25 Ngā Huarahi Ataahua, Reka hoki hei Whakamiharo i tō Hoa Tāne

He reo aroha kore mana te miharo i ō hoa aroha. He huarahi ātaahua, he huarahi aroha hoki hei whakaatu i tō rātou hiranga i roto i tō koiora, engari me pēhea te miharo i tō hoa tāne ki tētahi mea e tino maioha ana ia? 

Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi hei miharo i tō hoa tāne ko te whakarite i tētahi mahi/huihuinga e tino pai ana ki a ia. Tērā pea he māmā noa iho nā te mea kua mōhio kē koe ki a ia. Heoi, ki te mea he hou tō kōrua hononga, ā, kāore kōrua i te tino mōhio tetahi ki tetahi, ki te mea rānei kua roa kōrua e noho tahi ana, ā, e rapu ana koe i tētahi mea rerekē, tera pea he uaua te kimi i ngā koha miharo mā tō hoa tāne. 

I ngā wā pēnei, ka taea e koe te whakawhirinaki mai ki a mātou ki te whakarato ki a koe i ngā huarahi e 25 hei ohorere i tō hoa tāne, hei mea hoki kia motuhake ia.

25 Ngā Huarahi Ataahua, Reka hoki hei Whakamiharo i tō Hoa Tāne

He rerekē ki te whakapono rongonui, kāore ngā tāne e mau ana i te āhua 'pakari me te toa' i ngā wā katoa. He tangata anō hoki rātou, ā, e hiahia ana rātou kia maiohatia, kia manaakitia hoki. Heoi anō, ehara i te mea ngāwari te kimi i ngā mea aroha hei miharo i tō hoa tāne. Ko te nuinga o ngā whakaaro he mea rongonui, ā, kua oti kē te mahi, kua nui rawa hoki te mahi i mua, nō reira me pēhea e taea ai e koe te miharo i a ia i tētahi āhua rerekē?

Ko te mea nui ko te tāpiri i tō ake āhua hou. Auaha, rapua he whakaaro hou, ā, kia waiho ngā whakaaro rongonui hei mea motuhake māu. Whakawhaiarohia kia rite ki a kōrua, ā, ka oati mātou, koinei tētahi o ngā huarahi motuhake hei miharo i tō hoa tāne. Heoi anō, ki te mea kei te pōhēhē koe, ka āwhina tā mātou rārangi i a koe ki te pātai 'me pēhea te miharo i tō hoa tāne'.

1. Tunua māna

Ahakoa he rerekē tēnei whakaaro ki ngā kupu o mua, he mea rongonui te tina mō tētahi take. Ka āwhina i a kōrua kia hono atu, ā, he tino pai hoki mō ngā ohorere ataahua mō tō hoa tāne i te kāinga. Heoi, kaua e tono kai hei kai māu, engari me whakarite, he huarahi pai, he huarahi piripono hoki hei whakanui ake i te āhua o te mahi ko te tunu i a koe anō.

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He tino hiahia ngā wāhine ki ngā tāne e tunu kai ana, engari ka maioha hoki te tāne ina whakaatu tana hoa rangatira i tā rātou mahi me te aroha mā te hanga kai māna. He maha ngā tohutao kei te ipurangi, ahakoa he reka, he māmā rānei, ā, ka whai wāhi koe ki te tūhura i tō Julia Child o roto. Nā tēnei ka waiho hei tetahi o ngā ohorere reka rawa atu māna ina tae atu ia ki te kāinga. Mēnā he rite koe ki ahau, ā, e tino mataku ana koe ki te tunu kai, ka oati ahau ki a koe, ahakoa te kai māmā rawa atu ka tukuna atu ki a koe me te aroha me te whakawhetai nui.

2. He huarahi ngahau, reka hoki ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne ko te hoatu i tētahi kēmu ataata, i tētahi papatohu rānei ki a ia

Ko wai kāore e pai ki ngā kēmu i ēnei rā? Nā te mea kei te mākete ngā kēmu pēnei i a Call of Duty, Fortnite, Minecraft, me Roblox, he kaitākaro kēmu katoa ngā tāngata i ēnei rā. Nō reira, ina tae ki ngā whakaaro hei miharo i tō hoa tāne, ko ngā koha e pā ana ki te kēmu te huarahi tika.

