtaki ki ngā hoa wairua wairua i a koe e ora ana, engari ko te tūtaki ki a koe hononga mura mahanga kotahi noa te wā e tupu ai. Tērā pea kāore koe e tūtaki ki tō hoa māhanga i roto i te kotahi oranga.

Engari, ina tūtaki koe ki tō hoa māhanga, koia katoa ngā mea kua rongohia e koe mō 'Te Kotahi'. He kaha tonu te pānga o te hononga wairua, engari mā te tūtaki ki tētahi hoa māhanga ka rite koe ki tētahi tia e mau ana i roto i ngā rama o mua, kāore e taea te mawhiti atu. He whakaata tō hoa māhanga i a koe i ngā huarahi katoa. Mā tō whanaungatanga koe e whakatere i tō tipu, ka eke ki ngā taumata kāore koe i whakaaro ka taea e koe.

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I roto i te tini o te tangata e tūtaki ana tātou i ia rā, he torutoru noa iho e aro atu ana ki a tātou. Ā, i roto i aua torutoru nei, he iti iho te tokomaha o te hunga e noho tahi ana me tātou i roto i tō tātou haerenga o te ao. He huarahi tō te ao whānui ki te tuku aroha ngā tāngata rānei ki a tātou i te wā e tino hiahiatia ana rātou, ahakoa hei āwhina i a tātou ki te puta atu i ngā tauira, hei tautoko rānei i a tātou i te haerenga o te ao.

"Kāore te hononga wairua i roto i ngā whanaungatanga e hiahiatia kia rite ki te momo aroha," te kī a Shivanya. Tērā pea he wairuatanga i roto i te whanaungatanga me te hoa, te kaiako, te hoa mahi, te mōkai rānei. Nā, me pēhea te mōhio ki te hononga wairua ki tētahi? Anei ētahi mea ka puta ina whai whanaungatanga wairua tātou.

1. He kaha tō māramatanga

Ko te tohu tuatahi kua kitea e koe tētahi tangata he hononga wairua tō kōrua, ko te rongo i taua hononga i roto i tō puku. Ka tino kaha te kaha o ō kōrua kare ā-roto tetahi ki tetahi, ā, kāore tetahi o kōrua e taea te wareware. Ka rongo koe ko ia tō hoa wairua, he hoa māhanga rānei. Ko te whanaungatanga wairua te huarahi a te ao whānui ki te ārahi i a koe ki te ara tika, ā, kāore e taea te mawhiti atu i taua hononga.

2. Ka whakawhanakehia e koe he hononga hohonu tonu

Ahakoa he maha ngā whanaungatanga e pau ana te wā me te kaha ki te mārama ki te ao, he rerekē rawa te whanaungatanga wairua i tēnei āhuatanga. Ko te mea tino ataahua mō te tūtaki ki tētahi hoa wairua ko te whakatū i tētahi hononga e ahua ngāwari ana.

A hoa wairua me ngā hononga wairua hōhonu ka rite ō rātou wiri ki ōu. Ka ōrite ō rātou tukanga whakaaro, tirohanga ao, tae atu ki ō rātou wairuatanga ki ōu. Tērā pea ka tino hono koe ki te tangata, ā, ka tata rite te hononga ki te waea. Ka tino hono tahi kōrua.

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3. Kāore koe e pōrearea i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga wairua

He kawenga tō ia tangata, tō ia tangata. Ko ētahi ka taea e tātou te mahi takitahi, ko ētahi, me āwhina. Ina he hononga wairua kei roto i te whanaungatanga, ka pai ake te hononga. Ka mārama ake ngā tāngata e rua i roto i te whanaungatanga ki ngā hapa me ngā ngoikoretanga o tētahi ki tētahi.

E whakaae ana rātou ki a koe mō tō āhua, ā, kāore koe e hiahia ki te huri hei mema mō rātou. Kāore hoki koe e hiahia ki te whiwhi i tā rātou whakaae. Kāore he herekore o te aroha e tohaina ana e kōrua. E māia ana koe i roto i te mātauranga, ā, ka taea e koe te noho hei ko koe tonu.

