Malingaliro 10 apamwamba a Mphatso Pa Chilichonse mwa Zinenero 5 Zachikondi

Dikirani kaye! Tsopano tiyenera kumva mawu akuti 'wina' wapamwamba pa intaneti? Inde, inde, koma ndikuganiza kuti mudzakumba lingaliro la chilankhulo chachikondi mukangodziwa tanthauzo lake. Ichi ndi chilankhulo cholankhulidwa ndi mzimu uliwonse padziko lapansi. M’mawu osavuta kumva, amatanthauza njira yapadera imene munthu amasonyezera chikondi. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kusankha mphatso zoyenera za chilankhulo chachikondi kwa mnzanu kumatha kukhala koyenera.

Tikupeza mizu ya lingaliro ili m'buku la 1992 lakuti The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts lolembedwa ndi wolemba, wokamba nkhani, komanso mlangizi Gary Chapman. Wolembayo akufotokoza njira zisanu zofunika kwambiri zomwe anthu nthawi zambiri amasonyezera ndi kusonyeza momwe amamvera chikondi, zomwe ndi - mawu otsimikizira, nthawi yabwino, zochita zotumikira, kulandira mphatso, ndi kukhudza thupi.

Chifukwa chake, mukangodziwa njira ya mnzanu yosonyezera chikondi, ntchito yanu yopeza mphatso za chinenero chachikondi yatha. Ndi kwenikweni ngati mayeso mmene mungawerenge bwino maganizo a mnzanu (kapena kuwafunsa mwachindunji!) ndi kumasulira chikondi chinenero mu mtundu wa mphatso iwo moona mtima. Ngati mukufunabe kuthandizidwa pang'ono polumikiza zilankhulo zachikondi ndi malingaliro abwino amphatso, tili pano kuti tikupulumutseni.

Mphatso Zolingalira Pa Chinenero Chilichonse Chachikondi

Lingaliro la zilankhulo zisanu za chikondi za Chapman linali kuthandiza anthu kulumikizana ndi okondedwa awo mozama . Ndipo ndicho chomwe chidzachitike mukagwiritsa ntchito lingaliro la chilankhulo cha chikondi posintha mphatso za munthu wanu wapadera. Ndikhulupirireni, sizovuta kuvomereza mukamaliza kupanga momwe amasonyezera ndikulandira chikondi.

Ngati mnzanu walumpha zolinga zina zocheza nanu tsiku (nthawi yabwino), kukonzekera picnic ndi iwo kungakhale lingaliro losangalatsa mwa mphatso zonse 5 za zilankhulo zachikondi. Monga choncho, ngati wokondedwa wanu sangayiwala kukukumbutsani momwe amakukonderani (mawu otsimikizira), buku la '100 zinthu zomwe ndimakukondani' lidzawapangitsa kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri. 

Tili pano lero kuti tidzakuyendetseni mumphatso zathu 10 zapamwamba za chilankhulo chachikondi chogwirizana bwino ndi chilankhulo chanu chachikondi cha SO. 

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1. Mphatso za 'nthawi yabwino' chilankhulo chachikondi: Chakudya chamadzulo chachikondi 

Ndimawakonda kwambiri anthu amenewo (ndipo ndimawachitira nsanje pang'ono) omwe amachita chilichonse kuti agwirizane ndi nthawi yawo yamtengo wapatali ndi okondedwa awo muzochitika zawo zotanganidwa. Amatha kusunga bwino ntchito zawo muofesi ndikusonkhanitsa chidwi chawo chonse kuti munthu mmodziyo amve kuti ndi wapadera kwambiri. Ngati inunso muli ndi mnzanu wotere m'moyo wanu, mutha kuwabwezera chikondi chawo ndi mphatso zabwino nthawi ndi nthawi. Lero, tengani chakudya chokoma ichi ndikupanga madzulo achikondi ndi SO wanu.

• Setiyi imaphatikizapo mbale, zitoliro za shampagne, ndowa ya ayezi, zoyikapo nyali, chopukutira cha satin, ndi zina zambiri.
• Imabwera ndi makandulo 24 a soya ndi thumba la maluwa a silika
• Wopangidwa ndi galasi lapamwamba kwambiri, porcelain, ndi chitsulo chosapanga dzimbiri
• Simaphatikizapo pulasitiki kapena chinthu chogwiritsidwa ntchito kamodzi

2. Zida za Spa ndi mphatso zodabwitsa za chilankhulo chachikondi

Tanthauzo la nthawi yabwino limasiyana malinga ndi munthu ndi munthu. Likhoza kukhala lovuta monga ulendo wachikondi wopita ku Vermont kumapeto kwa sabata kapena chinthu chosavuta monga kuphika keke limodzi. Anzanga, Alice ndi Dave, ali ngati banja lomwe limakhala kunyumba nthawi zonse limafuna malingaliro ausiku wokhala kunyumba . Pamene akufufuza mphatso za 'nthawi yabwino' yachikondi, Dave adapeza bafa lapamwamba komanso dengu la mphatso zomwe zidawapangitsa kukhala ndi spa madzulo ambiri m'nyumba zawo.

