I roto i te kiriata Hollywood, '50 First Dates', i whakahīhī ngā wāhine katoa ki a Henry, te kiripuaki i takarohia e Adam Sandler. Mai i te tangata aroha nui ki te hoa rangatira pono, manawanui hoki, i whakaaturia mai e Henry te pikitia o te tāne tino pai. Mō te wahine tino pai, he maha ngā kiriata anō hoki. Engari kia mārama tātou ki ngā āhuatanga e hanga ana i te wahine tino pai i te ao tūturu, kaua ki te mea whakakatakata.
He rerekē pea ngā āhuatanga o te wahine tino pai i waenga i te tāne me te tāne. Kāore he tāne e titiro rite ana ki te wahine. Ko ētahi tāne e rapu ana i ngā hoa wairangi e kata tonu ana ki ā rātou katakata, e whakakatakata ana hoki ki a rātou, ko ētahi tāne e pai ana ki te noho tahi me ngā wāhine e tino hiahia ana ki te pakihi, ko ētahi e pai ana ki ngā wāhine e taea ai e rātou te noho tahi me te pānui nūpepa, ā, muri iho ka whai kōrero hihiri.
He tino māmā noa iho ngā hiahia o ngā tāne, engari he uaua hoki. Nā te mea, i te nuinga o te wā, kāore ngā tāne e whakapau kaha ki te whakaaroaro mō ngā āhuatanga e hiahiatia ana e rātou i roto i tā rātou wahine tino pai. Heoi, tera ētahi āhuatanga e whakaaetia whānuitia ana mō te wahine tino pai e rapuhia ana e ngā tāne katoa.
Nō reira, ko te whakaaroaro roa me te whakaaroaro nui mō ngā āhuatanga o te wahine tino pai ko tā tātou mahi tēnei. Kia rapua te āhua o te wahine tino pai, e ai ki te tirohanga a te tāne. E ngā rangatira… me kī atu ki ngā wāhine te momo kōtiro e hiahia ana koutou ki te marena.
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E ai ki te kōrero i mua ake nei, he rerekē ngā whakautu a te katoa i a tātou e whakaaroaro ana mō te āhua o te wahine pai. Ka taea te whakamahi i te kupu "kei ngā kanohi o te tangata e titiro ana te ataahua" ki tēnei horopaki.
Ehara i te mea me whai ēnei āhuatanga i te wā e tautuhi ana i te wahine tino pai, engari he tohu pai, he tohu whānui tonu ēnei mō ngā mea e hiahia ana ngā tāne ki te kitea i roto i ā rātou wahine i tētahi rā. Ko te mea e tupu ai te whanaungatanga ko te ōrite me te hono o ngā tuakiri e rua. Heoi anō, kei te rapu huarahi tātou ki te whakatau i te huarahi e pai ai te noho tahi. me pēhea te whakahari i ngā tāne ehara i te mea uaua katoa.
I tētahi tikanga, ko tā mātou e tūhura nei ko ngā āhuatanga o te wahine pai hei marena. He maha ngā wā ka whakamahia hētia te kupu 'pai' me ngā whakaaro whakahāwea ira tangata. Engari kaua e tukua he tiwhikete āhua…he āhuatanga anō hoki ēnei āhuatanga o te pakeke e ora pai ana. Me ruku tika tātou ki te tikanga o ngā kupu "wahine pai" ki ngā tāne:
1. Ko te wahine pai rawa atu hei marena ko te wahine e whakawhitiwhiti kōrero ana
Tuatahi, ko te wahine tino pai ko te wahine e kōrero pono ana mō ōna kare ā-roto ki tana tāne. E mōhiotia ana te aroha o ngā tāne ki te pānui i waenganui i ngā rārangi. Tērā pea kei te ruru noa iho ngā wāhine i te ringa. haki whero ki a mātou me te titiro riri, ā, kāore tonu mātou e mōhio kei te hē tetahi mea.
Mēnā kei te riri koe mō tētahi mea, mēnā rānei kei te whakararuraru tetahi mea i a koe, tena koa whakamōhio mai. Mēnā kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi mea, kei te harikoa rānei koe ki taua mea, tena koa whakamōhio mai. Pērā ai, ka mōhio ake ngā tāne ki ngā āhuatanga e pā ana, ā, ka pai ake te whanaungatanga. He rite tonu te pai o te tuku tohutohu ngawari ki te whakawhiti i ngā ārai o te whare, kāore mātou e kite.
