7 ngā mea ka pā ki a koe mēnā he tokorua mahi kōrua

Ko te rautau 21 tēnei; he tohunga mahi te tāne me te wahine o te whare e ngana ana ki te pupuri i te oranga kotahitanga me te aroha i waenganui i ngā mahi taumaha me ngā wā kati. Anei ētahi mea e pā ana ki te tokorua mahi.

Me pēhea te pupuri tonu i te aroha?

E rua ngā oranga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine taitamariki o ēnei rā: ko te tohunga makutu me te hoa ataahua. Ehara i te mea ngāwari te whakatutuki i tēnei mahi ina ko te mea anake e hiahia ana koe ko te noho ki te kāinga me tō hoa aroha, me te utu mō tētahi... te oranga aroha angitu. Engari kāore e taea te whakataetae kiore, nō reira kei te tere haere ngā hoa aroha taitamariki ki te whai i ngā whakatenatena, ngā whāinga, me ngā rā kati. Me pēhea te pupuri i te whanaungatanga kia kore e maroke? Anei ngā mea e whitu ka kīia e te tokorua mahi, "Kei te mōhio ahau, āe!" ki:

Te hanga wa

Koinei te wero tino uaua rawa atu mō tētahi tokorua mahi. I roto i te tere o ngā hui me ngā whakaaetanga kua oti, me ngā mea kāore anō kia oti, he tino uaua ki te whakahaere pai i te wā kia taea ai te penapena i ētahi mō tētahi ki tētahi. Haunga te aroha, i ētahi wā he uaua ki te whai wā mōu ake. He mea tēnei e hiahia ana tētahi tokorua mahi ki te whakarerekē – kia rua hāora te roa o te rā hei āwhina i te whakatipu i te whanaungatanga.

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Ka noho tahi ngā pāti tari hei rā whakatā

He nui te wā e pau ana i te mahi, ā, e tino hiahia ana te tokorua mahi ki ngā rōpū tari hei kawe mai i tā rāua hoa rangatira hei hoa mō rāua. He tino uaua ki te kimi i tētahi wāhi i roto i ō rāua oranga mō rāua anake. He moni hei whakarite i tētahi kokonga ataahua i roto i tētahi wharekai whetu whitu engari kāore he wā hei haere atu. Ko te wā tēnā ka tae mai te tari HR ki te āwhina i a koe ki te whai wāhi ki te wetewete me te whakapau i ētahi wā kounga me tō hoa aroha, ina kua ako rātou ki te karo i te kōrero pāti me te kimi i tētahi kokonga motuhake.

Skype waea

I roto i tētahi hui e tomuri ana te kiritaki, e mau ana rānei i te waka, ko te hoa aroha pono me te mahi ka whakamahia taua wā ki te Facetime. Ehara i te mea nui te nui o te wāhi kei a koe i roto i tō koiora mō tētahi whanaungatanga, engari mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki te mahi i ētahi ahakoa ngā whakamātautau. He mea reka te whiwhi karere kuputuhi i waenganui o tētahi rā kino, i tētahi karere ataata whakatenatena rānei hei whakaara ake i tō wairua i mua i taua hui taumaha e tata ana te tīmatanga.

Mīhini whakapāha

Kua āwhina rātou i a koe kia whiwhi i tētahi rā hararei kāore i whakaritea i te nuinga o te wā. Ahakoa he wā hui ki te tākuta, he āhuatanga ohorere rānei, ko tō hoa rangatira te mea nui hei tiki i tētahi wā hararei mai i te mahi. He uaua te kimi wāhi manawa i roto i te tere tere o te ao ngaio, ā, he onge te whiwhi aroha mō tētahi take e pā ana ki a koe anō me tētahi e pā ana ki tō hoa rangatira.

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Te whanaungatanga tawhiti mō ngā haerenga pakihi

Koinei te wā hou o te whanaungatanga aroha. Nā ngā haerenga pakihi maha, ka hokihoki haere koe i waenganui i tō kāinga me ngā tāone tauhou. He wero te pupuri i tō ake oranga, me te kore e kōrero mō te oranga e tohaina ana e kōrua ko tō hoa. Me whai wā tonu koe i waenganui i a kōrua hei whakamōhio i te oranga o tētahi ki tētahi. He maha ngā wā ka rite ki te kore o kōrua wā, te kaha rānei ki te pupuri i ngā mea maha i te wā kotahi, engari ka meinga tonu koe e tō hoa kia whakaaro he pai te whakapau kaha katoa.

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Ngā ohorere o te tari

Ahakoa he Pouaka Whakamaharatanga wairangi i roto i tō putea tina, he putea manaaki rānei i tukuna ki tō kāpata, ko aua mea ririki ngā ohorere whakaaro nui Whakamāramahia te marino o tō mahi. Ehara i te mea ka whakaara ake i tō wairua anake, engari ka waiho koe hei mea e hae ai te tangata; e hiahia ana te katoa kia rongo i te whakamarie me te aroha i roto i te ao whakataetae uaua o te ao ngaio.

Ko te tuatoru

Kei te tari tonu tetahi tangata e kukume ana tō hoa i a koe, e hae ana rānei ki a ia. Engari he mea nui ake i tēnā, ko tō hoa mahi te hoa pai rawa atu hei kōrero tahi māu mō ngā mahi tōrangapū o te tari, nui atu i tētahi atu. He rite tonu te wāhi mahi a tō hoa, he takaro mana, he whakahīhī, he mahi tōrangapū iti. Ki a wai koe e whakatuwhera ana i tō ngākau mō ēnei mea iti? Ko tō hoa te kaiwhakarongo pai rawa atu!

Thoughts Final

He haerenga tipu, he mahi tahi, he whakaaetanga hoki te noho hei tokorua mahi tahi. He mea tēnei mō te tohatoha i ngā kawenga, te tautoko i ngā moemoeā a tētahi ki tētahi, me te mārama he mea nui ia mahi iti. Ahakoa he uaua te whakataurite i te mahi, te oranga kāinga, me te wā whaiaro, ka whakahōhonu ake anō hoki i te hononga, ka poipoi i te manawanui me te hononga hōhonu ake. Kei roto i te kī te

• Te whakawhitiwhiti korero
• Ngā whāinga tiritahi
• Te whakawātea i te wā mō ngā mea nui—ahakoa mō tetahi, mō tetahi rānei, mō ngā mahi takitahi rānei.

Ko ia wā, mai i ngā mahi iti ki ngā tohu angitu o te mahi, ka waiho hei tūāpapa mō tētahi hononga kaha ake, i hangaia i runga i te whakaute me te māramatanga. Mā te awhi i ngā uauatanga o te ao hei tokorua mahi, ehara i te mea ka whakapakari noa i te whanaungatanga, engari ka reka ake hoki ia wikitoria—nui, iti rānei—ina whakanuia ngātahitia.

Ehara i te mea ko te whakatika i ngā raruraru te huarahi e anga atu ana ki te whakaora hinengaro—engari ko te whakapakari ake i tō kōrua whanaungatanga, me te whakarite kia tautokona, kia whakanuia, kia māramahia hoki ngā hoa e rua. Whakapā atu ki tā mātou kaiwhakaora tāne me ngā wāhine whai raihana ā, kitea ngā taputapu me te tautoko e hiahiatia ana e kōrua hei oranga ngākau hei tokorua mahi.

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