19 Ngā Mea Hei Whakamana i tō Hoa Wahine mō tō Aroha

Porohia te aroha

He ahurei ia wahine, ia wahine, ā, e tika ana kia arohaina katoatia. E pai ana ki a rātou te whakamana i ētahi wā kāore he tangata kē atu, ka arohaina, ka arohaina hoki ia e koe mō te toenga o tō oranga. Ki te kore koe e mōhio me pēhea te whakamana i tō hoa wahine, kua tae mai koe ki te wāhi tika. Ko te kaupapa o tēnei tuhinga he mea kia rongo tō hoa wahine i te aroha me te whakaute.

Hei kimi i te huarahi tika hei whakamana i tō hoa wahine e aroha ana koe ki a ia, i whakapā atu mātou ki a Ridhi Korekāha, he tohunga hinengaro kai, ā, he tohunga ki te tuku tohutohu mō ngā marena kore aroha, ngā wehenga me ētahi atu raruraru whanaungatanga. E mea ana ia, "Ko te mea tuatahi, he mea tino nui te whakamana. Ka tupu pai tātou i runga i tēnā."

"He maha ngā mea e pā ana ki a tātou i ia rā, ā, mā te whakamana i a tātou e āwhina kia haere tonu. Ka taea e koe te tīmata me tētahi mea noa pēnei i te "e arohaina ana koe", "e hiahiatia ana koe" me te "e hiahiatia ana koe". I ētahi wā, ina pukumahi te tāne ki te ao, ka mahue tana wahine e hiahia ana kia nui ake te aroha me te whakamoemiti mai i a ia. Ki te kore koe e mōhio he aha te mea hei kī atu hei whakamarie i tō hoa wahine, ka taea e koe te whakamahi i ngā rerenga kua whakahuatia ake nei hei whakanui ake i tōna whakapono ki te whanaungatanga."

19 Ngā Mea Hei Kōrero Hei Whakamarie i Tō Hoa Wahine

Ripanga o Ihirangi

I mohio koe kei reira 5 ngā momo reo arohaO ngā reo aroha katoa, ko ngā kupu whakaū te mea tino noa. He pai ki te tangata ina maiohahia rātou mā roto i ngā kupu motuhake. Ki te kore koe e mōhio me pēhea te whakamarie i tō hoa wahine, pānuihia ngā kōrero i raro nei, kia hoki anō ai tōna aroha ki a koe.

1. "Kāore e taea e au te mutu te whakaaro ki a koe"

Koinei te momo karere e hiahia ana ahau ki te whiwhi mai i te aroha o tōku ao. Whakaarohia tētahi e kī ana ki a koe kāore e taea e rātou te mutu te whakaaro ki a koe. He tino aroha! Koinei te huarahi hei whakamana i tō hoa wahine kāore koe e tinihanga. Ki te kī atu koe ki a ia kāore e taea e koe te mutu te whakaaro ki a ia, ka mōhio ia kāore he tangata kē atu kei roto i tō hinengaro. Koinei te momo whakamana e hiahiatia ana e tātou mai i ō tātou hoa.

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2. "E hiahia ana ahau ki te whakamōhio atu i a koe ki ōku hoa me tōku whānau"

Ridhi e kī ana, "He taahiraa nui te whakamōhio i tō hoa rangatira ki ō hoa me tō whānau. Mā tēnei ka tino whakamana i a ia kāore koe e moumou noa i tō wā ki a ia. Mā te manaaki i a ia ki roto i ō huihuinga whānau ka tino motuhake ia, ā, ka tino mōhio koe ki te whanaungatanga."

3. "Ko koe te mea pai rawa atu kua pa ki ahau"

He rotarota? Ae rā. Ataahua? Tino. Whakahihiko? Ae rā. He aha tāu e tatari ana? Haere tonu, kōrerotia tēnei ki tō hoa wahine, kaua e whakaroa. Pērā ngā mea iti hei whakahari i a ia ka whakamarie anō hoki i tō hoa wahine mā te karere kuputuhi. Ina kōrero koe i tētahi mea pēnei, ka piki ake tōna āwangawanga nā te mea ka tino mōhio ia kāore tētahi o ō hoa o mua i whakararu i a koe kia rite ki ōna kare ā-roto.