"He tino hiahia taku hoa rangatira ki te petipeti," te kī a Alison, he tauira ture 25 tau te pakeke. "I te taenga mai o tō māua huritau marena, kī tonu taku mahunga i ngā whakaaro, "Me pēhea taku miharo i taku hoa tāne?", ā, koinei te wā i puta ake ai te whakaaro ki te hoatu ki a ia te PlayStation 5 hou. Kāore anō ahau kia kite i a ia e harikoa ana pēnei i roto i ngā tau katoa kua noho tahi māua."

3. Hokona he tīkiti māna ki tana huihuinga tino pai

Ahakoa ko tōna rā whānau, ko tō huritau marena, ko "te mea noa iho" rānei, he mea pai tonu te whakaharikoa me te whakamīharo i tō hoa tāne. Ko tētahi o ngā koha pai rawa atu ka taea e koe te hoatu ki a ia ko ngā tīkiti ki tana huihuinga tino pai. Ka maioha ia ki te whakaaro i hoatu e koe ki roto, ā, ka ea te pātai 'me pēhea te ohorere i taku hoa tāne mō te kore take'.

Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio ki te momo huihuinga hei tiki tīkiti māu, kimihia he aha tana e ngākau nui ana ki te mahi me ana mahi i tōna wā waatea. He kōnohete pea, he kēmu hākinakina, he whakaaturanga whare tapere, he whakaaturanga toi rānei. Mena he mea e pai ana ki a ia, ā, e hiahia ana ia ki te mātaki, ka tino harikoa ia ki te whiwhi i ngā tīkiti. He rā tino pai tēnei mā kōrua tokorua, ā, ka taea e kōrua te waihanga i ētahi atu maharatanga mā te whakarite i tētahi rā ngahau mō te huihuinga.

4. Tikina he tīkitipati mirimiri ngaio māna

E mōhiotia ana te mirimiri mō ōna painga hauora maha, ā, he tohu aroha te whiwhi tīkitipati mirimiri mō tō hoa. He huarahi pai te mirimiri ngaio ki te whakaatu i te nui o tō manaaki ki tētahi , inā koa mēnā ko tō hoa tāne me tōna oranga, inā koa mēnā he wā taumaha tana i te mahi.

Tērā pea he utu mō te mirimiri i te wāhi mirimiri o te rohe, mō te ratonga mirimiri kāinga rānei ngā tīkitipati mirimiri. Ka tino maioha tō hoa tāne ki te whakaaro nui me te atawhai o te koha. He whakaaro pai tēnei mō te wā e rapu ana koe i ngā ohorere whakangā mōna ina tae atu ia ki te kāinga.

5. Mahia tētahi mahi e pai ana ki a ia

Ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe "Me pēhea taku ohorere i a ia?", mahia he mahi kāore anō kia mahia e koe i mua. Ki te pai tō hoa tāne ki te puoro, he aha e kore ai e uru atu ki a ia mō te wā waiata? Ki te mea rānei he pai ki a ia te tūhura i te ao o waho, me hikoi tahi. Ko te mahi i tetahi mea e pai ana ki a ia he huarahi pai hei whakaatu i tō manaaki me tō maioha ina whakaaro ana koe me pēhea te ohorere i tō hoa tāne.

He wāhi ngahau ngā mahi whanaungatanga ki te ako i tētahi mea hou, ki te ngahau, ā, he huarahi pai hoki ki te hono atu. Ko ētahi o ngā mahi ka taea e koe te mahi ko:

• Tunua tahi te kai
• Me whakaako ia i a koe ki tētahi taonga puoro e mōhio ana ia engari kāore koe
• Akohia te hākinakina e arohaina ana e ia
• Pānuihia ngā kaupapa e pārekareka ana ki a ia
• Haere i te haerenga rori 

6. Whakaohokia tō hoa tāne mā te tiki i a ia i te mahi

Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ētahi whakaaro mō te haerenga ohorere mā tō hoa tāne, he tino ngahau te tiki i a ia i te mahi. He karere māmā engari he whai tikanga tēnei – e aroha ana koe ki te noho tahi me ia, ā, kei reira tonu koe mōna. He whakautu ngahau tēnei ki te pātai 'me pēhea te miharo i tō hoa tāne'. He mea nui tēnei momo tautoko mō te whanaungatanga kaha, hauora, me te aroha , ā, ka tino meinga ia kia tino motuhake.