4. He whakawhirinakitanga tino pono, tino pono hoki ki te whanaungatanga

ki te he here kore Ka puta mai te whakapono mutunga kore. He maha ngā whanaungatanga ka mutu nā te koretake o te māia i waenganui i te tokorua, engari i roto i te wairuatanga me ngā whanaungatanga, kāore he wāhi mō te kore whakawhirinaki. E whakamārama ana a Shivanya, "Ina he hononga wairua i waenganui i te tokorua, ka kī mai ō tātou kare ā-roto kei te haumaru tātou ki a rātou, ā, ka taea te whakawhirinaki ki a rātou."

Ehara i te mea he kuware koe ki te whakawhirinaki katoa ki tētahi tangata; engari kei te tino haumaru tō whanaungatanga ki a rātou, e whakaaro ana koe kei te manakohia rātou, nō reira e tino manakohia ana rātou e koe, kāore he take mō ngā kōrero teka, ahakoa mō te hunga mā.

5. Kāore e hiahiatia ngā kupu

Ina kei roto koe i tētahi whanaungatanga wairua, kāore he uaua ki te pupuri i te kōrero. Kāore e pau ngā kaupapa. He mea whakamere ki te mōhio, i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga pēnei, kāore koe e hiahia ki ngā kupu.

Nā te hononga i waenganui i ngā tāngata e rua o te rōpū wairua kotahi, kāore koe e hiahia ki ngā kupu hei whakawhitiwhiti kōrero. Mā te titiro noa ki a koe, ka taea e rāua te mōhio ki ngā mea e puta ana i roto i tō hinengaro. Nā te hononga i waenganui i a rāua, ka taea e rāua te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero me te mea he waea. E mōhio ana koe me pēhea te kaha o te hiahia ki te whakatuwhera i te tatau, ā, e mōhio ana koe kei tērā taha tō hoa? Koia te momo te aroha i roto i te telepathy ka puta i roto i te hononga wairua.

6. E whakaute ana koe tetahi ki tetahi, ā, e manaaki ana tetahi i tetahi me te mea he ōrite

"Ko tētahi mea nui kei a koe i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga wairua ko te whakaute ki tō hoa," te kī a Shivanya. Ehara i te mea kāore he pakanga, he whakahē rānei, he rite tonu ki tēnā i roto i ia whanaungatanga. Tērā pea he kaha ō whakaaro mō ngā mea pēnei i te mea he pai ake ngā toa toa o Marvel, o DC rānei, engari ahakoa te rerekētanga o ō whakaaro, ka rongo tonu koe kei te whakarongohia, kei te whakamanahia hoki koe.

Ina he wairuatanga kei roto i ngā whanaungatanga, ka kite koe i tō hoa rangatira he rite tonu, ā, kāore koe e whakahawea ki a rātou. E mōhio ana koe kāore he tangata tino tika, kāore he tangata e mōhio ana ki ngā mea katoa, ā, kāore he tangata e pai ana ki ngā mea katoa, engari ka whakaae koe ki a rātou me tō rātou āhua, ā, ka whakaute tonu koe i a rātou.

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7. He tipu me te taurite kei roto i te whanaungatanga

Ko tētahi o ngā mea tino iti te whakanui engari ko tētahi o ngā mea tino nui o te whanaungatanga ko te whai kaha ki te pupuri i te taurite i roto i tō koiora. Mā te nui ake o ngā hononga wairua i roto i te whanaungatanga, ka kaha ake te pupuri a te tokorua i tēnei taurite.

E whakaaro ana te tangata, ina tūtaki koe ki tō hoa wairua, ka pau katoa te aroha. Koinei te wāhi e hē ai rātou. Ina he hononga wairua tōu, he kaha, he kaha hoki te aroha, engari ehara i te mea ka pau katoa. Ka taea e koe te arotahi ki ō kaupapa matua me te waihanga me te pupuri i taua taurite e tino hiahiatia ana. Mā te whanaungatanga wairua koe e whai herekore me te wāhi ki te mahi i ō moemoeā, ā, ka akiaki i a koe kia noho hei putanga pai rawa atu o koe.

