130 Ngā Mea Ataahua hei Kōrero mō tāu Wahine

Ehara tō wahine i te hoa rangatira noa iho—ko ia te wahine e mōhio ana ki ō wā puku, e tū ana i te taha o ō pōrearea, ā, e aroha ana ki a koe i roto i ngā rau huarahi marino. He aha e kore ai e whakanui i a ia katoa ki a koe mā te whakaaro ki ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero mō tō wahine? Ae, e mārama ana mātou, i roto i te manawataki o te oranga o ia rā, ka taea e ēnei tohu te waiho i muri i ētahi wā. 

Ahakoa kei te wāhi tika tō ngākau, tērā pea kāore koe e kitea ngā kupu tika hei mihi ki te hiranga o tō hoa rangatira ki a koe. Tērā pea rānei e kore e aro nui ki te mōhio kē ia. Engari ki te whakatairanga koe i te maioha ki ngā kare ā-roto, ka pai ake te kounga o tō whanaungatanga i ngā huarahi kāore e taea e koe te whakaaro. 

He mana tō āu kupu hei whakaoho i tōna ngākau. Kāore ēnei kupu e hiahiatia kia rotarota, kia hohonu rānei. Me pono noa iho. Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki hea ka tīmata ai, kua kohikohia e mātou he 130 ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero mō tō wahine. Ahakoa he wā marino, he rā uaua, he whakanui aroha rānei, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ēnei hei whakaoho i tōna ngākau. 

Ngā Mea Ataahua hei Kōrero mō tāu Wahine

Ehara i te mea ko tō hoa rangatira anake tō wahine, ko ia te ngākau o tō kōrero. Ā, i te mea ka pukumahi te ao, ka wareware ngāwari ki te kaha o ētahi kupu whai tikanga. E ai ki ā mātou rangahau mai i ngā tohunga whanaungatanga me ngā tāne me ngā wāhine huri noa i te ao, ko ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tō wahine ehara i te mea he mea aroha noa iho, engari he mea tautoko hoki i te whanaungatanga. 

Mā ēnei kōrero iti engari he mea āta whakaarohia ka āwhina i tāu wahine kia kitea, kia arohaina, kia haumaru kareKei roto i tēnei rārangi ngā mea katoa mai i ngā kupu reka kotahi ki ngā whakaū hohonu o te kare ā-roto. Ahakoa kei te kōrero hāhā koe i te pō, kei te tuku karere kuputuhi ki a ia i waenganui o te rā, kei te tuhi rānei i tētahi mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tō wahine i roto i tētahi kāri huritau, ka mau tonu ēnei kupu ki a ia.

Ngā kupu reka hei kōrero ki tāu wahine

Ko te mea iti rawa, ko te mea tino pumau nga mihi mo nga wahine he maha ngā wā ka nui te taumaha o ngā kare ā-roto. Ehara ēnei kōrero poto, reka hoki i te mea he whakapuakitanga nui, engari he mea kia arohaina ia i ngā wā noa o te ao. Anei ētahi kupu reka hei kōrero ki tāu wahine kia harikoa ai ia:  

1. Ka meinga e koe te rangimārie o ia rā mā te noho noa ki roto.
2. Kei te titiro tonu ahau ki a koe, ā, kei te waimarie ahau.
3. E whakaputa mai ana koe i te ngākau ngawari i roto i ahau, kāore i tētahi atu i rite.
4. Ehara te kāinga i te wāhi. Ko te wāhi kei reira koe.
5. Ko tāku tumanako e mōhio ana koe ki te nui o tōku aroha ki a koe.
6. Ko te aroha ki a koe taku tikanga tino pai.
7. He atawhai tōu e pai ake ai te hunga katoa e karapoti ana i a koe.
8. Ka tino harikoa ahau ina noho tahi māua.
9. Ka whakamārama koe i ia rūma e tomo atu ana koe.
10. Kei te harikoa tonu ahau ina kite ahau i tō ingoa e puta ake ana i taku waea.