"He roa tonu te wā e mahi ana taku hoa, ā, kāore rawa he wā e toe ana mō māua ki te hono atu i muri i tētahi rā roa," te kōrero a Patrick, he kaitohutohu pūtea 35-tau te pakeke. "Mai i taku tīmatanga ki te tiki i a ia i te mahi, kua pai ake tō māua whanaungatanga ki tētahi atu taumata. I ētahi wā, ka tūtaki ahau ki a ia mō te tī. Ahakoa he tekau meneti noa iho tā māua kōrero, he mea whakahauora, ā, he mea e tino hiahiatia ana e ia he wā okiokinga mai i tana rā pukumahi." 

7. Tākarohia ngā kēmu pāti me tō hoa tāne anake

He huarahi ngahau, he huarahi motuhake hoki ngā pō whakatā ki te hono atu ki tāu tāne i te kāinga. Ko tētahi whakaaro ātaahua mō te pō whakatā hei miharo i tāu hoa tāne ko te hoki ki ōu ake wā kura tuarua me te tākaro i ngā kēmu pāti. Mena he mea hou tō kōrua whanaungatanga, ā, kei te wā tonu kōrua e mōhio ana tetahi ki tetahi, mā ēnei momo kēmu koe e āwhina ki te whakatū hononga pai tetahi ki tetahi. 

Ko ētahi o ngā mea ka taea e kōrua te takaro hei hono atu ki tā kōrua tamaiti o roto:

• Pono te maia ranei 
• Whakapapa
• Ngā kāri ki te tangata
• 2 pono, 1 teka
• 7 meneti ki te rangi (whakamahia tō ake whakaaro) 

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8. Whakamaherehia ngā rā mō te tau

Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne i runga ipurangi, kanohi ki te kanohi rānei, i muri i tētahi wā, ka tīmata te pau o ō whakaaro. Mō ēnei āhuatanga, ko te whakamahere i ngā rā mō te tau te huarahi tika. Mā tēnei ka kore e pau ō whakaaro mō te rā. Tūhurahia ngā kōwhiringa tawhito me te whakaaro i waho o te pouaka mō ngā maharatanga auaha me te whakahihiri mō kōrua tokorua.

Ki te mea he pūkenga koe, ka taea e koe te hanga i ngā kōrero iti me ngā whakaaro mō te rā, ka whakanoho ki roto i tētahi ipu whakapaipai. Mai i ngā wheako whakahihiri o waho ki ngā pō kiriata whakamarie ki ngā whakaaro mō te rā mō ngā pō Paraire , miharotia ia ki ngā wā whai tikanga e whakaatu ana i tō aroha. Ko te kī ki te angitu ko te whakaranu i ngā mea katoa, te pupuri i ngā mea kia ohorere, me te whakaaroaro tonu ki ngā mea e pai ai ia.

9. Hoatu he mihi matapōkere ki a ia hei whakaara ake i tōna wairua

He mana tō ngā mihi aroha, engari he pono, ki te whakaara ake i te wairua o te tangata. He pono rawa tēnei mō ngā whanaungatanga aroha. Mā te hoatu mihi aroha ki a ia kāore i tonoa ka pai ake tōna rā, ā, mā ngā mihi aroha ka koa, ka maioha, ka arohaina hoki ngā tāne. E ai ki ō rātou ake wheako, he mea miharo te tere o te hurihanga o te rā o tētahi mā te torutoru noa o ngā kupu atawhai.

He aha noa iho ngā mea ka taea, mai i te kī atu he ātaahua rātou, ki te kī atu he mātau rātou, ki te mihi rānei ki tētahi mea i mahia e rātou māu. Ehara i te mea he huarahi noa te whakanui i tō hoa rangatira hei whakamarie i a rātou; ka whakapakari anō hoki i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua. 

