Me pēhea te whakatau i te hungawai wahine uaua?

I ahau e kore e marena, e inu ana i te reka o te taitamarikitanga, he tangata hihiko ahau, kāore e taea te aukati. Ka taea e au te kai i taku e pai ai, te noho noa i roto i aku Daisy Dukes, me te moe i ngā wā katoa e hiahia ana ahau. He oranga tino pai. Kātahi, i tētahi rā, ka marena ahau, ā, ka rerekē ngā mea katoa. Ko te noho tahi me tētahi hungawai wahine uaua i roto i tētahi whare hou ko taku oranga katoa.

5 Ngā Huarahi Hei Whakatau i tētahi Wāhine Hungawai Uaua

Nō Satara ahau, he tāone iti i Maharashtra, he hapori hoki e āraia ana ngā marena aroha. Nō reira, kāore au i te whakaipoipo i tētahi tāne. Ko te haere tahi me tētahi tāne, ko te whakaipoipo ipurangi rānei , he mea moemoeā noa iho ahau.

Ko aku hoa kua moe i te kāinga i ngā raumati, i kawea mai e rātou he maha ngā amuamu mō te kino o te mahi a te whaea o tā rātou tāne ki a rātou. Ko ā rātou kōrero anake mō te āhua o tā rātou whakatau i ngā whānau uaua me ngā raruraru katoa e puta mai ana i tēnei whanaungatanga raruraru. I whakaaro tētahi o aku hoa ki te whakarere, nā te mea he tino piri te whanaungatanga o tana tāne ki tōna whaea.

"He take anō tēnā?" I kata ahau ki a ia, kāore i taea te mārama ki te kaha o tōna pouri. Ahakoa e whakaae ana ahau kua puta mai i te whanaungatanga MIL-DIL he raupapa raupapa e hopu ana i te TRP, kāore au i whakaaro ka tino tutuki wawe tēnei mōku. Ko taku tāne te tangata tino reka kua mōhiotia e au, engari i muri i ngā marama e rua o taku marena, i kite mārama ahau he taura pito mariko kei waenganui i a ia me tōna whaea.

I mate te pāpā o taku tāne i a ia e ako ana i te kāreti, ā, ko ia te pōtiki, he tino piripono ki tōna whaea. Ahakoa i mārama ahau ki tōna aroha me tōna whakaute ki tōna whaea, i whaiwhai ahau i tōna atarangi e iri ana i runga i a mātou i roto i ngā mea katoa i mahia e mātou. Ko ia tōna whaea, ā, i hiahia ahau ki te whakaute i tēnā engari i pēhea rā ka noho ko taku mahi wā-katoa te aro atu ki tētahi hungawai wahine uaua, ā, kāore ahau i rite.

Pānui e pā ana: E waru ngā wā i kino atu ai ngā hungawai wahine o te kiriata i tō whaea tūturu

I roto i ia rihi he matihao tōna

Kāore au i whakaaro mai i te rā tuatahi o taku marena ka tūtaki ahau ki tētahi hungawai wahine uaua. I āta tirohia e ia taku tunu kai i ia ata, i ia ata, me te tuku mai i ana tohutohu kore utu me aku kai, ā, ka pakaru katoa te rihi.

Ā, i te haerenga mai o taku tāne ki te hanga i tana inu pūmua, ka tahuri ia ki te totohu ki te horoi i ngā rihi. "E Māmā, kua nui āu mahi. He aha koe te okioki ai? Mā Samaira te kīhini e tiaki," tana kī, me te pupuri i ōna pakihiwi. Kātahi ka neke rāua ki te rūma noho ka mātaki i a Taarak Mehta Ka Ooltah Chashmah , i tētahi atu whakaaturanga pouaka whakaata ngoikore rānei.

I tētahi ara, i harikoa ahau i te waiho mokemoke. Engari i ētahi wā ka hiahia ahau kia noho taku tāne ki te kaute parakuihi ki te kōrero ki ahau, kia kihi rānei i te piko o taku kaki i a au e pokepoke ana i te paraoa. Kāore au i mōhio ka tino hoha te oranga i muri i te marena .

I rite ahau ki tētahi tangata tauhou rawa atu i te taha o tōku hungawai wahine, nāna nei i kī mai i ētahi wā, "E Piyush, mā wai koe e tiaki ina ngaro ahau, e taku e aroha nei? Mā wai koe e whāngai ki ngā kachoris me ngā rasmalai reka ?" ā, i tino hiahia ahau ki te whakahoki atu. "Kei te kaha te ngana a tō Piyush aroha ki te pupuri i a ia anō kia ora, kia ngaro ai ō taumaha. Waihoki, ka hangaia e tāna wahine he huamata heihei tunutunu me ngā kai hua me ngā nati he tino hauora ake," ka hameme ahau i roto i tōku manawa.

