I puritia e au tōku ingoa wahine

I te wā tonu i whakatau ai ahau ki te mārena, ki te tīmata i tēnei upoko hou o tōku ao, i mōhio ahau me pupuri tonu tōku ingoa wahine. He mea tino nui ki ahau. Kei te whakaaro ahau me pupuri tonu e te wahine kua mārena tōna ingoa wahine? Āe, kāore he mea e kore e taea e ngā wāhine o te rautau 21 te mahi!

Te take i whakaaro ai ahau me pupuri tonu tōku ingoa wahine

He ingoa rerekē rawa atu tōku ingoa tuatahi mō te nuinga o te tangata, ā, he rite tonu ki te mea e kōrero pōhēhē ana mō te hunga kāore anō kia mōhio ki te reo Sanskrit. Mai anō i ngā rā kura, kua maha ngā wā kua whakakinohia tōku ingoa e te tangata, he nui atu i taku e hiahia ana ki te maumahara. Ka tāpirihia te 'Mr' ki mua i tōku ingoa i ngā tauākī peeke. Ka karangatia ahau e ngā kaikaranga waea ko Sir. He pōuri. rangatira d e ngunguru pōrearea ana ina rite te tēpu.

Hei whakangawari ake i te oranga, he maha ngā wā ka whakawhirinaki ahau ki tōku ingoa whānau. He ingoa whānau māmā noa iho, he ngāwari ki te whakahua, he ingoa whānau noa iho nō te kawanatanga rawhiti o Odisha. Ka whakamahia e au i te whare whakapaipai, i te teihana ratonga waka rānei, mō te rēhita ki te taupānga Uber, mō ngā ohaurunga matapōkere rānei. He mea whakaora ora!

Te raruraru pepa mahi

Engari ehara i te mea koinei anake te take i pupuri tonu ai ahau i tōku ingoa wahine i muri i taku marena. Ko te take matua he karo i ngā raruraru pepa. He tangata nōku tonu wahine mahi motuhake ā, i taku marenatanga, kua riro mai i ahau te raihana taraiwa, te uruwhenua, ngā pūkete peeke me ētahi atu rawa i raro i tōku ingoa kōtiro.

I te wiki i muri i tā māua marena, ka hoki mai taku tāne i taua wā i te tari, ka mea mai, "Whakakīia ō peke. Ka haere tāua ki te US." I wehe atu ahau i tōku ake ao ki te ao o tētahi atu tāne. Ko te tango anō i ahau i te ao hou, me te neke ki tētahi whenua hou, koinā te mea anake i taea e au. Me i tohe tetahi ki te huri i te ingoa ture i taua wā pukumahi, e tino mohio ana ahau kua riri ahau ki a rātou! He harikoa ahau kāore au i huri i tōku ingoa i taku marena.

I puta mai te pōhēhētanga

I tō mātou nekenga ki te US, kāore i kitea he tohu o te memeha haere o te pōhēhētanga ki te ingoa whānau. He hiahia tonu tā rātou pūnaha ki te tono i te tuakiri o te tangata i roto i te whakatakotoranga ingoa-tuatahi-ingoa-waenga-ingoa-whakamutunga. Ā, ka tino pōhēhē te āpiha noa ina kore rawa taku huinga ingoa-tuatahi-ingoa-whakamutunga e rite ki te huinga ingoa-tuatahi-ingoa-whakamutunga o te tāne, i te mea kua nui ake te kino o taku marena ki tētahi Īniana ki te Tonga.

I ētahi wāhi o te Tonga o Īnia, he mea noa te whakamahi i te ingoa tuatahi o tō rātou pāpā hei ingoa whānau. Nō reira, ko te tikanga ko te ingoa whānau o te tāne ko 'Subramaniam' (ehara i tōna ingoa tūturu) koia te ingoa tuatahi o te hungawai.

I te whakanui marena o tētahi hoa mahi Amerikana, i runga i ngā kāri ingoa i te tēpu i whakarārangihia te tāne ko Vijay Subramaniam, ā, ko au ko Mrs. Subramaniam. Nā te mea i pērā ai, ko au te wahine a tōku hungawai, arā, tōku hungawai wahine!! I tino whakakatakata ahau, engari kāore te tāne i kata.

I te wā i pōuri ai ngā mea

I puta mai ēnei raruraru iti katoa i te pupuri i tōku ingoa wahine i te wā e mārena ana, engari kotahi te mea iti ake hei āwangawanga māku i te wā i kino ai te marena. Ko ngā pepa whakarere me tiaki tamariki he mea whakamataku i roto i te pūnaha ture o Īnia; i tino harikoa ahau i te karo i te taumahatanga tāpiri, me te kore e whakahua i te mamae kare ā-roto, o ngā afitatitanga mō te whakarerekē i te ingoa.

I te Kōti Tangata Whenua e whakarongo ana ki taku keehi, i whakaititia te reo o tētahi kaiwhakawā. "Ko ēnei tāne me ngā wāhine o ēnei rā, me ō rātou whakaaro motuhake," ka menemene ia. "He aha te mea ka taea e te tangata te tumanako mai i a rātou mō te tapu o te marena? Kāore rātou e whakarerekē i ō rātou ingoa!" I tū ahau i reira me te riri i roto i ahau.

Te pānui e pā ana: E whā tau te roa ki te whakatau, engari i hurihia e au tōku ingoa i muri i te marena.

Me te whakaute katoa ki te mana whakahaere ture, me pēhea rā te whakatau a tetahi mō te āhua o taku marena, mō taku whakatau rānei kia mutu? Ā, kaua rawa tōku ingoa e pā ki tēnei katoa!!

He waimarie, he maeneene te haere o te ao mai i taua wā. Heoi anō, nā te mea kei te mau tonu tōku ingoa, he nui te hunga kāore i te mōhio, nō reira, kāore rātou e pokanoa ki ngā huringa o tōku ao. Kua neke whakamua māua ko taku tamāhine, kāore he pātai nui, he hiahia rānei.

Nō reira, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe me pēhea te pupuri i tō ingoa wahine i muri i te marena, me pēhea rānei, kia mahara ko koe te tangata hei matapaki i tēnei ingoa me tō hoa. E pai ana ahau ki tōku ingoa wahine, me te mea kāore au i whakarerekē. E pai ana ahau ki tōku kiri me tōku tuakiri – kei roto i ēnei hapa me ngā hapa, inā koa i roto i aku... te ora i muri i te wehenga.

Kua mahia e au ngā mea e kiia nei e te tangata he 'hē', engari e kite ana ahau he 'wheako'. Nā rātou ahau me tōku tuakiri i hanga. Nā rātou ahau i ārahi ki mua i taku tīmatanga. Ahakoa rā, e pai ana ahau ki te whakarerekē ingoa o ngā wāhine hei tango i te whānau, i te ingoa whānau rānei o tā rātou tāne i muri i te marena.

Ki tōku whakaaro, kāore e whakarerekē i tō rātou tuakiri; engari ka hoatu he wāhi hou ki a rātou. He mea kotahi tonu rātou, he nui ake i te tapeke o ō rātou wāhanga maha. Koinā tō rātou kaha. He pai ki ahau te kī tonu, 'E hiahia ana ahau ki te pupuri i tōku ingoa wahine.'

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