He ngāwari te aroha, engari he uaua ake te pupuri i te aroha. Koinei pea te take me aro tonu koe ki tō oranga aroha, me te poipoi i te kaha, te katakata me ngā mahi aroha maha kia mau tonu ai te mura o te aroha.
E ai ki te kōrero, he nui ake te aroha o ngā wāhine i ngā tāne, engari kāore he mea kē atu i te pono. He rerekē pea te āhua o tā rātou whakaatu i te aroha, engari he tino harikoa te ngākau o ngā tāne, o ngā wāhine rānei ina whakapau kaha ā rātou hoa ki te manaaki i tētahi mea motuhake mā rātou.
Nō reira, kaua e tukua te kawenga ki te pupuri i te mura o te whanaungatanga ki tō hoa tāne, ki tō hoa rānei, kia mau tonu ai tōna aroha. Engari, me mahi ngā mahi aroha tika hei whakaoho i a ia kia aroha tonu ai.
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Ahakoa ko ia te tāne pai rawa atu kua tūtaki koe, ā, tera pea ka pōrangi ia ki a koe, engari ki te kore koe e whakapau kaha ki te whanaungatanga, e kore e tupu. Whakapaua he wā, kia motuhake ia wā e noho tahi ana kōrua, whakaritea he mahi aroha mōna, ā, kia mōhio ia ki te nui o tō aroha ki a ia.
He tohutohu noa iho ēnei māu kia mau tonu ai te taitamarikitanga o tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Engari, ki te hiahia tonu koe ki ētahi whakaaro hei whakanui ake i te hihiri o tō kōrua oranga aroha, anei ētahi tohutohu.
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1. Tukuna atu he reta aroha ki a ia
Mā ngā mahi aroha māmā noa iho e mahia ana me te ngākau māhaki me te hihiri ka porangi ia. Ko te tuku reta aroha tētahi o aua huarahi. Whakanohoia ngā reta piri ki roto nga karere ataahua i ngā wāhi kāore rawa i whakaarohia e ia.
Tukua atu he karere kuputuhi, he karere WhatsApp rānei ki a ia i te mahi. Tukua ia kia hoki mai ki te kāinga me te kite i tētahi karere ohorere i runga i te tēpu e tohu ana i tētahi ohorere i te pō. Ahakoa he mea ohorere, he mea tūpono noa iho, ka angitu, ā, ka tino tumanako tō tāne ki te whiwhi i ēnei karere pono i roto i te wā poto.
2. Hangaia tana rihi tino pai
Kāore tēnei mahi tawhito e kore e angitu. Ina wātea koe, tangohia he wā ki te tunu i tana kai tino pai. Tērā pea he mea kua whakamātauria e ia i ngā wā tata nei, ā, kua tino pārekareka ki a ia, he rimurapa māmā rānei hei whakamahara i a ia ki te kāinga.
Kia kaha ki te tunu i tāna kai tino pai, me te mātakitaki i a ia e inu ana i te wai – mō te rihi, mōu anō hoki! Kaua e manukanuka ki tō pūkenga tunu kai, ki te kore rānei. Ko te whakaaro te mea nui. Haunga tēnā, he maha ngā akoranga ipurangi e wātea ana i ēnei rā, ahakoa he tauhou, ka taea e ia te tunu i ētahi rihi taketake.
3. Whakamoemititia āna mahi
Me mihi tātou katoa ki te hunga e arohaina ana e tātou. Nō reira, me mihi ki āna mahi i ia wā, i ia wā, i ia wā, ina angitu āna mahi. Me mihi pono ki a ia, ā, ka nui ake tōna whakahīhī.
I ētahi wā, he iti noa ngā mahi aroha māna, pērā i te he iti noa te mihi koinā te mea e hiahiatia ana e ia kia whakamanawanui ai koe mō tō tautoko i a ia i ngā wā pai, i ngā wā kino.
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4. Whakamaherehia ngā mahi aroha mōna i tōna rā whānau
Ki te hiahia koe ki te tuku i ngā mahi aroha nui ki a ia, kāore he rā pai atu i tōna rā whānau. Haere atu ia ki tētahi hararei ohorere, whakatūhia he pāti hei karanga i ana hoa tata, hoatu he taputapu ki a ia hei koha tetahi mea ataahua rānei kua roa e tirohia ana e ia.
Ahakoa he aha tāu e whakamahere ana, kia tino miharo ia, ā, kia puta mai he ohorere nui.
5. Kawea ia ki waho mō tētahi rā ohorere
Ahakoa kei roto koe i tētahi hononga pumau, ehara i te mea me noho noa te ao. I te nuinga o te wā, ko te kawenga mō te whakarite i tētahi rā kei te tāne.