4. "Kei te haumaru koe i ahau"

E kī ana a Riddhi, "He maha ngā wā ka puta ngā āwangawanga i roto i ō tātou hinengaro. Kāore tātou i te mōhio mēnā he pai tātou mō tētahi. Kāore tātou i te mōhio mēnā ka whara tātou i a rātou. Kāore tātou i te mōhio mēnā kei te pono rātou ki a tātou. I ēnei wā, ko tā tātou e hiahia ana ko te pupuri i ō tātou ringa e te tāne, me te kī mai kei te haumaru tātou ki a rātou. Koinei tētahi o ngā kōrero ka taea e ngā tāne te kī hei whakamanawa i tētahi hoa wahine āwangawanga nā te mea e hiahia ana ngā wāhine ki te noho i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga e noho haumaru ana, e noho pūmau ana hoki rātou."

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5. "Ka whakamārama koe i tōku ao"

Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio me pēhea te whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine kāore koe e wehe atu, koinei tētahi o ngā mea ka taea e koe te kōrero ki a ia. He iti te āhua o tētahi rerenga pēnei engari he hohonu. Ka mārama ia ka kawea mai e ia te pai me te kanapa ki roto i tō ao. E hiahia ana tātou katoa ki tētahi hei whakamārama i ō tātou oranga. Ki te mea kua kitea kētia ia e koe, whakamanahia ia e kore rawa koe e wehe atu i a ia mā te whakamahi i ētahi kupu. ngā whakaū whanaungatanga pai.

6. "Ka oti ahau i a koe"

Āhea koe ka rongo kua oti koe i tētahi tangata? Ina kitea e koe te tangata tika e uru pai ana ki roto i tō ao, he tino pai, he kore he akiaki. Ka tino oti koe ina pai koe ki a ia i tōna āhua. Kāore he whakaaro ki te whakarerekē i a ia. Whakamanahia tō hoa wahine mā te karere kuputuhi, me te kī atu kua oti koe i a ia.

7. "Kei te kite ahau i tētahi heke mai me koe"

E kī ana a Riddhi, "Whakamarietia tō hoa wahine mā te pono ki a ia. Kōrero atu ki a ia kei te kite koe i tētahi heke mai me ia. Kāore e ranea te kupu noa iho i konei. Me whakarite tonu kei te rite ō mahi ki ō kupu."

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8. "He tino waimarie ahau, ā, he manaakitanga hoki tōku ki te whai i a koe i roto i tōku ao"

Tērā ētahi tāngata e meinga ana tātou kia waimarie mā te noho noa i roto i ō tātou ao. Kei te tino mōhio koe he waimarie koe ki a ia? Ki te pērā, koinei te huarahi hei whakamanawa atu ki tō hoa wahine e aroha ana koe ki a ia. Kōrero atu ki a ia kei te whakaaro koe ko koe te tāne tino waimarie o te ao. Mā ēnei kupu aroha ka whakaatu koe i tō aroha ki a ia, ā, ka menemene ia. He pono, ki te kī mai tētahi i tēnā ki ahau, kua whero katoa ōku kanohi ki te māwhero.

9. "E kitea ana koe, e rangona ana hoki"

Koinei te momo whakamana e hiahiatia ana e te tangata ina pouri ana rātou, ā, te whakaaro kāore i te arohia i roto i te whanaungatangaKi te mea kei te pāngia tō hoa wahine e te wā uaua, koinei te huarahi e whakamarie ai koe i tō hoa wahine mā te manukanuka. Me kī atu ki a ia e kitea ana, e rangona ana hoki ōna āwangawanga katoa. Me whakamana ki a ia e kore ōna āwangawanga me ōna take e whakaititia. Me whakamana ki a ia kāore ōna whakaaro e whakahaweatia ana, e kore rānei e arohia.

