Sinthawi zonse bizinesi yayikulu
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Osati kukamba zonse koma amuna amakonda mukamawaseka. Sizokhudza mbali yamasewera ake koma ndi ludzu lawo la chidwi. Amakonda kuchita zinthu zomwe amazidziwa (werengani: psychology yaumunthu). Kufikira anthu m'maganizo kumakhala koyenera malinga ngati mutha kulumikizana ndi munthu winayo molumikizana kwambiri. Mwamunayo nthawi zonse amayang'ana zodabwitsa zazing'ono, zazing'ono, koma zochititsa chidwi kuti adziwe zambiri. Kukhala wonyozeka kumatha kulowetsa mu mtima mwa munthu koma si njira yokhayo. Mwamuna amakonda kukhala wocheperako ndipo ngati sali, ndiye kuti sakhala womasuka kuti atulutse chibwana chake. Inde, tonse ndife ana mu mtima pambuyo pa zonse. Ndipo mukukumbukira momwe tinkasewera nthawi zonse ngati ana, koma sitinathenso pamene tinali kukula? Apa ndi pomwe mumayamba kusewera, ndipo kwa inu mwayi wopanga zinthu ndi wopanda malire.
Koma mungakhale bwanji woseketsa?
Anthu amakonda kugwirizanitsa "kuseka" ndi chinthu chogonana kwambiri. Ngakhale izi siziri zabodza, kuseka pabedi kungakhale kosiyana pang'ono ndi kuseketsa pamlingo wamalingaliro, zonse zimakhala zofunikira kwambiri pazotsatira.
Mumakopana mochenjera ndikupangitsa kuti ikhale yopindulitsa
Kukopana ndikwabwino ngati kufalitsa mapeyala pa tositi.
Zimangotengera luso lanu komanso nthawi yoyenera kuti muyambe kukopana. Phunzirani za zinthu zomwe amakonda, pangani nthabwala zosawoneka bwino za izo kwinaku mukujambula kufanana pakati pa iye ndi zinthuzo. Nthawi zambiri mumangomutsimikizira kangapo, koma kutsimikizira mwamuna kumakhala kothandiza ngati kumutumizira mbale yodzaza ndi nyama, pokhapokha ngati ali wamasamba, inde. Mpangitseninso kuti izi zimupindulitse ndi kudziletsa pang'ono, chifukwa zikakhala zophweka, adzazolowera. Pitirizani kusintha ndondomeko nthawi ndi nthawi ndipo mudzachita bwino.
Ovomereza Tip: Musaganize ngati ntchito, mukhoza kutha kupanga kwambiri zoipa puns zoipa.
Khalani osasamala kwambiri za izo, koma osati mwachisawawa kwambiri
Anyamata amakhala ndi nthabwala zodabwitsa akakhala pafupi ndi gulu lawo la "anyamata".
Nthabwala ndi kusewera zidzakuthandizani kulankhula naye momasuka, koma simukufuna kwenikweni. Kukhala womasuka kumatanthauza kuti mukugwa m'nkhani zam'mbali za zinthu. Koma mutha kumupangitsa kuti ayankhe kwambiri ndi zitsimikizo zosalunjika kuchokera kwa inu. Ngati mumamutsimikizira mokwanira, amatsegula, koma nthawi yomwe atsegula, khalani okayikira kwambiri pazomwe amalankhula. Akhoza ngakhale kulankhula za masewera a pakompyuta kapena filimu imene anaona masabata angapo mmbuyomo, kungogwedeza mutu ndi kuyamikira mwachisawawa, koma osachita chidwi kwambiri, chifukwa izo zingasonyeze kuti inu moona mtima mukufuna kudziwa za zinthu zimenezi iye anali kunena. Yendani mosamala panthawiyi ndikupangitsa kuti adzimve kukhala wosatetezeka pazomwe akufuna kunena. Nthawi yomweyo, yesani kumuyamikira ndiyeno nkukumbatirani.
Ma spikes a Passion ndi kuthekera kwanu kusunga izi
Kukhudzika kumapangitsa kuti zinthu ziwonekere, koma zimapanga ubale wapadera.
Mungathe kukhalabe ndi chilakolako ngati mukukonzekera ubale wanu. Chilakolako nthawi zambiri chimachokera kumalo osadziwika bwino omwe amafunikira kusamalidwa ndi inu. Inu simungakhale wonyong'onyeka kuti mnyamata wanu ayambe kuzolowera izo. Lingaliro apa ndikupangitsa kuti zikhale zosavomerezeka kwambiri kuti asayembekezere chilichonse. Akamaganizira kwambiri za ulendo wanu wotsatira, m’pamenenso amasangalala kwambiri za inuyo. Kuseweretsa kumeneku kudzakuthandizani kuti chikhumbo chanu chikhale chokwera, koma osasewera ndi polarities, chifukwa izi zitha kuyambitsa kusatetezeka pakati pa inu ndi mwamuna wanu. Mudzawona momwe adakhalira wokondana ndi nthawi. Ndipamene mudzazindikira kupambana kwanu pakupambana mtima wa munthuyo.
Samalani koma osataya
Kuseka sikutanthauza kuti muli ndi mphamvu paubwenzi, ndiye kuti mukufuna kuti ubale wanu ukule kukhala chinthu chachikulu kuposa nonse. Koma ngati izi zitakhala poizoni, siyani. Ingodziwani ndipo palibe chofunika kwambiri kuposa kudzidziwa nokha nthawi yonseyi.
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Chimodzi mwa mfundo zambiri zoti ukwati wanga ndi chifukwa chochitira kaduka ambiri a anzanga ndi achibale. Ndikhulupirireni kuti imachita mbali zake kuti ubale ukhale wamoyo. Ndimamuseka chifukwa ndimamukonda. Amadziwa, amasangalala komanso amabwezeranso. 😉