• Seti yamphatso yokhala ndi zidutswa 18 ili ndi geli yosambira, bafa losambira, choyatsira, mafuta a jojoba, ndi zina zambiri.
• Wodzazidwa ndi kununkhira kopumula komanso phindu la mafuta a lavender
• Amabwera mumtanga wolukidwanso wogwiritsidwanso ntchito 
• 100% sulfate wachilengedwe komanso zinthu zopanda paraben zopanda masamba 

3. Lembani “Buku Lonena za Ife” la mphatso za 'mawu a chitsimikiziro' 

Kodi wokondedwa wanu amagwiritsa ntchito mawu otsimikizira ngati chilankhulo cha chikondi ? Amapitiliza kukutumizirani mauthenga achikondi tsiku lonse. Kusiya kuyimba popanda kunena kuti “Ndimakukonda” - mwano! Ndiye, kwa munthu wokondedwa ngati iwo, ndi mawu ati a mphatso zotsimikizira omwe mungapeze omwe angasungunule mitima yawo m'chilankhulo chawo chachikondi? Mungalembe buku lonse lonena za nkhani yanu yosangalatsa yachikondi! Zikumveka ngati dongosolo?

• Magazini yolimba, yamasamba 64 
• Zopangidwa mwaluso ndipo masamba ali ndi zithunzi
• Ili ndi zambiri zapadera komanso zosewerera kuti mulembe za inu ndi chikondi chanu
• Yolembedwa ndi wolemba MH Clark  

4. Mphatso ngati chinenero chachikondi: T-shirts kwa maanja

Kupeza mphatso ngati chilankhulo cha chikondi sikuyenera kukhala kovuta kwambiri. Kodi mukufuna kulankhula momveka bwino za momwe mukumvera kwa mnzanu? Kenako pitani nawo ku karaoke night ndikuwapatsa nyimbo yachikondi. Alembeni kalata yokongola yachikondi yofotokoza zakukhosi kwanu konse. Pitani ku ofesi yawo kuti mungonena kuti “Ndimakukondani”. Kapena mutha kutenga malaya a maanja ofanana awa ngati mawu a mphatso zotsimikizira zomwe zidzakhala pafupi nawo kwamuyaya.

• T-shirts zowoneka bwino mumapangidwe okongola
• Amapezeka mumitundu yambiri yamitundu ndi khosi
• Zopangidwa ndi zinthu zabwino 
• Zimakhala zofewa kwambiri pakhungu 

5. 'Machitidwe a Utumiki' Mphatso za chinenero chachikondi: Opanga masangweji

Ntchito yotumikira ndi mtundu wa chilankhulo chachikondi komwe zochita za munthu zimalankhula bwino kuposa mawu awo oyamikira kapena otonthoza kwa inu. Angakuthandizeni nthawi zonse kutsuka mbale, kukuthandizani ndi thumba la zakudya, kapena kukupatsani kapu yotentha ya koko mukakhumudwa. Bwanji musonyeze mnzanu chikondi m'chilankhulo chomwe amachimva? Mwa mphatso zonse zisanu za zilankhulo zachikondi, mutha kusankha wopanga masangweji uyu kuti akonzere wokondedwa wanu zakudya zokoma za m'mawa.

• Magawo awiri pamwamba ndi pansi ndi thireyi ya dzira pakati 
• Mukaphika, muyenera kuchotsa thireyi ya dzira kuti mupeze sangweji yomalizidwa
• Ziwalo zonse zitha kutsukidwa padera mu chotsuka mbale 
• Matayala amapukutidwa ndi zokutira zopanda ndodo

6. Kondani makuponi kuti mupatse wokondedwa wanu 'ntchito' yokongola

Mwina sitiyamikira zonse zomwe anzathu amachita muubwenzi, koma akuyenera kudziwa kuti amayamikiridwa bwanji. Ndikudziwa msungwana uyu, Sarah, yemwe amakhala kutsidya lina la msewu, wokongola ngati batani, amasamalira chibwenzi chake nthawi zonse. Nayenso Daniel sanasiye mwayi umodzi woti adzimve ngati mfumukazi. Chotero, sabata yatha, pamene anandipempha kuti ndimuuze za mphatso zina monga chinenero chachikondi, makuponi achikondi ameneŵa anandikumbukira. Kuyambira kutikita minofu mpaka chakudya cham'mawa pabedi, kumakupatsani mwayi wochitira zabwino kwa bae wanu. 

