Me pēhea te takaro i ngā tuhinga: Ngā Tohutohu, Ngā Tauira, me te Hinengaro kei muri

I pato koe, i muku, i pato anō, me te whakaaro he aha te mea e ahua whakaipoipo ana engari ehara i te mea whakapouri. I roto i te ao e tīmata ana ngā whanaungatanga ki ngā whakamōhiotanga kaua ki te titiro noa, kua noho te tuku karere hei reo whakaipoipo matua. Ka tangohia e ngā mata te wehi o te kōrero he i roto i te kanohi, engari ka tangohia hoki te reo, te reo tinana me te wā. Ka āwhina tēnei tuhinga i a koe ki te whakatere i taua wāhi. Ka tūhura koe i te whakaaro tika, me pēhea te whakatakoto i te reo, te hinengaro i muri i te kukume matihiko me te take he tino whakahihiri te tumanako, me ngā tauira mahi me ngā rerenga kōrero e whakaatu ana me pēhea te whakaipoipo i runga i te karere me te kore e rite ki te mea kua akiakihia, e ngaro rānei i a koe i te ara.

Te Hinengaro o te Whakaipoipo i runga i te Kuputuhi

He ranunga matatini o ngā kupu whakakatakata, ngā homoni, te wā me ngā whakaaro hinengaro te takaro i roto i te waea. Ina tuku karere takaro koe, kātahi ka tirotiro i tō waea i ia rima hēkona, kei te pāngia tō roro e te dopamine. rangahau e whakamārama ana ko te tumanako ki tētahi whakautu, te koretake me te utu ā muri ake nei ka whakaoho i ngā pikinga o te dopamine, te neurotransmitter e akiaki ana i te hiahia me te rapu. E whakamārama ana tēnei porowhita he aha te ahua o te whakawai matihiko he mea whakawai. 

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Haunga te matū, ko ngā tohu matihiko pēnei i te reo whakaata, te whakamahinga emoji rānei, he tohu i te whakataurite i ngā kare ā-roto. He Whare Wānanga o Bond tuhinga whakapae i kitea ko ngā karere kuputuhi e whakaatu ana i te aroha me te tautoko e poipoi ana i te piripono me te whakaata i ngā tauira whakawhitiwhiti kōrero kanohi ki te kanohi. E whakaatu ana hoki ngā rangahau ka whakanui ake ngā emoticon i te whakaaro takaro me te hononga. Heoi, kāore he reo me ngā āhua kanohi o ngā karere kuputuhi, ā, he mea noa te whakamaoritanga hē. Mā te mārama ki ēnei mana ka āwhina koe ki te tito karere e waihanga ana i te tumanako me te kore manukanuka.

• Te Dopamine me te tumanako: Ehara i te karere anake te utu engari ko te wā tatari. He pai ki tō roro te manawa whakahihiri
• Te whakaata i ngā kare ā-roto: Mā te whakataurite i tō momo reo me te tere o te urupare ka tohu i te whanaungatanga me te whakapau kaha
• Te takaro mā roto i ngā emoji: Mā te whakamahi i ngā emoji taurite ka mahana ake, ka manaaki ake hoki ngā karere
• Te tūponotanga o te whakamaoritanga hē: Ki te kore te reo, te āhua kanohi rānei, ka taea te whakamaoritanga hē i ngā tuhinga.

Ngā Ture Koura o te Whakakatakata Kuputuhi

Me rite te whakaipoipo mā te karere kuputuhi ki te kanikani māmā, takaro, kaua ki te uiui. Me noho tonu, me te whakaatu hiahia pono ā, ko te whakaute i ngā rohe hei aratohu māu. Me pēhea e whakauru ai koe i ēnei ki roto i tō kēmu tuku karere kuputuhi? Whāia ēnei ture koura e rima mō te pehea e takaro ai i runga i te karere kuputuhi me te maia:

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Ngā Mea e Tika ana, Ngā Mea Kāore e Tika ana mō te Whakaipoipo i runga i te Kuputuhi

Te whakaipoipo kuputuhi he tikanga anō tōna. Mā te whai i ēnei aratohu ka āwhina i a koe ki te karo i ngā hapa noa, ā, ka noho harikoa te pūngao mō kōrua tokorua.

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1. Whakamahia te whakakatakata me te wairua māori

Mā te wairua whakakatakata ka whakaatu i te maia, ka whakamārama hoki i te wairua. Tuhia he kitenga rorirori mō tō rā, he meme rerekē rānei. Ki te rapu koe i ngā karere kuputuhi whakakatakata, whakaarohia he mea ahurei, kaua e tārua i tētahi kōrero whakahihiri.