Waihoki, kaua e pukuriri noa. Ka whakatupu noa i te riri; he aha ai koe ka pena ai ina kei a tātou te kōwhiringa ki te kōrero mārama i ngā mea pērā i te hunga pakeke? Whakapuakina tō riri, ō āwangawanga, me ētahi atu mea kei roto i tō hinengaro. Haunga ngā mea katoa, ko ngā pūkenga kōrero pai ngā āhuatanga o te wahine pai hei marena.
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2. Hihiri me te kaha
Ka marino ngā tāne mēnā he wahine kaha, motuhake hoki kei tō rātou taha i ngā wā uaua. Ko te tohu o te marena pai ko te tautoko kaha. E pai ana ki ngā tāne ngā wāhine whai whakaaro nui, hihiri hoki e hiahia ana ki te whai hua i roto i ō rātou oranga.
Mā tēnei ka nui ake te māia o te tāne i roto i tana whanaungatanga, nā te mea ko te whakaatu i te hihiri me te kaha hinengaro he tohu pai mō te whai whakaaro tika. Kua ngaro ngā rā o te tāne anake te kaimahi o te whare. Kāore te wahine pai e tū ana i muri i te tāne angitu, engari e tū ana i tōna taha. Koinei tētahi o ngā āhuatanga pai o te wahine pai.
Ina whiriwhiria e te tāne tētahi wahine hei hoa māna, ka hiahia ia ki te kite i tōna ngākau nui me ngā mea e akiaki ana i a ia i ia rā. Kōrerotia ki a ia ō mahere mō te wā roa, ō whāinga mahi, me ngā whakatutukitanga kua tutuki i a koe. Ka hiahia ia ki te whakarongo ki ngā mea e whakaoho ana i a koe i te moenga i ia ata!
3. E whakanui ana i te whanaungatanga
Ka pāngia ngā tāne e te kore haumaru pērā i te katoa. I ētahi wā, he nui ake. Me whakamana tonu ngā tāne i te aroha o tā rātou hoa kia rongo ai rātou i te uara me te pupuri i te whakawhirinaki. Ahakoa kua roa te whanaungatanga, ehara i te mea ka taea te whakamutu i ngā mahi aroha.
Ina kite ngā tāne i te whakapau kaha e whakapaua ana, ka whakapau kaha anō hoki rātou. Kia taea ai te whakawhirinaki me te whakatū i tētahi hononga pai mō te tāne me te wahine, he mea nui te whakamana i te aroha e tohaina ana i waenganui i ngā hoa. Ko te kupu e whai ana ahau ko te tauutuutu. Ko te pupuri i te mura o te aroha he kawenga nō ngā hoa e rua.
Ko te wahine pai rawa atu hei marena ko te wahine e aroha ana ki a ia e hiahia ana kia arohaina ia. Ko te tuku mihi, ko te tuku aroha, me te whai whakaaro, he mahi katoa ēnei e maiohahia ana e ngā tāne.
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4. Te kaha tinana
Kāore he tāne e hiahia kia pāngia tana wahine e te mate. Nō reira, ko te wahine pai rawa atu mā te tāne ko te wahine e tiaki ana i a ia anō, e kaha ana hoki ki te whakapakari tinana. He mea nui te noho ora o te tinana i waenga i te tini o ngā tāne, inā koa ngā au hou o te hauora.
Ko te wahine tino pai ko te tangata e oma tahi ana me tana tāne, e tōia kaha ana rānei te hope mangere o tana hoa i runga i te moenga kia ara ake ai ia ki te whakakorikori tinana. Ka taea e ngā whakakorikori tinana a ngā tāne me ngā wāhine te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga, me te whakarite hoki i te hauora. He take nui ēnei katoa hei marena māna.
Kua whakaaro ia tāne ka taea e ia te mahi pēhi-ake me tana wahine e noho ana i runga i tōna tuara. He mahi pai te whakakorikori tinana, ā, he mahi e roa ai te ora. Nā te mea ka arahi ki te ora sex kahaHe tino ātaahua te wahine e whakakorikori tinana ana i ngā taumata maha.
