Pofika mphindi yachisanu, ndinali nditasiya kale chidwi. Pamene chipinda chonsecho chinkawoneka mozama mu kusinkhasinkha, ndinali kudabwa, kodi ndikusinkhasinkha kapena kugona? Ndinatsegula maso kuti ndione zomwe aliyense akuchita. Mwachangu ndinatseka diso loyenda ndikumva kuti mphunzitsi akuyandikira.
“Sungani maganizo anu,” iye anagwetsa misozi ndi kamvekedwe kake kakutithandiza kusinkhasinkha. Liwu langa lamkati linandiyeza, “Ndikukhulupirira kuti telalayo agwira ntchito bwino ndi diresi langa.
"Ganizirani za thambo lakuya labuluu; Tangoganizani mukugona pansi pa udzu wobiriwira wobiriwira ndikukhala chete kwa anzanu." Maganizo anga ankapita kutchuthi changa chomwe chinali choti ndikonzekere. "Chabwino, ndikukhulupirira kuti sikunachedwe kusungitsa tchuthi."
Lolani kuti maganizo anu aziyenda bwino. Seka ngati mukufuna. Lirani ngati mukufuna. Ndinatsala pang'ono kuseka poganizira zachinsinsi chathu cha dzulo madzulo. Pamene mlangizi ankangokhalira kunena mawu otonthoza, ndinayamba kulota bedi langa ndili kunyumba ndipo ndinkadabwa kuti n’chifukwa chiyani ndimagona tulo posinkhasinkha.
Kusinkhasinkha Kumandigoneka!!!
M'ndandanda wazopezekamo
Mukakhala m'kalasi yosinkhasinkha, mumayenera kudzitsina ndikudzifunsa kuti, "Dikirani, ndikusinkhasinkha kapena ndikugona?" Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti simukuchita luso la kusinkhasinkha moyenera. Kugona pamene mukusinkhasinkha kumasonyeza kuti mukulola maganizo anu kusokera, ndipo mukuyamba kulota uli maso. Kusokonezedwa ndi zidziwitso zosatha, mafoni, ndi maimelo, zikutanthauza kuti mukusiya kukhudzana ndi mbali yanu yauzimu pang'onopang'ono.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Kukambirana nthawi zonse ndikofunikira ngati okwatirana sakhulupirira zinthu zofanana
Zotsutsana zauzimu
Ndine ameneyo. Ndipo, ndiye pali mkwatibwi wanga; mosiyana ndi ine, ponena za chipembedzo ndi zauzimu. Kadi, muntu wa budimi udi na milangwe mibi, kadi udi na lwitabijo mudi mutōtelo wa bubela ne wa ku mushipiditu. Iye ndi wokhulupirira kwambiri chipembedzo ndi Mulungu, ndipo pakapanda kuwonekera kwa thupi kwa Mulungu, amatseka maso ake ndikuwerenga shlokas zomwe, mosakayika, amadziwa ndi mtima.
Iye ndi katswiri pa izi, pamene ine ndimangokhalira kudabwa momwe ndingasiye kusinkhasinkha kuti ndigone. Amapempherera banja ndikupempha chikhululukiro chapadera chifukwa sindimayang'ana mbali ya chipinda cha puja pokhapokha ngati ndikufunika kuchiyeretsa. Osachepera ndikudziwa kuti amandikonda.
Maganizo ochuluka kwambiri
Mwamuna wanga ankafunitsitsa kuti tonse tipite ku msonkhano wosinkhasinkha chifukwa kunali kofunika kuti tiphunzire pamodzi ngati tikufuna kugwiritsa ntchito mfundozo m'miyoyo yathu komanso m'nyumba mwathu. Ndimachita mantha ndi lingaliro la kusinkhasinkha mwadongosolo, komabe ndinavomera kaamba ka mgwirizano.
Ndayesa kutsutsana naye kangapo, ndipo ndamuuza kuti ndimagona tulo pamene ndikusinkhasinkha, koma iye akufunitsitsa kupezeka pa misonkhano yonseyi ndi misonkhano. Ali ndi chiyembekezo chakuti tsiku lina ndidzatenga kusinkhasinkha, chipembedzo ndi Mulungu kukhala kofunikira. Pazochitika zotere, si zachilendo kumva kufunika kofufuza njira zina zomwe zingakubweretsereni machiritso ndi mtendere wamkati, ndipo njira ina yotereyi ingakhale mphamvu zochiritsira za Shungite.