• "I kitea noa iho nei e au ko taku waranga ki te kawhe he āhuatanga whaiaro pea. Me āwangawanga ahau?"
• "I kite noa ahau i tētahi e hikoi ana i tētahi koati i te taone nui—i whakaaro ahau ka pai koe ki te tūponotanga."

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2. Pātaihia ngā pātai tuwhera

Tonoa rātou kia kōrero mai mō rātou anō. Mā ngā pātai tuwhera ka akiaki i te kōrero, ā, ka whakaatu hoki i tō hiahia pono.

• "He aha te huarahi pai hei whakapau i te Rātapu mangere?"
• "Mena ka taea e koe te haere ki hea i tēnei wā tonu, ko hea koe ka haere ai?"

3. Whakamahia ngā emoji, ngā GIF rānei kia iti te reo

Ngā emoji whakakatakata tāpirihia te mahana, me te whakamārama i tō whakaaro ina whakamahia i roto i te āhua taurite. Whakamahia tētahi, e rua rānei hei tāpiri i te kare ā-roto; kaua e whakararu i te kōrero.

• "Kia ora tō whakaaturanga i tēnei rā 😊"
• "I kata nui ahau i taua kōrero 😂"

4. Whakaritea ngā mihi ki a rātou

Whakaaturia kia kite koe i ngā taipitopito motuhake, ahakoa he momo kāhua, he whakakatakata, he whakatutukitanga rānei.

• "Nā te āhua o tāu whakaahuatanga i tō haerenga rori i rite ai ahau ki reira. Me tuhi koe i tētahi tuhinga haereere."
• "He tino tika tonu āu whakaaro mō te rārangi waiata. He mihi nui ki taku Spotify."

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5. Whakatauritehia tā rātou auau tuku karere kuputuhi

Ki te tere tā rātou whakautu, kia mau tonu te kaha. Ki te roa te wā, kia whakautehia tō rātou tere. Mā te whakaata i te tere o tā rātou whakautu, ka kitea te aroha me te whakawhirinaki. 

• Mena ka whakautu mai rātou i roto i ngā meneti, ka taea e koe te whakautu i roto i te wā ōrite
• Mena he maha ngā haora e wehea ai ngā whakautu, tukuna atu he karere whai whakaaro nui, kaua e akiaki i a rātou kia whakautu wawe tonu.

Nga Tangata

1. Kaua e nui rawa te tuhinga, kaua hoki e tāruarua te tuhinga

Te tuku karere kuputuhi maha i te wā kāore anō kia whakautua mai, te whakahāngai rānei i tēnei ki te tuku karere takirua ka āhua pokanoa pea. Hoatu he wāhi ki a rātou hei whakautu.

• Kaua e tuku karere "Kei reira koe?", ā, me whai muri ko "He aha koe kāore ai e whakautu mai?"
• Engari i te tuku karere kuputuhi rua, whakamahia taua tumanako hei mea whai hua, kia maumahara ki te porowhita dopamine.

2. Kaua e tuku karere tūpato i te wā wawe

Ka raru pea te uru wawe ki ngā kōrero whakaipoipo. Tuatahi, hangaia te whakamarie me te whakawhirinaki.

• Kaua e whakamahi i ngā katakata whakairoiro, i ngā whakaahua kāore i tonoa rānei
• Arotahi ki ngā hiahia tahi me te kōrero whakakatakata i mua i te piki haere o te taumahatanga

3. Kaua e whakamahi i ngā kupu whakamihi whānui

Kāore e nui te whakapau kaha ki te kī atu, "He ātaahua koe". Mā te mihi whakaaro nui e whakaatu he nui ake tō uara i tō āhua.

• "Ka whakamarie koe i te hunga katoa e karapoti ana i a koe. He tino onge tēnā."
• "He mea hopuhopu tō harikoa ina kōrero koe mō ō mahi whakangahau."

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4. Kaua e pohehe te wahangu mō te whakakorenga

He oranga tō te tangata. Mā te whakaaro kāore rātou i te aro nā te mea kāore rātou i whakautu wawe mai ka ara ake te raruraru.

• Ki te mea kei te manukanuka koe, tukuna mai he kupu poto "Kōrero ā muri ake nei?", ka huri i tō arotahi.
• Kia mōhio he mea noa te hē o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero matihiko

5. Kaua e akiaki i te kōrero ina pukumahi rātou

Ki te mea kei te mahi rātou, kei te whānau rānei, me whakaute ō rātou rohe. Tērā pea ka kitea te tohe tonu he mea e hiahiatia ana.

