He tini ngā mahi auaha hei mahi i runga i te moenga, hei whakaoho ake i tō oranga moepuku. He tino whai hua tēnei tuhinga mō ngā tāne me ngā wāhine kua roa nei e hiahia ana ki te mahi i tētahi mea rerekē i runga i te moenga, engari kāore e mōhio me pēhea te mahi.
Kaua e whakama, engari me whakapuaki i ngā mea katoa ki tō hoa - mai i ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe ki ngā mea kāore e pai ana ki a koe. Ki te kore koe e whakamātau, e kōrero rānei, e kore e taea e koe te whakapai ake i tō oranga moepuku.
Mō te moepuku, me whakamahi i te mea pai rawa atu i tō tāne
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He mea whakakatakata te āhua o te mahi a ngā tāne i runga i te moenga, engari ko te nuinga o ngā wāhine kāore e kōrero mō ngā mea e tino pārekareka ai rātou, me ngā mea e pai ake ana rātou ki te mahi, ki te kore rānei e mahi, he mea rānei e kino ana ki a rātou i roto i te rūma moe.
Kia maumahara, ko te taatai pai he mea pono, he mea pono hoki, ā, ko te whanaungatanga pono he mea ngoikore. Kāore he mea e pai ake ai te kukume i te tāne i te noho tahi me te wahine pono, ngoikore hoki i tōna taha hei moe tahi māna.
Kei te hoatu e mātou he rārangi o ngā mea hei mahi māu i runga i te moenga hei whakaoho i te wairua! Nō reira, kakahuria ō whakaaro, kia haurangi!
13 Ngā Mea Hei Whakapai Ake I Tō Oranga Ira Tangata
Kei te pōhēhē koe me pēhea te whakahihiri i a kōrua ko tō hoa i runga i te moenga? Kia maumahara, kāore he here, ā, kāore he mea e kiia ana he 'pōrangi rawa'. Nō reira, anei ngā mea auaha 13 hei mahi i runga i te moenga, ka hoatu ki a koe he maha ngā pō e kore e warewaretia (me te kore moe)!
1. A faaite i to outou mau mana'o
Kōrerotia ō kare ā-roto ki te pono hei āwhina i a ia ki te tuku i tōna kaha ki a koe, kia uru atu ai ki tōna āhua ngoikore. Kāore he mea e ataahua ake ana i te whanaungatanga piripono me te whakatuwhera i tētahi wāhanga hou o koe ki tō hoa. Kia tino mōhio ia ki a koe, i roto, i waho hoki, ka rerekē tana mahi ki a koe me tō tinana. I roto i te huarahi pai.
2. Tukua koe kia wetekina
Kaua e wehi kei whakahengia koe mō tō āhua, mō tō tinana rānei (te āhua me te taumaha) me ō whanonga i runga i te moenga. Tukua koe kia wātea. Waiho ō āwangawanga katoa, ā, ako kia noho humarie ki tō tinana. Ki te kore e taea e koe te ako ki te aroha ki a koe anō i te tuatahi, kāore e taea e koe te tumanako ka arohaina koe e ētahi atu.
Nō reira, arohaina koe e koe anō, whakaitihia ō mataku ki te taumata e taea ana, ka tahuri ki te werawera. Ka mihi tō tinana ki a koe mō tēnā, me tō hoa hoki!
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3. Ārahi i a ia
Ārahihia ia ki ō rohe hiahia, ā, whakaaturia māramatia tō wairua o nāianei: kei te hiahia koe ki te moe marino, ki te moe whakamarie, ki te moe tere, ki te moe kararehe rānei? Kōrerohia. Kaua e whakaroa ki te mea e tino pai ai koe. Kōrero atu ki tō tāne me aro nui atu.
Ae, he maha ngā mahi auaha hei mahi i te moenga, engari ki te kore koe e pai ki tētahi mea, e pai ake rānei ki tētahi atu mea, he pai ake mēnā ka whakamōhio atu koe ki a ia kaua e whakaari noa. Mā wai e mōhio, tera pea kāore ia e pai ki tēnā, ā, kei te mahi noa ia mōu?
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4. Whakawhiti korero
Kāore koe e hiahia kia taka ngā mea ki te rohe "Kāore au i mōhio kei te hiahia koe ki tēnā". Kōrerohia ō mea katoa e pai ana ki a koe me ō mea e kore e pai ana ki a koe me te kore whakama. Kāore he mea kino atu i te pouri i te wā i mōhio ai koe kei te hiahia koe ki tētahi mea engari i tino whakama koe ki te tono atu.