10. Hokona he putiputi māna!

Ko te aroha o ngā tāne ki ngā putiputi he mea e warewarehia ana. He huarahi māmā ngā putiputi hei whakaatu i tō aroha ki tētahi nā te mea he ātaahua, he tikanga hoki ō rātou tohu. He mea nui anō hoki kia whakaarohia te kaupapa. Mō tētahi huihuinga motuhake, pērā i te rā whānau, i te huritau rānei? Hei whakaatu kei te whakaaro koe ki a ia? Hei whakaatu noa rānei i tō aroha ki a ia?

Mō te koha tuturu, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakapau moni nui. Ahakoa he rōhi kotahi, he putiputi whakahirahira rānei, ko te whiwhi putiputi ki tō hoa he mea nui ake i te utu. Ko ētahi tauira o ngā putiputi (me ō rātou tikanga) ka taea e koe te whiriwhiri māna ko:

• Chrysanthemum WheroHe tohu ēnei mō te aroha me te ngākau nui
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• Karepe daisyHe tohu ēnei mō te harikoa me te aroha pono
• Ngā hydrangea māHe tohu ēnei mō te nui o te taonga
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11. Hoatu ki a ia tētahi pounamu o tana waipiro tino pai hei koha ohorere

"He tohunga taku tāne ki te wīski," te kī a Alicia, he kaipānui 46-tau te pakeke nō Hampshire. "Whai muri i te 20 tau o te marena, ka ahua hoha te kimi i ngā mea hou hei miharo māna. I tēnei huritau, i whakatau ahau ki te hoatu i tētahi pounamu Macallan ki a ia, tētahi o ana tino pai. He mea utu nui tōna āhua!"

Ahakoa he nui te utu mō te whakaipoipo i tētahi tohunga waipiro, ki te mea kei te whakaaro koe "Me pēhea taku ohorere i taku hoa tāne, kāore he take?", he tino whai hua te penapena hei hoko i tana pounamu waipiro tino pai māna.

12. Whakahaerehia he hui tiaki-whaiaro māua

He mea whakangāwari tonu ngā wā tiaki-ā-koe mō te hunga katoa e whai wāhi ana. He tino whakamarie, ā, he wāhi ngahau hei whakapūmau i a koe anō, hei whakatakoto hoki i ō whakaaro ki te huarahi tika. Ko ēnei wā tetahi o ngā ohorere tino ātaahua mō tō hoa tāne, i te kāinga, i te wāhi mirimiri rānei. He huarahi pai tēnei hei whakaatu i te nui o tō aroha ki a ia, me te mea kia rongo ia he mea nui ia.

Whakaarohia te mirimiri, te whakapai kanohi, te mahi mani/pedi, me te kaukau. Kia tino whiriwhiria he wāhi e pai ana mōna, ā, kia waihangahia he āhua whakangā. Tahuna ētahi rama, whakatangihia ētahi waiata whakatangitangi whakangā, whakaritea he kai mā te tangata, ā, kia pai te noho. Ka tino arohaina ia, ka manaakihia hoki, ā, koinei tētahi o ngā huarahi tino reka ki te whakautu i te mea ngaro 'me pēhea te ohorere i tō hoa tāne'.

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13. Kawea ia ki tētahi hokohoko ohorere

Kua amuamu tō hoa mō te hoko kākahu hou? Engari he pukumahi rawa ia, he pōhēhē rawa rānei, kāore e taea e ia te mahi? Ki te pērā, me hokohoko ia! Mā tēnei, ka whai wā kōrua ki te whakapau i te wā kounga me te whakaoti i te mahi.

Ina rapu koe i ngā huarahi reka hei miharo i tō hoa tāne, he maha ngā wā ka ngaro i te hinengaro ēnei momo whakaaro mō te rā. Engari ko te kawe i a ia ki te hokohoko tētahi o ngā huarahi tino pai hei manaaki i a ia. Me waiho hei wheako ngahau – kia noho hei kaitohutohu ahua whaiaro māna! Ka pai ia ki te mōhio ki ō whakaaro nā te mea, ko koe te tangata ka whakakakahuhia e ia hei miharo.