Koma ine ndikulakwitsa. Kubwerera ku tryst yanga ndi kusinkhasinkha. Masiku asanu osinkhasinkha mokhazikika komanso kusaka kwakanthawi kwa Google pambuyo pake, ndidaphunzira kuti kuchotsa malingaliro sikutanthauza kuti tiyenera kujambula kanthu. Munthu ayenera kulola maganizo kuyenda popanda kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti alowererepo. Munthu akhoza kuganiza kuti wina akuyang'ana kuchokera pamwamba pamene maganizo akulowa ndikutuluka m'chidziwitso chake.
"Yesani njira zosiyanasiyana zosinkhasinkha kuti mupeze zomwe zimakuchitirani zabwino."
Lingaliro lake limamveka ngati lokhazika mtima pansi, koma sindinadziwebe momwe ndingafikire gawolo popanda kusokonezedwa. Mwamuna wanga anaulula kuti sanavutike kuchotsa maganizo ake onse. Amuna, ndaseka. Iwo alibe zinthu zoti ade nkhawa nazo, pamene akazi, ife timangoganizira zinthu zingapo m'mutu mwathu. Ndinayang'ana m'chipindacho ndipo ndinaona nkhope zodekha zikumvetsera wotsogolera ndi cholinga.
Aliyense wa iwo anali ndi kapepala kakang'ono kolembera ndipo ndinawawona akulemba zomwe aphunzira kuchokera ku msonkhano. Dikirani, chiyani? Ndinali nditayamba kale kusiya, mutu wa kusinkhasinkha umandipangitsa kugona, koma panali anthu apa omwe amasamala kwambiri za izi.
Anthu anali kukambirana zolinga za moyo wawo ndi kusinkhasinkha ndipo anali kuganizira mozama pa chilichonse chimene chinali kunenedwa. Iwo anali atakhala mu kaimidwe koyenera ndi chirichonse, ndipo mwadzidzidzi ndinamva chikhumbo changa chakumbuyo. Kumbali ina, sindinathe kudziwa, ndikusinkhasinkha kapena kugona?
Banja lomwe linali pafupi nane linkaoneka kuti likulankhulana ndi maganizo awo. Iwo ankawoneka ogwirizana kwambiri; m'malo mwake, iwo ankawoneka ofanana malingana ndi mawu awo. Ndimasilira mabanja otere omwe nzeru zawo zimafanana. Iwo anali ndi maganizo ofanana pa zachipembedzo, zauzimu, maphunziro ndi moyo ndipo anagwirizana wina ndi mzake pa mbali zonse za mkangano pa nkhani zomwe zingathe kutanthauzira. Ngakhale kuti ndimamukonda kwambiri mwamuna wanga, sitigwirizana pafupifupi chilichonse.
Tonse ndife othandiza
Ponena za ine ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanga, ineyo ndi amene ndimakonda maganizo pa ubale wathu, pamene iye amatsatira maganizo a mtima wonse. Ndife anthu othandiza nthawi zambiri, kotero timadziwa pamene tagonja pankhondoyo. Chotero, m’banja mwathu, aliyense amatsatira njira yakeyake yauzimu ndi chipembedzo.
Amapeza mphamvu kuchokera kupemphero, pomwe ndimatsatira malingaliro oziziritsa, kuwongolera malingaliro ndikunena kuti chilichonse ndi karma. Mulungu wanga ndiye ntchito yanga ndi banja langa; kumbali ina, mulungu wa mwamuna wanga ndiye zonsezo ndi wachipembedzo.