• Gulu la makuponi 15 apadera achikondi a maanja
• Kapangidwe kokongola komanso kophatikizika mu kukula (3.5 mu x 8 mkati)
• Ubwino wapamwamba, makhadi osatsekedwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito
• 100% kapangidwe koyambirira kopangidwa ndi owonetsa m'nyumba zamtunduwu

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7. Tayani bulangeti kuti mugone madzulo 

Ubwenzi wapamtima si nthawi zonse umachokera ku chikondi chokondana, ndikuganiza kuti mungavomereze zimenezo. Kukhudzana kofatsa, kosakhala kogonana ndikofunikira kwambiri pakukulitsa chikondi chapakati pa okondedwa awiri. Kukumbatirana mofewa kapena kukhudza pang'ono pa tsaya kungakupatseni mphamvu ya mahomoni achikondi kuti mukhale osangalala, okhutira, komanso omasuka. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kulandira mphatso zokhudzira chilankhulo cha chikondi kungathandize kwambiri kulimbitsa ubale wanu. Bwanji osayang'ana bulangeti lofewa kwambiri ili la magawo anu onse okumbatirana pa sofa?

• Amapangidwa kuchokera ku 100% microfiber polyester flannel nsalu 
• Osati olemetsa kwambiri kuti angakutulutseni thukuta kapena opepuka kwambiri kuti musatuluke
• Kufewa kwa nkhope ziwiri ndi velvety mbali zonse
• Zazikulu zokwanira (50 mu x 70 mkati) kuti zikukulungani bwino 

8. Zida zapaulendo ngati mphatso za chilankhulo chachikondi cha 'physical touch'

Komabe, ngati mukupita paulendo wa banja lachilendo kumapeto kwa sabata ndipo mukuyembekeza kuti zinthu zisintha pang'ono, mungafunike china chake choyenera mwambowu. Tapeza mphatso imodzi yodabwitsa kwambiri yolankhula zachikondi ndipo ndikhulupirireni, mudzatithokoza mtsogolo chifukwa cha izi. Popanda kuchedwa, tiyeni tiyambe ndi seti iyi ya mphatso zachikondi za Kamasutra, zopangidwa mwapadera m'matumba okwana maulendo.

• Chidacho chimaphatikizapo mafuta otsekemera, kirimu, ufa, komanso fumbi la uchi
• Imabwera ndi kandulo yowunikira tiyi, mafuta odzola, komanso chowumitsa nthenga  
• Zoyikidwa mu thumba la zipper, la keepsake
• Zimakwanira bwino m'chikwama chanu chonyamula 

9. Pezani zipsera nyimbo akiliriki monga chikondi chinenero mphatso

Pankhani yolandira mphatso chilankhulo chachikondi, tikupangira kuti muzisintha makonda anu kuti zikhale zapadera kwambiri kwa wokondedwa wanu. Banja lirilonse liri ndi nyimbo imodzi yomwe ili pafupi kwambiri ndi mtima wawo. Imafotokoza nkhani yawo ndi kuwakumbutsa nthawi yomwe adayamba kukondana. Tengani nyimboyo ndikuisintha makonda pa acrylic print yokhala ndi chithunzi chodula kwambiri cha nonse awiri. Uzamgwira mnzako misozi ndithu.

• Amapereka ma acrylic abwino kwambiri omwe amapezeka pamsika
• Sinthani mwamakonda anu ndi nyimbo yomwe mumakonda komanso chithunzi
• Makina osindikizira apamwamba a UV amagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti kusindikiza kukhale kokhazikika
• Zimapezekanso muzinthu zina, monga matabwa ndi magalasi

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10. Kukumbatirani kandulo munthu amene ali ndi chinenero chachikondi cha 'kupatsa mphatso'

Ngati chilankhulo cha chikondi cha mnzanu chikufanana ndi kupereka kapena kulandira mphatso zamtengo wapatali, tili ndi chisankho choyenera kwa inu. Tumizani chikondi chanu kukumbatirana kwakukulu ndi kandulo yokongola iyi ndikudzaza nyumba yawo ndi fungo losangalatsa la lavenda. Ngati mukuyesera kuti ubale wanu ndi anthu akutali ugwire ntchito , mphatso yachikondi iyi idzakhudza mitima yawo ndikukupangitsani kukusowani kwambiri!

• Zopangidwa ndi sera yoyera ya soya yogwirizana ndi chilengedwe
• Chingwe chopanda lead kuti chitsimikizire kutenthedwa kosalekeza, kopanda mwaye kwa maola 50
• Fungo lokongola lochokera mumsanganizo wamafuta achilengedwe a lavenda ndi bulugamu
• Amakhala ndi machiritso ochepetsa nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa, komanso kugona bwino

Ndiko komwe mukupita - chitsogozo chokwanira chogulira mphatso za chinenero cha chikondi kuti mupindule mtima wa bae wanu kachiwiri. Kaya amalimbikitsidwa ndi mawu otsimikizira kapena ali ndi chilankhulo chachikondi cha 'kulandira mphatso', mudzakhala ndi zosankha zambiri zoti musankhe pamndandanda wathu wa mphatso 5 za zilankhulo zachikondi. Chop chop! Yakwana nthawi yosunga mphatso izi pangolo yanu. 

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