14. Whakamātauria tōna tangata e hiahia ana ki te adrenaline

Me pēhea te miharo i tō hoa tāne ina he tangata hiahia nui ia ki te adrenaline? He uaua te rapu i tētahi wheako tino motuhake mā tō hoa e aroha ana ki te adrenaline, ina koa mēnā kāore koe i te tino hiahia ki te whakahihiri. Heoi, ki te hiahia koe ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne, ko te whai i tana hiahia ki ngā mahi whakangahau o waho te huarahi pea hei whai.

He tohu tēnei e hiahia ana koe ki te whai wāhi atu ki te ngahau tahi me ia, ā, ka nui ake tō aroha ki a koe. O ngā mahi whakahihiri maha ka taea e koe te whakamātau, ko ētahi:

• Te pekepeke bungee
• Te piki maunga
• Raina kopa
• Rafting
• Rangiora

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15. Whakaritea he pō mō ngā tama me āna hoa

I ētahi wā, mā te tuku wāhi ki tō hoa tāne kia noho tahi me āna hoa ka āwhina i te whakapai ake i tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Nā te mea, kāore koe e hiahia kia rite ki a Andie i roto i te How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days , ā, ka mutu, ka ngaro atu ia i a koe. Mā te whakarite i tētahi pō marino mō tō hoa tāne me āna hoa ka āwhina i a ia kia marino, kia nui ake ai tōna maioha ki a koe.

Hokona he pīta me he pia mā rātou, ka whakatūria te pouaka whakaata kia mātaki kiriata ai rātou, kia tākaro kēmu ai rānei. Mā tēnei, ka taea e ia te whai i tana pō whakangahau mō ngā tama i a koe e haere ana ki waho ki te noho tahi me ō hoa wahine. Ka maioha koe ki tō hiahia ki te tuku wāhi ki a ia, me tō whakawhirinaki ki a ia kia mahi i ana ake mea. Ka whakaatu tēnei i a ia e mārama ana koe ki ana hiahia, ā, ka mōhio ia ki tō uara.

16. Whakauruhia ngā mahi aroha ā-tinana matapōkere

Ahakoa kei te hiahia koe ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne i te ata, i ētahi wā rānei o te awatea, ka kore pea ia e kōrero mō ngā mahi aroha ohorere. He huarahi ataahua te whanaungatanga ā-tinana ki te whakaatu i tō aroha, ā, ki te hiahia koe kia rongo tō hoa tāne i te hiahia, ka whai hua ēnei mahi iti hei whakamana i tō whakaaro.

Anei ētahi mahi aroha hei miharo māu ki tō hoa rangatira:

• Awhi atu i a ia i te wā kāore ia i te tino whakaaro. He huarahi ātaahua tēnei hei whakaatu kei te aro atu koe ki a ia ahakoa i ngā wā tino iti o te rā.
• Whakaohokia ia ki tētahi kihi iti ki tōna māhunga, ki tōna paparinga rānei. Tērā pea ka ngawari tōna ngākau, ā, ka nui ake tōna aroha ki a koe.
• Toia ia ki roto mō te kanikani puhoi. Whakatangihia he puoro ngawari, ka poipoi noa i te manawataki. Whakatakotoria tōu mahunga ki runga i tōna pakihiwi, ka mātakitaki i a ia e aroha nui atu ana ki a koe.

17. Whakaohokia ia mā te rēhita i a ia ki tētahi akomanga

Kua roa kē te hiahia o tō hoa rangatira ki te ako i tētahi mea? Tērā pea i hiahia ia ki te ako ki te tākaro i tētahi taonga puoro, ki te peita rānei, ki te whakauru atu rānei ki tētahi karapu pahikara, ki te ako rānei i tētahi reo hou – ko te mea nui, kua roa ia e hiahia ana ki te mahi i tētahi mea engari kāore i a ia te wā, te kaha rānei mōna. I tēnei wā, ka tino māmā te whakautu i te pātai 'me pēhea te ohorere i taku hoa tāne'. Me rēhita noa ia ki tētahi akomanga!