Tangohia te taumahatanga i a ia, kia rerekē ai. Whakamaherehia he pō whakaipoipo hei tina i tana wharekai tino pai, hei pō kiriata rānei i te kāinga me koe e hanga ana i te pōporo. Tukua ia kia okioki, kaua e manukanuka ki te whakarite i tētahi rā.
6. Kakahuria tana kakahu tino pai, tana hinu kakara rānei
Ahakoa te āhua kāore he aha ki te mau i tana kākahu tino pai i tētahi hui nui, te whakamahi rānei i te hinu kakara kua hangaia e ia māu, he tohu aroha reka tēnā e whakaatu ana i tō taha aroha.
He tino pai ki ngā tāne te wā e maioha ana ā rātou hoa ki ngā taonga i riro i a rātou, ā, he aha te huarahi pai ake hei whakaatu i tēnā mā te kakahu i ngā mea e pai ana ki a ia, me te whakaatu ki a ia ko ia tonu... i harikoa tana hoa wahine?
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7. Kia aro ki ana hiahia
Ki a ia, ko te tukinga ki a Man U te take nui rawa atu e pā ana ki te ao, ko koe ia, kāore he āwangawanga mō ngā mahi a Ronaldo, a Messi rānei i muri mai.
Me pēhea te hoatu i tētahi ohorere pai ki a ia mā te whakaatu i tōna hiahia ki tana mahi? Whakapakarihia ō mōhiotanga whutupaoro, ā, hoatu he hoa mōna i tana kēmu e whai ake nei, kia pai ai tōna ohorere. Mena he pai ki a ia poitūkohu, koha mea māna mō tana kēmu, ā, ka aroha nui ia ki a koe tae noa ki te marama
8. Hoatu ki a ia tētahi koha kāore i te tumanakohia
Ahakoa te nui o te moni e pau ana, te nui rānei o te utu, engari ki te hiahia koe ki te whakahihiri i tāu tāne ki tētahi mahi aroha nui māna, hokona he mea e tino hiahiatia ana e ia i te wā kāore ia e whakaaro ana.
Hei tauira, he tīkiti kōnohete, he tīkiti rānei ki tāna kēmu tino pai. Kāore e hiahiatia he huihuinga motuhake engari hoatu he mea e tino whakanuia ana e ia ina hiahiatia.
9. Whakaute i tōna whānau
He kōrero noa iho te whawhai a te hungawai wahine me te hunaonga wahine/wahine hoa wahine, engari ki te whakarerekē koe i te ia o te wā, ka whakahoahoa ki tōna whānau, inā koa ki tōna māmā, ka noho tonu ia hei kaiwhaiwhai mō ake tonu atu. Kia maioha ki ōna uara whānau matua, ā, kia mārama ki a ia e pērā ana koe.
Tukuna he koha ki ōna whanaunga, ki ōna whanaunga hoki, mihi atu ki a rātou mō ō rātou rā whānau, kaua e pōuri te kanohi ina hiahia ia ki te noho tahi me rātou… ā, kua oti, he huarahi tino whai hua tāu ki te riro mai i a ia tōna whakaute. Ko tēnei tetahi o ngā mahi aroha ka hoki anō ai tōna aroha ki a koe.
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10. Tuwha i ngā mea ngaro
He mea nui rawa atu ki te tāne te whāki i tētahi mea ngaro ki a ia – he mea kāore tētahi atu e mōhio. Ahakoa ehara i te mea he tohu aroha noa māna, he pono ka whai wāhi nui ki te whakau i tō kōrua hononga.
Ko te whakapuaki i tētahi mea ngaro he tohu mō tētahi mea motuhake te nui o te whakawhirinaki Kei te hiahia koe ki te haumi, ā, ka nui te āwhina o tēnā ki te whakapakari i tō kōrua whanaungatanga. Ko te whakaatu i a ia ki ngā angaanga o roto i tō rūma kakahu tētahi o ngā mahi aroha nui māna, ahakoa kāore pea i te pērā te āhua i tēnei wā.
11. Whakanuia te PDA
Ahakoa ka kī tāu tāne he 'tama a māmā' ia, he tangata puku kaha rānei, heoi, kāore e kore e pai ki a ia te PDA.
Puritia ōna ringa i a koe e hikoi ana i te toa hokohoko, i te takutai moana rānei. Mīmiti noa rānei i a koe e noho ana i roto i tētahi rōpū hoa. Mā ēnei mahi aroha ngāwari ka tino whai hua ia.