Kāore he hua o ngā mea katoa i mahia e koe i te moenga hei whakarei ake i tō oranga moepuku mēnā kāore koe i te pai ki aua mea, ā, he kino rawa atu mēnā kāore rātou i te pai ki aua mea. Kōrerohia. Whakaarohia kia nui te reo.
5. Kia mōhio pai ki tō tinana
Tūhurahia tō tinana i a koe e noho mokemoke ana kia mōhio ai koe ki ngā mea e nui ake ai tō harikoa. Kaua e whakama ki te mirimiri kia kitea ai ngā mea e pai ana ki tō tinana. Ko te rautau 21 tēnei - te te whakama mō te mirimiri kua ngaro. I mua i te tūhura i ngā mea katoa hei mahi māu i te moenga me tō hoa, tūhuratia tō tinana i te tuatahi. Ā, kia tino mōhio koe ki tāu e pai ai.
6. Kia kōrero nui mō ō hiahia/moemoeā
He aha ngā mea e pai ana ki a koe, he aha ngā mea e whakaoho ana i a koe, he aha ngā mea e hiahia ana koe kia hiahia, te roa o te wā e hiahiatia ana e koe mō te takaro i mua i te moe, i muri i te takaro me te kōrero urunga. Ki te pai koe ki ngā kākahu, ki te pai rānei koe ki te haruru nui, me whakamōhio atu ki a rātou. Whakatūria rātou ki te kararehe kei runga koe i te moenga, kia pai ai hoki ki a rātou te wheako nui.
Me hoatu hoki he wā ki a rātou ki te kōrero. Tērā pea kāore ō kōrua hiahia e ōrite. Kōrerohia, kia whakatauhia ngā mea – me tūtaki ki waenganui. Nā te mea, ko te whanaungatanga he mea whakaae noa iho.
7. Kōrerotia ki a ia tāu e hiahia ana
Kaua e wehi kei whakakahoretia. Kaua e tumanako ka mārama ia ki tō wahangu, ā, ka whakatutuki i ō hiahia ā-ira. Ki te hiahia koe ki te whakamātau i ētahi mahi auaha i te moenga, tūhuratia ngātahi. Kāore e taea e kōrua anake te noho ki aua mea, me te tumanako ka puta he mea whakahihiri i roto i tō kōrua oranga ā-ira.
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8. Aroha ki a koe ano
Arohaina koe i ia wā, i ia wā: mirimiri, pā atu, whāwhā i a koe anō, tākaro ki a koe anō i a koe e noho mokemoke ana. Tū atu ki mua i te whakaata, miharo ki a koe anō, tūhuratia. Whakamātauria tō ake tinana i mua i te tūhuratanga me tō hoa.
Ki te kore koe e tino pai ki tētahi mea mōu ake, hurihia. Whakamātauria he momo makawe hou, he kākahu hou rānei, me huri pea tō tikanga whakapaipai. Me mahi te mea e pai ai, e marino ai hoki tō hinengaro.
9. Kia mārama te wāhi e pai ana ki a koe
Tūhurahia ō rohe whakahihiko, ā, akohia ō wāhanga tino tairongo o te tinana. Tērā pea ko ō matimati, ko te tuara o ō turi, ko tō kaki rānei!
Kimihia tō wāhi G me te kiore tino nui. Mena he wāhi tairongo kē atu kei a koe e pai ana kia takarohia, me kōrero atu ki a ia. Tērā pea he pai ake ki a ia tēnā i a koe.
10. Te rangahau
Pānuihia. Google. Kōrero ki tō tākuta wahine, ki ō hoa tata rānei. Kāore he mea e whakama ai koe i mua i ō hoa wahine. Whakaaturia ki a rātou ngā mea katoa e mahia ana e rātou hei mahi whakarihariha, ā, tangohia ētahi tohutohu hei whakapai ake i tō oranga moepuku i te wā e taea ai!
11. Kia kaha te mahi i runga i te moenga
Kōrero, whakaari, whakautu i runga i te moenga. Kaua e noho hei kaiwhiwhi mangere, engari hei hoa hohe. Whakahokia te harikoa e homai ana e ia ki a koe. Kāore he mea e whakanui ake ana i te whakapehapeha o te tāne i te whakamana. Kia reo nui ina mahi ia i tetahi mea e tino pai ana ki a koe.