• He mihi māmā noa iho ki tā rātou kaupapa mahi, "Kia pai tō wā! Whakamōhio mai ki ahau ina wātea koe 😊".
• Mā te akiaki i a rātou ki te mahi i ngā mahi maha ka whakaiti i te kukume

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Me pēhea te tīmata i tētahi kōrerorero kuputuhi whakakatakata

Te tīmata i tētahi kōrero He mea whakararuraru pea, engari he wāhi anō hoki ki te whakaatu i tō tuakiri. Whakaarohia te horopaki. He rerekē te āhua o ngā mihi o te ata i ngā whakaaro o te pō. Whakamahia he whakakatakata ā-wāhanga, he wheako tiritiri rānei hei waihanga i tētahi tīmatanga ngāwari mō ngā karere kuputuhi whakakatakata.

1. Pakaruhia te huka mā te tirotiro

Mātakihia tētahi mea e karapoti ana i a koe, i roto rānei i ā rātou pou pāpāho pāpori hei whakaoho kōrero. E whakaatu ana tēnei kei te noho koe i konei, kei te whai whakaaro nui hoki.

• "I puta ake koe ki roto i tōku mahunga i a au e inu kawhe ana. He whanonga kino tēnei."
• "I kite ahau i tētahi e mau ana i ngā tōkena me ngā hū. He nekehanga māia. He aha tō tūnga?"

2. Whakahuatia tētahi wā i kōrerotia ngātahitia, i tētahi katakata rānei i roto i a koe

Mā te hoki anō ki tētahi wheako i tohaina e tohu te hononga. Tērā pea nō tētahi kōrero o mua, nō tētahi rā, nō tētahi meme rānei i pai ki a kōrua.

• "I ia wā ka rongo au i taua waiata, ka mahara tonu ahau ki te aituā o tā mātou karaoke 😂"
• "I hipa noa atu i te whare pīta i kōrerohia e mātou mō ngā hāora. Kei te whakapono tonu koe he pai te paināporo ki runga i te pīta?"

3. Whakamahia ngā whakapae takaro

Tonoa rātou kia whakaaro tahi me koe i ngā horopaki. Ka whakaoho ake ngā ariā i te auahatanga, ā, ka whakaatu hoki i te tuakiri.

• "Mehemea ka mau tātou i roto i te ararewa, ko wai o tātou ka tīmata tuatahi ki te waiata tahi?"
• "Kōwhiria: te haere ki te wā o mua, te whakawhiti rānei ki hea ināianei. He aha ai?"

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4. Tukuna he mihi motuhake

Whakatuwheratia ki tētahi mea pono kua kitea e koe. Mā tēnei ka rongo rātou kei te kitea rātou, kei te maiohahia hoki.

• "Ka taea e taua ataata i tō whakaahua whakamutunga te whakamārama i te Mane o te tangata."
• "He raruraru koe, he rongoā rānei. Kāore anō kia taea e au te whakatau."

5. Tukuna he wero takaro

Ka taea e te whakataetae hoa te waihanga i te ngahau tawai.

• "Ki taku whakaaro ka taea e au te matapae i tō momo kiriata tino pai i roto i ngā whakamātautau e toru. Kei te haere tonu?"
• "E rua ngā pono me te teka—kua rite tonu ina rite koe."

6. Whakatakotoria te wāhi me te wā

Whakaarohia te wā e whakapā atu ai koe. kupu pai mo te ata he atawhai te āhua, engari he pai ake te noho tahi me te karere i te pō. Whakamahia te horopaki hei painga mōu.

• "Ko te tumanako ka rerekē te reka o tō kawhe o te ata i tēnei rā ☕️"
• "He ruru pō, he manu wawe rānei? He pātai mō ngā kaupapa whakamahere ā meake nei."

7. Tukua te hiahia kia ārahi i te pātai

He pai ki te tangata te kōrero mō rātou anō ina akiakihia. Whakaohokia te hiahia ki te mōhio mō rātou me koe anō.

• "He aha te mahi whakangahau e hiahia puku ana koe kia tino rawe koe ki te mahi?"
• "Mena ka tukuna atu e au he rārangi waiata ki a koe i tēnei wā tonu, ka aromatawai koe i taku hiahia?"