12. Hangaia he parakuihi i runga i te moenga
Ahakoa he āhua tawhito te āhua, he tino aroha te hanga parakuihi mā tō hoa i runga i te moenga, ina koa i muri i te pō o te aroha. Ahakoa he kawhe me te tōhi noa iho, me tuku atu ki a ia me te aroha.
Ka rerekē te wairua mō te toenga o te rā mōna (me koe!). Ki te mea kei te rapu koe i ngā mahi aroha māna, engari kāore he moni, kia mōhio koe ko ēnei mahi iti engari āta whakaarohia ka waiho he pānga nui.
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13. Tiakina ia ina mate ia
Ko te tākaro i a Florence Nightingale i te wā e pōuri ana tāu hoa tāne tētahi o ngā mahi aroha nui māna.
Ahakoa tōna tū motuhake, e aroha ana te tāne katoa ki te manaaki me te atawhai i a ia. Kaua e hiahia nui ki te whakaatu i tō aroha ina hiahiatia. Inehia tōna pāmahana, hoatu he rongoā māna, tunua he hupa, ka mahi ki te moenga.
Kāore he tāne i amuamu ina rite tana kōtiro ki tana whaea!
14. Kōrerohia ngā kupu iti i ngā wā katoa
He nui te pānga o ngā kupu iti. Whakamahia ngā kupu pēnei i te 'Ngā mihi', 'Aroha ana ahau ki a koe', 'Ngaro ana ahau i a koe' me ētahi atu kupu aroha i roto i ā koutou kōrerorero.
E whakaatu ana kāore koe e tango tetahi ki tetahi me te mea noa, he mea e pā ana ki te nuinga o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine i muri i te wā e whakaipoipo ana. Mā ēnei mahi aroha reka māna ka nui te rerekētanga ki te whakanui i tō hoa rangatira, kia arohaina hoki i roto i te whanaungatanga.
15. Hangaia he inu māna
Kei te hiahia koe ki te miharo i tō tāne? Akohia ētahi pūkenga mahi pā! Ahakoa he tino kino tō tunu kai, akohia te whakaranu i ngā inu tino pai a tō tāne, kia rite ki tāna e pai ai, ā, mātakitaki i a ia e miharo ana.
He inu reka, he inu mokete rānei, he kawhe, he pia rānei – he mea tuku mai e tana hoa wahine me te reka, koinei te moemoeā a ngā tāne katoa. Kāore e kore ka haere mai ia, me te tono atu anō.
16. Kōrero ki a ia
He kōrero pai pea tētahi o ngā mahi tino aroha māna. Tērā ētahi wā ka nui ake te aroha o te noho noa i te pō marino me te kai māmā me te kōrero roa i te taha o te ahi i tētahi rōpū nui, i tētahi haerenga rānei.
Koinei ētahi o ngā harikoa ngāwari o te ao e whai wāhi nui ana ki te whakahōhonu i tō aroha. Tērā ētahi nga mea hei korero me tāu tāne, he tino ngahau, he tino whakamere hoki tēnā.
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17. Whakamoemititia ia i mua i ōna hoa, i ōna hoa mahi rānei
Kaua e mangere ki te whakaatu i tō whakapehapeha me tō aroha ki tāu tāne i mua i te aroaro o ētahi atu. Kaua e whakama rawa ia, engari te mihi ki a ia He tohu aroha tino ataahua māna te whakaae rānei ki ngā mihi i tukuna atu ki a ia.
He karere anō hoki tēnei ki te ao he kotahi koutou, ā, ka tohaina ngātahitia e koutou ngā mea katoa.
18. Akohia te toi o te mirimiri
Kāore koe e hiahia kia tino tohunga ki te mirimiri kia tino motuhake ai tō hoa. Ina hoki mai tō hoa ki te kāinga me te ngenge i muri i te mahi, mirimirihia tōna tuara kia marino.
Mirimirihia ōna pakihiwi, miria tō ringa ki roto i ōna makawe, ka mirimiri i ōna pakihiwi. He tohu whakamarie, he tohu aroha e tino arohaina ana e ngā tāne katoa, ā, ka whakaoho i a ia ki te hiahia anō.
19. Whakarei ake i tō oranga moepuku
He mea nui te oranga moepuku werawera o te aroha. Ahakoa te hohonu o tō whanaungatanga, kia ora tonu tō oranga moepuku mā te whakaaro i ngā whakaaro auaha, whanoke hei kukume i a ia.
Tīmata ki ngā mahi aroha matapōkere māna, kātahi ka neke ki tētahi mea wera ake, māia ake hoki, pērā i te whakamātau i tētahi mea hou. tūranga sexKa porangi ia.