Tirohia tana kaupapa mahi, kimihia he wā hei whakamahi māna mō tētahi akomanga, ā, whakaurua ia ki roto. Hoatu he wā ki a ia ki te tūhura i tētahi mea ka tino pai ki a ia. Ko ētahi o ngā akomanga ka taea e kōrua te haere tahi ko:

• Akohia he reo hou
• Akohia ngā mahi uku
• Haere ki tētahi akomanga mixology 
• Akohia he kanikani hou
• Hono atu ki tētahi akomanga whakaari

18. Hangaia he kohinga o ō maharatanga

Ka hangaia e koe ngā maharatanga i ia wā e noho tahi ana kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira. Heoi, he maha ngā wā ka wareware tātou ki te tuhi i aua maharatanga. Ahakoa ka tuhia e tātou, ka ngaro tonu i roto i ngā wāhi huna o tā tātou waea pūkoro. Hei whakamahara anō i ō maharatanga pai, he huarahi reka ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne ko te kohikohi i ngā wā katoa i noho tahi ai kōrua.

Ka taea e koe te hanga i tētahi kohinga whakaahua, i tētahi ataata, i tētahi pukaemi whakaahua rānei, ā, ka whakaatu i ō pūkenga toi. Whakapaipaihia ki ngā āhuatanga o tō kōrua whanaungatanga, takaihia, ka hoatu ki tō hoa tāne i tōna rā whānau, i tō huritau, i te wā rānei e hiahia ana koe ki te miharo i a ia mō te kore take. He koha tino aroha tēnei mā tō hoa tāne , ā, ka whakamahara i a kōrua mō te aroha o te tokorua me te haerenga i haere tahi ai kōrua.

19. Whakamaherehia ngā rā kiriata mariko

Ki te mea kei roto koe i tētahi hononga tawhiti, ka uaua pea te whakarite i ngā pō whakatā. Mō ngā wā e hiahia ana koe ki te ohorere i tō hoa tāne i runga ipurangi, whakaritea he wā kiriata ngahau māua. 

Tonoa he kai māna, whiriwhiria he kiriata whakamarie, he kiriata whakaharikoa, he kiriata whakamataku, he kiriata mahi rānei mēnā koinei te mea e pai ana ki a koe, ā, kia pai tō wheako! Nā te nuinga o ngā ratonga roma ora e tuku ana i ngā pāti mātakitaki, ka taea e kōrua te kite i te urupare a tetahi ki tetahi ki te kiriata, ā, ka nui ake te ngahau o te wheako. 

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20. Whakamaherehia he pō kiriata i te kāinga hei miharo i tō hoa tāne

Kia pai ake te tirohanga ki a 'Netflix and chill' mā tēnei whakaaro. Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ngā mea aroha hei miharo i tō hoa tāne, he huarahi pai te mātakitaki kiriata i te kāinga hei whakapau i te wā kounga me tō hoa tāne. Whakakīia te tūru ki ngā paraikete ngohengohe me ngā urunga maha hei whakamarie i a koe. Ka taea hoki e koe te hanga i tētahi tuanui hei hoatu i te āhua Pinterest. 

Hei whakanui ake i te motuhake o te pō whakatau i te kāinga , ka taea e koe te whiriwhiri i tētahi pūwhakaata me te mata, te whakamahi rānei i tētahi pouaka whakaata. Kaua e wareware ki te pōporo me ngā monamona – he mea nui ēnei! Kia tau tō whakaaro, kua tae ki te wā ki te whiriwhiri i te kiriata tino tika. Ahakoa he kiriata rongonui, he kiriata rongonui, he kiriata motuhake rānei e pai ai te ngākau, kia tino pai ki a kōrua. Ina oti te whakaputa i ngā mihi, ka puta mai kōrua i te wāhi e tata atu ana ki a kōrua, ā, ka maumahara tonu kōrua.

21. Tiakina tetahi mea kua whakaroahia e ia

"Kua tata mai tō māua huritau tuatahi, ā, i whakaaro tonu ahau: Me pēhea taku miharo i taku hoa tāne?" te kī a Sandra, he kaiwhakahauhau 23-tau te pakeke nō Long Island. "I mahara ahau ki a Clarke e amuamu ana mō te korenga o te wā ki te horoi i tana waka. Nō reira, i tētahi rā, ka whakawhitiwhiti māua i ana waka, ā, ka haria e au tana waka ki te horoi me te whakakī. I whakakīia e au te tāke. Kāore he take ki te kī, koinei te ohorere pai rawa atu i whakaarohia e au."