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Te Pānui me te Whakautu ki ngā Tohu

Kāore e mutu te mōhio ki tāu e tuku ana kia tika ai tāu mahi whakaipoipo. He mea nui anō hoki te āhua o tō whakamārama i ngā karere a te tangata me te whakautu. Kia aro ki te tere o te whakautu, te reo me te reo. Hononga aronganui he maha ngā wā ka puta mai i roto i ngā tohu ngawari. Anei me pēhea te pānui me te urupare ki ngā tohu ina rapu ana koe me pēhea te takaro ki te tangata mā te tuhinga.

1. Aromatawai i te tere me te ōrite o te whakautu

Mā te whakautu tere ka tohu pea i te whai wāhi, engari kia maumahara he rerekē ngā wātaka o te katoa. Ki te tere tonu te whakautu a te tangata, ā, ka tirohia mai i te wā e pukumahi ana ia, he tohu tēnei kei te wātea ia. Ko ēnei ngā whanonga whakaipoipo e tohu ana i te kukumeKāore te puhoi o ngā whakautu e tohu ana i te kore aro, whakaarohia te horopaki.

• Ki te tere tā rātou whakautu, ā, ka pātai anō i ngā pātai whai muri mai, tera pea kua haumi rātou ki te ako.
• Ki te whakaroahia ngā whakautu engari he whai whakaaro nui, whakautehia te wā me te whai i te tere o te whakautu.

2. Mātakihia te tukutahitanga reo

Ina tīmata te whakamahi a te tokorua i ngā hanganga rerenga kōrero ōrite, i te reo porotaka, i te emoji rānei, kei te kite rāua i te ōritetanga o te reo. rangahau e whakaatu ana tēnei huihuinga ka tohu i ngā hononga kaha ake. Ina kite koe i tō momo karere e whakaata ana i tā rātou, i te ritenga kē rānei, he tohu pai tēnā.

• Ki te tangohia e rātou tō whakakatakata, ō kupu rānei, he tohu tēnā i te whakamarie me te kukume.
• Ka taea hoki e koe te whakaata mārire i tō rātou momo kāhua, hei whakapakari i te whanaungatanga.

3. Pānuihia i waenganui i ngā rārangi o te whakamahinga emoji

He tohu te whakawhitiwhiti emoji ngawari i te mahana me te whakawhirinaki. Tērā pea ka tukuna he karere rerekē e te nui rawa, e te ngaro rānei o ngā emoji. 

• Ki te mea he ngākau, he kanohi kata rānei tā rātou e tāpiri atu ana, kia rite te taumata o te whakapuakitanga
• Ki te kore rātou e whakamahi i ngā emojis, me whakawhirinaki ki ngā kupu hei whakaatu i te reo.

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4. Kia mataara ki te tauutuutu i roto i te kōrero pakiwaitara

Te takaro hauora he whakaaturanga taurite i a koe anō. Ki te kōrero koe i tētahi mea mō tō rā, ā, ka whakahoki mai rātou i tā rātou ake kōrero, he tohu pai tēnā. 

• Ki te kōrero koe mō tō mutunga wiki, tirohia mēnā ka tuku tūao rātou me te kore e akiakihia.
• Kaua e whakahaere i te kōrero. Whakatenatenahia rātou kia aro nui ki te kaupapa.

5. Kia mōhio ki te wā e huri ai, e kati ai rānei

Ki te poto, ki te whānui rānei ngā whakautu, tērā pea ka memeha haere te kōrero. Mā te hurihanga ātaahua ka ora tonu te kaha. Mā te kōrero whakamutunga mārama ka whakaatu i te whakaute.

• Hurihia mā te whakauru i tētahi kaupapa hou: "Mō ngā kiriata, kua mātaki koe i te kiriata pūtaiao-pūrākau hou?"
• Whakamutua mārietia: “Ka haere ahau ki te whare takaro. Me haere tonu tātou i tēnei ā muri ake nei 😄”

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Ngā Hapa Noa me te Āhua ki te Ārai i a rātou

He ngāwari te taka ki roto i ngā mahanga ina tuku karere kuputuhi ana koe, inā koa mēnā kei te āwangawanga koe mō te waiho i tētahi whakaaro pai. Anei ngā hapa me ngā rautaki hei karo i aua hapa.

1. Te tātari nui i ia whakautu

Mā te tatau i ngā tohu miharo, te wā rānei kia āhua pai ai ngā whakautu ka puta he ahotea koretake. Kāore he horopaki o ngā kōrero matihiko. Mā te pānui nui rawa i ngā kōrero iti ka hē te whakamaoritanga.