Ahakoa te wāhi e haere ai koe, ka aru ahau i a koe

Haunga tā māua haerenga honi, kāore au i te maumahara ki tētahi wāhi kāore taku hungawai taniwha, āe, te hungawai wahine i haere tahi māua. I haere tahi māua ki te hūperamākete me te whare pikitia, ki ngā papa tākaro mōrearea (nāna aku taonga i tiaki i reira, nō reira kāore au e amuamu) me ngā pikiniki, nā te mea ki te kore, ka noho ia ki waho. Ā, i te korenga o ia e whakaurua e mātou, ka whakaari ia kei te pāngia ia e te mate.

I ngā rā e tomuri ana ahau i te kura, ka waea atu ia ki a Piyush (he tangata waea mai i mua, ā, ka riri noa iho) me ōku mātua i tawhiti atu i Mumbai. Pātai atu ki a ia he aha ia i pērā ai, ā, ka mea ia, "I tino manukanuka ahau, e hine," me te reo aroha, i whakamahara mai ki ahau i te wuruhi kino nui o Red Riding Hood. E ngā wāhine, he rite tonu te uaua o ō koutou hungawai wahine?

Kāore au i hiahia kia uru ki tētahi tapatoru aroha

Ehara ahau i te tangata e whai ana i te wairua whakataetae, ā, e hiahia ana ahau kia kaua tēnei e rite ki tētahi momo tapatoru aroha. I tino mārama ahau ki te āhua rangatira o taku hoa rangatira (he tuakana anō tōku, engari he whaea anō tōku e atawhai ana i tana wahine) mō taku tāne, ā, kāore au i hiahia kia rite ki a ia i tētahi ara. Ko taku i hiahia ai he wāhi hei manawa mā mātou hei whānau.

Kāore ngā wāhine pēnei i tōku hungawai wahine e aro ki te mātauranga o tā rātou hunaonga. Kāore ia e maioha ki te tohu 'Kaiako Pai' i riro mai i ahau ki te kāinga, engari ka tawai mai ia ki ahau mō te miraka i koropupū ake, mō te harore rānei e tupu ana i runga i ngā huawhenua i waiho e ahau mō te wā roa ki roto i te pouaka whakamātao. Ina noho koe i roto i te whānau, he maha ngā huarahi hei whakaatu i tō aroha ki tētahi tangata me ā rātou whakatutukitanga.

Ka whakahawea ia ki aku pūkenga tunu kai, ā, he maha ngā wā ka meinga ahau kia rite ki te wairangi koretake, ko ia anō hoki te hapa nui rawa atu a tana tama. Nā te mea kua uaua taku mahi tahi me ōku hungawai.

Engari i mea taku tāne kua mārama ia

Engari, he waimarie, ko te mea anake i pupuri i taku marena ko te tama kotahi kāore i meinga ahau kia whakaaro he hapa ahau. I tautoko ia i ahau i a māua e tata ana ki te whakarere. "Kāore au i te mōhio kei te mahi ia i tēnei mea me te āta whakaaro?" tana kī mai ki ahau i muri i te haora o te moepuku.

"Kaua e huri i ō kanohi ina whakapataritari ia i a koe. Kei te ngana noa ia ki te pupuri i tana mana," tāna tāpiri. Tērā pea i mōhio puku ia ki te uaua o te pupuri i ahau kei whiua he pereti ki a ia, kei raka rānei i a ia ki roto i te wharepaku. I tino pōrangi ahau. Ehara i te mea kata te whakahaere i tētahi hungawai wahine uaua, e ngā wāhine.

Kāore i roa ka huri ngā mea; i tēnei wā, kua tino hoha ahau, ā, ka tākai ahau i aku peke ka eke ki te pahi i tētahi rā, me te whakatau kia hoki ki te noho ki te taha o ōku mātua. I te rā i muri mai, ka eke a Piyush ki tētahi atu pahi, ka kōrero ki tōku pāpā, ka whakamana i ōku mātua kāore tēnei e tupu anō.

"Kua kōrero ahau ki tōku whaea, ā, kua whakatau ahau ki te neke atu, ki te wāhi kotahi anō. Ko tāku e tumanako nei ka homai he wāhi rangimārie ki a mātou. Ko Samaira tōku ao; ā, e kore ahau e tuku i tētahi kia whakangaro i tēnā," tana kupu whakaari.

“A Samaira me tā māua pēpi,” ka kukume ahau i tōna ringa ka okioki ki runga i tōku puku.

(E ai ki te kōrero ki a Priya Chaphekar)

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