Ka miharo ia ki tēnei mahi aroha iti nei, ā, ka tino maioha ia ki tō āwhina.

22. Kawea ia ki te pikiniki

He huarahi ngahau ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne ko te kawe i a ia ki tētahi haerenga aroha i waho. He mea tino miharo te haere ki tētahi haerenga ki waho māna, ā, ka taea e kōrua te noho tahi me te wā kounga.

Ko ētahi whakaaro pikiniki mā kōrua ko:

• Retihia he waka, ā, kia kite i te ataahua o te taiao
• Haere ki te takutai 
• Haere ki te ruku wai hohonu, ki te ruku wai rānei
• Whakamaherehia he tina pikiniki aroha me ētahi o ana waiata tino pai o ngā wā katoa e purei ana i te papamuri
• Haere ki te hakari rama

23. Hoatu ki a ia tana hinu kakara motuhake (tō hinu kakara rānei)

Ko te kakara tētahi o ngā huarahi matua hei kukume i tētahi ki a koe. Ā, ki te kakara pai tō hoa tāne, e mōhio ana koe ka pai anō hoki tō wairua. Nō reira, ā te wā ka kite koe i tana hinu kakara e pau ana, me tīmata te mahi me te miharo i a ia mā te tiki atu. Ki te pai rānei ia ki tō kakara, ka taea e koe te tiki atu i tō hinu kakara kia mau tonu ai tōna hinengaro i a koe i ia wā ka hongi ia i te kakara. Nā te mea, ko ngā pheromones te mea nui! Ka taea e koe te tiki atu i tētahi hinu kakara whakaranu pheromone māna (ka tūtohu mātou i tēnei mai i RawChemistry) hei whakanui i te nui o tō aroha ki tōna kakara!

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24. Whakaora anō i tō rā tuatahi

Me pēhea te miharo i tō hoa tāne ina kua roa kōrua e noho tahi ana? Ina mōhio koe ki tō hoa tāne, ka noho pea te miharo i a ia hei mahi, ā, ka pau pea ō whakaaro. I ēnei wā, ko tētahi huarahi ataahua ki te miharo i a ia ko te whakamahara anō i tō kōrua rā tuatahi.

Ka taea e koe te mau i te kākahu i mau i a koe i mua, ka tono manuhiri ki te wharekai kotahi. Ki te mea he hui kiriata taraiwa-mai, ka taea e koe te whakarite i tētahi hui iti, piripono mō kōrua anake. Ko te whakahoki anō i tō kōrua hui tuatahi he huarahi ngahau ki te whakaora anō i te mura o te aroha me te hoki anō ki te aroha.

25. Akohia tōna reo taketake

"Kāore au i mōhio ki te kōrero Wīwī tae noa ki taku tūtakitanga ki a Gabriel," te kī a Charles, he tohunga ki te mahi i te wheua wheua o Texas. "Ko tana reo te reo tino ātaahua rawa atu kua rongo ahau, ā, i mōhio ahau e hiahia ana ahau ki te ako i tana reo. Ā, i pērā ahau! I taku kōrero tuatahi ki a ia i te reo Wīwī, tata tonu te puta o ōna kanohi." Me kōrero anō tātou?

Ina rapu huarahi koe ki te miharo i tō hoa tāne, ka pōhēhē pea, inā koa mēnā kei te rapu koe i ngā whakaaro auaha. Heoi, ko te mea kotahi me maumahara koe ko te whakawhaiaro i te ohorere e whakamahere ana koe. Mā te paku pā atu ki a ia anō, ka taea e ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e koe te noho motuhake, ā, ka mōhio tō hoa tāne ki tōna waimarie ki te whai i a koe i roto i tōna ao.

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Ehara tō takoha i te koha aroha . Mā tēnei ka taea e Bonobology te kawe tonu mai i ngā mōhiotanga hou me ngā mōhiotanga hou ki a koe i roto i tā mātou whainga ki te āwhina i te tangata o te ao ki te ako me pēhea te mahi i tetahi mea.

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