• Kaua e wetewete i ia karere, engari arotahi ki te tauira whānui, mai i te reo ki te whai wāhi me te ōritetanga.
• Tahuri atu i tō waea i waenga i ngā karere hei whakaiti i te manukanuka

2. Te whakamahi i ngā kupu whakahihiri, i ngā katakata rānei

Ngā rārangi kohi kōrero e whakamahia nuitia ana kāore he āhua whaiaro, ā, ka hoki whakamuri ki te āhua. He mea nui ake te pono i ngā kupu kotahi kua whakaharatauhia.

• Whakawhitia "I mamae koe i tō hinganga mai i te rangi?" ki tētahi mea e tika ana mō tā kōrua kōrero
• He pai ake te kata pono mō tō ake whakama i te kata kua oti te tuhituhi

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3. Te wareware i te horopaki me te wā

Mā te tuku karere whakaipoipo i a rātou e mahi ana, e pukumahi ana rānei, ka puta he pēhanga. Kia whakaute ki tā rātou kaupapa mahi.

• Ki te kōrero mai rātou kei te waipuketia rātou, tukuna atu he whakatenatena, ā, tatari kia wātea rātou.
• Tērā pea ka kitea he kore whakaaro nui te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a rātou i ngā hāora rerekē, ki te kore koe e whai hononga pai i te pō.

4. Te tohatoha tere rawa

Ka tino taumaha te whakarērea o tō kōrero oranga i muri i ētahi karere. Mā te whakapuaki mārire ka hanga te whakawhirinaki.

• Kia māmā ngā kōrero tuatahi, ā, tiakina ngā kaupapa hohonu mō ā muri ake nei
• Ki te kōrerohia e rātou tētahi mea whaiaro, whakaatahia te hohonutanga kaua e whakanuia noa iho

5. Te wareware i ngā tohu kore-waha

Nā te mea kāore he reo me te reo tinana i roto i ngā karere kuputuhi, mā te kore e aro ki ngā tohu me ngā kupu kua whiriwhiria ka puta he tohu rerekē. Whakamahia ngā tohu me ngā emoji i ētahi wā hei whakamārama i te hiahia.

• "Āe." Ahakoa te āhua makariri o te kupu "Āe 😊", he āhua hoa te kupu "Āe 😊".
• Kaua e mutu ia rerenga kōrero ki te tohu. Tērā pea he āhua pakari.

Tauira Rere Kōrerorero Kuputuhi

Mā te kite i ngā tauira ka māmā ake te ako i te takaro ki te taha o te tangata mā te tuhinga. Anei tētahi whakawhitiwhiti kōrero e whā ngā taahiraa tūturu e whakaatu ana me pēhea te tīmata, te whakautu, te hanga me te kati. Ko te whāinga kia māmā, kia whakahihiri, kia tuwhera hoki te kōrero.

• Te timatanga: "I mōhio koe kua whakamātauhia e te pūtaiao he reka ake te aihikirīmi i te Tūrei? Tērā pea me whai hoa mahi ahau ki te whakamātautau i tēnei."
• Whakautu: "Kua roa ahau e whakangungu ana mō tēnei whakamātautau. He aha tā tātou reka tuatahi?"
• Te pikinga: "He harikoa ki te mōhio kua tohua e au tētahi tohunga 😊 Waihoki, ko tō whakapau kaha ki ngā kai reka he rite tonu te whakamiharo ki tō hiahia ki te puoro."
• Ko te kopiri: "Me whakamana tēnei rangahau mara i tētahi wā o tēnei wiki. Kei te wātea ahau i te Taite mēnā kei te wātea taku hoa taiwhanga."

Ka tīmata tēnei rerenga kōrero me te akiaki māmā, ka taurite i te kaha, ka tāpirihia he mihi motuhake, ā, ka mutu me te whakaaro kia tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi, me te pupuri tonu i te ngahau.

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He toi te takaro i te pūtaiao. Kia maumahara ko te whāinga kia pai te noho o te tangata, kia hiahia hoki ki te mōhio, kaua e taumaha. Hangaia he hiahia, whakautehia ngā rohe, ā, tukua koe kia pono. E whakaatu ana ngā rangahau mō te takaro matihiko ko te tumanako, te whakaata me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero takaro ka waihanga i te kukume. Me tāpiri te tuku karere kuputuhi ki te hononga o te ao tūturu, kaua e whakakapi; whakamahia hei hanga whanaungatanga kia tae rā anō ki te wā ka taea e kōrua te tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi. I runga ake i ngā mea katoa, kia ngahau tonu, nā te mea ki te kore koe e pai ki te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero, kāore hoki rātou e pai.

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