Ngā mea aroha hei kōrero ki tāu wahine

Kāore te aroha e waiho mō ngā huritau marena anake. Ka taea e te mihi aroha i te wā tika, i te ngākau pono horoia atu ia i ōna waewae, ahakoa ngā tau o te marena. He tika ēnei whakaaro mō ngā wā e whakaaro ana koe, "E hiahia ana ahau ki tētahi mea ataahua hei kōrero ki taku wahine kia tino hiahiatia, kia arohaina hoki ia." Kōwhiria tētahi o ēnei, whakamahia rānei hei whakaohooho i a koe anō, ā, ka pakeke koe: 

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11. Ehara i te mea he ataahua noa iho koe—he ātaahua hoki koe.
12. Ko te ara e aroha ai koe ki ahau e mau tonu ana i tōku manawa.
13. Ko koe te momo wahine e titohia ana e te iwi ngā waiata aroha mōna.
14. Ko ngā kōrero aroha katoa e kite nei au, kāore e oti i te kore koe.
15. Me i hiahia ahau ki te hoki anō ki te ora, kua wawe atu ahau ki te kimi i a koe.
16. Ka meinga e koe te aroha kia ngāwari, kia pono hoki.
17. Ka whiriwhiria tonutia koe e au—ahakoa i roto i tēnei ao o ngā kōwhiringa.
18. Kei te homai tonu e koe he pūrerehua ki ahau.
19. Ko koe te upoko tino ataahua o tōku ao.
20. Ko koe taku aroha, kotahi noa iho i te ao.

Ngā mihi e whakanui ana i tōna tuakiri me tōna kaha

Ehara i te mea he kanohi ataahua noa iho tō wahine, engari he atamai, he manawanui, he aroha, ā, he kaha mutunga kore. Ko te whakaae ki ēnei āhuatanga o tōna tuakiri he huarahi ahurei ki te whakaatu i te aroha ki tō hoa. Whakamoemititia tōna āhua o roto, me te pānga o tana noho ko ia anake mā te whakamahi i ēnei kupu ataahua hei kī atu ki tāu wahine: 

21. E mihi ana ahau ki te hohonu o ō kare ā-roto, me te ataahua o tō aroha.
22. He nui āu mahi, ā, ka taea tonu e koe te waiho wāhi mō ētahi atu.
23. Ka ārahi koe me te aroha i tēnei ao e wareware ana ki te atawhai.
24. Māu ahau e hiahia kia tipu, mā te noho tata noa ki a koe.
25. He marino koe, he whakaaro nui, ā, he tino pūkenga.
26. Ka whakatenatena koe i ahau kia pai ake i ia rā, i ia rā.
27. He kanapa koe, he ataahua hoki.
28. Ka whakahaere koe i te raruraru me te atawhai marino.
29. Ka meinga e koe te kaha kia āhua ngawari.
30. He onge te āhua e aroha ai koe ki ētahi atu.

Ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero ina pouri ia

Ka taumaha rawa te ao. Ahakoa ngā wāhine tino kaha, me maumahara rātou ki tō rātou uara. Ko ēnei kupu whakaaro nui mō tāu wahine Kāore e whakatikahia ngā mea katoa, engari ka whakamahara atu ki a ia e arohaina ana ia, e tautokona ana, ā, kāore ia e mokemoke, ahakoa i ōna rā tino uaua.

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31. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te pikau i tēnei mea katoa—kei konei ahau.
32. Ahakoa tō rā tino kino, ko koe tonu te wāhanga pai rawa atu o tōku ao.
33. He nui koe. I tēnei wā tonu. Mō ake tonu atu.
34. Ka whakaaetia koe kia taumaha rawa—ko au hei marino mōu.
35. Ka kite ahau i te kaha o tō whakapau kaha, ahakoa kāore he tangata e mahi ana.
36. E tika ana hoki kia whiwhi koe i te ngawari me te okiokinga.
37. He kaha ake koe i tō whakaaro—engari kāore e tika kia pērā tonu i ngā wā katoa.
38. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te miharo i ahau. Me noho ko koe anake.
39. He aroha nui tōku ki ngā putanga katoa o koe.
40. Ka nui tōku aroha ki a koe i te wā e ngoikore ana koe.

Ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tāu wahine i mua i te aroaro o ētahi atu

He rerekē te pānga o te whakamoemiti i tāu wahine i te aroaro o te marea, me te whakaatu ki te ao i tō whakahīhī ki a ia. Mā ēnei kōrero ataahua mō tāu wahine i te aroaro o tō whānau, o ō hoa, me ō whanaunga e whakahonoretia ana ia e whakahonore. Ka kite koe ka piki haere ia i muri i te rongonga i a koe e kōrero ana i ēnei mea mōna:

41. Māna e whakapai ake ngā mea katoa, mā te noho noa ki roto.
42. Kāore au i rite ki ahau nei me te kore ia.
43. Ko ia te ngākau o tō mātou whānau.
44. Ko ia tōku hihiri, ehara i te mea i te kāinga anake.
45. Ka ako ahau i a ia i ia rā, i ia rā.
46. He ataahua ia, he hinengaro pakari, ā, he tino kaha.
47. Ko taku angitu nui ko te marena i a ia.
48. Ko ia te tino take o aku mahi pai katoa.
49. He whakahīhī ki ahau te haere tahi me ia i roto i te ao.
50. Ehara ia i taku wahine anake, ko ia tōku ao.

Ngā karere kuputuhi ataahua hei tuku matapōkeretia ki tāu wahine

Kāore pea ia e tono ana mō tētahi rotarota i waenganui o te rā, engari e kore rawa ia e wareware i taua rotarota matapōkere. he tuhinga reka i menemene ai iaHe ngāwari noa iho te tārua me te whakapiri, te whakarerekē rānei i ēnei kīanga ataahua mō tāu wahine kia pai ake ai tōna rā.

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51. Kei te whakaaro noa ahau ki tōku waimarie ki te whiwhi i a koe.
52. Ko koe te wāhanga pai rawa atu o tōku rā, o ia rā, o ia rā.
53. Kāore e taea e au te tatari ki te hoki ki te kāinga ki a koe.
54. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te noho hei taurangi mōku.
55. Ko te tumanako kua kōrero mai tetahi ki a koe mō tō mīharo i tēnei rā—ki te kore, waiho māku.
56. Kei te ngaro tō ataata i tēnei wā tonu.
57. Ko koe te mea pai rawa atu i roto i tōku ao.
58. I hiahia noa ahau kia mōhio koe—e aroha nui ana ahau ki a koe.
59. Ko koe te take e whakapono tonu ai ahau ki te aroha.
60. I tū noa ahau, ā, i menemene—nāu hoki.

Ngā kōrero ataahua hei kōrero i tō huritau

Te whakanui i te huritau Ehara i te keke, i ngā koha, i ngā tina aroha anake ngā mea reka, engari he tohu tipu, he maharatanga, me ngā moemoeā ngātahi. Mā ēnei kupu ataahua hei kōrero ki tō wahine e whakamihi tō kōrua haerenga ngātahi me ngā mea katoa i kawea mai e ia ki konei.

61. Ka mārenatia anō koe e ahau—arā, i mua noa atu.
62. Ko ia tau e noho tahi ana me koe taku tino pai.
63. Nāu i mea kia rite koe ki te kāinga tonu.
64. Kei te miharo tonu ahau ki tōu aroha.
65. Ngā mihi nui ki a koutou mō te whiriwhiri i ahau i ia rā, i ia rā.
66. Kua hurihia e koe te wā hei mea ataahua.
67. Ki a koe, ka kaha ake te aroha.
68. Ko tā mātou kōrero taku tino pai.
69. Ko koe taku i ngā wā katoa.
70. He manaakitanga ia tau e noho tahi ana me koe, kāore i riro mai i ahau.

Ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero i mua i te moenga

Ka waiho pea e te āhua o te mutunga o te rā me tō hoa wahine he tohu pumau, inā koa i ngā wā marino, pō roa. Ko te wā moe tētahi o ngā wā tino piripono mō te whakahōhonu i tō hononga kare ā-rotoKa whakamarietia ia e ēnei kupu aroha, ka whakawhetai, ka tau mārie, hei whakamahara i a ia ahakoa te āhua o te rā, ka mau tonu tō kōrua aroha.

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71. Kei konei ahau mō te wā roa, mō ngā wā katoa.
72. Ko koe taku tangata ake ake.
73. Kei te whiriwhiri tonu ahau i a koe, i ia rā, i ia rā.
74. Ehara koe i te mea ko te aroha anake o tōku ao, ko koe tōku ora.
75. Ka whawhai tonu ahau mō tātou.
76. Ko koe anake te heke mai e hiahiatia ana e au.
77. Nōu tōku ngākau, tino.
78. Ahakoa te huarahi e arahina ai tātou e te ao, kei a koe tonu ahau.
79. E kore rawa ahau e tuku i a koe kia haere.
80. Kāore au e haere ki hea. He mea pumau tonu tēnei.