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12. Pātai atu ki a ia
He aha tāna e pai ai, he aha tāna e hiahia ai, he aha tāna e whakahihiri ai, ā, hoatu noa ki a ia. He nui āna mahi māu, ko te huarahi pai hei utu māu ko te hoatu i tētahi pō harikoa ki a ia. Whai i tana whakahau, ā, hoatu ki a ia te mea i hiahiatia e ia.
13. Me mea kia hiahiatia ia
Kia ātaahua te āhua i ia haerenga ki te moenga, ā, kati te whakaaro he mea noa te moe. Kua hoha pea ia ki te kite i a koe e mau ana i ngā kākahu moe i te rā katoa, ā, e hiahia ana kia whakapau kaha koe. Whakaaturia ō āhua piko me te whakaatu i tō tinana, kāore he tangata e pai ake ana ki te kite i a kōrua e moe ana i te moe i tō hoa.
Kua whakamātauria e koe tētahi o ēnei mahi auaha i runga i te moenga i mua? Ko te tumanako i āwhina tēnei tuhinga i a koe ki te kimi i tētahi huarahi hei whakarei ake i tō oranga moepuku me tō hoa. Whakarongo ki ā mātou tohutohu, kia kaha, e te tuahine! He poto rawa te ora hei moepuku kino.
FAQs
Tūhurahia tō tinana, kia kōrero hoki mō ngā mea katoa e pai ana ki a koe. Pātai atu ki a ia, kia whakatau ai koe i ngā mea hou katoa e hiahia ana kōrua ki te mahi i runga i te moenga, kātahi ka tīmata tahi tā kōrua rangahau.
Mā te māia. Ki te kore koe e aroha ki tāu e kite nei i roto i te whakaata, kāore he tangata e aroha ki a koe.
He pai ki ngā tāne katoa te kōtiro e kōrero pai ana, e whakamōhio ana i a rātou mēnā kei te pai, kei te kore rānei e pai. Nō reira, kia mōhio koe ki tāu e pai ai, ā, kōrero atu ki a rātou ina takoto kōrua i te moenga.
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He tuhinga tino pai te tuhituhi. I whakatenatena ahau i taku hoa ki te mahi i ēnei mea katoa, ā, ka tīmata māua ki te mahi i te tau kua hipa. He tino pai ia ki te moenga i mua, ā, i nāianei, engari ka whakatuwhera i tō māua whanaungatanga. He nui ake tō māua aroha tetahi ki tetahi i nāianei. He nui ngā whakaaro mō te iwi i nāianei.
Ngā mihi nui ki a koe e Saurabh. He rawe te mōhio he āwhina te tuhinga. Ngā mihi nui kei mua i a koe 🙂
Ahakoa he pai pea te oranga ā-ira tangata, ae, tera tonu ētahi mea kāore tātou e kōrerotia ana, e kore rānei e kitea.
Ngā mihi nui mō te mahi toi. Me tiaki e tātou ēnei mea!
Nau mai, e Neha. Āe, kāore he mea e tika ana kia warewarehia i roto i te ao, tae atu ki te taatai :)
Ki ahau nei, me māmā ake kia mārama ai ngā wāhine Inia ki tā ngā tāne e hiahia ana mā rātou i te wā moe.
He tuhinga whai hua, he tika hoki, ā, ka āwhina i te tini o ngā tāne me ngā wāhine.
He tapu te moepuku i Īnia, heoi, e tūhuratia ana, e mōhiotia ana hoki e te tini o ngā wāhine, kāore anō kia whakapuakina.
Mauruuru koe mo te tuhinga
He mihi ki te panui 🙂
Abeer - i mārama ahau ki tō hokinga roa - i waea atu ahau ki a koe i ētahi wā i tērā tau - engari kāore he whakautu - kia ora koe!
Ngā mihi Arvind - nāu i whakaharikoa tōku rā :)
Harikoa ahau mō te tuhinga, kua mārama kē ahau he aha ahau i uru ai ki tō oranga. Mō tētahi wā, mō tētahi take rānei!
Ko te tika te pūtake o tō momo tuhituhi… he tika e kore e hē.