8. Ka taea e koe te kī ina he tetahi mea

He whakaaro noa iho tēnei, he tūponotanga rānei, engari e mōhio ana koe i te wā e raru ana tō hoa. Waihoki, ina kei roto koe i tētahi āhuatanga e tino hiahia ana koe ki tētahi – ahakoa kei te hikoi takitahi koe i te huarahi pōuri, kei te whakaaro rānei koe kei te taha koe – he pūkenga tō te wairua whanaunga ki te puta ki te wāhi tika i te wā tika.

Kāore e taea te whakahē i tēnei kukume autō tata tonu. Kāore pea rātou e tae mai ki tō tatau i ngā wā katoa engari ka tae mai rātou i te wā e tino hiahiatia ana rātou e koe. Tērā pea, mā te waea noa iho.

9. He mōhio rātou, ā, e kore e warewaretia

"Tērā ētahi wā ka tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata tauhou, kāore e rite ki tētahi tangata tauhou. He tino hohonu te hononga e tohaina ana e kōrua, me te mea kua roa kōrua e mōhio ana ki a ia. He rite ō kōrua whakaaro me ō kōrua ariā, he ōrite ō kōrua hiahia, ā, tera pea ka taea e kōrua te matapae i ngā kupu, i ngā tauhohenga rānei a te tangata e whai ake nei. I roto i ētahi ahurea, e kiia ana i hangaia tēnei hononga i ō whānautanga o mua," te kī a Shivanya.

I roto i ēnei mea katoa, kotahi te mea e tino mōhiotia ana, e kore e taea e koe te wareware i te tangata e hono ana koe ki tēnei momo hononga. Ehara i te mea ko ngā wairua katoa o tō rōpū wairua ka noho tonu ake ake, engari ka noho tonu tō rātou mauri ki a koe. Tērā pea ka wareware koe ki te tae o ō rātou kanohi, ki ō rātou mata rānei, engari e kore rawa e wareware ki te pānga o rātou ki tō oranga.

10. Hei rōpū, kāore e taea te hinga

Ka kaha te hononga i waenganui i a koe me tō whanaunga, ā, ka noho tahi anō hoki kōrua. Koinei te hononga e uaua ana ki te motu. Ka noho tonu ō whakaaro ki a rātou, inā koa i te wā e wehe ana kōrua. Ā, he tino kaha tēnei momo hononga, ā, i te wā e whakaaro ana koe ki a rātou, ka whakaaro anō hoki rātou ki a koe. Engari, i te wā e wehe ana kōrua, kāore kōrua e tino angitu.

Engari ina huihui ngā tāngata tokorua e whai hononga wairua ana, ka puta he ahi ahi i ngā wāhi katoa. Ka pai ake tō moe, ka reka ake te kai, ā, ka pai ake tō wairua mōu ake me te ao whānui. Mā te whanaungatanga wairua ka āwhina te tokorua ki te whakatutuki i tētahi āhua Zen e āwhina ana i te tokorua ki te hanga he whanaungatanga pai, kia pai ake ai te mahi i ngā āhuatanga katoa o tō rātou ao, kia eke hoki ki ngā taumata teitei ake.

He taonga onge, he taonga ataahua hoki te hononga wairua. Ka taea e ia te kawe i a koe ki ngā taumata tiketike, te whakaako i a koe i ngā akoranga nui o te ao, me te āwhina i a koe ki te ora. He mea nui kia mahara ko ia tangata e uru mai ana ki roto i tō tātou ao he kaupapa tōna, ā, ka tukuna mai e te ao te tangata tika ki a koe hei āwhina i a koe kia tipu. Ā, ko te hanga i tētahi hononga wairua me tēnei tangata ka arahi ki ngā mea nui atu i a koe. Nō reira, ina kitea e koe te hononga o tō wairua, kia arohaina, kaua hoki e tukua kia moumou noa.

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