Ngā mea whakakatakata engari he ataahua hei kōrero

Ko te kata tetahi o ngā momo whanaungatanga tino iti te aro. E whakaae ana ngā tohunga whanaungatanga me ngā tohunga hinengaro mā te kōrero whakakatakata ki tāu wahine ka taea te whakanui ake i te piripono o ngā kare ā-roto me te whakaiti i te taumahatanga. Mā ēnei kīanga ngāwari engari aroha ka tāpirihia he takaro ki tō aroha, e whakaatu ana kāore te aroha e hiahiatia kia tino pono i ngā wā katoa.

81. Ko koe anake te tangata ka tohaina e au he parai paraoa ki a koe.
82. Kāore tonu ahau i te whakapono kua kitea e tētahi tangata tauhou pēnei i ahau tētahi tangata pēnei i a koe.
83. He ātaahua ake koe i ngā ataata ngeru katoa kua huihuia.
84. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō aroha ki ahau ahakoa taku ngongoro.
85. Kua ngaro ahau me te kore ō tohutohu.
86. Māu e whakamanawanui te oranga pakeke.
87. Ko koe te momo raruraru tino pai ki ahau.
88. Me i whiwhi ahau i tētahi rūpī mō ia wā e aroha ana ahau ki a koe, kua riro ahau hei pirionaire.
89. He waimarie nōku he kino tōu reka ki ngā tāne.
90. Ko koe tonu te mea e kata nui ai ahau i tō tetahi atu.

Ngā mea hohonu, ngā mea kare ā-roto hei kōrero mai i te ngākau

I ētahi wā, ko ngā karere aroha tino kaha ka puta mai i te pono mata. I runga i ngā kitenga puta noa i ngā rauemi oranga ngākau me ngā kōrero whaiaro a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine, e mārama ana ko te ngoikore ka whakatairanga i te hononga tūturu. Ehara ēnei i te mea he rārangi noa iho—he whakaata i ngā mea katoa kāore i kōrerotia, i ngā mea katoa i roto i te ngākau. Whakamahia ēnei ina hiahia koe kia ōrite ō kupu ki te taumaha o tō aroha.

91. Kua whakaorangia e koe ngā wāhanga o ahau kāore au i mōhio kua whati.
92. Kei te tino haumaru ahau ina noho tahi māua.
93. Nui atu tōku whakawhirinaki ki a koe i tētahi atu tangata o tēnei ao.
94. Ka kite koe i ahau i ngā huarahi kāore e kitea e tētahi atu.
95. Mā tō aroha ahau e tino ora ai.
96. Ka haere ahau i roto i te ahi mōu.
97. Ko te arohaina e koe taku taonga nui rawa atu.
98. Kāore rawa ahau e hiahia ki te huna i a koe.
99. Ko koe te mea tino ataahua kua pa ki ahau.
100. Nā te aroha ki a koe ahau i hanga hei tangata pai ake.

He nui ake ngā mea ataahua hei kōrero mō ngā wā katoa

Kāore e uru katoa ngā wā ki tētahi kāwai, engari he wā ia wā hei whakamana i tō wahine. Kua kohia e mātou ētahi atu kōrero ataahua hei kōrero māu mō tō wahine, mai i ngā huihuinga whanaungatanga me ngā tuhinga i tukuna mai e ngā kaiwhakamahi. tuhipoka aroha, hei hoatu ki a koe he ranunga mihi maha. Ahakoa he rā whānau noa, he rā whānau, he reo ohorere rānei, ka tau tonu ēnei rārangi ki te ngākau.