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20. Awhiawhi i muri i te moe tāne
He rawe te moe tāne, engari kia nui ake ai te tikanga o tō oranga aroha, he mea nui anō hoki ngā mea ka puta i muri i te moe tāne. Ehara i te mea ko ngā wāhine anake, engari ko ngā tāne anō hoki e pai ana ki te awhiawhi. i muri i te taatai Nō reira, kia kaha ki te mahi i tētahi mea aroha i runga i te moenga.
Awhia ia ki ō ringaringa, mārire rānei te whāwhā i a ia, me te atawhai hoki. Hangaia te mahana me te whanaungatanga i muri i te wera nui.
21. Hoatu te aro katoa ki a ia
Ko tētahi o ngā amuamu nui a ngā tāne mō ngā wāhine ko tā rātou kore whakarongo. Whakamātauria tana hē. Utua ki a ia tāu te aro nui kore wehewehe, kāore koe e whakaohokia e ngā waea, e ngā karere, e te whakakoi rānei i ō maikuku, ina kōrerohia mai he mea nui e rātou.
Me titiro atu ki ōna kanohi, me ataata nui, me te whakaatu kei te tino hiahia koe ki tāna e kōrero ana ki a koe.
22. Whakawhirinaki ki a ia
Ahakoa ehara te whaki i tō hoa rangatira i tētahi o ngā mahi aroha nui māna, he mea nui tēnei hei whakapakari i te hononga i waenganui i a kōrua ko tō hoa rangatira. Ina tukua e koe tō tiaki me te whakaatu i tō ngākau ki tō hoa rangatira, kei te kī atu koe ki a ia kei te whakawhirinaki koe ki a ia.
Nō reira, kōrero ki tō hoa mō ngā mea nunui me ngā mea iti, whakawhirinaki ki a ia, whakapau i aua mea mai i te ngākau ki te ngākau.
23. Whakamarie i a ia
Ko tētahi o ngā mahi aroha e hoki ai tōna aroha ki a koe, ko te whai whakaaro tonu ki ōna kare ā-roto, ki ōna hiahia, ki ōna mea e pai ana ki a ia, me ōna mea e kore e pai ki a ia. Ahakoa he mea iti noa iho pēnei i te whakaaro ki ana mea e pai ana ki a ia i te wā e tono ana i ngā tīkiti ki te kiriata, i te horomia rānei o tō riri, nā te mea ka kite koe kāore ia e hiahia ana ki te tautohetohe, ko te whakatakoto i ana mea e pai ana ki a ia te huarahi tino tika hei whakamanawa i tō hoa tāne kia arohaina ia.
24. Awhi i a ia, kāore he take
Ka taea e koe te mahi i ngā mahi aroha māna me te kore moni? Āe, ka taea e koe nā te mea kāore he utu o te awhi engari he tino pānga nui. Kaua e tatari mō ngā wā motuhake ki te awhi i tō hoa tāne, i tō hoa rangatira rānei. Engari, totoro atu te ringa ka awhi i a ia i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana koe ki te tata ki a ia, i ngā wā rānei e mahi ana ia i tētahi mea e ngohe ai tō ngākau.
Whakamutua ina whiti kōrua i te ara raro, ka awhi noa i a ia. Ina horoi rīhi rānei ia, ina pukumahi rānei ia ki te mahi. Tahaetia ngā wā o ia rā, ka waiho hei wā motuhake māu mā te atawhai.
25. Whakatapua he rā ki a ia
Kei te rapu koe i ngā mahi aroha nui hei whakanui i tō hoa rangatira? He aha e kore ai e whakatapua he rā katoa ki a ia? Whakahuatia te Rā o te Hoa Tāne i te Rātapu e whai ake nei, kia rite ia ki te kingi o te ao. Tīmata mā te whakarite parakuihi māna i te moenga, kātahi ka whakakī i te toenga o te rā ki āna mahi tino pai.
Whakakīia mā te kakahu i tō kākahu tino ātaahua, te tango i ngā kākahu mōna, me te whakaatu i te wā pai ki a ia i roto i te rūma moe. Ka taea hoki e koe te tāpiri i ētahi whakapaipai DIY hei whakapai ake i ngā mea. Koinei hoki tētahi o ngā tohu aroha pai mōna i te wā rāhui ina kore e taea te haere ki waho, ā, ko te hoha o te noho ki roto ka puta ai ngā mate urutā. te hoha i roto i te whanaungatanga.
Ko te whanaungatanga he manaaki me te whakapau kaha tonu ki ngā mea katoa e tohaina ana e kōrua. Ahakoa te āhua nei he iti noa ngā mahi aroha ki a ia, tera pea ka whai wāhi atu ki te whakapakari i tō kōrua whanaungatanga mō te wā roa kei te heke mai.
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