5. He matū tōna
Kāore he tangata e hiahia ana ki te noho tahi me te tangata kāore e pai ki te ngahau. He mea nui te hononga tahi i roto i te whanaungatanga pai o te tāne me te wahine. I te pakeketanga o ngā tāne, ka puta mai ngā katakata a te pāpā. He manaakitanga te whai wahine e kata ana ki aua katakata, e pai ake ana rānei, e hangai ana ki aua katakata.
He mea tino nui te hono atu mā te wairua whakakatakata ki ngā tāne ina rapu ana rātou i te wahine tino pai. Mā tēnei ka roa te kōrerorero ngahau, ā, ka tata atu ki te ingoa "hoa pai" he mea nui i roto i te whanaungatanga. Koinei tētahi o ngā āhuatanga pai o te wahine pai.
He māmā noa te kite i ngā tohu o te hononga i waenganui i te tokorua. Ki te mea he tangata whakakatakata koe, kua meinga tonutia ia e koe kia aroha ki a koe. Kia tupato noa kia kaua e tawai pinepine ki a ia. Me kōrero rānei i ngā katakata e aro ana ki ōna āhua koretake. He hononga tahi te aro ki te katakata me te whakakatakata.
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6. Te kawenga pūtea – Ngā āhuatanga o te wahine pai hei marena
Kāore he tangata e ātete ana ki te hokohoko nui. Ka hokona e ngā tāne ngā taputapu hiko kāore e hiahiatia ana mō te whare, ā, ka noho puehu noa iho i runga i te whata mō ngā rā kei te heke mai. Ā, he kino pea te ingoa o ngā wāhine ina tae mai ki te hokohoko.
Ko te hiahia o ngā tāne he tangata e aro nui ana ki te taha pūtea, ā, e mōhio ana ki te whakatau moni. Ehara i te mea ko te hokohoko anake, engari ko te haumi me te whakamahere i ngā whakapaunga o te whare.
I te kaumātuatanga o ngā tāne, ka noho te moni hei mea nui hei akiaki i ngā mahi katoa a te tāne, ā, mā te mōhio he wahine mātau tana, ka nui ake tōna haumaru, ka rite hoki ia ki te tū atu ki te ao whānui. Ina whakaarohia te momo kōtiro e hiahia ana koe ki te marena, ko te kawenga pūtea te mea nui rawa atu.
7. Whakatuwheratia ngā hiahia moepuku
I roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa, he mea nui te taatai hei whakatau i te hauora o taua whanaungatanga. I ētahi wā ka pāngia ngā tāne e te ngā tumanakohanga mohoao i runga i te moenga tērā pea ka angitu, kāore rānei. He mea nui te whakapuaki i ngā hiahia moepuku o ngā hoa e rua kia mau tonu ai te whanaungatanga hauora.
Ina whiriwhiri koe i tētahi wahine hei marena, me whai whakaaro koe ki te hototahitanga o te moepuku. Ko ētahi o ngā āhuatanga o tētahi wahine pai hei marena ko te waiaro mōrearea ki te moepuku.
He mea nui te makona o te tāne ki te moepuku, ā, e ai ki a rātou, ko te wahine tino pai ko te wahine e rite ana ki te wahine kē. Ko te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero hauora me te whakamātautau i roto i te rūma moe te mea e tumanakohia ana e ngā tāne i tētahi rā. Ā, he mea nui tēnei āhuatanga ki te nuinga o ngā tāne ina pātaihia rātou, "He aha te momo kōtiro e hiahia ana koe ki te marena?"
8. E whakaute ana i tōna wāhi
Me ngaro ngā tāne ki roto i tō rātou 'ana tāne' (arā, te rūma takoto kau) i ētahi wā. Kaua e whakaaroaro, e whakaaroaro rānei (kāore mātou i te tino hohonu) engari me noho noa me te pia i te ringa, me te mātaki hākinakina.
He rite tonu te hiranga o te pō whakangahau mō ngā tāne me te pō whakangahau mō ngā kōtiro, ā, e hiahia ana ngā tāne kia whakaute ā rātou wahine pai i te wāhi e hiahiatia ana e rātou. He mea e hiahiatia ana e te katoa te wā mokemoke, ahakoa he kaukau pai, he hamama noa rānei i te pouaka whakaata i a koe e mātaki ana i te kēmu whutupaoro. He mea pai te noho motuhake ahakoa kua mārena koe.