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101. He pai ki ahau te moe i tō taha.
102. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō te tohatoha mai ki ahau i tēnei rā.
103. Ka whakareka ake e koe aku moemoeā.
104. Ka pai ake taku moe i te mōhio kei tata koe.
105. Pō mārie, e taku e aroha nei. Mō ake tonu atu.
106. Ko koe te tangata whakamutunga e hiahia ana ahau ki te kōrero ki a ia i ia rā.
107. Ngā mihi nui ki a koe, i tēnei rā, ā, ake tonu atu.
108. Ka puritia koe e au i roto i aku moemoeā i tēnei pō.
109. Nui atu tōku aroha ki a koe i tēnei rā i tō inanahi.
110. Ko te takoto i tō taha te mea tino pai ki ahau i ia pō.

Ehara ia i tō hoa rangatira anake, engari ko tō ao katoa ia

Na roto i te ngā tau uaua o te marena ā, ko ngā mea whakamiharo, he maha ngā wā ka titiro koe ki tāu wahine, ka kite kua riro ia hei pokapū o tō ao. Mā ēnei mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tāu wahine ka tino whakarapopototia te kare ā-roto, ā, ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakapuaki i taua kare ā-roto o te miharo me te whakawhetai, te momo e huri ai i te wahine noa hei ao katoa mōu.

111. Ehara koe i te wāhanga noa iho o tōku ao, KO KOE tōku ao.
112. Ka tīmata, ka mutu hoki ngā mea katoa ki a koe.
113. Ko koe tōku ngākau i waho o tōku tinana.
114. He tika tōku ao nā te mea kei roto koe.
115. Ehara koe i te taha pai rawa atu o ahau, engari ko koe te wāhanga pai rawa atu o ahau.
116. Ka tīmata ia rā pai ki tō ataata.
117. Kei roto i ōu kanohi tōku heke mai.
118. Ko koe te mea kotahi e kore rawa e taea e au te hokohoko.
119. Ehara koe i taku wahine anake, engari ko koe tōku kāinga.
120. Ka ngaro te tae o tōku ao ki te kore koe.

Ngā mea hei kōrero māu kia noho haumaru ai ia i a koe

Ahakoa he reka ngā putiputi me te aroha, ko te mea e tino hiahiatia ana e te nuinga o ngā wāhine ko te noho haumaru me tō rātou hoa, i roto i te hinengaro, i te wairua hoki. E ai ki ngā tohunga whanaungatanga me ngā hoa rangatira mō te wā roa, ko te turanga o te whanaungatanga pumau ko te whakawhirinaki me te haumaru. Ka whakamahara ēnei kupu ki tāu wahine ahakoa te aha e pā ana ki a ia, he... tane tautoko Ka taea e ia te whakawhirinaki ki a koe me te kore wehi, me te kore e tātari, me te kore hoki e hiahia kia whiwhi i tō aroha.

121. Kaua rawa koe e whakaari mai ki ahau.
122. Kei konei ahau, ahakoa te pōrearea.
123. He pono tonu ō kare ā-roto ki ahau.
124. He haumaru tō tangi, tō hamama, tō noho noa iho.
125. E kore rawa ahau e whakawā i te mea kei roto i tō ngākau.
126. Kāore au e haere ki hea. Ake tonu atu.
127. Ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki mai ki ahau me ō wehi me ō moemoeā.
128. Kei te haumaru koe i konei, i ngā wā katoa.
129. Ka kite ahau i a koe, tino. Ā, kei te whiriwhiri tonu ahau i a koe.
130. E kore rawa ahau e whakamahi i tō ngoikore hei patu i a koe.

Thoughts Final

Kāore koe e hiahia kia noho hei kaitito hei whakapuaki i te aroha ki roto i tō marena. Ahakoa he kōrero ataahua mā tō wahine, he tuhipoka poto, he kōrero pōturi rānei mō te wā moe, he mea nui ake te kaha i te whakatakotoranga. Mā ēnei mea ataahua hei kōrero ki tō wahine ka āwhina i te hanga hononga, te whakawhirinaki, me te harikoa. Kōrerotia ki a ia ngā mea ataahua. Kaua e kōrerotia i te wā e kakahuria ana e ia. Kaua e kōrerotia i te wā e tino pai ana ngā mea. Engari i te wā e ngenge ana ia, e pouri ana, e kore he meka-kanohi, e ngoikore ana hoki. Nā te mea ehara te aroha i te mea nui, engari kei roto i ngā mihi o ia rā, i ngā pono iti, me ngā whakamaharatanga ngāwari e kitea ana ia, e whiriwhiria ana, e arohaina ana. 

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