10. "Kāore au i te mōhio me aha ahau me te kore koe"

I taku hinganga ki te aroha, koinei tonu te āhua o ōku kare ā-roto. Kāore au i te mōhio me aha ahau me te kore taku hoa tāne. I pōuri ahau, ā, i whakaaro pea he taha kotahi noa iho tēnei kare ā-roto. I mōhio ia me pēhea te whakamanawa i tētahi hoa wahine pōuri, ā, i kī mai anō ia i te mea kotahi. I mea ia kāore ia e kite i tētahi oranga me te kore ahau. Koinā anake taku i hiahia ai. Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio he aha te mea hei kī atu hei whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine, me kī atu ki a ia ka ngaro koe me te kore ia.

11. "Ngā mihi nui ki a koe mō tō noho tonu ki konei mōku"

Ko te maioha tētahi o ngā wāhanga e 3 o tētahi whanaungatanga, ā, muri iho ko te whakaae me te whakamihi. Mā te maioha ka rongo te tangata i te mana, te honore, me te taonga nui. Ko tētahi o ngā ngā huarahi hei whakawhanake i te whanaungatanga kare ā-roto i roto i ngā whanaungatanga. Ki te kore koe e mōhio me pēhea te whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine e kore koe e wehe atu, me whakaatu ki a ia tōna maioha. Mā tētahi rerenga poto pēnei ka mōhio rātou ki te nui o tō rātou hiranga ki a koe.

12. "Kāore he tangata kē atu i rite ki a koe"

Koinei tētahi o ngā huarahi hei whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine kāore koe e tinihanga, nā te mea ka mōhio rātou he tino ahurei rātou ki a koe. Mā te kī kāore he tangata hei rite i a koe, e whakaae ana koe he ahurei ia, ā, e kore rawa koe e kite i tētahi atu tangata hei rite i a ia i muri mai.

13. "E arohaina ana e au ia wā e noho tahi ana tāua"

Ki te aroha koe ki tētahi mea, ko tōna tikanga he aroha, he tiaki, he manaaki hoki koe ki taua mea nā te mea he harikoa, he harikoa hoki tōu. Ki te kore koe e mōhio me pēhea te whakamarie i tō hoa wahine mā te karere kuputuhi, ngana ki te kī atu ki a ia e aroha ana koe ki a ia me tō ngākau katoa.

14. "Kāore he tangata e mārama ana ki ahau pērā i a koe"

Kua whakapono tonu ahau ko te māramatanga te momo whanaungatanga nui rawa atu. He mea tino piripono te māramatanga ki tētahi me te māramatanga. Ko te kore māramatanga tētahi o ngā mea ngā raruraru whanaungatanga tino noa he mea e pāngia ana e te tini o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i ēnei rā. Ki te rapu huarahi koe ki te whakamanawa i tētahi hoa wahine e māharahara ana, me kī atu ki a ia kāore anō tētahi atu kia mārama ki a koe pērā i a ia.

15. “Ko koe taku hoa pai”

Ki te mea kua kitea e koe he hoa pai mōu, kei roto koe i te hunga waimarie. Ina ko tō hoa rangatira tō hoa pai, he nui ake tō tuwhera, tō pono, me tō pono ki ō kare ā-roto. Ki te kore koe e mōhio me pēhea te whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine e kore koe e wehe atu, kī atu ki a ia ehara ia i te hoa aroha noa iho, engari ko ia anō hoki tō hoa pai, ā, e kore rawa ngā hoa pai e wehe atu.

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16. "He nui te harikoa e kawea mai ana e koe ki roto i tōku ao"

Ko tētahi o ngā take e mau tonu ai tātou i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga, nā te mea ko te tangata e noho tahi ana koe ka kawea mai te harikoa me te mahana ki roto i tō ao. Koinei te huarahi hei whakamarie i tō hoa wahine i roto i te manukanuka. Kōrero atu ki a ia kāore e taea te ine, te whakarite rānei i te harikoa e kawea mai ana e ia ki tētahi mea, ki tētahi atu rānei.