I te mea he wāhanga nui o te whanaungatanga hauora te tuakiri, ko te wahine e whakaute ana i ngā rohe, e tuku ana i a koe kia noho ko koe anake, e whakaatu ana i ngā āhuatanga o te wahine pai. Koinei te tikanga o ngā tāne ina kī ana rātou kei te pirangi rātou ki te marena i tētahi kotiro whai whakaaro motuhake.
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9. Tautoko
Ina kore tetahi haurua o te whanaungatanga e pai ki te āhua o te whakapaunga a tetahi atu haurua i tōna wā waatea, ka pōrearea ngā mea katoa. Ko te mea tino pai he wahine tautoko te wahine ngā mahi whakangahau a te tangata, ngā nekehanga mahi, me te tuku kupu whakatenatena, kaua e noho pukuriri noa mō aua mahi whakangahau.
Ina hoatu e ngā wāhine he kupu whakatenatena ki ngā tāne, he mea nui rawa atu tēnā ki a rātou. Ki ngā kanohi o te tāne, he tino tika tā rātou wahine, ā, ki te tino whakapono ia ka taea e tātou te mahi i ngā mea nunui, ka tino teitei te whakapono ki a ia. Ko te tangata tautoko te wahine pai rawa atu hei marena.
Ka ora tātou katoa ina mōhio tātou kei te tautoko mai ō tātou hoa. Nō reira, ahakoa kāore ia i te tino mārama ki ā tātou mahi whakangahau (e pai ana rānei ki a rātou), he nui te āwhina o te menemene whakatenatena. He take pai te tautoko me te mārama ki a ia.
10. Mahi i ngā take i te wā tika
E mōhiotia ana ngā tāne mō te huna i ngā mea, me te kore e whakaatu i ō rātou kare ā-roto. Nā te mea i te nuinga o te wā kāore rātou e pai ki te kōrero mō te mea nui. Ā, ina akiakihia rātou kia kōrero mō taua mea, kāore rātou e pai ki te whakautu.
Ahakoa he mea tika kia whakawhāitihia te oma atu i ngā raruraru, ka pai tonu ki ngā tāne te kōrero mō ngā raruraru ina rite rātou. Ko te kōrero whai hua i roto i te horopaki pai o te whanaungatanga tāne-wahine ko te tūnga ina rite ngā taha e rua.
Ko tētahi o ngā āhuatanga pai o te wahine pai hei marena ko tōna hiahia ki te tuku i tana hoa kia whai wā. He mea whakamiharo te pakeketanga o ngā kare ā-roto.
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11. He aha ngā take hei marena māna? Ka akiaki ia i te tipu
Ko te wahine tino pai ko te wahine e akiaki tonu ana i te tipu hei tangata, hei tāne, hei matua, hei tohunga ngaio hoki. Me te kore e meinga te tāne kia whakaaro kāore ia i te rawaka, ka āta whakarite te wahine tino pai kia kaua e pāngia te hinengaro o te tāne e te ngākau māhaki.
Ki te tāne, ko tana wahine tana kuīni. Ina tono te kuīni, ka whakarongo te kīngi. I roto i ngā whanaungatanga katoa, he mea nui kia whakarite kia pai kōrua tokorua. whakaputa i te pai o tētahi i tētahi. Mā te tipu tonu anake ka taea ai te whakatutuki i te pūmanawa tuturu, ā, ina mōhio koe kua tae koe ki taua taumata me te awhina o tō hoa, ka māmā ake te huarahi kei mua.
Ko te pono, ehara i te mea uaua te whakamanawareka i ngā tāne. I te nuinga o te wā, ka puta te pouri nā te koretake o te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero me te whakamāoritanga hē. Ko te pono me te whakaaro tika tētahi o ngā āhuatanga matua o te wahine pai e akiaki ana i ngā tāne ki te marena i a rātou.
Me kī atu ki tāu tāne e aroha ana koe ki a ia, me tōna ataahua, ā, ka nekehia e ia ngā maunga mōu. Ko te marena i tētahi kōtiro ngāwari, ngāwari hoki te moemoeā nā te mea he tino tika māua.
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