Kuwerenga Kofanana: Momwe mungachiritsire maubwenzi kudzera mu kusinkhasinkha
M’njira yathuyathu, timakhulupirira kuti kuli mphamvu zoposa; Komabe, timasiyana mmene timaonera zinthu zauzimu. Amalumikizana kwambiri ndi Mulungu komanso iyemwini, pomwe zimatengera kudzipereka kwakukulu kuti ndikhale pansi ndikulankhula ndi mphamvu zapamwambazi. Timatsutsana, timatsutsana, ndipo timavomereza kuti tisagwirizane pazinthu zambiri. Komabe, timalola ana athu kusokoneza malingaliro athu koma amatsatira njira zawo, popeza akukula mokwanira kuti amvetsetse. Ichi ndi chinthu chimodzi chomwe timagwirizana.
Kukhudza kwamphamvu m'chiuno mwanga kunandidzutsa kuchokera ku malingaliro anga, anali mwamuna wanga. Mochenjera ndinamunong'oneza m'khutu, "Kodi mukudziwa, ndikusinkhasinkha kapena ndikugona?" Anandiseka. Zikomo Mulungu chifukwa cha chipinda chamdima komanso malo opumulirako a workshop: The Shavasana.
Ibibazo
1. Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa kugona ndi kusinkhasinkha?
Pamene tikugona sitingathe kulamulira maganizo athu, koma pamene tikusinkhasinkha timakhala tcheru komanso timadziwa za malo athu.
2. Kodi kugona kumawerengedwa ngati kusinkhasinkha?
Ayi. Ngakhale kuti mumadzimva kukhala mwamtendere pamene mukugona, kusinkhasinkha kumaphatikizapo kukhala ndi chiyembekezo chakuya pamene mukukumbukirabe zonse zimene zikuchitika pafupi nanu.
3. N’chifukwa chiyani ndimagona tulo posinkhasinkha?
Mukamasinkhasinkha, zimakhala zosavuta kusokonezedwa ndi foni yanu, kapena zomwe ena akuzungulirani akuchita. Ngati simuika maganizo anu pa kusinkhasinkha, zimakukhumudwitsani ndipo mudzayamba kugona.
Maganizo Final
Ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri anthu ena amagona tulo panthawi yosinkhasinkha, makamaka atangoyamba kumene, ndikofunika kusiyanitsa pakati pa kusinkhasinkha kwenikweni ndi kugona.
Ngati mukusinkhasinkhadi:
- Mudzakhala ndi nthawi zomveka bwino komanso zokhazikika.
- Mutha kumva kukhala mwamtendere kapena bata.
- Mungathe kuona kukhudzika kwa thupi, monga kunjenjemera kapena kutentha.
Ngati mukugona:
- Mutha kumva kukhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa mukadzuka.
- Mutha kukhala ndi zovuta kuti musamangoganizira za mpweya wanu kapena mantra.
- Mutha kukhala ndi vuto lakuthupi, monga kuuma khosi kapena kupweteka kwa msana.
Ngati mukupeza kuti mukugona nthawi zonse posinkhasinkha, zingakhale zothandiza kuyesa kusinkhasinkha pa nthawi yosiyana ya tsiku kapena m'malo osangalatsa kwambiri. Mungafunenso kuyesa njira zosiyanasiyana zosinkhasinkha kuti muwone zomwe zimakuchitirani zabwino.
Osho Pa Chikondi Monga Matenda Ndi Kusinkhasinkha Monga Mankhwala
Chopereka chanu sichikutanthauza chopereka chachifundo . Chidzalola Bonobology kupitiliza kukubweretserani chidziwitso chatsopano komanso chaposachedwa poyesetsa kuthandiza aliyense padziko lonse lapansi kuphunzira momwe angachitire chilichonse.
Uzimu ndi chinthu chomwe chimakhudzidwa ndi mkati mwa umunthu wathu. Ndipo kukhala okwatirana sikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhala ofanana m’bwalo lanu lauzimu. Koma ndiye apa pali chinthu. Tonsefe timafunika kukhala ndi mtendere wamumtima. Tiyenera kusokoneza maganizo ndi mtima wathu. Tifunika kugwirizana ndi bata limene limakhala pakatikati pa mtima wathu. Koma zimenezo zimafuna kupirira. Sizingachitike usiku umodzi wokha. Tiyenera kuyika mphamvu zathu ndi mphamvu zathu komanso nthawi yokhazikitsira moyo wathu.