17. "He ataahua koe i ngā tikanga katoa o te kupu"

Ka tāpiri atu a Riddhi, "Ka ora ngā wāhine i ngā mihi, ā, koinā tētahi o ngā mea ngā mea e pai ana ki ngā kōtiro te whakarongo mai i ā rātou hoa. He pai ki a rātou te whakamoemititia mō ō rātou ataahua me te mātauranga. Heoi anō, he pai ki a rātou te whakamoemititia mō ō rātou wairua me ō rātou āhua. Ko tētahi o ngā huarahi hei whakamanawa i tō hoa wahine mā te karere kuputuhi ko te kī atu he ataahua ia i roto i waho, ā, kāore he rite o tōna ataahua.”

18. "Aroha ana ahau ki a koe i tēnei rā, āpōpō, ā, ake tonu atu"

Kua tae te wā ki te kī atu ki a ia kāore koe e aroha noa ki a ia mō te wā poto, engari ka aroha tonu koe ki a ia. Engari me tūpato koe ina whakamahi ana koe i ngā kupu nunui pēnei mēnā kāore koe e kite i tētahi heke mai me ia. Engari, ki te mea ko ia te wahine o ō moemoeā, ā, kāore e taea e koe te tu atu i tētahi rā me te kore ia, me porangi koe, me kī atu ki a ia e aroha ana koe ki a ia ināianei, ā, ka aroha tonu koe ki a ia ake ake. Koinei te huarahi hei whakamanawa atu ki tō hoa wahine e kore koe e whakarērea ia ia. Ka kukume tēnei whakamanawa aroha, māhaki hoki i ōna ngākau.

19. "E hiahia ana ahau ki te pupuri i tō ringa mō te toenga o tōku ao"

Ki te hiahia koe ki te marena i a ia, ā, ki te hiahia koe ki te noho tahi me ia mō te toenga o tō oranga, koinei te huarahi hei whakamana i tō hoa wahine. Kōrero atu ki a ia kei te kite koe i tētahi heke mai me ia, e hiahia ana koe ki te hanga whare me ia. Koinei hoki tētahi o ngā mea tino reka, ā, ngā huarahi aroha ki te tono ki a iaTukua tō turi ki raro, ka kī atu ki a ia e hiahia ana koe ki te pupuri i tōna ringa mō te toenga o tō oranga. Ko te tumanako ka whakaae ia me te roimata harikoa i roto i ōna kanohi.

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He nui tōku whakaute me tōku aroha ki a koe
Ko koe anake, kei a koe te kī ki tōku ngākau
Ka oati ahau ki te aroha ki a koe i ia rā e haere ana
E aroha ana ahau ki a koe me ō ngoikoretanga katoa me ō ngoikoretanga
E hiahia ana ahau kia ara ake i tō taha i ia rā, i ia rā
Āe, me i taea e au te kihi i a koe ināianei tonu
Aroha ana ahau ki te ahua o to whakaaro ki ahau
Ka meinga ahau e koe hei tangata pai ake
Nāku koe, ā, nāu ahau
Ko koe te whakautu ki aku inoi katoa

He tino kaha, he tino whai hua hoki ngā kupu ina mōhio koe ki te whakamahi. Mā te whiwhi kupu whakaū mai i te tangata e tino arohaina ana e koe ka piki ake tō whakaaro ki a koe anō, ā, ka waiho koe hei hihiri.

FAQs

1. Me pēhea te whakamarie i te tangata i roto i tētahi whanaungatanga?

He maha ngā mea ka taea e koe te mahi hei whakamarie i te tangata i roto i te whanaungatanga. Ka taea e koe te tuku mihi ki a ia, te kawe i a ia ki waho ki te whakatau, ā, ka taea hoki e koe te kōrero mō te heke mai ki a ia. Me ōrite ngā kupu me ngā mahi ina ngana ana koe ki te whakamarie i te tangata.

2. Me pēhea e whakamarie ai koe i te ngākau o tētahi?

Ka taea e koe te whakamarie i te ngākau o te tangata mā te whakamana i ō rātou manukanuka me ō rātou āwangawanga. Ka noho koe ki raro, ka whakarongo ki a rātou e whakapuaki ana i ō rātou ngākau. Whakapaua he wā ki a rātou. Whakaaturia te atawhai, te aroha, me te ngāwari ki a rātou.

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